goodysb:


Thanks bro

Go collect your phone anyhow abeg. No dulling things.

Enugupikin:

Please collect your phone OP...there is nothing like immaturity here..she's a scammer

You labeled the girl op describe as a scammer not the girl in reality. OP could just be an AFC. So look before you leap

mutantninja:


lol bro nothing like bigger than... they're genuine hardworking good people that need that phone... collect back your phone and give a young girl that is hardworking and straightforward and see how God will bless you this year.. or forever remain a fool...

Abi now no taim oo my brother

stanliwise:
You labeled the girl op describe as a scammer not the girl in reality. OP could just be an AFC. So look before you leap

So you the gal in real life? We can only form an opinion based in what op said and not a mere assumptions of what else you think

goodysb:

Good point. Can I talk with you privately bro?

My pleasure bro, quote me in a dead thread or give me a PM bro.

SweetCunt97:
The pussy is meant to b fvcked so I don't see how giving it its job is a punishment. Lolz. Funny men. Dem go tag u rapist soon.

Exactly what I want to educate him on..you can't use ordinary fuckkk to punish a lady, the pussyy is meant to be fuckedd

stanliwise:
There is no gain in acting mad over your own mistake. When he was buying the phone for her! Was he under duress? So why not take responsibility and accept your own fault. You act mad when someone try to suppress you not when you foolish take a wrong action. If he wants his phone let him just ask the girl plainly and get it. Nothing like acting mad is necessary here

I specifically dropped what the word entails in this context afterward in brackets.

The summary of him acting " mad " isn't case of grammar and the primary meaning of what it entails in actual situation.

In summary. Being mad in this situation doesn't v to be hardcore or forceful, It's about getting the phone back as against maturity advices being given to be applied.

Enugupikin:

Exactly what I want to educate him on..you can't use ordinary fuckkk to punish a lady, the pussyy is meant to be fuckedd

Na that one u go chook mouth well untop

SweetCunt97:
Na that one u go chook mouth well untop

Lol..yes naw hanty

Damn

Collect the phone back asap
Find another person dash ah swear this year Go Mara mma for you.

goodysb:


the phone I bought for her is nothing to me.

Young man, what exactly do you want? Do you want your phone back or you need advice on how to nail her?

WeedSeller:



I specifically dropped what the word entails in this context afterward in brackets.

The summary of him acting " mad " isn't case of grammar and the primary meaning of what it entails in actual situation.

In summary. Being mad in this situation doesn't v to be hardcore or forceful, It's about getting the phone back as against maturity advices being given to be applied.

It depends if he bought the phone for her just for her to bend to his appeal then fine. If not I see no reason why collecting the phone is any need. If it is something you can give out why all of a sudden you now need it. It just prove your ulterior motive. Different strokes sha

Timaya her

goodysb:
Hello Everyone, I met this girl about a month ago (same day her phone got missing) and we started talking etc... She usually calls me every morning, afternoon and night(and I would call her back too) using her senior sister's phone... I would get her anything she wants, treated her well.... We would talk and I noticed how she was behaving and thought she'd be straight with me, so I told her I would get her the phone by month end... Not that I couldn't get her the phone the next day but I just purposely delayed it(3 weeks) and when month end came I added extra week to see how she reacts and then I got her the phone but since I got her the phone she just changed and stopped doing all she used to do, I noticed and played along to see where she's heading to... It's more than a week since I got her the phone and I noticed she hasn't changed... I thought about giving her a second chance and then she did something that annoyed me... I sent a very angry voice note and some messages but she didn't reply for about a day and I thought of it and noticed she was playing a game, so I said I would play along too... So I acted dumb and called her to apologize that I said what I said out of anger(To me I really mean it) and explained to her that I listened to the notes and didn't find it interesting (I never did), so what I am doing now is I want to get what I gave her back because noticed a very big change and again because she might be telling her friends that I don chop this guy(which I don't like hearing), so after our argument, I already predicted that she'd want to ask me for something after two days and truly she asked me this morning for money to buy slippers of 4k... I didn't want to show any signs that I am aware of what she's doing.. so I told her.. let's be looking sha (which means I will get it)... So I planned to play along and take her out of our environment to somewhere that's calm, so I would then collect the phone back from her and give her her sim card.

P.s. I predicted it might play out like this but wanted to test her to see... Could have gotten her an iPhone.


I would really appreciate you guys input �

Then take SO swear for you niiii....

