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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 11:41pm On May 30, 2020
The Bible didn't record Adam and Eve getting wedded before having sex.
While God created man, woman and their genitals according to the Bible, He did not create wedding ceremony.
In fact, if man had not fallen as recorded in the garden, men would have been chasing women around openly just like dogs and goats and copulating with them in the open. And it would not have been wrong.



Avoidsexxx:
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Wrong number! There is no way to qualify a sin, u either rejects or falls into.
The only and real reason why God created sex is for unification btw a man(adam) and his wife(eve). Do not be decieved whatever a man sow so shall he reap.
hey! Do yourself a divine favour and try visiting this websites(christian truth center) run by joshua mugunti, to open ur eyes and shame the devil.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Bestcreamreview: 11:42pm On May 30, 2020
prekumohtim:


I just put your words aside and stopped reading immediately you said let's put God's word aside
Lol then you wouldn't get my point, I was actually trying to say that even if the Bible didn't condemn premarital sex, abstinence is still the best because premarital sex has too many disadvantages. I've told my friends several times that even if I wasn't a Christian, I would still choose celibacy because it has saved me from the stress, heartache and problems that many of my female friends deal with. So even if someone doesn't believe in the Bible, the problems associated with premarital sex should be enough motivation to abstain from it. Hope you get it?

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by lextube: 11:43pm On May 30, 2020
Psalmspsalms:
Do not be deceived. God can not be mocked. Seriously, you disappoint me... Something that's written black and white in the Bible. If u can't keep to bible standard, then pls don't mislead others.

My brother nobody is holy o, so don't claim to be.

My opinion is this, test that water with one leg of your feet to know if it is either hot or cold, or if it contains shark or ordinary fishes before you dive into it. Don't go and dive and then regret why you even dived the first place.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by boyjo: 11:43pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.

You and your cohorts plan to turn our ladies to whores backfires in JESUS name, amen!!

Ladies, if una like o,
make una dey open legs for man wey no get plans for una,
man wey no fit take care of pikin,
man wey no fit take care of you,
man wey wan just chop and clean mouth leaving you high and dry.
Na you go suffer am.

Man wey no fit marry you, no deserve your sex. Period.

If you must old reach 80years single, because na only sex men want from you, na im better pass say you carry join body with the demons wey dey all these Randy guys body!

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by jasonex4(m): 11:44pm On May 30, 2020
But sincerely speaking, assuming everybody got married as virgins, then there wouldn't be cases in which the wife can't satisfy the husband and vice versa....


If you have never eaten fruits in your life, and then one day you are given apple to eat, you would always be satisfied that Apple is the best fruit on earth...

#My2cents

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by AK481(m): 11:45pm On May 30, 2020
Scot1255:
A new and better forum strictly for relationships. Let's relocate cheesy
https://romanceland.com.ng

Start from Facebook group

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by OkpanachiMax: 11:45pm On May 30, 2020
I wonder how this rubbish got to appear on FP sad

Don't be deceived brethren, keep to your faith in God and desist from all forms of immorality.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Bblaq17(f): 11:47pm On May 30, 2020
Sex before marriage is a sin. No matter how you look at it...Sex before marriage is a sin....

If sin is the confusing word here...how is your relationship with God after having sex before marriage?

Also, why do you think the devil/flesh works with this particular tool to bring down Men of God?

Don't be carried away with the euphoria of this our present day generation...God's foundation remains the same and He knows those that are His...

Walk with God and you will see you have better things to take care of before marriage than having sex with your partner before marriage.

I pray God enlightens your understanding.... God bless.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by boyjo: 11:48pm On May 30, 2020
jasonex4:
But sincerely speaking, assuming everybody got married as virgins, then there wouldn't be cases in which the wife can't satisfy the husband and vice versa....


If you have never eaten fruits in your life, and then one day you are given apple to eat, you would always be satisfied that Apple is the best fruit on earth...

