Kizzygentle:

Easier said.

Princedapace:


Marriage is commitment and a very big one. I'm grateful that none of the religious laws made it a must. So, one anyone is not ready to make such commitment, forget marriage. Remain single and enjoy ur freedom.

Once u are married, u have it as a duty to meet the needs of ur partner sexually. There is nothing like rape in marriage.

anslem04:



Sex in marriage has almost all necessary laws & religion support, your answerable cos rape doesnt exist within the context of marriage .. from laws & religion there are no provisions that can justify rape applies in marriage.
The fact that husbands/boyfriends must alway make the move for sex aint helping matters .... marriage is all about sacrifices not when convenient ... it forcing my wife does not violate any laws or religion then it shuldnt be discussed as like a crime or sin.
On what grounds are you judging rape in marriage ??

Kizzygentle:
Rape is rape. And the definition remains the same be it Marital or not. If she is not in the mood let her be. If taken by force it is RAPE.. Married or not it is RAPE and there should be a penalty for it.

MoodyQueen:


I hope your source is official.
And this isn't just a prejudice.
Give me a link to this as written in the law.

Hathor5:


In sickness you want to do her? Tell her and her family before they accept the bride price so that they know what kind of person they are dealing with right from the start or before that.

Davash222:
But what if the woman is not in the mood for sex or tired and the husband forces himself on her by taking it by force, is it not marital rape?



Yes it's rape, we know, but going to report to police or other agencies is what I don't understand.

Imagine the scenario you walk into any Nigeria police station and you start telling the officer in charge, I was not in the mood, was weak and tired yet my husband had sex with me. The officer will first ask you, what happened to your mood?

My apologies, l get you and l hear you loud and clear on the issue of equality of sexes. The feminnazis are reading you and will soon come for your head, just watch.

As to the other issue, l think Men and Women are POWERFUL ENOUGH to have their way, they just have different ways of using their power because their kind of strnegth is different. My wife regularly makes ne do things for her, that l dont want to do because she knows how to exercise her "Female Strength", including Sex![/sub]

b]The important thing is that we dont use Violence to achieve our aims.

Hmmm.... you think once a man does not fight off a woman for trying to have unwanted sex with him, that means he is enjoying it?
Can we then sa, using the same logic, that once a woman does not fight-off a woman giving her unwanted sex, then she is enjoying it?[/quote

cococandy:
it should be common sense but I guess not in this case. Especially since humans are the one who make laws.

Many things are illegal that shouldn’t be and many are legal and shouldn’t be. Does it take away from the wrongness or rightness of any of those things if we go by the golden rule of being to others as we want them to be to us?

One4me:


Sorry, you are WRONG!
Sex is a Duty from one spouse to the other.. IN MARRIAGE.
It is called Conjugal Rights in the Law books, please check it out first before you argue.

- "Sexual Consent" is given in a marriage, at the point of taking the Marriage vows.
- That Consent subsists, as long as the marriage Subsists.
- That Consent can be withdrawn by a Dissolution of the marriage.

Cherez:

No need forcing yourself on her
Use of strength is abuse.
Personally, if she begins to play with sex I'll resort to my own play too

One4me:


Dog-Poo!
How come you cant even understand that Conjugal RIGHTS, includes 'RIGHT to Sex' with your Spouse?

manikspears:


Moody Queen ...... first of all,I want to apologize on behalf of all the guys that have hurt you.we are very sorry and we promise to never to do it again.

With that cleared ,when a man and a woman commits to a relationship there is nothing like rape. You can't go and report to your parents that your husband impregnated you after raping and you will be taken serious.this is because everyone expects you to fu*k eachother (anyhow). That is why you have a marriage certificate to back that up. if the poor guy sleeps with another person you will call him a scum. Consider us too now, you know we are born to like this thing.

One4me:


Imagine o!
See farting through all orifices in the last two hours just because they told you there is nothing like rape in marriage?

In Oshiomole's voice: Go and Die.
Yeeye dey smell.

byteem:


I see a lot of ignorance here and if it wasnt funny it would be annoying.. why is marriage so unique.. why do you think marital vows are important.. once you marry someone consent is given.. either at the alter or in court or even before the elders.. a man cannot be accused of raping his wife.. because the principal element of rape is lack.of consent which is already given .. he can be charged with indecent assault. Battery or any other but not rape.. this applies to most other parts of the world.. that's why divorce is also very important. It takes away that element of consent .. people read...

