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Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Skepticus: 1:41pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Nooil: Same old bull shît. All these can be gotten outside the confines of marriage. The "illegitimate child" thing is nonsense, used to goad men into carrying the responsibilities of women (who never take responsibility) for anything. Homo Sapiens started settling down into the union called marriages barely 10000 years ago. Up till 50 years ago, marriage made sense but with the rise of feminism, abolition of gender roles and an extremely high economic pressure on men to level up, marriage has become outdated and men all over the world are dumping it all together. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by DrayZee: 1:42pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
![]() Nooil:I absolutely agree with this...especially your beginning “If you marry a good wife”. With the way the majority of Nigerian girls are these days, I was already looking for how to rule out marriage. Someone can’t even just love another person entirely...your eyes must always be observing ![]() I’ll give my absolute best to whomever I choose though. May God help me. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by DrayZee: 1:44pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Skepticus:Bro...chill. If one wants to get married, it should be to one who adds value to him (value in terms of all she listed, as well as financially). If that is done, the gender roles and “high economic pressure” won’t matter as much. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by spiceadole: 1:44pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869: I wonder what's causing your confusion other than too much premarital sex and maybe some abortions ..plus desperation to get married. The man has told you his mind. You take it or you leave it. Most of you ladies like to complicate your lives. It could even be that he doesn't want to marry you and using that as an excuse. He is 35. He could be a married man with a family somewhere. Use your tongue to count your teeth 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Skepticus: The person I quoted has agreed with me. I sensed he is a reasonable person, which is why I took my time. But you, I don't have your time. It's obvious you grew up in an unhappy home. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by spiceadole: 1:51pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869: If you had closed your legs to him. It would have been very easy. You won't even give it a thought. Premarital sex and its disadvantages 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Skepticus: 1:52pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
TheRedpillguy: I was surprised at the responses of most of the males (who one would mostly consider as thirsty simps) on this thread. Most are going MGTOW without even knowing it. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Nobody: 1:52pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
DrayZee: That's why you should pray, only God can give you what you can truly handle and will give you peace of mind. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Roycemadeit(m): 1:57pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Ishilove: Must marriage be the way our society sees it |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Metaphysical27: 2:08pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Jeferious: My question here is then why dont the guy marry her. Since there is no different. To the Christian., no matter how you sugar quote a thing cause of modernism. Or to suit what you like in Gods eye it's still fornication cause there is nothing binding the two individuals. If you say leave christianity in our traditional custom if the man should decide to leave the woman then woman can call a case. If the woman should go to court the court can't do anything. The main idea is what will cause a guy to want to stay with a woman and don't want to marry her since it's the same. Why is he so scared getting married. Marriage is important it has been and will be. Dont let the new style deceive you. Cause at the end you owe it to your children. To set example to your children it's not just all about the couple. Why do you think our mothers stay in a loveless marriage. It's not cause they cant leave. Its because of their children. If we know what is right we should do it. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by olumide4christ: 2:13pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
MedicH: Well sorry to burst your bubble, like I have said in previous threads, I and my wife were both virgins before and when we married...so the issue of ashawo didn't arise. Same goes for some of my wife's siblings too. Perhaps you are referring to the experiences of some of your friends or acquaintances, not me. I chose rightly & I am grateful to God for it. I hope others follow my steps. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by olumide4christ: 2:16pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
oshaosha2014: What I have said is a fact, irrespective of whatever definition of a man you or anyone has. What God created man to be can never be changed by anybody. Anyone who doesn't agree should argue with his Creator and the Bible. Thanks. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by olumide4christ: 2:24pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
knowhowk: Your opinion, but never a fact! God created everyone and He never created a man to have baby mama (s) neither did He create any woman to be a baby mama. Read Genesis 2:18-25; Genesis 1:26-27. He rather created man and woman to be husband and wife, not man & baby mama. Never allow the devil deceive you. What God says as it pertains to this matter is clear in black and white. Read it. That's the fact and what I stand by! You can argue with your Creator. We shall all give account of this matter and all other matters of our lives to God our Creator on the day of judgment. A word is enough for the wise! 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by DivineTurnAroun(f): 2:27pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
LadyHeaven: Exactly what is in my mind |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by olumide4christ: 2:32pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
