I realized I have no advice for you when I got to the abortion part

So, whatz stopping u?

Then waka if you no ready. She is a flower.

I don't tolerate such threats.

Lol.. Then simp pls marry her now now.

What are you still waiting for? Go for d catch na.

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

If you are ready to settle down with her, DM. I will support you with N100,000. Best of luck

Why didn't you put the innocent ring on it, now you gone loose your girl!��

Dump her now

marry her na

If u strongly feel she's worth it, Mr. Man go ahead, nothing do u? But @ 22 I feel she's still young, anyways she isn't underaged anyways!! So do as u pls, is ur call and no one else's!

na by Force to marry? dump her before she dumps u.

Oh boy ,it’s better you marry that girl now else you will regret not doing so later.I was in the same situation twelve years ago and was forming never ready as at then even until now,which comes with lots of regrets and the lady has moved on happily married with children while am still single doing Yuppy guy at over 40yrs old.Even some friends that were not doing very well then,but got married are coand doing well now with their grown up children .
So if the girl really loves you and being an understanding type ,I will advise you go ahead and marry her now.Its hard to find a good woman these days and a man will never be ready for marriage even if you click 50yrs old.
Talking from personal experience .

Okay na are you financially ready?

Oga go an face d challenge once n for all.. What if that money u dey find never comes at all nko until age 40

mrfranky:
Please Mods help push this to front page i need more advise please...

Have been caught up in a difficult situation. I have been dating this my lovely girlfriend for more than a year now. She is beautiful, humble, kind and a good girl. She is from a good family too. The parents are not too rich just average and doing very well. They are 2 girls and 3 boys and the elder sis is more of a slay queen i.e so beautiful and refuses to marry so the mother is hoping on this my girl to settle down, always encouraging her to settle down.

Now I am 29 years and I really love this girl and she loves me more than i actually love her, always ready to do my biding. She is just 22 and I wish to marry her someday but my finances are low. I have met the father and he said he doesn't need anything from me only things for the kinsmen or whatever but my parents are the opposite. Infact my dad won't even entertain my thought of getting married now because despite am staying alone, i still get small stipends from him monthly so he knows am not financially independent.

To cut the long story short.. My girl is pregnant again after several abortions in the past and she is refusing to take pills. She wants to keep this one and is urging me to come pay her bride price so we can move in together. This was not my dream way of getting married. I don't have a problem with her keeping the child but I just cannot marry now with my monthly salary of 40k which am struggling to feed and pay bills.

Please I need advice.
Pls no insult I knw the abortion act is wrong n never intended for her to take in again but it keeps happening...

Help me please i dont want to lose this lovely princess because she promise to end the relationship if she has to take another pill.

you go do stupid things, you will come here and be saying NO INSULT op, your head no correct,did your dad know of the abortions and the current pregnancy? you are so irresponsible, at 29, you better get your head off your dad's arse and man up

Dump the I.d.iot.

Òde marry her nw

How can you be earning 40k and you're fucking a girl without condom? How could you be destroying a young girl's life by making her do abortion, not once, not twice? You're not a good person and you no come get sense join. I pity the poor girl

Truth is if you don't Marry it will cause a big upset in your life... Any curse she lay on you must work because of the numerous abortions she has undergone for you in the past.

Your best bet now will be to make her a baby mama since you aren't ready yet but her parents will be utterly disappointed in you.

It's a dilemma but feasible

T

She is in order. If you are not ready for her, someone else is...

Modified: She is pregnant She has been having abortions Just marry her already!

Only a lady who signals you are wasting her time will tell u such. And mind u she has other suitors who are desperate to marry her but its u she wants to be with thus the threat.

Wahala dey ooooo no go marry when u never ready ooo to avoid stories that touch

Na wa oo

She is pregnant for someone and need u as a cover. Bros be wise

COMPLETE WHAT YOU STARTED AND MARRY HER PLEASE

CHAI !! God abeg swerve this kind of girls from our path

How can you be knacking raw when you're broke? Are you trying to be unfortunate?

What kind of irresponsible idiots are going into these 'relationships' these days? A 22-year old girl has had multiple abortions already. 22!

God forbid for some of you. Trash relationships. Foolish People.

OP you're mad! You don't want to marry but common to withdraw is so difficult for you, you people that always ejaculate in the vj were you people expecting the sperm to just behave like water?