. Well, your guess is as good as mine. Case closed

rowland545:
I'm sure u r not...that's y I'm risking all....I can even add my neighbour's own...thats to show u how sure I am...that u r not a v

Yeah
Twice

[quote author=zuby4real10 post=9063518 love and loyalty alone can not sustain a marriage cos they can't pay bills. [/quote] hmmmm

Prettyvirginia:
OK. Thanks hun. Just that I don't see myself marrying while still in school.

I will reflect deeply on your advice. Nice Sunday to you

Prettyvirginia:
. Well, your guess is as good as mine. Case closed

pls don't put your frustration on me...I'm not d one that took your virginity

Currently in such situation right now. Though she's 26 but her desperation is way off. Don't blame her though as most of her friends re married but me that is finding it difficult to feed. Gladly told her to accept any suitor that comes her way. Never felt so relieved in my life. Now I can think of better things aside marriage

madridguy:
Tell him if i catch him i go bite him ear.

lol...your rival

I don't have rival, make he just leave you alone for me.

fatymore:
lol...your rival

Ggv

Hian

Yea...back then

It is an ugly story and I feel pity for her.
She loved me but I just didn't love her the way I should, got no feelings for her.

Anyway, join the webinar tonight as see for yourself how you can earn LEGITIMATELY online

iamyemiakins:
Have you ever dated someone who desperately wanted to get married when you were not ready?



How was the experience?

No experience. I run far away from marriage desperados and don't give them a chance to get close to me.

Chai!!! See as guys they insult ladies..
Useless guys on Nairaland

Yes....

ProphetofOdin:


Yes. it was a terrible experience and she even tried to trap me with a pregnancy. But I was just not ready for all that.

But you were ready to chook prick and get her pregnant

Bb

Are girls that desperate to get married Girls! Y'all needa work harder and smarter, that guy will come for you....

Yes.







And they wasn't nothing funny about it.

Am in one now but she is tout

Dicktion:
Especially when they clock 30
There's nothing a lady loathes in the entire universe like clocking 30 without a husband.

They can even visit babalawo to get you trapped in marriage. Beware!

Still, there are many of them above that age that are not married despite their desperate moves

evwodere:
Ewoooo.. Yes. I met this bae. We start to get along. I tell her say I get bae b4 now. She agreed oo... My fellow nairalanders, every single second she talk abt marriage. Wetin cum pain me pass sef say, one day she call me sit down, come tell me say she give me from now till 2 months to break up with bae and marry her. D gal get anger problem. That day as we dy discuss en, b4 I know she Don dy rise lyk kpomo.. Guy as she rise, she dy luk my TV. Chai I say if u touch Dat TV en we die here. She cum dy beg me mk I jst discharge Dat bae mk I marry her. My dear, I ran 4 my life oo. Desperation? Na author of wahala ooo

Yes. In my own case she deliberately got pregnant for me and I had no choice than to marry her thinking it was right thing to do. See my story below https://www.nairaland.com/5922955/how-cope-ill-mannered-housewife

iamyemiakins:
Have you ever dated someone who desperately wanted to get married when you were not ready?



How was the experience?

If you are good you are good, and if you are bad you are bad. You might hide your bad side for a while. However, it is only a matter of time before everything would come out to the open. The Big Brother Show is a perfect example.
My story is that of a young chap that fell in love and got married to the women of his supposedly dream with kids. From day one till date, my beloved wife has been anything but a good housewife. She doesn't give me peace of mind. Always looking for ways to provoke me.
My wife isn't submissive. She is abusive and unappreciative of all I have done and have been doing for her and the children. This is even though the financial burden of the house has been mine 100% from the beginning to date. This is a woman that does not want to do any kind of work if it is not a government job. I have provided her with everything she asked for and even those things she didn't ask for. This woman has never lacked anything in my house to date
My beloved wife insults me in the presence of our kids. Mind you, I don't smoke, drink, and womanize. Neither have I laid my hands on her or intend on laying my hands on her. This is a woman I help with house chores like sweeping, washing the bathroom and toilets, and mobbing the house at my leisure time.
This woman has taken sides against in the time past when I had a misunderstanding with some persons outside. This woman isn't scared to insult my parents every time we have a misunderstanding. My mother-in-law isn't helping matter as she has continued to instigate her daughter against me.
I have finally decided to move out of the house for the now and see how things play out. If things don't improve, then I would have no choice than to seek divorce. Notwithstanding, the children would continue to be my responsibility.
Mature advice would be highly appreciated.

