Nairalanders, please advise a brother. I have a female friend of 45 years old and I am 36. We have been chatting and talking about marriage but not that serious. I want to start taking it serious with her soonest. Is it advisable to settle down with her considering the age difference 45 and 36, though she is respectful?
What are the advantages and disadvantages on our age sides, especially her age on child bearing?
Matured Advise Needed.
Thank you.

u want to marry ur elder sister ?

seriously, I think she is very much older than you.

....

try and look for someone you're older than.

Ohh Dammnn shiiitttt nigggaarr


my brother you don't need people's opinion before you can be happy...

I'll advise you should stick hook her up if you find happiness in her but her Kpekus go don dey Kalachs lol

Go and find out what menopause is then make your decision!

Sometimes I begin to doubt the authenticity of absord questions I see on a regular basis.

that's if you don't want children from her, then you are good to go

squash47:
u want to marry ur elder sister ?

seriously, I think she is very much older than you.

....

try and look for someone you're older than.

Ohh Dammnn shiiitttt nigggaarr

Sharap diaaa Mr Man

I'll rather marry my elder sister than all this 16years old girl of nowadays way there Kpekus wide like Borehole

sultanofdelta:
Nairalanders, please advise a brother. I have a female friend of 45 years old and I am 36. We have been chatting and talking about marriage but not that serious. I want to start taking it serious with her soonest. Is it advisable to settle down with her considering the age difference 45 and 36, though she is respectful?
What are the advantages and disadvantages on our age sides, especially her age on child bearing?
Matured Advise Needed.
Thank you.

What's her career/means of livelihood and why is she still unmarried till now?.... use your head because I don't want to hear killing and suicidal around lekki again

You know what is good for you. Nobody knows about her behaviour, if it's okay by you, age is just a number. Love doesn't depend on age difference

So, who you wan leave all these sweet, young girls with succulent breasts and fresh thighs for

You need a rethink bro.

Man, that's a 9yrs gap. It's not a brilliant idea!

Strongly suggest you abort mission. Or you'll be drag into a race of time with her to battle libido, fertility issues, incompatibility, and leadership.

She's respectful?? That's not enough.
There are lots of respectful younger women.

Be careful not to ensared yourself to misery.

Bola146:
You know what is good for you. Nobody knows about her behaviour, if it's okay by you, age is just a number. Love doesn't depend on age difference

My dear, in this scenario, age is not just a number.

IMAGINE SHE UPSETS YOU ONE DAY AND YOU CALL HER AUNTIE AGBAYA .

If you don't really care much about having babies, why not. The age difference is not much to me but if you were around 27 and she 36, it would have been better considering the fact that menopause is already setting in.

why u asking? if u dont mind the age difference marry her nau
everybody has free wil

Go for the money and forget ur sorrow.

sam4noow:


Ohh Dammnn shiiitttt nigggaarr

Sharap diaaa Mr Man

I'll rather marry my elder sister than all this 16years old girl of nowadays way there Kpekus wide like Borehole

so from your logic if 16 years old kpekus wide like borohole how 45 years old go be, na ocean, or universe abi?

The question is
Is it advisable for her to settle down with you?
Because lass lass na she go be the head of the family

Nobody can decide for you. You are the only one who has the answer.

sultanofdelta:
Nairalanders, please advise a brother. I have a female friend of 45 years old and I am 36. We have been chatting and talking about marriage but not that serious. I want to start taking it serious with her soonest. Is it advisable to settle down with her considering the age difference 45 and 36, though she is respectful?
What are the advantages and disadvantages on our age sides, especially her age on child bearing?
Matured Advise Needed.
Thank you.

You want to consider her because she is richer than you or she is more influential than you.
We know your type that you have been looking for gold or diamond ladies to dig from. Now that you have seen one. Our advice might not affect your decision because what you find is what you have gotten.
Enjoy your old woman while your fake love for her last....
Marriage Nah scam, wahali... One partner must scam the other partner.

Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.

Depends on the kind of person you are...

If you're the type that doesn't give a fvck about what people think and say about you... Then do it!


If you are the type that gives a Bleep, don't do it!

In summary, do what ever pleases you. Good luck!

You only Know the best thing for you

sultanofdelta:
Nairalanders, please advise a brother. I have a female friend of 45 years old and I am 36. We have been chatting and talking about marriage but not that serious. I want to start taking it serious with her soonest. Is it advisable to settle down with her considering the age difference 45 and 36, though she is respectful?
What are the advantages and disadvantages on our age sides, especially her age on child bearing?
Matured Advise Needed.
Thank you.

Chai.

So you want to come back here again later and irritate us saying that marriage na scam.

Lolz OP don see gold mine. Love ko loveth ni

Op, be sure it's not her money or wealth that is attracting you. Else, you are in for a rude shock!

Look well before you cross road!

You just want to shorten your lifespan. You better free yourself from her trap. She will be very sweet and romantic with you, until you get married. You better be wise. No woman harbors genuine respect for a man she's older than.

Also, menopause is around the corner. She's already aging faster than you can imagine. She's not a good choice. Let a man older than her we'd her.

Ask yourself why she couldn't get a man before this her age 45. You should think about this and don't let her charm and your feelings lead you astray.

At that age and she's still single. .why she no go dey respectful? All na cruise baba mi

At the end of the day
You have to decide for yourself

Good luck mate....

Have fun ..

this guy dey like cook story.

If you want kids no, if you do not want kids, then go ahead if she fits your ideal woman.

Guy, what is wrong with u? How will u be thinking of marrying a 45 yr old woman. She use charm block ur sense or u be gold digger. Let nobody deceive you, there's no benefit in marrying a 45 yr old woman. Go and look for one young lady and marry.