Dating Nigerian girls is like taking care of an orphan.

If you know, you know.

frugal:


Young man, what exactly do you want? Do you want your phone back or you need advice on how to nail her?

Yea, I want the phone back.

Any money you give to a lady that is not your mum, sister or wife should be better off given to charity or used for some venture that could yield interest.

Any money given to ladies other than those above should be considered wasted. I learnt the hard way to be frugal with my money with ladies these days.

mutantninja:


lol bro nothing like bigger than... they're genuine hardworking good people that need that phone... collect back your phone and give a young girl that is hardworking and straightforward and see how God will bless you this year.. or forever remain a fool...

why not a young boy that is hardworking ...

Update guy's, I got her to show up for meeting on Monday... My plan was when she show.. I walk around with her and try to get my hands on the phone... I would love to hear what you guys think or is there a better way? Thanks.

All these timid gentlemen.
But you supposed chop heavy knock for this kind falling hand sha
So you actually bought her a phone just like that.

goodysb:
Update guy's, I got her to show up for meeting on Monday... My plan was when she show.. I walk around with her and try to get my hands on the phone... I would love to hear what you guys think or is there a better way? Thanks.

is your name on the receipt? If yeah, the best way to collect the phone is

Tell her to snap you with her phone. Then tell her you want to view the pic, then gbam! Collect it and remove the sim.. but be ready for her brutal retaliation oo.. she might accused u of something u didnt do and you know our society, they believe women's story...




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But if I were you , I would leave it for her, not because I mumu, but because I dont want my reputation soiled..



Trust me the girl will go any length to retaliate..

That is why we always advocate for REDPISM, any money spent on ANY women is considered "wastage"....



If you spend money on ANY women, it is not recoverable ( there might be exception cases though ) ...







So these days bro,, I no dey give or borrow woman money ( the one I give money to is my mama and that is because she really suffered for me, I see am with my eyes)



A girl dey find me come tomorrow, I don already gave her list of what she would get along for me when coming to my side tomorrow..


I kon dey pull her legs say "abi u no go get am ?" She said "I dont have much, but I go try "




NAIJA GIRLS are worthless in one way or the other .. anyone who doesnt agree to the bolded is a BIG TIME SIMP who is going to regret it directly or indirectly

stanliwise:

First thing first, you gave her the phone as a gift, let it be, the most immature thing you can do is for you to collect it back.

She owes you nothing for buying her a phone and don’t expect she behaves like the way you wanted.

Next time don’t act angry if she misbehaves, it only shows your immaturity and high level of frustration. If a girl finds out their actions frustrates you then you are done for. Act angry only when she is trying to play with your intelligence or don’t keep to what she promised or when she does something physical to you. Other games of silent and not answering calls shouldn’t make you act angry even if you are truely angry. If e too pain just simply state it to her in a calm tone once and leave it.

She asked you for something and the worst reply you gave her in this context is that let’s see. I call it timid. Simply tell her you don’t have the money or you can‘t get it now and don’t promise her any date. Giving a girl is your decision and purely your decision don’t let anyone push you.

Now she has the guts to ask you for phones and slippers, mirror same energy and guts and ask her exactly what you want, if you want a relationship, be bold and brazen. Ask her! If she don’t want to agree to your terms then fine you too act lackadaisical to her own terms too.

Stop feeling low and ashamed your are been played, if she is telling her friends what you think then let it be. Once bitten twice shy.

From now stop putting her only in your basket, be open minded and seek any other female available.

Please give her just the same attention she gives you. If she start showing 40% readiness, then you too 40%. Just ensure you sometimes take the lead in doing thing and wait for her to reciprocate before another one.

Please please leave the phone for her. Next time she does something obviously wrong, I mean obviously wrong which doesn’t warrant a physical reaction just jejely call her and tell her without any show of anger in your face. Then forget it. Only in cases where issues are severe you should act angrily. E.g she cheat on you or lie to you or steal from you or implicate you. Aside this moment don’t act angrily in front of a girl it gives her a sense of Unnecessary importance And shows your frustration.

Next time don’t ever give people something in-expectation that they would behave nicely, the best moment to give someone a gift is when you realized they need it, either because you noticed it or they inform you about it. At all cost avoid giving people things that are not necessary especially when it come to a girl that thinks you admire her. And your giving should be based on your own agreement not out of persuasion.

