giftfromGod:


I called boluke pharmacy some days back. Was today they do not have and I asked how soon will they have, which they have no clue. So they referred me to Alpha pharmacy to get it. That price could be old price you Know?

OK , I got mine 3 weeks back

Tokyoheist:



OK , I got mine 3 weeks back

Lucky you. Thanks anyways. May it yield postive result for us all.

miracletoday:
Please mamas, anyone going to the pharmacy btw now and next 2weeks should help me ask how much cabergoline is, dostinex or any other cabergoline brand.
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I did not see this message on time, would have help out. All the same, you can have this numbers.

Boluke pharmacy customer care number ;zero eight one -000-00-7
And Alha pharmacy customer care number ; zero eight one three four zero four 1020 , for Lagos people .

giftfromGod:


I did not see this message on time, would have help out. All the same, you can have this numbers.

Boluke pharmacy customer care number ;zero eight one -000-00-7
And Alha pharmacy customer care number ; zero eight one three four zero four 1020 , for Lagos people .

Thanks ma this will be helpful

I want to ask please, cos i m feeling a little bit hurt, though happy for the couple. A couple close to my family just gave birth, and i just added it up that they have intentionally been hiding it. The same thing when my bro in law got pregnant, we didnt hear until they needed money for ICU, and these are pple my husband speak to everyday. Are your friends suppose to be hiding their pregnancies because of your situation?or am i the one making it a big deal.

miracletoday:


Thanks ma this will be helpful

You welcome ma'am, at all, at all, na him bad pass. We need each other to overcome this TTC wahala.

giftfromGod:
I have gotten a replacement. Thanks for the help @ sugah. How do I take the drug, I mean the fat burner. Added 165 naira to the 3850 making total of 4015 per one. So the current price of this very brand is 4015 against the former 3500 they sale before.

I think the dollar affected the pricing of most of their items. But I bought the last bottle I got at medplus for 4,800... different shops have different prices.
It says to take 2 caps 3 times daily preferably with food.... although I wasn't eating 3times, I still took the caps even without food. That dosage gives you almost 1000mg of Inositol daily which is great.
I pray it works for you like it did for me.
*Baby dust*

sugah:

I think the dollar affected the pricing of most of their items. But I bought the last bottle I got at medplus for 4,800... different shops have different prices.
It says to take 2 caps 3 times daily preferably with food.... although I wasn't eating 3times, I still took the caps even without food. That dosage gives you almost 1000mg of Inositol daily which is great.
I pray it works for you like it did for me.
*Baby dust*

Yeah, dollar is responsible.
Amen to the prayers.

miracletoday:
I want to ask please, cos i m feeling a little bit hurt, though happy for the couple. A couple close to my family just gave birth, and i just added it up that they have intentionally been hiding it. The same thing when my bro in law got pregnant, we didnt hear until they needed money for ICU, and these are pple my husband speak to everyday. Are your friends suppose to be hiding their pregnancies because of your situation?or am i the one making it a big deal.

I think Nigerians generally hide their pregnancies due superstition etc. If I were you, I wouldn't take it to heart.
My BF has 4 kids and doesn't stay in same city as me so it's almost at the point of her delivering she tells me. It doesn't take anything away from our friendship and I don't take offense at all.

Not to worry, you're not in a 'situation', you're just a mommy in waiting.

DH was told to use the manix every twelve hours along with milk for effective result. One tablet , two times per day. While vitamin E , one tablet per day.@ sugah , please is the usage okay?

So sorry it every twelve hours not two hours.

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giftfromGod:
DH was told to use the manix every two hours along with milk for effective result. One tablet , two times per day. While vitamin E , one tablet per day.@ sugah , please is the usage okay?

Was the prescription from a doctor/pharmacist?

sugah:

How long ago was the SFA done? What was the result? Not withstanding, if he hasn't led a good lifestyle in the last 3 months his swimmers might not be in top shape. So I'd recommend he goes on a supplement too. Manix and vit E is a good combo.

You did ma'am. Some time around may this year. This was after I posted that, what can we be using since public hospital are not attending to GYN patient at the moment. You and moniker Gbenga advice DH use the two . Thanks

sugah:

Was the prescription from a doctor/pharmacist?

You did ma'am. It every twelve hours please. Just cross check what I wrote up there.

giftfromGod:


You did ma'am. It every twelve hours please. Just cross check what I wrote up there.

Sorry I slept off.

I was asking about the dosage you posted...taking a tablet every two hours...
The normal prescription is 1 tab twice daily, that's every twelve hours with milk hence my question.
And vit E once daily.

sugah:

Sorry I slept off.

I was asking about the dosage you posted...taking a tablet every two hours...
The normal prescription is 1 tab twice daily, that's every twelve hours with milk hence my question.
And vit E once daily.

