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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Taiwojon(m): 12:08am On May 31, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Taiwojon(m): 12:10am On May 31, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.
HE THAT COMMIT FORNICATION SINNETH AGAINST HIS OWN BODY


TO AVIOD FORNICATION LET EVERYONE HAS IT'S OWN WIFE


FLEE YOUTHFUL LUST
FLEE FORNICATION
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 12:13am On May 31, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.
...your example is way better.... you will see a Nigerian girl who is not a virgin... telling you no sex till marriage.... no be me you see
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by nelsonoba: 12:13am On May 31, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.

@BobbyHammar is a scam himself! He believes he is wiser and smarter than God who in his infinite wisdom created the universe and @BobbyHammar 's brain. The God that has enough wisdom to create the entire universe says you should not have sex outside of marriage, and an ordinary creature like @BobbyHammar comes out to tell us God is lying. @BobbyHammar is not the one speaking to us, it is the same serpent that spoke to Eve in the Garden of Eden and told her to eat the forbidden fruit and forget what God had said before that is now speaking through @BobbyHammar. If you know what is good for you, run as far away from people like @BobbyHammar as you can, because it is people like him that are roaming about the earth and looking for who to convince to sin against God and go to hell with him. The day you will stand before God to give account for your life, @BobbyHammar will not be there to defend you. You will stand before God alone to answer for what you did with your life.

And for those trying to pretend it's not possible to wait for marriage before sex, I MYSELF WAITED FOR MARRIAGE BEFORE HAVING MY FIRST SEX. I HAD SO MANY TEMPTATIONS BEFORE MARRIAGE WHERE I WOULD HAVE HAD PREMARITAL SEX, BUT I REMEMBERED THERE WAS A GOD WATCHING ME, TO WHOM I WILL BE ACCOUNTABLE TO, AND I BACKED DOWN.

I repeat once again, @BobbyHammar is a scam. It is the serpent speaking through him to deceive more souls and damn them to hell with him

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by femmyapson(m): 12:13am On May 31, 2020
Roseey0:

Study ecclesiastes
I will rather choose my vanity wisely. Than to live and never make it in life or leave this world without making any positive impact.. I reject it in Jesus name
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 12:14am On May 31, 2020
Bestcreamreview:
Lol then you wouldn't get my point, I was actually trying to say that even if the Bible didn't condemn premarital sex, abstinence is still the best because premarital sex has too many disadvantages. I've told my friends several times that even if I wasn't a Christian, I would still choose celibacy because it has saved me from the stress, heartache and problems that many of my female friends deal with. So even if someone doesn't believe in the Bible, the problems associated with premarital sex should be enough motivation to abstain from it. Hope you get it?

I do now
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Sniper101(m): 12:16am On May 31, 2020
I was thinking I was gonna be entertained tonight with this thread. cheesy
But OP ended up fvcking up his on thread with the meaningless and unconvincing statements he made. sad

...there was just no need going over to the second page of the comments section after going through the first page. angry



OP
Lemme tell you this...
"What is right is right, even if no one is doing it. And what is wrong is wrong, even if everyone is doing it".

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by cizimah7(m): 12:17am On May 31, 2020
For me sex with the person ur committed to is not a sin of fornication but having sex with every opposite sex that comes your way, prostitution, lesbianism, homosexuality is fornication (greek meaning "porneia")
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Uckroot: 12:19am On May 31, 2020
Avoidsexxx:
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Wrong number! There is no way to qualify a sin, u either rejects or falls into.
The only and real reason why God created sex is for unification btw a man(adam) and his wife(eve). Do not be decieved whatever a man sow so shall he reap.
hey! Do yourself a divine favour and try visiting this websites(christian truth center) run by joshua mugunti, to open ur eyes and shame the devil.

Trash trash trash trash center.

Joshua mugunti another African mumu that knows the white God more than the whites that forced them on us.

Ewu.

Africa MUST wake up.

Rubbish
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by ibkayee(f): 12:20am On May 31, 2020
Liposure:
where do u stand?
I feel it can be a bit impractical since sexual compatibility is an important part of marriage, but that's just for me personally. I think it's fine and their business if anyone chooses to stick to it, but I also don't think it's unreasonable if you choose not to either (there are understandable points on both sides, it's a personal choice and everyone is different).

It's just one of those things I'm conflicted with when it comes to the Bible...