Any matured advice would be highly appreciated from the house.

It would interest the house to know that I am under 40 years old and a PhD. D holder in XXXXX in one of the foremost and most prestigious Federal University in Nigeria where I lectures. I have a First honours in XXXXXX in the same university. I was among the top three best graduating student in my Department and was adjudged best student in WASCE during my secondary school days; Best graduating student in my Department at the OND level before seeking and gaining direct entry admission into a Federal University; Won an award for best student at the 300 level in my Department that year. I was a committed member of Deeper Life despite coming from a Muslim. I still remember how my brother and I used to sneak out the house just for rehearsal that year. I was a member of the youth choir that year and I can still remember playing an active role in evangelizing and teaching search the scripture that year. I still remember going to music class that year and playing an active role in my school fellowship. Everything I am experiencing today is 100% my fault. How could I have fallen in love so blindly and got married to a member of a sect called "Grail Message: In the Light of the truth" without a comprehensive background check. Yes, she got pregnant for me outside wedlock which I take 100% responsibility for but still I shouldn't have allowed her cajoled and pushed me into marrying her talk less of having a court wedding. Do you know that this woman is holding on to the fact that she has children for me and that we did court wedding to do whatever she liked with full support from the mum. Do you know that this woman is very good at reporting everything that happens in my home to her mother? She wants a government job and nothing else. I tried my possible best to get her into my institution without success and she knows this. A woman that has never lack anything since we got married but has never been grateful for once in her life for all I have done to keep the home running. A woman that sees the family problem as solely my problem. I have been a member of Nairaland for years but decided to open this account to keep my identity private. I know for sure that if she happens to stumble on this thread she would definitely put 2+2 together to arrive at the conclusion that I am behind this thread. However, I do not care what she thinks or do anymore. I have already told her yesterday that I am through with her and I mean it. I still believe however that it isn't too late to change the narrative of my life. For all the guys’ out there forming 'I am in love' please and please open your eyes before you take that step to settle down with the woman of your dream as that lady could either make or mar you for life.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Me nor dey do dating and love plus mumu romance

Once i bang you i dey discharge you shaperly before you start to dey build bungalow or three bedroom flat for my heart

But some way don reach to marry still dey try hold me down for sometime.

Them go begin display zombie character. But girls dey mumu follow boys sha once them don reach to marry but them never see husband
First of all them go dey pet you. Check on you.
Even if you nor get one naira them nor go demand from you. Them go do everything to make you happy. I remember when one of our plasma TV spoil. I broke that period. No money to repair am. Na so this girl carry my tv by herself go repair with her own ten thousand naira..

If na you dey wrong them go apologize! If na them dey wrong them go still apologize
Any small issue. Na them first dey beg make the relationship nor go end or make you nor discharge them
But still me as a real niggarrr dey discharge them anyday anytime twice on Saturday

But the thing be say that experience na bad experience for females. Nor be wetin women supposed dey wish for because boys dey use them well well especially when them Notice say the woman dey in a hurry to marry.
Boys go make shakara for such woman ehnn
That is why me dey advise girl to quick marry to avoid such experience.

