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Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by SATANIIST: 12:33am On Jun 11, 2020 |
he knows u are an olosho and doesnt want to convert you to a wife. we haf haf sense now 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Kaxmytex(m): 12:33am On Jun 11, 2020 |
The guy is an advocate of u must get belle before baving the ring u desire.. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nehe007(m): 12:33am On Jun 11, 2020 |
I know a lot of men who are married but still have side chicks and they are no tired of having more I will suggest u pray about it maybe u might find someone better that will help u achieve ur dreams |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by woodsbeatrice30: 12:35am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek: leave that one joo.. oya how can I get your digits?kindly send me a mail at trumpwere@yahoo.com ose baby.. lost login to the email on this account |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Boss13: 12:36am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869: Are you willing to give him a prenup? Will you run to the courts and seek protection when he says he is no longer interested again? Since you know his fear - tell him you would sign a prenup to reassure him. If you are not willing to do a prenup, then let the man be. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Xmen149(m): 12:43am On Jun 11, 2020 |
proper interpretation is he wants an open relationship where he can fuvk any woman and you if you choose to . but you will have his kids and live a lonely life forever taking care of his kids even if he bails out. go through my write-up again choose what you want then stop disturbing people 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Pavillon: 12:44am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869: EVILFOREST:Be like say two of una get bad blood before. Confusedgirl vs Evilforest ![]() All on top marriage matter.... |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by olaniyilukman(m): 12:44am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Marriage nowadays is nothing but a modern prison where most of our guys are confined with the responsibility of doing everything. Our lawmakers are failing us woefully, there should be a law that will backup the issue of baby mama and establish it as one of the society norms.. Marriage, prison in disguise, avoid it if you are dreaming of a better future 12 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by MOnkeyBabe(f): 12:45am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Dicktion:ROtfl |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by AfonjaBoston: 12:46am On Jun 11, 2020 |
EVILFOREST: Olodo wtf is wrong with this americana jjc. So because you dey corona america make we no hear word again? Na only you dey dia abi? You are just embarrassing yourself. Who knows you may just be idling away in Aba fooling yourself. Anu mpama 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by shawnfamous(m): 12:46am On Jun 11, 2020 |
ladyGKilaBCrueD:I just tire o |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by MOnkeyBabe(f): 12:47am On Jun 11, 2020 |
dingbang:Uyaii still Dey? |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by LilMissFavvy(f): 12:47am On Jun 11, 2020 |
You may not believe me, but that is not a good man. A man who loves you genuinely would want to spend his life beside you at all times in the confines of marriage. You love him more than he loves you, accept the bitter truth. Don't withdraw from him slowly, rather cut off from him asap, do not limit yourself and drag yourself so much to the mud by accepting to be a baby mama. 26yrs is damned too young for baby mama rubbish. Look around you ladies far older than you are getting married daily. Alternatively, if you feel you can't live without him, get another relationship, and double date, as you you double date, never ever allow anything intimacy with him, no matter what, don't let him sleep with you, you will be able to love another man, it's a matter of time and patience. If he is looking for a baby mama, let him go for a woman in her in her 40-50s. You are too young for such rubbish talk. Another suitor will come, open your heart and be ready to move on. 7 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by slashthroat: 12:48am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Pavillon:Leak that idiot wannabe's ass make him give you naija 5k |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by olaniyilukman(m): 12:49am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Millenniumlady:Soul mate after reading this about Millinieum lady, I will automatically becomes a distance friend mate coz I don't wish short life for myself... Thanks me for this wonderful truth 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by MOnkeyBabe(f): 12:49am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Tadeknkeepcalm:Hi theRe! |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Emary(f): 12:50am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869: Have some self-respect and move on! He doesn't see you as wife material otherwise he would be begging you to marry him. Don't waste your time on that otherwise, you might be shocked to find him marrying someone else under your nose. Don't expect him to change his mind either. Your goals are simply not aligned. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by slashthroat: 12:51am On Jun 11, 2020 |