#My2cents

It is the spirit of the Antichrist of immortality that is speaking through the OP
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by dumininu01(m): 11:48pm On May 30, 2020
Na for chineke cheesy cheesy
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by davillian(m): 11:49pm On May 30, 2020
Hahjascho:
But how do you get to know that Benz and bicycle formats exist when it comes to sex(copulation)?... that's how the confusion starts.....reason why many say abstinence from both parties remains the best bet....no assumptions, no infinite comparison... coupled with acceptance with peace of mind.

Test, and samples lol...

Me o
When it comes to sex my drive is high
I would want someone who match my drive or close to it (meaning no virgins )
If she falls below it we go get problem.....
If I was a virgin it would have been a different case but I lost it thousands of years back.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Psalmspsalms: 11:49pm On May 30, 2020
lextube:


My brother nobody is holy o, so don't claim to be.

My opinion is this, test that water with one leg of your feet to know if it is either hot or cold, or if it contains shark or ordinary fishes before you dive into it. Don't go and dive and then regret why you even dived the first place.
Hahahah my brother, there's nothing there to test. Even you know that sex before marriage is a sin. Why argue na
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by boyjo: 11:49pm On May 30, 2020
OkpanachiMax:
I wonder how this rubbish got to appear on FP sad

Don't be deceived brethren, keep to your faith in God and desist from all forms of immorality.

The other day, they pushed a pure naked picture of a man and woman to the front page.
Seems all the mods have no moral standards. Thank God say them don dey born pikin
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by MistadeRegal(m): 11:51pm On May 30, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.

Only birds of a feather will ignore GOD'S Word to accept yours on this matter. No matter how you try to paint it white, the real colour will still reflect to prove you to be a liar and deceiver and misleader.

Revelation 21:8, 27 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.
And there shall in no wise enter into it any thing that defileth, neither whatsoever worketh abomination, or maketh a lie: but they which are written in the Lamb's book of life.

Reject that at your peril.

No Sex Till After Marriage.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Hahjascho(m): 11:51pm On May 30, 2020
The most dreaded thing to fear in all phases of life is a mind borne out of ignorance....a dark mind..., source of confusion and strives.

A MOD pushed this to front page? and we want this platform stand out and even to get to an ivory tower? I SMH.

Now, I understand some of the reasons why Nigeria is projected to be at WORLD spot 3 in terms of world population by 2050.

Anyway we're still claiming the 7th spot.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by boyjo: 11:51pm On May 30, 2020
In JESUS name, Nairaland cannot destroy the weak or feeble minded ones. They all escape your trap and come to the knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Psalmspsalms: 11:51pm On May 30, 2020
sammyranking:

The thing weak Me,Sex outside marriage is sin. People should not follow leg over.
seriously ba, our society is so corrupt that we see the wrong we do as something right. How can he even argue or try to modify what's in the bible. He's lucky God no be man
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by igmatt2002(m): 11:52pm On May 30, 2020
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.


This is your opinion @op... Sex before marriage is a sin, there's no how you are going to paint it. Don't mislead people.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Liposure: 11:54pm On May 30, 2020
ibkayee:
Such a strong reaction from the majority of posters but what's happening in reality seems to say otherwise.

Or maybe the portion of posters here are the ones who are genuinely against sex before marriage and don't engage in it in real life, so they aren't necesarily representative of the behaviour trends of Nigerians as a whole when it comes to fornication...or maybe Nigerians are just really big hypocrites lol it could be either
where do u stand?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Hahjascho(m): 11:56pm On May 30, 2020
davillian:


Test, and samples lol...

Me o
When it comes to sex my drive is high
I would want someone who match my drive or close to it (meaning no virgins )
If she falls below it we go get problem.....
If I was a virgin it would have been a different case but I lost it thousands of years back.
lol...