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Uckroot: 12:20am On May 31, 2020
Sniper101:
I was thinking I was gonna be entertained tonight with this thread. cheesy
But OP ended up fvcking up his on thread with the meaningless and unconvincing statements he made. sad

...there was just no need going over to the second page of the comments section after going through the first page. angry



OP
Lemme tell you this...
"What is right is right, even if no one is doing it. And what is wrong is wrong, even if everyone is doing it".

Trash
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Uckroot: 12:21am On May 31, 2020
Taiwojon:

HE THAT COMMIT FORNICATION SINNETH AGAINST HIS OWN BODY


TO AVIOD FORNICATION LET EVERYONE HAS IT'S OWN WIFE


FLEE YOUTHFUL LUST
FLEE FORNICATION

Trashhhh
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Slynation(m): 12:21am On May 31, 2020
hilaryCU:
Hello Everyone,

Please, I want to know how to recover a room that a tenant packed and left witj the keys.

The annoying thing is that, they are owing a year and six months rent. Please, how do I recover the room.

Thanks all
Simply change the locker of the door to a new one...
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Asuito7(m): 12:23am On May 31, 2020
VickyRotex:
Mr. English Dictionary, welldone! So what is the definition of fornication?

I stopped reading at this point: "Many will say its fornication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible"

Like are you for real? please scholar, what's the "true" meaning of fornication in the bible?

The fact that we go against some set rules/morale standards (and I'm talking in general here) doesn't justify our acts, neither does it change what is right.
It's even funny how you reference the other people living in the time of Mary. And so what? Because they engaged in pre-marital sex automatically means its not a sin? It's like saying because "sinners" existed in the time of Jesus and some even became His disciples, so believers should also keep sinning that Grace may abound.

I'm so happy you're ranting. you know why? its because you're being convicted for something you've done or planning to do. You just dont know it. There are different phases in conviction, so dont worry, you're getting there.


And it's so funny you say African mentality? really? is that what you were told? cheesy because a lot of foreign churches actually preach marriage and purity. maybe you should make more research on that and expand your knowledge.

I understand if I'm having this conversation with an atheist, but if as a "believer" like you claimed you are, you dont see fornication in the bible the way it is clearly defined, then I dont know what to say to you.

And please don't bring up the "let he who is without sin" card. There's a difference between admitting/acknowledging one's sin vs being ignorant about it and defending it at all cost.

Btw, please dont quote me. Cos even if you do, I wont be responding to any quote on this thread.

Selah!
To say I am in love with your post or even you self would be an understatement. Let me just say it I am in love with......... kiss kiss kiss cheesy grin
You are intelligent too.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by MENTORCH(m): 12:26am On May 31, 2020
I can do no sex before marriage for only a virgin, and I will still be fucking other people till my wedding night.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by mulerogold(m): 12:29am On May 31, 2020
i dont think i can marry a lady without having sex with her.
I work so hard to become a man and decided its time to have a wife.

While the No sex before marriage of a lady has engaged in multiple abortions that eventually destroyed her womb before we met.

Do you expect me to keep suffering for the sin i know nothing about??

Keep attending night vigils and praying for the fruit of marriage while my younger ones already have 2/3 kids ahead of me after 7years of marriage

Sorry.. would rather SIN if that be the case.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by CzarChris(m): 12:30am On May 31, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.
I honestly was an advocate for this your post sometime ago until I became fully born again midlast year and realized my error. In some parts of present day Israel, Turkey and some parts of the middle East(the more conservative side)sex before marriage is seriously frowned upon, infact some are so strict that woo betide any woman that on the wedding night the husband doesn't show his family members and members of the ladies family a the token of her virginity which usually is a blood stained bedspread. Now this is to correct your wrong assertions about Mary and Joseph.

The Bible says in Hebrews 13: 4(KJV) "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge." So sex before marriage is totally wrong. My opinion as made clear by the Holy Bible.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by stagger: 12:30am On May 31, 2020
BobbyHammar:
Anybody who still believe in the scam of no sex till marriage needs to get their head checked. If only you know how many marriages have been destroyed or are still suffering because of this, you will never think of falling for such a scam.

What baffles me is those who keep going to church but yet don't know anything about bible and will keep deceiving themselves that sex before marriage is a sin (WHICH YEYE SIN).

Many will say it's formication but they don't even know the true meaning of fornication as referred to in the bible. Take for example when Joseph was dating Mary, yes we agree she was still a virgin because it was their own decision not to have sex yet but how many people realized that there were other young women that existed then as well. Many had boyfriends too and some had sex with their boyfriends while some didn't because Mary wasn't the only virgin.

The bible never condemned those that had sex with their boyfriends before marriage but it was just the divine choice of the Father to select a virgin rather than a lady that had sex already.