Kizzygentle:

What you fail to understand is that you can't cheat nature no matter the law. Once your body is not ready for something just let it be. So In a nut shell, u can force sex against ur wife's wish. All the best.

OgbanjeProphet:
Anita is right. But...
There is marital rape oohh
If you wife or husband has sex with you while you are sleeping, it's a rape.

Cherez:

This reason is lame
So my body is tired from a vigil on Sunday night & I'm so weak to go to work on a Monday morning;
I'll just call my manager and tell him.i can't come to work cos I can't cheat nature no matter what?
Will you support a man who insists he isn't emotionally sound to pay his dues in the family when he has the funds?
Isn't that man stupid?

One4me:


Big, Fat Lie!
Which kain rest?
Have you never seen a woman batter her husband, just because he refuses to have sex with her?
Some of you guys need to win yourself of this kowtowing to female demands, just to appear fashionable and liked, like a ladies man.

This 'Rape in Marriag' nonsense actually has NOTHING to do with Rape.
It is a long term Project by Feminazzis and Men-hating women, to harmstring men, tame men, make them obedient to women, emasculate them of any right of being a man and put them ona leash, like they put a Dog!

There is a simmering, underground war for some years now, between the GENDERS!
Some Women will tell you "men are Scum, Men need to be castrated, Men dont deserve all they suffered for in the past, men are the cause of Women's problem, bal bla bla and they are OUT to fight, revenge and put men back in their place, SUBJUGATE MEN, like in the Amazon.

Most men just hear them and just laugh it-off but if you know women, once they st their hearts to gettingsomething, they are ruthless and relentless.
They have skewed the issue of Rape and made it "a man's vice". For them, all Men are first rapist until proven not to be so.

They are also hell-bent on siezing corporate power from men, whether they deserve to be corporrate leaders or not.

They know Men are fighters and would fight for their own survival hence they have devised "subtle schemes" that uses something that is acceptable to the world, to achieve their sinister motives. Something like rape and domestic Violence

They have also recruited some Men that we know as WIMPS, Sissy-men, men who think they are not men until a woman says so, weak men that should actually be castrated because they are a disgrace to manhood, these are their foot soldiers.

If you know Women, you will agree with me that they can be very manipulative but these wimps dont even know they are being manipulated.
They will quote Bible where it suits them but they cant drill the Bible into the women's head where it says "the Man is the Head of the Woman" or where it says the Man is the Lord of his wife. That part of the Bible is rubbish to them

Since Women cannot win a physical war with men, they have chosen to use issues like rape, domestic violence, things they know we can all relate with, to get at Men and make it easy to incarcerate men.
Once anything is Law, be it justified or not, it is the law and would be applied to full force.

All these women shouting marital rape here: ask them why cant they just avoid men, dont marry men, exercise your full independence and no man can tell you he has any right over your body ?
Na lie, they would still go ahead to marry one unfortunate man because t[b]heir intent is to destroy him and take over whatever he has laboured for
Look at what is happening with the laws of Divorce and how Domestic violence is being used to the advantage of Women in divorce cases.
That should worry any man with sense[/b].

So, Men and all beautiful women with a beautiful heart, must be ready to protect the interest of Men.
Rarely would you see a man treat a Woman who respects him and does not cheat on him unfairly, because Men are created by God to love their Women, protect them and work hard to please them. Look all around you and you will see evidence of these.

That one or two men misbehave (and there are thousands of women that do worse things), should not be an excuse to make laws to cage all men and make them leave in fear of women.
This is what Women want. and "rape in marriage" is one of their strategies
Women are always waiting and calculating, ready to sieze the opportunity. Men too must be wary, observant and prepared to ensure Justice.

Women want to use this recent rape cases, which research has shown, has increased world over, due to the lockdown as a result of Covid-19.
A lot of Men are on lockdown in the house, instead of being out working and as such, Sex becomes a ready alternative.
While not in support of Rape (real Rapist dont deserve any mercy), Women see this as an opportunity to shake the system and quickly panic the wimps in Govt to legislate and make laws that will put a man at a disadvantage and endanger the lives of Husbands, even in their own House!