Yeah, it was mistake . Thanks for the clarification.

miracletoday:
I want to ask please, cos i m feeling a little bit hurt, though happy for the couple. A couple close to my family just gave birth, and i just added it up that they have intentionally been hiding it. The same thing when my bro in law got pregnant, we didnt hear until they needed money for ICU, and these are pple my husband speak to everyday. Are your friends suppose to be hiding their pregnancies because of your situation?or am i the one making it a big deal.

Different strokes for different folks. Some are okay discussing their pregnancy journey and some are not. It is just about what each feels comfortable about. I for one wouldn't talk about such because I get anxious easily and nine months is too much to be discussing a topic I know I'm anxious about.

miracletoday:
I want to ask please, cos i m feeling a little bit hurt, though happy for the couple. A couple close to my family just gave birth, and i just added it up that they have intentionally been hiding it. The same thing when my bro in law got pregnant, we didnt hear until they needed money for ICU, and these are pple my husband speak to everyday. Are your friends suppose to be hiding their pregnancies because of your situation?or am i the one making it a big deal.

There are friends and there are friends, you are not making it a big deal, just know where you are in the scheme of things and adjust accordingly.

otokx:


There are friends and there are friends, you are not making it a big deal, just know where you are in the scheme of things and adjust accordingly.

God bless you for this advice.
There are friends and there are friends, see what they want you to see, if when you knew, do like you don't know to they felt it is safe to tell you.
Some will hide their pregnancy info from you so as to preserve your emotions, while others felt ttc people don't like to see others pregnant, like we are witch.

What I do? I see what you want me to see that way I know where I belong, and if you like turn to FBI, you have got no info to get from me as well.

So please mama, it is cool to be hurt by their actions of hiding pregnancy, because you would have told them if that was you, be ready, we shall conceive, they shall see it and we shall deliver safely, mother, father and babies alive.


Have fun sis.

@ Miracletoday

We had a couple friend that we were TTC together, some months ago, we noticed that they stopped communicating with us. We reached out to them, but something was just off about them. At a point we got tired and just reach out once in a while.

Later, we got to know that the wife was pregnant. This was someone that wifey and her gists a lot and talk about what they can do to get preg.

Well, we moved on. But wifey was very disappointed. Till now, she still feels bad about it. I wish she has a female friend who understands this journey and can relate to her.

Someone mentioned hangout, I wish she can go out with like minds and be encouraged, because depression is so real and I dont want her to be depressed.

I used to think same way in the past. But I came to understand that, TTC most has to do with the spiritual . So it possible that those who decide not to tell us, could have their reason. They could have been told to stay alway from relative and friends till they give birth. Am sure if I was told to do such , I will gladly do it. And you know why?
Women generally, can do anything to protect their unborn child. If staying alway from my Love one's will make me to become a mother. I will gladly do it.
So in conclusion, let accept whatever our TTC friends who had ported to Bfp do. If they tell us good, if they decide other wise. All good. God will not shame us all.

Happy Weekend @ All.

To tell or not to tell

Some people are so close to me in this journey that without saying it with words of mouth, they knew what I want just looking at me i.e Awesomemrs, thehomemaker and some Mama's here, most of which we have not even meet physically.

I know there are many sides to TTC, which ever way works for you maybe medical or spiritual, comes with their own demand, while some people may be placed on bed rest for some times, they may not wish to tell people that they are paged, for the fear of unknown due to unstable pregnancy situation, what if I later lost this baby wont people say I lied about being pregnant.

What works for me, has always been to see what you want me to see, if your Belle like, let it turn to trailer, I won't mention pregnancy to you, if you didn't tell me you are pregnant. when you give birth and I was told, I will congratulate you, if not, na to turn silent mood.

Please we need our emotional balance in this journey of TTC, please we have to overlook other people's attitude sometimes, I know it is not easy, but we need to learn that aspect. someone once abused me for three times, I didn't say anything, however I spoke the third time because she used TTC as a point in her abuse. I told her the worst she was not prepared to hear and guess what that was how I became tagged as the wife that gets angry easily. I never mentioned it to anyone that she used TTC, and she herself didn't tell anyone, from my in laws side, I do not expect them to tell me someone is pregnant, I do not expect them to hide it from me, because I don't even leave my house looking for family, I do friends that truly cares.

On friends that truly cares, it takes someone that has felt the same type of pain you are feeling to understand what you are going through. My true friends are women that knows what TTC is, on this one, ask Awesomemrs and thehomemaker, I knock the door of heart anytime, any day. if I was too quiet, they know how to bring out the flames.

We may have friends not TTCing that truly understands, it's fine to be with them too.