Let's stop all these brohaha low African mentality of calling sex before marriage a sin. God only sees a clean and a pure heart, not who had sex when or how. You all should better respect yourself and save the doctrine of marriage by testing the waters to ensure you are ready to sail on that water for the rest of your life. Not after marriage you start looking for divorce because penis is too big or too small or maybe Virgina is too tight or too wide or its always one minute sex.

Haba.

So God who created marriage and the act of sex is a scam abi? You are the one who needs to have his checked. Some screws are loose.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by anthropizzy(m): 12:30am On May 31, 2020
Let us be honest with ourselves please. Sex before marriage is wrong and is a sin. YES WE ALL AGREE AND I AGREE TOO.

But let me ask this question, How many Christians are practicing what they preach? I go through people's comment on this topic and i can see that most are hyprocite. Right in the church most intending couples are sampling each other wella before marriage,infact some led to pregnancy. Whether they end up marrying each other or they divorce after marriage is non of my business.

But my major point is that whatever thing that is good would have its demerit and merit. Is left for you to choose will you sample your partner before marriage OR you will abstain till after marriage?
To me i will go for sample yourself before marriage inorder to know your partner sexual prowess if it match yours or not but please be civil about it. Dont abuse it.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by redcliff: 12:31am On May 31, 2020
sorry explain that joseph part again... i no understand.
.. this post is funny and trash at the same time
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by lloyds(m): 12:32am On May 31, 2020
You wrote rubbish.

Go and read and heed to the Bible.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by ashjay001(m): 12:36am On May 31, 2020
hilaryCU:
Hello Everyone,

Please, I want to know how to recover a room that a tenant packed and left witj the keys.

The annoying thing is that, they are owing a year and six months rent. Please, how do I recover the room.

Thanks all

Get to a police station, if they cooperate, they will help you.
Or go to court and get a court order
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by trilobite: 12:38am On May 31, 2020
No sex before marriage doesn't mean someone doesn't want to have sex, it simply means "let us calm down and get to know each other first before we talk about sex".

I cry whenever I see people living like hypocrites because they misunderstand this fact. Guys take this:
The longest I have seen a girl go without sex is 12 months. The exceptions were either lesbians or active masturbators. God help us.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 12:39am On May 31, 2020
Avoidsexxx:
.
Wrong number! There is no way to qualify a sin, u either rejects or falls into.
The only and real reason why God created sex is for unification btw a man(adam) and his wife(eve). Do not be decieved whatever a man sow so shall he reap.
hey! Do yourself a divine favour and try visiting this websites(christian truth center) run by joshua mugunti, to open ur eyes and shame the devil.


Are you the one who made it a sin....

So if it's not wrong in my culture, does it mean I'm a sinner....smh

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by anthropizzy(m): 12:40am On May 31, 2020
Acidosis:


Yeye post from a sex starved ba.stard.



Mr man, must you abuse? Can't you be civil then make your point and move on?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 12:41am On May 31, 2020
Freestainworld:
Mr op, your write up is as sweet as horney, pleasant to the ear but misleading, no matter how you want to view sex, the truth is that, it is meant for married couples, not even for courtship people, don't justify a sin out of ignorance, if everyone should get married as a virgin, believe me, the sexual relationship in marriages will last, and the marriage sustained, but because we have tasted every dick and Tom, and every pussycat, that is why it becomes a problem, rethink again.


For you that's what you think.....

Some ladies that have wide pussies naturally, how do you want them to react tongue
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 12:42am On May 31, 2020
Psalmspsalms:
Do not be deceived. God can not be mocked. Seriously, you disappoint me... Something that's written black and white in the Bible. If u can't keep to bible standard, then pls don't mislead others.


Please quote where it was said
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 12:44am On May 31, 2020
peropoliet:
thanks a lot even if jesus come and preach to youth about fornication they wont listen


And so
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 12:45am On May 31, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


VERY USELESS THREAD I SAY.

Why and How
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by Nobody: 12:47am On May 31, 2020
dmgr:
Marriage weh no go out no go work out, sex before marriage still remains a sin.
So what u re saying is one should sample his/her partner to see if they re sexually compatible? what if it turns out they re not compatible, then break should follow,then u will search for another partner and still sample, and that is how u will keep sampling people daughters all the name of am looking for the one am sexually compatible with before u know u don sample reach 10.



Too you that's what you think....
For me, it's better to know early so as to know how to solve any problem that occurs....
Re: No Sex Before Marriage Is A Scam by humblemikel(f): 12:48am On May 31, 2020
Sweet nonsense

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