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Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by loswhite(m): 5:05am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869:You are a disgrace for even typing this nonsense... At least now I know why ur boyfriend wants you to be a baby mama |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Princedapace(m): 5:08am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Come and bond with me and we shall get married next year. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by manontree: 5:16am On Jun 11, 2020 |
I have seen some situations where a couple needed advise from me. The lady said, Doc, I cant live without him. The man said, God, she is choking the life out of me. I simply want my space A few years later, both were wrong. The lady not only moved on to a better man and better things, he realized he is the one that couldnt live without her and desperately came to me to help him win her back You see, no man that respects you (which to me is a cardinal point in a good marriage) would ever wish this on you. He clearly dont value you nor desire being with you for life. In short, you are a stop gap to finding his life mate. Ask yourself, wont he plead for marriage the moment he sees that woman that he cant do without? Another point, few women can give what you give. You dont ask for money, you take care of things, you love him...That's scarce commodity in today's women. If you have all these, except you look like a whale, there would literally be a long queue seeking your attention. Why settle for this? Like someone said earlier and like the story of the couple above, a few years down the line and you would look back at this with horror about the mistake you nearly made. For truly he is a mistake Last shot: For those slating marriage, I have been married for almost two decades, as are my friends. Too numerous to mention. Everyone is having a ball. For that one bad marriage that social media highlights, there are thousands, yes thousands, of amazing unions. Keep deceiving yourselves. Marriage is this and that. Like you arent a product of one 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by AliAgbede22(m): 5:22am On Jun 11, 2020 |
My dear good morning the truth is that he don't want to marry you 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Avast(m): 5:28am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869: There are a lot of good men out there. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by fireback: 5:29am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Goddys: |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Confusedgirl869: 5:32am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Beatswim:Thanks bro, I wouldn't say I have any problem, I am clean, we are compatible and all. Even all his friends loves, admire and praises me, they will sometimes ask when he is going to see my people, what are we waiting for but my guy always seem withdrawn or he changes the topic. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Flier: 5:34am On Jun 11, 2020 |
You are dating a married man,a man at 35 with a good job can not ask you to be a baby mama 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by od501: 5:34am On Jun 11, 2020 |
KenBen217: Welcome to the club bro....come sit nxt to me abeg ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by ayoncox: 5:41am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Lady I can see you are addicted to that guy. This is my advice give the relationship a break for 6 month you don't have to tell him. Just break the communication, change your phone number from now till December. You will discover that there are better men outside not just one but many. The guy have discovered that you are very attaching and not independent in your mind and that you have low self esteem, so he is selling the idea to you. The most important thing you should be doing now is building general relationship with men generally, go on datings this does not mean you will boy friend all of them. Personally I don't believe in that. Spend time developing your confident and don't try doing something stupid. I pray you stop being addicted to that guy, remember it is what we love most that often kill us |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by ufuosman(m): 5:43am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Well if u don't want that baby mama stuff let him go |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Confusedgirl869: 5:43am On Jun 11, 2020 |
manontree:Thank you sooo much sir. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Slimsly100(f): 5:45am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Boredasf: Abdg which planet you from oga ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Jamesayo: 5:46am On Jun 11, 2020 |
He can go get his babies from baby factories. If you love yourself and your future, it's better you RUN for your life. You are completely on your own. He loves his space, which yeye space? You should have learnt better from your own background. Many people never survived it. If you mean the world to him, then he'll do everything to bring you to his space. If he's shying away, he has his heart somewhere else. Ensure to do the right thing. God help you!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Slimsly100(f): 5:48am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Did you just say good man ![]() A man that doesn't see you fit to be his wife but sees you very fit to be a baby mama is a your definition of good man ![]() Ok na. He doesn't want to be committed nor do the right thing but he wants benefits that are gotten from doing the right thing. Free pussy, free children, and space, really ![]() Ó yàmí l'énu He's just selfish jare! Space kor! Moon ní! ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nyamve1: 5:53am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Dicktion:if nt God i would've been a victim, but God dnt abandon his own hmmmm millenniumlady 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Mac2016(m): 5:57am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869:You're so brilliant and intelligent. You also have answered your own question. No need to be worried. Tell him that your quoted view above. He shd have or buy your idea borne out of love for your future kids (his future kids)! But my personal opinion dear, you're the one in love o.. This man doesn't like responsibility and I doubt if he's good enough for you, forget all the catch from him. Try this! Start putting weights/financial responsibility on him.. The way a wife depends on her husband (at least for primary home upkeep). He might run then you know he's just enjoying that you're affordable and sweet cos you gave him almost everything (bodily to say the least) cos you love him and he has to give little or nothing cos you won't request! 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Confusedgirl869: 5:57am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Martinez39s:You? A red piller, never. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by itzdeejay: 6:03am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Goddys:What are you looking for? Seems you havent asked or answered the question of 'why we are here and existing?' There is a difference btw marrying late, to be able to give the kids a better life and this asertion. Why are we here? |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Thisnut(m): 6:04am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869:marriage is just a paperwork, You can be married and be unhappy in it. I have a friend who dated for about 18 years before getting married, in between they had 3 kids together . Marriage was instituted in the bible days because women couldn't consent, the were not counted, they were regarded as properties hence, their fathers had to consent for them. now everything has changed, women can now speak for themselves. They have same right as men. Your parents don't need to consent for you anymore. If you like a guy you can now move in with him without outside interference. If you like the guy, you don't have to marry him to live with him and also create a personal space for one another. The guy in question is not bad because he doesn't want marriage, he sounds more like someone who knows what he wants and not being moved by the bandwagons. A lots of people are married today, not because they know why they are married but because others are doing it. That's why you see people unhappy even from the alter. You should be happy that you have a modern and civilized man, who isn't sniffing and bossing you around, seeing you as part of his possessions, he sees another stong woman. If na marriage dey hungry you so bad, leave him and meet someone else who buys same idea, regardless of his personal attributes but if you'd like to stay happy like you're now, be with him and have a family with, maybe somewhere along the line you two will have a reason to marry, even for free, at your children expense. Choose what you want and not the society choosing for you. 6 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Infinixs5: 6:07am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869: you can never change his mind..?If not that am the only son; na Baby Mama all the way.. He has a good reason cos some day u will change and become violent and maybe pour him a hot water. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by APOPTOSIS: 6:11am On Jun 11, 2020 |
manontree:Well Said From an ELDER. I am also a Doc. U hit the Nail on the head. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by delawal: 6:12am On Jun 11, 2020 |
i kive close to a hotel where people come to do shorttime. 80percent,of men coming there are,married men, many married guys i know before,look miserable, sone seem to be down after,marriage, is it,dt,marriage is over rated or what. even those,of them who claim to be,enjoyong it i see,them,in some bad corners digging other small,girls or married women 5 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Uniquekriss(m): 6:13am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Ningen:best advise ever on NL. OP u don't need further advise. That man is only good as a bf, anyman who dates u without a long term plan is just using u, step up your game dear, I'm in same shoe and I'm planning to pull out of d relationship cos my woman doesnt have any plans 4dfuture 4 us 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by zedman1(m): 6:14am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869:If truly you're who you say you are then you must be a good girl. The good ones suffer more in relationships. I hated break ups while I was still single cos' I get hurt so bad for so long.... As a guy o. But truth is, some persons just don't see you as one they'd spend their lives with, no matter how convinced you are that you're meant for them. It's hard to move on (used to be for me though), but you don't force such persons on yourself. If he wants you, he'll stay, explain to him again, if he isn't ready for the kind of union you want, I think you should move on. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by APOPTOSIS: 6:15am On Jun 11, 2020 |
delawal: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Their is a way the brains of men are wired. .... na only God and men fit explain such. It takes a woman to become a man to understand such; but you know that's not possible. I don't think marriage cures sexual expeditions. It's self discipline and contentment that cure such. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Confusedgirl869: 6:15am On Jun 11, 2020 |
zedman1:Thank you sir 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 6:19am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Autogduru411:Then pls, stay single. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 6:20am On Jun 11, 2020 |
Stargner:Don't know "him" Don't want to ever know "him" |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 6:22am On Jun 11, 2020 |
johnkey:You're one of those redpiller guys abi. You're the one who should change that mentality. Because you don't want to be a simp doesn't mean you should be an incel. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 6:22am On Jun 11, 2020 |
olumide4christ:Thank you. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 6:22am On Jun 11, 2020 |
MOnkeyBabe:Hello ma. 1 Like |
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