Girl are complicated

Guy forget this long epistle because of woman, I bought one small Nokia of around 4K for one girl like that after she said she’s no more interested, I collected my phone back, removed her sim and memory card. Only a simp talk the way you do.

mutantninja:
bro forget what anyone tells you, as long as it's a phone above 10k, collect it back else you're a big f00l... you're not in America and she's not a classic girl.. if you see a classic girl you will know... collect back your phone or forever remain a big fool.

The sweetest feeling on earth is collecting back what you gave your cheater.... that way no one loses... i remember when i collected back x10 of a cheater girlfriend and all the good things I gave her... i felt very even... collect back your phone bro and reward any female friend you know that has been nice and hard working... don't be a f00l.. you haven't even gain anything from this girl yet you're buying her a phone Jesus! in fact falsely get accused of stealing that same phone you bought for her guys will burn you to death and she'll laugh at you because you are a fool....

To any guy reading this, collect back the phone, car, etc you gave to a cheater as long as the deal (relationship either sexual/not etc) does not favor you.. can you let your fellow nigga cheat you? you will carry gun but you let a female use your head..... collect it back... you can trick her the same way she tricked you to buy the phone.. just tell her the police is doing an investigation of the phone from where you bought it from that you need to use it to verify.. remove the sim and give her...

Quote me and tell me how it went when you finish collecting back your phone from the girl..

The same thing happened to me around 2017, I bought a small phone of around 4K for this girl and she later started acting up like this same story the OP wrote, I collected my phone back, gave her the sim and memory card. I hate when a girl think she’s wise, the best thing the OP should do is to get his phone back, don’t listen to that simp saying he should leave it, no be only leave the phone na left the phone. Nonsense.

ehmmy11:



Very good if you have extra cash and the phone receipt is in your name and with you, walk to a close police station and reason with a jasi officer or if your paddies can connect you with an officer wen sabi ..you can get her invited to the station or arrested(illegal Sha) when you get there change story for her head that you sold the phone to her on credit and she refused to pay you since and you want your phone back show your receipt with ur name on it and relevant info after all no evidence you guys were dating and na arrangee with police... Collect your phone and feel better like a boss ..


Since she wanna be mad and smart show her say she be learner if story change ...call me bitter but i no send i hate manipulators ( you sef mess up but the deed is already done)

Oh man

Enugupikin:

I don't know why u guys waste your energy and time fuckingg gals hard as a punishment, something they end up enjoying better than u...he should just collect the damn phone and move on

Same thoughts here, I wonder for that FIFA world cup.

Kryptonvinyl:


Oh man

Desperate times call for desperate measures

OKOATA:
Guy forget this long epistle because of woman, I bought one small Nokia of around 4K for one girl like that after she said she’s no more interested, I collected my phone back, removed her sim and memory card. Only a simp talk the way you do.

You are an AFC. You buy 4K for someone and she told you she is not doing again. I am laughing hard on you. No girl I ever took serious has ever had the guts to turn me down. Because I have the loyal control for any girl I date. And for me I don’t collect my gift, my gift are purely gift with no ulterior motives. I give girls gift when I like it. I don’t give gift because she look beautiful or because I want them to be with me. God forbid.

stanliwise:
Stop this mentality. Because you met the bad eggs doesn’t justify to advise people to act same. You should have learnt better from your experience, next time treat anyone whether girl or boy with same amount of seriousness they treat you like.

begone SIMP

Enugupikin:

So you the gal in real life? We can only form an opinion based in what op said and not a mere assumptions of what else you think

our advice to op will be applied in real life. When people come to report one-sides issues to you try to give them a one sided advice. Because they may have spiced things up. How are we sure OP is not the paranoid type of guy?

ibkonekt:


begone SIMP

AFC, Incase girl has frustrated you I could help you out. Men like us don’t do the reactive approach. We hold the key and girl are loyal to us. Because we use wisdom and not bitterness

Please read “The game”

SweetCunt97:
The pussy is meant to b fvcked so I don't see how giving it its job is a punishment. Lolz. Funny men. Dem go tag u rapist soon.

Its not about the sex act in itself...its the feeling of taking, dominating and winning from an ego standpoint. whether she enjoys the sex or not is not the guys damn business. he should just bang her and take his phone, dump her ass and block her.

stanliwise:
AFC, Incase girl has frustrated you I could help you out. Men like us don’t do the reactive approach. We hold the key and girl are loyal to us. Because we use wisdom and not bitterness

Please read “The game”

begone i say SIMP