EMMAUGOH: In life as it is, you don't say what you want but you say the facts. Not everything I want is the right thing or the Best for me. Some things I want right now can cut my life short by 20-30 years if I have it. God will not give you such thing because He loves you & doesn't want you to be destroyed as a result. On the other hand, the devil will push you to desire & get that thing that will destroy you because that's all he wants- to steal, kill and destroy - according to John 10:10. I will always choose what God wants for me (marriage) above what the devil wants for me - baby mama. I hope you do likewise. Thank you! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Jeferious: 2:36pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Metaphysical27:You're beating a dead horse. Marriage is not a palatable idea to me as a man. I prefer that stuff you call "fornication". And I know that there are girls that want the same arrangement too...or will eventually accept the same arrangement. So stop disturbing yourself. I don't have anything to achieve when I justify my personal convictions to a stranger on the internet. And about my children, I will take care of them as a father would. Worry about taking care of yours 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by TheRedpillguy: 2:39pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Skepticus:If he has a phone and its connected to the internet, he has been Redpilled. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by DebbieSylvex(f): 2:50pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Boredasf: If you don't wanna get married then go become a monk. Plus,everyone are entitled to their own opinion. To you Marriage is slavery,so shall it be for you but one thing is if marriage wasn't good then God wouldn't give Adam his Eve. Because of we are living in a morally-decayed age people now have the audacity to call Marriage slavery. Yes dear, Marriage is not compulsory o,no be force so because it's slavery to you hope you zip up? Hope you're not in a relationship? and I hope you ain't tying any girl's destiny down. Baby-daddy shit is the height of irresponsiveness. MY OWN OPINION.....!!!!! stick to whatever ideology you've got and I'll stick to mine No sweats 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Confusedgirl869: 2:54pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Jeferious:How do you intend to take good care of your kids who are 80% of the time with their mum? Or you think its all about buying them things? 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Skepticus: 3:09pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Boss13: I do get your idea of the "Prenup" However, I want you to know that prenups are not watertight in protecting men from the family courts from being exploited (specifically in North America and Europe). The family courts can still trash your prenuptial agreement and give the woman more than half of all you suffered to earn in your life as a man. It's the reason why an increasing number of men are dumping the institution of marriage in the west. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Jeferious: 3:10pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869:What if the mother stay in the same house with me ![]() Besides, you will definitely forget to ask yourself this question in a situation where the father, even though he is legally married to his wife, does not stay with her in the same state or country for work related reasons. Las las make marriage no mad una o. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by pretyval: 3:12pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
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Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Skepticus: 3:23pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
ZooOga: I thought I was the only one who noticed this because I saw no one made reference to the bolded part. The bolded part is a subtle sign of a lady with a high notch count. The OPs boyfriend prolly saw through this scam and decided to play smart. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by PoliteActivist: 3:31pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: So u concede she hasn't wasted 2 years. She's enjoyed amazing 2 years with someone she loved, though, like all things, it everntially ended. It would have been a waste if she had endured 2 years of marriage with someone who despised her or vice versa |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by PoliteActivist: 3:33pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
LedRock: What's the best environment to raise kids if not marriage |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by PoliteActivist: 3:38pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Igbojihadist: She had forgotten she was selling sex dolls, and the way u reminded her - just made me LAUGH |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by PoliteActivist: 3:41pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
LaJoe2: No I don't digg. U should have just left out the "now" |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by PierreAbutu(m): 3:48pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Confusedgirl869: Pls send me your Whatsapp contact I want to send u something that would solve your problem |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Funmmyastic: 3:54pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Lol.He can marry a white lady but want to turn you into his babymama.You better dump his ass.Thats why it is not advisable to date divorcees. |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by LaJoe2: 3:55pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
Ok sir, I'm sorry sir, I've corrected it sir. Thank you for the lecture sir. You are blessed sir. Cheers sir! PoliteActivist: |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by emmaodet: 3:58pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
TheRedpillguy: I don't know of twitter, facebook or Instagram but if you are a guy and frequent NAIRALAND romanceland regularly, you will be far more ahead of your mates offline or on other social sites unless ofcourse you are a satified S**P 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Wants Me To Be A Baby Mama. Says He's Scared Of Marriage. by Igbojihadist: 4:16pm On Jun 11, 2020 |
PoliteActivist:lol abeg leeme oh |
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