I dont mind laws that treat both sexes equally, just make sure that the same definition of rape apply to Women, dont say it is men that rape.
If Sex with one' spouse can be considered as Rape then anytime a wife touches her husbands' genitals and does not GET HIS CONSENT before having Sex with him, then she should also be charged for Rape and his word taken for it.
Women know how dangerous that would be for them, so they dont want that, they just want the law to be against Men so that they can use it to hunt their Husband or Men in general, just as they use domestic Violent laws to destroy men.
This is just one more step forward in their war against Men.

For those men who are yet to open their brain and see the "big picture", most of them become Victims when it is too late.
Dont be limited in your thinking otherwise, you will have yourself to blame.
Just seek equal laws for Men and women, ask that whatever applies to a man should also apply to a woman, that is the least you can do.

The good thing is that there are lovely, beauriful women with a good heart out there, who have seen through the scheming of their fellow women and they are speaking out too (Like the one in the video) bu tthere fellow women are chasing them down like rabbits.

Men should be Vigilant, dont start forming invincible because Women say you are strong or men dont cry or they try to hoodwink you by saying 'be a real man", all na lie. We both have blood flowing in our viens.
Defend your Rights to the hilt, dont let women hoodwink you. Remeber that it was the Woman who decieved the Man, it was Women that destroyed the strongest men, strongest Kings. be Vigilant, be wary.

Kizzygentle:

I just realise that u wanna twist the whole idea to your favour because u won't tolerate a wife saying to when she is not in d mood. My brother when u are married u can always force ur wife when she is not in d mood because that time will definitely come. Maybe you already doing that already if your married. Forcing sex on your wife makes her hate u. You would loose her when u force sex. Just an advice.

Zeeknow3245:

I understand from your plight ehn. I am not justifying women for their problems they have caused but most times we must be critical in our judgement you know? I do not support feminism but I do support love. How many of you can take a bullet for your wife? Christ never forced the apostles to respect him he earned it.So do what is right to earn respect.
He was their servant. Now tell me how many men do housechores here in Nigeria (<2%) of the population. You expect that woman to come from work, do the dishes, bathe the children,cook while as the man you sit down in the parlour watch TV and then get served? Tell me if this is love. If she takes this to her family members they will tell the woman that she is the wife and that is her responsibility. Nigerian culture is an antagonist to love. Love does not mean giving money as upkeep for family(although it is mandatory but feminist should know if a man brings 50% the woman brings 50% as well) buying things for her,taking her out. Little things matter and this little things is love. My uncle abroad with his working class wife do domestic work and dem no born am well make he try nonsense USA law go finish am.

One4me:


If it is UNLAWFUL, it is unlawful and the Courts would rule against it.
If it is LAWFUL, it is lawful and the Courts would rule in favour of it.
Its either your RIGHT or not your RIGHT.
Conjugal Rights are Dee ights entitled to, by married couples. Finito.

The law does not operate on "Per se".

Cherez:

How do people even enjoy forced sex?
A single no from the lady in limp talk more force
How's it twisting?
Bros, my obligation to my wife and kids are nearly 99% non-negotiable.
How can one say he doesn't feel like doing his job?
Guy, it's a duty to satisfy your wife/hubby.
Now you encourage the women to say no to their husbands at every little reason?
Sickness and other serious matters are out of this but repeated actions of denial makes no sense.
However, no man should use force as I agree it's beastly

One4me:


My wife is nothing like 'Poor', unlkie most of you baggaged feminazzis.
She is a beautiful woman, with a beautiful heart, a woman that appreciates marriages, respects her husbands and gets fussed over with plenty of love. My Body is hers for the taking and her body is mine for the taking, every inch of it and it has been like that for a very long time now.

Honestly, l really pity women with aggressive and hateful mentality like yours, you dont know what you are missing in a marriage.
What kind of man will you marry? One Muumu, wussy, stand-there nd raise-up your hand poor guy raised in fear of women, by another feminnazi like yourself?
But please, save yourself the heartache, dont marry a Man.

bloomstar:
That tweet where that lady was calling anita a fool is too outrageous, all i see in the tweet is hatred. So much hatred.

We put more concern and so much energy on some less meaningless things...

Wife should be submissive to the husband. It's simple as abc, if you know you cant, why say i do in the first place?

I mean we should be more concern that Nigeria is heading to doom. Imagine tinubu and atiku contesting again for presidency?