EVILFOREST: You dey mastubate because she call you "sir"? ![]() ![]() Nothing whey i no go hear. You are a very very useless boy boy 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by mikkyjagga1(m): 12:51am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Sorry about all the responses that are out of place, i understand your delima. Your boyfriend is a good guy but scared of a broken marriage, maybe he experienced it at an early age or something, he feels that marriage will change the dynamics of your relationship that seems so good! Dont despair or feel too sad, pray about it and decide on a time frame, be it 6 months or 1 year and give him time. When the time comes tell him why you are leaving him and break up with him peacefully. If he really loves you, which I think he does he will not want to loose you. However its something You have to do and dont waste too much time, there are other good guys out there. Confusedgirl869: |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 12:54am On Jun 11, 2020 |
olaniyilukman:BABY MAMA does not signify BAD OMEN. NIGERIAN LAW does not frown at it in its entirety. However, It can only be regarded as a Failed entity when you fail to meet up your responsibility of taking care of the kid involved. The LADY is not your responsibility in a BABY MAMA relationship neither are her relatives. But in the NIGERIA MARRIAGE SYSTEM, the Lady and her siblings apparently appears to be your entire responsibility. Yet such a Lady wouldn't give you Peace of Mind. That's MADNESS...! Really Crazy... In DIASPORA, most LADIES are BABY MAMAS because of the HEAD ACHE they give men too. It's difficult to get a MODERN LADY under control and expect peace of mind from her. PEACE of MIND can only be gotten in the Grave now. ![]() ![]() ![]() Why do you think UNMARRIED MEN now live longer. Before it used to be MARRIED POLYGAMOUS MEN getting to 100years but now monogamous men barely get to 50years. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 12:55am On Jun 11, 2020 |
slashthroat: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() U don show....! Where u dey since naaaa...? I get package for you ooo |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Moresville(m): 12:57am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869: Please don't be confused and answer this question honestly...If your man was rich/wealthy(giving the fact that you both are good to each other) will you accept his proposal? FACTS... 1: No matter how much you hate the truth you can't deny that marriage is not for everyone. If every man takes one woman and the Muslims are mandated to take 70 wife's each there will still be single girls/ladies/women in abundance. 2: About 50% of both the men and woman judging and condemning your Man for his choice will either give birth out of wedlock or father a child out of it. 3: More than 50% of both the men and woman judging and condemning your Man for his choice are single and not in any meaningful relationship 4: Marriage like one poster said is the next honorable thing for a woman after celibacy(Virginity) not the man. 5: Marriage in our time is basically means security( financial or protection) for women. 6: T&C applies to so many things in life and more than 50% of both the men and woman condemning your Man for his choice on here will change their stance and jump into it if the conditions were favorable to/for them i.e When a man/woman is rich/wealthy everyone wants to have a piece tying them to him/her hence no moral evaluation before becoming baby mama's of daddy. 7: No matter the climate and continent women are more favored by laws and policies so you might never understand how and what it means to be a man. 8: Sex is overrated and more than 50% of baby mama's and daddies never planned to be one. 9: Kids raised by single parents don't end up useless like most people think. In the western world many grew up with their grandparents. (is loosing a parent at a very tender age now an excuse for not been successful in life?) 10: The day most Nigerian ladies will value what their men go through to provide for their entitlements is the day their emancipation will start. 11: Most of all the ladies/women and menies/weaklings condemning your man instead of simply advising you don't actually know what the responsibilities of a married Nigerian man is. The man is not marrying you he is marrying your family and it's extensions and in cases where he is not extending to them he's auto blacklisted and wicked without considerations. I can go on and on with these facts (which are arguable and can be disproved anyway) but its a whole lot to discuss. My advice to you is to take sometime off and evaluate yourself. Take a personal retreat not only to examine yourself but examine your time with him objectively, in other words know yourself and know your man. If you truly know your man you will be in the right position to answer any questions you have right inside your head and not your heart. You have a heard what nairaland has to say right? Sieve it, digest it then use your brain logically and objectively before making a choice you have to live with and not nairaland keyboard warriors and ninjas SEX is over rated so don't feel like if you stop having sex with him as many advised that you have cornered him. Your girls are the worst hypocrites and I don't need to teach you that after Madam Linda dealt with them...chopping gbalash steady and selling a different menu to you lot only to become a baby mama. Many of these ladies/woman masturbating seriously and condemning a man who is matured enough to be honest on this thread are those who claim they don't need man and only want sperm donors if they become successful before getting married. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by slashthroat: 12:59am On Jun 11, 2020 |
EVILFOREST: Go give am to your hungry papa |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Boss13: 1:00am On Jun 11, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy: I want MEN to read this comment. This is what a WOMAN is writing. Pick out the deceit in this comment - Guess what, many women are like this. 21 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by slashthroat: 1:02am On Jun 11, 2020 |
EVILFOREST: This guy can never make a comment without mentioning "diaspora" lol wake up joor abi coro dey cause hallucination ni? |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by chaloskyx: 1:05am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Simple dump his ass. he obviously does not rate you high enough to be his wife forget all that nonsense he is talking if he was truly in love he would want to have you all to him self. my advise leave him and remove that mentality that there are few good men there there are lots of good men there so dont be afraid to leave someone who doesnt consider you are worth sharing his entire life with. in order words to him you are nothing but two things to him 1. an object for sexual gratification and 2. a baby factory true love sees beyond that |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Smile4mee01: 1:06am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Its hard being a woman these days. You are defined and respected by marriage, something that is out of your control. Even the Bible cursed the Woman saying "All the days of her life, her heart will be towards her husband and she will labor at birth". Have you guys noticed the increase in relationship/marriage pastors? its because the end is near, Are we not approaching 7 women to 1 man. So there will be an increase in relationship issues. Those who said she should leave him, what guarantee do you have that another good man will locate her, are you sure she will not join the group of single sisters closing into their 40s'. She could be lucky and find someone the next day, no one knows. Or what guarantee does anyone have the man she meets if she leaves him will be good to her? Just like eve in the bible, the destruction of mankind started with her, up till today. Many mens lives are derailed because of the wife they married. No one sees this coming, one old man said marriage na black market. You never know, regardless of how good he/she might seem. All marriages start out with celebration, a good number crash, some even die caused by their significant other. I always remember Tiwa savage or toke makinwa failed marriages. There is something about the modern woman that is no desirable, I can't place it. @ Op: I am not a woman, I can only speak as a man. I can do anything for peace of mind. if marrying a woman does not guarantee that, what to do ? If you can somehow ascertain if his reluctancy is because of the fear of what might be, you might need to reassure him somehow. but if its because of something else. You can leave and wish him well. General Advice: Women, please you guys should demanding white wedding, reception, engagement, wedding ring and the likes. Whats wrong with the Man oficially paying your bride price with his parents present and all and the marriage is set. All this wedding ring, this and that na scam. Did Adam wear even a wedding ring, or was eve given a wedding certificate. Lets start to place value on what really matters. 19 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by MOnkeyBabe(f): 1:06am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Johnnico1:tick tock. You have passed the most important message. Ovulation slows Down 30's and comPliCAtions occur the most DuRinG PReGnAnCy 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by ZooOga: 1:06am On Jun 11, 2020 |
" I also wasn't a fan of marriage before I met him because of so many bad men out there, but everything changed when I met my guy" NL sages clap for yourselves. y'all always say some of these females wanna run up the mileage and body counts then wanna settle down with a good guy! Salute! ![]() 12 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 1:08am On Jun 11, 2020 |
cant say i blame him cos many young men in nigeria who are married are dying form high blood pressure caused by their troublesome wives.who no go fear marriage ![]() 11 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by MOnkeyBabe(f): 1:10am On Jun 11, 2020 |
slashthroat:that one? |
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