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Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 10:25am On Jun 07, 2020 |
makydebbie:Haa! Why evils? On a Sunday morning nitori olorun . |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by godofuck231: 10:26am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Amotolongbo:sister I just added 1000 likes to your comment please how do I mail you kisses? op must be a technically jobless man to eveen share it with his wife, cheap gossip |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Grandmeister(m): 10:27am On Jun 07, 2020 |
kay29000:You're the dumb one..and obviously you(and many others here) suck at comprehension..that phone is NOT the girl's private phone! It's an office phone bought by the owner of the business...why doesn't he have the right to peruse the very phone he bought for his office use? Is it his fault that the girl didn't log out her profile? Is that even the crux of the matter here? |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by kazyhm(m): 10:27am On Jun 07, 2020 |
OritaIbadan: Don't mind those blaming you for checking her chat...which I know majority of them are female, thats their way of life. You didn't steal her Facebook account password, and you didn't request of her to login an official phone. Its good to always double check these female.......after all, her fake package had earned her good gestures from you. I my own opinion just her go, you can't really trust her. If she pin her pregnancy on you or allege you of rape, people will believe her as you can read some comment questioning your motive and intention toward her. A word is enough............ 2 Likes |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Biodun1929(m): 10:28am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Grandmeister: You need help. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by madamori9: 10:28am On Jun 07, 2020 |
This is sad, but surprisingly there is nothing that you can do about it. You should not allow what you saw on Facebook to make you change the way that you treat her. The rate of immorality is really high these days, so I tend to expect the less from people. It would be better if you do not tell her about what you saw. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by buzorcharles(m): 10:28am On Jun 07, 2020 |
"If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter?" And sacking her will really help her if she is ur daughter. Mr man, help her by talking to her 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by kay29000(m): 10:29am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Grandmeister: You need psychiatric help. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Grandmeister(m): 10:32am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Biodun1929:You need wisdom...lots of it. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Grandmeister(m): 10:34am On Jun 07, 2020 |
kay29000:You need common sense...but most especially you need wisdom...it will save you from making Wrong/ damaging decision in life. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 10:34am On Jun 07, 2020 |
coolhumble:I had to ask ni, abi who shows special treatment and likeness, who discuss a woman to his wife ,who gives extra money to employee and could only think of sacking her when he found out who she really is? Lemme answer: One who has a crush .. but then we live in a world full of sanctimonious people. So Op is clean and only assuming a fatherly role until he is caught doing otherwise. Everybody go dey alright...las Las. 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by cugardmalino: 10:34am On Jun 07, 2020 |
MartinsD12:You don’t even have sense... |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by ibkayee(f): 10:35am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Acidosis:I feel you’re focusing on the part where I quoted ‘useless boyfriends’ more than necessary, I don’t really care about the fact that you referred to them as that When you’re logged into Facebook, if a profile hasn’t been logged out of and a session is still running, you have access to things like the inbox. She’s his sales girl, not his counselor, not his child’s tutor, not his pastor, he had no right going through her inbox in the first place and she not violate any company rules so mind your business I wonder if he’d feel as strongly about this thing that has absolutely nothing to do with him if she were male, probably not |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Champneys: 10:35am On Jun 07, 2020 |
OritaIbadan: Mind your fu...cking business! |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by ibkayee(f): 10:35am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Grandmeister:You’re in my mentions shouting like you’re singing an opera, and you have the gall to try to call someone emotional as an 'insult' lol calm down Matin Luther Grandmeister and stop letting your imagination get the best of you 2 Likes |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by FifiO(f): 10:35am On Jun 07, 2020 |
I see what you all are saying and to some extent, it makes sense. However, though her morality is a private matter, the salesgirl's character is in issue here. I would not mind so much if it was one of the "ordinary" girls, but this girl has gone out of her way to sell herself differently than she really is. I would consider that a serious moral offence. I would begin to imagine what she really is planning and wonder what sort of evil she has up her sleeve. This kind of girl can just up and carry your money one day and disappear. Her home address on her employment data may be false. This situation is very reprehensible in my opinion. I'd immediately relieve her of her duties after giving her a sound talk letting her know she's disappointed greatly people who admired and held her on a pedestal. I would let her know that dishonesty will always cost her something in life, beginning with this present job. I would let her know that it is her life to live as she seems fit. She should own it. How many of us know and trust, and even love, a razz girl? You know what she can do, and she is not a snake. I would hope that the drastic repercussion of losing her job would shock and reset her brain. I would talk to her without judgement as pertains her immoral lifestyle. I would concentrate on the deceptive lifestyle because while the first one does not affect my business, the second one has the potential to destroy it. That's my (likely) unpopular opinion. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Grandmeister(m): 10:39am On Jun 07, 2020 |