The funny thing is, you can regain the chastity if you desire and focus the energy somewhere else and then, experience how transformed you will be grin

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by foleskay(m): 11:57pm On May 30, 2020
ufondunenye:
No sex before marriage can be very risky at times oo.
Its kinda 50/50 thing. Even if I'm to agree to that terms and conditions,I must have to Welgh your thing very well, especially when you wake up in the morning to know exactly how many inches the thing fit be.
E get why. shocked shocked shocked






























































Because, I no just wan do away match for inside my marriage.
Baby come and weigh my gbola and let's se if we re compatible
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by OkpanachiMax: 11:57pm On May 30, 2020
boyjo:


The other day, they pushed a pure naked picture of a man and woman to the front page.
Seems all the mods have no moral standards. Thank God say them don dey born pikin

I thought as much, that is a popular gimmick for blog and website promo sad
Quite pathetic
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Gkemz: 11:59pm On May 30, 2020
Am not against it but what am against is when someone who has been deflowered long ago will be demanding for this. What else are you preserving. If you're a virgin who wants to remain a virgin till marriage, I will help you achieve that because I respect such courage.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Yoighaman(m): 11:59pm On May 30, 2020
The Holy Bible says 'no sex before marriage', why then are we trying to twist this teaching to suit our lust?

Follow this principle and trust God to sort you out even if you think you made a mistake after marriage.

Your maker should be given the utmost respect.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by davillian(m): 12:01am On May 31, 2020
Hahjascho:
lol...

The funny thing is, you can regain the chastity if you desire and focus the energy somewhere else and then, experience how transformed you will be grin

No na
I can stay away from it aa long as I want but anytime I do it, I feel I have 2 hearts joined together making my heart a v12...
Even on the field its same v12 I use and it got me a nick name druggy not because I do drugs because everyone feel I'm using something that can keep me on the field for more than 120 mins...
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Roseey0(f): 12:02am On May 31, 2020
femmyapson:

Have you made your first $1m?

Do you own a private jet (its too much to ask sef- i mean have u ever flown in one before??)

Have you bought a house for your parents yet

too many questions to ask you... Who sabi ur name for ur state? more less Nigeria as a whole .

You can pray to God and ask him to take you away from the world since it is not ending anytime soon.
PLEASE LEAVE US ALONE ON EARTH. We still want to enjoy life and most importantly travel around the world.Thank you.
Happy Migration. But I advise you not to go yet. I love you and I still want you here. Please don't go sad
Study ecclesiastes
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by luluman: 12:05am On May 31, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.
Were you born before your parents got married? If they ever married o.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Taiwojon(m): 12:06am On May 31, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.
HE THAT COMMIT FORNICATION SINNETH AGAINST HIS OWN BODY


TO AVIOD FORNICATION LET EVERYONE HAS IT'S OWN WIFE


FLEE YOUTHFUL LUST
FLEE FORNICATION
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by luluman: 12:08am On May 31, 2020
BobbyHammar:


You can try and it can work for you. But whereby it doesn't work for you if you function with the "Normal" and your partner does not, then be ready to carry your cross. Prevention they say is better than cure. My point is ensure you go for sex before marriage to be sure of the sexual aspect of your marriage. Every other major ingredients of marriage might be very good and rosy but trust me, if they are but only the sexual aspect is terrible, the wall is already cracked and it must surely fall apart sooner or later.

If you have watched the movie "kingdom of heaven" there was a part before the way when the dying king and his sister the princess wanted a young man to marry the princess so he could become king and they will kill her husband because they knew he will bring war upon them if he is crowned king. The young man refused because he didn't want the princess's husbands blood on his hands. Then the queen told him something very simple "one day you will wish you did a little evil just to ensure a greater good".

What am I trying to say, it is better you test the water before marriage (do a little evil if you call it sin or bad) in other to strive for a life long marriage (to ensure a greater good).
You still get mouth? Better shut up.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by olamy7(m): 12:08am On May 31, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.
if you are confused, you don't need to spread the confusion to everyone else

Hebrews 13:4, NIV: "Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral."

Hebrews 13:4, ESV: "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous."

Hebrews 13:4, KJV: "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge."

Hebrews 13:4, NASB: "Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge."

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