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Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by reganvida: 12:09pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Do you know all about his finance? If yes, I think he should know yours too. Trust in marriage should cut both ways, not just one way. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by uchman46(m): 12:10pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
What happened to courtship? This are issues that should have been settled by now but then again, it's very unnecessary for him to act that way. We'll maybe he fell in love with your money and not you. You too should discuss please money isn't enough reason for dispute in marriages 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Franksomtoo: 12:10pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Open another account in the same bank, transfer most of the money there, leave just a few thousand in the old account.. do not apply for ATM card for the new account..if you want to withdraw, do so with bank withdrawal slip. Then give him the ATM card pin number for the old account, and know what he is up to 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by freshkpomo(m): 12:10pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso:sorry to say this sister you are no married, you just dating... Are you sure you are not the type that met on facebook today wedded tomorrow?? Let's make Nigeria great together. God bless Nigeria. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Nobody: 12:11pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
you didn't tell us his financial status , is he jobless? |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by davibid: 12:12pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
G |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by OKTolu: 12:12pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Marriage is complicated |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by kalex0(m): 12:12pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
chiddyok: "And if you don’t have sisters you’ll have a daughter" And so what? If u can't disclose ur earnings to your husband, u don't deserve to be married and I will keep telling them that. Thunder fire any lady wey tell me say my husband money is ours but mine is for my personal spending alone. Nonsense 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by otomatic(m): 12:12pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
chiddyok: Well said. It goes both ways. Men marry people they cannot trust with their account details or have joint account with and I laugh. You don't trust her with your money but you eat her food. What if she poisons you to claim your life insurance? Obviously OP did not really know who she was courting before the marriage. She will either do as the husband wants or be prepared to quit. I do not support quitting though. That's why you must get it right the first time, use courtship to seriously study/know the person's way of thinking, not to be going on outings only. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by RedPhoenix: 12:12pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
chiddyok: This is intelligent from start to finish 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Champneys: 12:13pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso: Tell him to fu....ck off! |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by kalex0(m): 12:14pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
ednut1: Selfish beings 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by keentola(m): 12:14pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Openbusiness: 12:15pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso:Which tribe is your husband? |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by SirLinks: 12:15pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Issa simple stuv open a new account deposit a fixed amount every month collect an ATM and let him have the pin |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Agasco2020(m): 12:16pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso:You are not ready to stay in Marriage yet. I am surprise that you are not disclosing your finance with your husband. Quick one! you can as well have men for affairs without telling him too. I don't understand the kind of ladies we have nowadays. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by pocohantas(f): 12:16pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
I don’t see anything wrong with him knowing your pay, especially if you know his. I believe in financial transparency, thought lots of couples find this so hard to practice. However, I would be very concerned with such nosiness, even to the level of seizing my debit card. No “sane” person would do this, male or female. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by azamama: 12:16pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Madam tell ur husband how much u earn,stop creating unwarranted issues 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Nobody: 12:16pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
you're creating trouble for yourself and still ccomplaining about the trouble, madam tell him how much you earn even if it's lie so all this nonsense will stop 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Shukusheka(m): 12:17pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
ednut1:Your husband doesn't have to know about your finance before you contribute in paying the bills. |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Omakraid(f): 12:17pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
StubbornGENIUS:Seriously, someone that knows the kind if phone that is suitable for playing PUBG. Seems he wants to use this post to know all the available options his wife has on her money 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by sowilli: 12:17pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Two of you will remain either poor or average citizens if you don’t disclose your income and discuss your financial goals with each other. That is why it is good that both partners make money in a relationship. It helps for proper planning and builds trust. I won’t want to disclose my earning to a woman who isn’t making money as I ll see her a liability and so the struggle is there and trust lacking. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by kurlz(f): 12:18pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso: Madam must you use ATM card? His insistence on knowing your worth is my only fear. Sorry I don't trust your husband. He doesn't have to force it. I suggest you open another account in your child or siblings name and always send 60% of your earnings to it steadily. And let you family know. Your husband is dangerous be smart. Besides if he is also open to you I see no reason why you should hide anything but if not. Wise up o 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Blackmann001: 12:19pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso: You are a. Very stingy lady ND selfish inclusive... U only married the man cuz of the marriage title.... I rather stay single than marry a woman like u..... U hate your husband... Plz go ahead ND divorce him cuz I know that's where u are heading to..... You shld hv asked ur baby to marry u... You hv no single feeling for this man, not submissive ND egoistic......... Your the worst thing a man can get 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by OnoriodeV14(m): 12:19pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Don't get married to somebody you do not trust. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by greenskittles: 12:19pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
michlins:Best comment 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by nahzyla: 12:20pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
Op Please disregard the advice from males on this thread, please Many men these days are just lazy and entitled and gold diggers. And selfish and evil. They want an obedient slave as wife who will also hustle hard to feed them and take care of them. While they spend their own money on personal projects or on women so ignore male advice here because it will lead you astray. Some of them dont believe you have any right to have dreams and ambitions as a wife and that you came to this world to help them fulfill their own ambitions. If he decides to chase you out tomorrow for no reason or to end the marriage you will have nothing to stand on and you will end destitute because he bankrupted you. Get another account to transfer your money and show him like only 40% of the money you own. This new account should not have an atm or send bank alerts to your phone or email. Men are hypocrites. The same bible rgst teaches him that he is your leader or that he 'owns you' also teaches men to provide for their wives. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Capernum: 12:20pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
UzorChinonso: Sincerely, you're not ready for marriage. May be both of you are not ready, but I am very sure about you. You're not ready for a solid marriage at all, it's silently but clearly written in your post. Any marriage where there is no financial sincerity and openness is nothing but a hostel/room mate package. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by cryptotech: 12:21pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
that why is your hubby o, tell him 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants To Know Everything About My Finances. by Nobody: 12:21pm On Jun 06, 2020 |
kalex0:So in a hurry to quote and educate a woman you didn’t even read my original post well. Go back and read it properly. Shame on you. |
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