ImembaCrystal:
Nigeria....
In every nonsense there must be a sense...
What if the young man is right ... what if he knows the girl and how she dates numerous men..
To dey women: if your husband is dating you and your sister what will you do.... ....
When women kill there husband because of infidelity una go defend the woman but when men beat there wife because of that same infidelity una go tag am ......

For the black American that was murdered by a white cop... tell me what the difference between recism and tribalism that we all see as a norm in this out country NIGERIA.

As Victor AD talk "If you no know how song take start make you no go hurry to dance, before you go dance GALALA inside ASONTO...

Caseless:
rapist, stfu!

DominusPrime:

Yes of course I know where I belong and its with those who believe that no woman should be raped for any reason. Rape can never be justified. Now if you open your brain and reason properly you will realise that my statement in no way justified rape but simply talked about the reaction of women who generalise men as rapists and how men should react to such. Why are you people angry that men do not agree that they are all rapists? Or you feel we should keep quiet and say yes we all are?

DominusPrime:

No. Being disgusted by such a heinous crime is not being emotional but wrongly labelling all men are rapists is emotional. I'm not even stopping any woman from saying so. We have no issues until you call me one. As for emphasis to men I have duly done that on my WhatsApp status as well as spoken to men around me. Unfortunately you cant see that and it's none of your business. I have answered all your questions now answer mine. Should we shut up and agree that all men are rapists just so that you can express your frustration? Answer that. Is that what you are asking men to do? Cos men who condemn rape like me also speak against labelling all men as rapists. Or is the emphasis now your problem?

micxwell:

I don't care, even if she was double dating. When they apprehend those guys they should just dice their joysticks into bits like carrots . Who doesn't make mistakes and she could have bn my sister, cousin or even daughter.... Rubbish

AprokoDentist:
That comment is freaking scary.
Rape is never the answer. It doesn't matter what she did!

DominusPrime:

They don't o my brother. Deep down they know their brothers and fathers are not rapists. Infact when they calm down and you ask them they admit they aren't. But right now they will say such things as a means to calm frustration. Imagine how mad men walk the streets shouting at no one in particular. We usually ignore. But make the mistake of asking one why he is shouting, na then wahala go start for you wey ask. Let's learn to live above such statements as men and not let it get to us. The strength of most women is in talking and arguing. The best answer most times is silence.

ImembaCrystal:
Nigeria....
In every nonsense there must be a sense...
What if the young man is right ... what if he knows the girl and how she dates numerous men..
To dey women: if your husband is dating you and your sister what will you do.... ....
When women kill there husband because of infidelity una go defend the woman but when men beat there wife because of that same infidelity una go tag am ......

For the black American that was murdered by a white cop... tell me what the difference between recism and tribalism that we all see as a norm in this out country NIGERIA.

As Victor AD talk "If you no know how song take start make you no go hurry to dance, before you go dance GALALA inside ASONTO...

ImembaCrystal:


This is funny .... how many girls tell there father when she was dis-virgined...
Bros if you see how girls wey you know for house the behave for school you go shork..
For house them be good girl but for school them be street..

Defending people is just like.....
When we see mobs (the youth) beating a criminal we go start to the pity the criminal but when the same criminal have stolen your car before you no go know when you go join the mobs and send the criminal to the land beyond....

chatinent:
When such tragic events as this happens, people tend to be overly righteous thus becoming hypocritical. What most girls do within the relationship circles are really sth that should be unheard! What if she was dating two roommates? Most times, we are 90% responsibility for what happens to us and 10% inputs from others.
Cappish!

bikefab:
Some people don't know when to keep quiet.

FGonline:
what if she was actually dating two roomates

Mophasa:
Nigerian man who goes by the name Livinus Elem has given more insider details about the rape and murder of the 100 level Uniben student Uwa Vera Uwaila.

Mr Elem made a comment on Facebook where he stated that the late Uwa deserves what she got because she was dating two roommates.

He has however deleted his Facebook account after Nigerians asked for him to be arrested and investigated.

Recall that Vera Uwaila was viciously raped and murdered in cold blood at Redeem Christian church in Benin city few days ago.

“Good for her why will she be dating 2 friends at the same time"

https://www.viewsnaija.com/2020/06/good-for-her-suspected-man-gives.html?m=1

optimus106:
So the girl hands no clean after all, but the way and manner she was killed no make sense.
Nobody be saint.
I hope her killers are found so the truth will unfold.

Duggedised12:
Giving us a sermon on how money and sex go hand in hand ,of how women don't date and struggle with broke guys, of how women feel entitled to the money of men is how you want to justify why not all men are not rapists ? cos that the only anthem you seem to have been singing on this thread

tillaman:
Dude is so screwed!!! Even if he doesn’t know anything this one will serve as a deterrent to his kinds who are hooked on making insensitive comments!!

These ones should be arrested

ImembaCrystal:


Thank you..
That's also what am trying to say but someone misunderstood me

Ryan03:
which person hand clean?

optimus106:


Your own...shey u dey use hand sanitizer?

LedRock:
Gosh you have comprehension problem, go and read his comment with that lady again.

DominusPrime:

They don't o my brother. Deep down they know their brothers and fathers are not rapists. Infact when they calm down and you ask them they admit they aren't. But right now they will say such things as a means to calm frustration. Imagine how mad men walk the streets shouting at no one in particular. We usually ignore. But make the mistake of asking one why he is shouting, na then wahala go start for you wey ask. Let's learn to live above such statements as men and not let it get to us. The strength of most women is in talking and arguing. The best answer most times is silence.

Duggedised12:
no ,you both are the insensitive pricks who choose to derail this thread. Will you die if you take a break from the normal sermon we constantly hear in nairaland? will you die if you atleast make it about the victim and not bring your gender war here,I ask you again will you die?

t00dugged:
There are those men who keep silent on issues like this

Then there are those who channel their energy to defend the bro code with the " not all men are rapists " chant instead of condemning the rapists,

Then there are those who boldly come out to support the rapists like the ones Below.


In all of these categories ,non seem to be empathizing with the victim. These groups of men are all categorised among the group of rapists apologists.

And I guess you already know the category you belong to. Smh

LedRock:
Who is bringing gender war here? Please be logical.

Idamond:
But the papa of the gal talk say she be Virgin

Martinez39s:
"Not all men are rapists" is a fact just as "not all women are rapists" is a fact. Maybe men wouldn't have to say "not all men are rapists" in situations like these if feminists like you weren't going about using this tragedy to imply that all men are rapists and rape apologists/enablers, and rape is a flaw peculiar to the masculine gender. There are tons of female rapists/sex predators, but no one says all women are rapists.

Changing a serious situation like this into male bashing is unproductive, insensitive to the victims of rape, and utterly childish.

Possiblegee:
thats true my , most times they forget they have brothers and a father