ibkayee:Actually I'm in utter bewilderment how totally out of reality many Nigerians have become..even the supposedly educated who should know better...what a rude awakening. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Prenonjebose: 10:39am On Jun 07, 2020 |
I wonder why an employer would not take a liking to an employee who has been very hard working and productive. Oritaibadan has every right to treat the young lady differently. I have employed several workers, mostly girls, who have been either bad or good employees. But there was a particular one who was outstanding. Great work ethic and good customer service, who eventually left to further her education. Of course, I treated her differently to the point of wanting to double her salary. As to personal life style, OP, it is not by mistake you stumbled on her secret. Since your wife is in on this, which is good by the way, let her advise the lady as a mother. The challenge is if the lady becomes more discreet while continuing her activities. Most likely she's making extra money every weekend from her nefarious activities. At a point she would have to go. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by kay29000(m): 10:41am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Grandmeister: You have posted close to 100 replies to people here...replies filled with insults and derogatory words towards those you don't know, solely because you want to get a point accross. Trust me, you might not know it yet, but you really do need help. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by cugardmalino: 10:42am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Grandmeister:Sometimes I wonder whether people think with their head or yansh. The Facebook he opened is it he’s? And why on earth will he be going into inbox if he’s not interested in something else. Unless you want to be nosy, that’s the reason why you'll decide to look into someones inbox. 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by dingbang(m): 10:43am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Amotolongbo:her kind of lifestyle is not suitable for some kind of jobs. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by kay29000(m): 10:44am On Jun 07, 2020 |
ibkayee: The guy has commented close to 100 times on this thread...barking at everyone like a mad dog. The guy definitely has issues. 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Grandmeister(m): 10:44am On Jun 07, 2020 |
kay29000:Yet you keep on replying lol..If I get to knock some common sense into just one person here then that's a step in the right direction. That person might be you. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by kay29000(m): 10:44am On Jun 07, 2020 |
cugardmalino: GBAM! |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by kay29000(m): 10:45am On Jun 07, 2020 |
Grandmeister: Ode |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Prenonjebose: 10:45am On Jun 07, 2020 |
FifiO:Totally correct. The deception of pretending to be a God fearing person, over time can translate to other dishonest work place activities. 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by ibkayee(f): 10:46am On Jun 07, 2020 |
kay29000:Lmao I didn't know 2 Likes |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Cjayboy: 10:46am On Jun 07, 2020 |
OritaIbadan: Please, I suggest you call her attention to this deadly act of her with an evidence,but let her don't know your information source and after which, advice her appropriately on the dangers of what she's doing. After that she may decide to stop work herself only if she decided not to change, but let it be that you have done your heavenly part. Don't terminate her job on this ground, because she may become a deadly prey. |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by kingjoe(m): 10:52am On Jun 07, 2020 |
FifiO:I share your opinion.infact we have heard of many firms that disqualify applicants based on findings on their Facebook page.integrity matters alot in business.all those saying .mind your business are hypocrites.the trust will never be there again.who knows what she is even planning towards her boss.she is decitfull and lacks moral and should not be left with someone's source of livelihood. 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 11:02am On Jun 07, 2020 |
boxer022:She breached her own personal space by using the OP's phone to make a Facebook log-in!! |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 11:04am On Jun 07, 2020 |
@FifiO You made lots of sense. For a person who pretends to be morally high when the reverse is the case, it means she's capable of a lot. However, I believe sending such packing isn't the right thing to do. You may want to consider Suspension but total lay off will only cause more damage than good. You may only compound to her problems because you don't know what led to her lifestyle and you will be giving her lots of time to cause more havoc. The issue is Most Nigerians suck at counselling and most times act on emotions . They tend to be judgemental that they end up crucifying than helping. If Nigerians can put emotions aside and reason with people presumed to be morally declined, there will be positive effects. Imagine Op thinking of sacking a loose but hardworking and productive lady? Does that mean there's no good to her anymore because of a fault? That's how Nigerians think, neglecting/cancelling all any form of goodness because of a fault. And you wonder why there are so many Hypocrites and Stone hearted people?. If I were to be in Op's situation, and my curiosity took over me into invading a person's privacy, what I will to do is to feel pity, call her, apologize for snooping and counsel her. Or how do I change someone I don't accept? If I'm dealing on natural likeness with no unhealthy affection, I will draw the lady closer and make her see reasons while she has to change. Because the truth is, until she sees the reason for change, I will only be causing more problems in which rebellion will be the least of them. My opinion. 1 Like |
Re: What I Found On My Sales Girl's Facebook Messages by Nobody: 11:05am On Jun 07, 2020 |
PeachtreeReside:Let's not blame poverty for her waywardness and chameleon personality!!! Some people are poorer and don't choose to date 5 guys deceitfully, commit abortion or trying to hold the coolest among them responsible for someone else pregnancy!!! She is hovering around dating cultist, or some vindictive rapists!! The higher the sexmate, the higher the tendency of dating dangerous guys This has nothing to do with poverty!! She will make a great cheat in Marriage!!! OP should understand that he is dealing with a Chameleon and should avoid her as much as possible!! Sack her if that will give you peace |
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