You are just a kid.

zuby4real10:
She was so desperate to the extent that even if she wants to give or collect something from me she has to kneel small. Always calling me her husband. She is more than 100% nice and submissive.she is the only lady that I have ever see that didn't wait for her man to introduce her to his family. I don't even know how she got my mum's number nd start communicating with her. I single handed sponsored her 3 years NCE education. From the comments I am seen here on nairaland is as if as I am the only man that sponsored a lady's education with out regrets uptil date. My only problem with this lady is that she and her family are so poor to the extent that they see me as their meal ticket, as if as am the best thing that ever happens to them. I thinked about the liability of marrying this girl and her family own I run. Uptil now the lady is still waiting and begging for me to come back. She is always asking what she did wrong. I beg I no fit kill myself, love and loyalty alone can not sustain a marriage cos they can't pay bills.

You made a mistake by dating a poor girl, maybe you enjoy how her family worships you. This might sound hard but the truth is you should endeavour to date only girls that are in same income bracket with you. You don't get to see a lot of shit unlike when you're dating a low/no income girl. Don't let her big yansh or breast fool you. There are also high earning big yansh and breast.

The only draw back with educated, high earning girls in most cases is they see themselves as your equal.

zuby4real10:
She was so desperate to the extent that even if she wants to give or collect something from me she has to kneel small. Always calling me her husband. She is more than 100% nice and submissive.she is the only lady that I have ever see that didn't wait for her man to introduce her to his family. I don't even know how she got my mum's number nd start communicating with her. I single handed sponsored her 3 years NCE education. From the comments I am seen here on nairaland is as if as I am the only man that sponsored a lady's education with out regrets uptil date. My only problem with this lady is that she and her family are so poor to the extent that they see me as their meal ticket, as if as am the best thing that ever happens to them. I thinked about the liability of marrying this girl and her family own I run. Uptil now the lady is still waiting and begging for me to come back. She is always asking what she did wrong. I beg I no fit kill myself, love and loyalty alone can not sustain a marriage cos they can't pay bills.

Glad you at least sponsored her in school. If a lady is poor and nice there's nothing wrong with helping her. Most guys just use and dump her.

iamyemiakins:
Have you ever dated someone who desperately wanted to get married when you were not ready?



How was the experience?

Yes I have meet and I have dated a few unseriously tho. Nobody tells me what to do and rushes me with their programs.

Told them they were free to go and do what they liked. There are many people in this world u can marry. I wud like to think.

Marriage is not a thing of desperation.

Blackmoran:
Yea my ex..... She came all the way from benue to leave with me, every day she keeps bombarding me with pictures of people wedding, fantasising on babies and us having kid together... Though this girl was cool she is homely can cook clean and kind of intelligent to spice it up my family loves her so much especially my dad, she has this free spirit personality.. But my instinct wasn't good with the idea it was too good to be true.. And secondly I wasn't ready financially to take on the burden of marriage but this girl never mind.... During December she travelled with my junior sister to his home town, to cut the story short I followed my instinct and today am a surviver of what would have given me heart attack....... During the thick of the moment she started showing are true colour, that homely girl started showing arrogant trait, the change was fast that I thought this can't be true... I did the right thing I broke up with her... Though my dad was sad about it but I let him know I know her more Than Them and what she portray is not who she is... A week after we brokeup my junior sister gave me the shocking news of my life.... That my ex was pregnant. . I didn't believe her cause We haven't had sex up to 4 months meaning when she was with me she was banging another dick... I waited till eight month later to find out she gave birth to a baby boy...and here let me burst your brain the father of the baby was my best friend who I trust so much...na that one pain me pass ... Lesson when a girl is trying to rush you into marraige run for your life.... If you want to get married do it at your convenient time... All girls would be at there good behavior during courtship, this one even take it to the extreme she even dey cut grass for compound... Na after marriage woman go show you are real colour....

Thank God u escaped oo. If nt u would hv veen fathering another mans child without knowing

What happened?

shestrong:
Yes ! nd it was a disaster.

Yes.....it didn't end well.

She will destroy you! She will want to use pregnancy to rope you in. Very dangerous relationship when you meet such ladies.

she said her mom wants to see me...mo ya japa