So on the hangout thing, a WhatsApp group has been created, let me see if I can post the link here, if not check my diary I have the link right in there.

Aim: To build a network of women who support each other in this fertility journey. �

✅ Fertility Support
✅ Family Matters Support
✅ Sex Education
✅ Moral Advices And Support
✅ Prayers
✅ Hangout

Mention me so you can added to the group, if you are interested.



Please we need to stand by each other, I have meet many lovely women due to TTC and they became my sister on the spot because we shared same journey.


To all us feeling disappointed that pregnancy news were hides from us, please be of good courage.
We shall be celebrated very soon.


please do not quote this message so I can edit out my phone number

@ Trippleblessing

Pls the link is not going. Tnx

Yinkus9:
@ Trippleblessing
Pls the link is not going. Tnx

Nairaland changed the link.

this is my WhatsApp number you, I can forward you the link there.
O8O2228-64-68

miracletoday:
I want to ask please, cos i m feeling a little bit hurt, though happy for the couple. A couple close to my family just gave birth, and i just added it up that they have intentionally been hiding it. The same thing when my bro in law got pregnant, we didnt hear until they needed money for ICU, and these are pple my husband speak to everyday. Are your friends suppose to be hiding their pregnancies because of your situation?or am i the one making it a big deal.

please don’t take personal, my own blood sister was pregnant she didn’t tell me till after she put to bed, I wasn’t mad.. your time will come and I’m sure u will hide it too

It has been proven that TTC depression is worse than if one has AIDS. Miscarriage causes PTSD. Infertility depression is nothing to toy with, it is real, stressful and emotionally draining.

Now, I'm not saying this to scare anyone, I'm just stating facts and the main reason why you don't need toxic people and thoughts to add to the issue on ground.

My advice?
Anyone or anything that will get you down emotionally on this journey, move far far away from them. My boss stopped his mum from coming to his house cos she is always crying that no baby yet.
I don't know why oh, but more than 80% of couples I know had issues conceiving so most times we encourage and advise ourselves all the time. We even joke and laugh and make fun of each other good-naturedly (yes we make fun of each other cos we understand how this journey can be)

Even when anyone ask how are the children, I boldly tell them I'm trying to conceive and they reply with wonderful reassurances.
One of my colleagues once told me in the lunch room that I'm not sad like someone who is trying to conceive, I looked her straight in the eyes and asked her if I should commit suicide cos I don't have a baby yet and everyone just called her an idiot.

Please, do away with people that will depress you and if anyone tries to make you feel low, educate them, just remember, you are not the first person TTC and you won't be the last.
Some people had worse issues than you, yet they had their bundle of joy, so your case won't be different.

Have faith in God, no matter what the doctor says, please have faith. You might have prayed and fasted but rather than dwell on what God has not done, remember those impossible things he has made possible and be strong that he will do this too.

Whether anyone informs you of their pregnancy or not, whether you are invited to the naming ceremony or not, mummies and Daddies, pls do what makes you happy. Don't give people a chance to hurt or frustrate you.

Seeing AF each month just annoys me and makes me want to throw things, sometimes, I lash out at hubby. So many emotions one can't describe, but in those moments, I take deep breaths, then I remember family and friends who have gone through this phase and are rejoicing, I read BFP success stories on here and smile and tell myself, yes it's gonna happen to me too.

Sorry about the long post. Just wanted to encourage someone.

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Unquote her pls. She said not to quote because of her number there

Bunny19:
Well said sis. But check d link again. Its either not correct or something. Its unaccessible

miraclebaby:
Unquote her pls. She said not to quote because of her number there

Done. Sorry about that. @trippleblessing

Wow, i m so happy we have these positive minds and attiture here.I feel so light already. Meanwhile i m not even the type that ask of pple, no friends really.but my hubby got couple of friends, and this particular one is fond of asking my hubby,when is this, how is that,they are always on whatsapp every hour. He still asked hubby how far about us weeks ago, so it hurts me so much, he likes to know what we r up to, without him sharing. You v said it all. I shouldn't take it to heart. I just wish hubby takes dressing.Thanks all.

miracletoday:
Wow, i m so happy we have these positive minds and attiture here.I feel so light already. Meanwhile i m not even the type that ask of pple, no friends really.but my hubby got couple of friends, and this particular one is fond of asking my hubby,when is this, how is that,they are always on whatsapp every hour. He still asked hubby how far about us weeks ago, so it hurts me so much, he likes to know what we r up to, without him sharing. You v said it all. I shouldn't take it to heart. I just wish hubby takes dressing.Thanks all.

I will suggest you disclose to people that which you are comfortable with sharing. That way, it wouldn't hurt you that you disclose everything about you to others and they keep mute about themselves.