A friend of mine is asking and she needs help

I have been in a relationship with this guy for sometime now,we really meant business in this relationship cos we designed to marry each other,at a point i became careless with the affair cos of reasons I thought were reason enough ,he spoke to me severally over my actions but somehow I just didnt see myself listening ,partly because i was inexperienced and partly cos i thought there wasnt any need for the talks cos part though a very little part of his talks have been bothering on his being able to trust me with my male friends which am 1 million percent sure i have absolutely nothing with them,I mean I love this guy but i would accept i was careless.The last straw that broke the carmels back was that one morning he called me,i was supposed to be at work but was just chilling with a friend(male) nothing was going on,he asked where i was i said i was with a friend,and he asked could he know my friends name ,i found myself cutting the call,he called severally i kept busying the call,somehow i felt somehow telling him my friends name while my friend was there and knowing fully well that he wouldnt let go untill i tell him whom i was with and knowing him,he could possibly ask to speak with the person, am not doing anything with these guy i was with he was just a friend, but this has destroyed my relationship with the man i love, am not saying i was right in my actions but i dont know what to do to win him back, i suddenly realised all he has been telling me, everything now makes sense, i cant imagine throwing away the dreams we shared ,the plans we made , this thing is killing me, please advice me , what do i do to get him be the loving, caring and patient guy he always was.

The friend is you
You is the friend

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Use the way you ignored him to turn a better new leaf and be prayerful

Froshloaded:
The friend is you
You is the friend

A friend that has been bleeped can never be unfucked.

PrecioussB:

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when it comes to trust earning, issa lots of work! You just have to prove yourself you've changed and ready to respect your relationship over some silly flings

How can u be chilling in the morning with just a friend and doing nothing..


Am wondering o.

Dat means u slept in his place....

REGAINING TRUST ISN'T THAT EASY AT ALL, BUT KEEP DISTURBING HIM AND SHOW REMORSE

Honestly I don't see any problem here.

This is exactly what a girl did that made me dumped her. She has no female friends except male friends and she a type that listens to what other guys say.

Your friend need to pick one of those male friends she hang out with and let that guy be.

I can't stand a girl that keeps male friends. A girl that keeps male friends when she claims to be in serious relationship can't and won't make good home.

bullsh*t!!, just let it go is it by force if he doesn't trust you then fine jist let it be.

I know its you. See u in shiloh 20**

wonderful...
So people do have people's problem too. I can relate, that guy man go dey reason which kind girlfriend him get wey dey always enjoy male companies.
Well, u lost him, turn a new leaf and you'll meet another good guy. But when u do, becareful of those male friends that don't want you to have a happy love life.

Coder2Client:
This is exactly what a girl did that made me dumped her. She has no female friends except male friends and she a type that listens to what other guys say.

Your friend need to pick one of those male friends she hang out with and let that guy be.

I can't stand a girl that keeps male friends. A girl that keeps male friends when she claims to be in serious relationship can't and won't make good home.

The last sentence is just the truth. Many besties with different genders tend to develop feelings for each other overtime, they're just too scared to admit it. A lady with much male friends will almost always be caught in a string of complicated emotional affairs.

Your friend's(you) grammar is poor

My dear it's nice u actually realized what u did was wrong. Tbh u don't value that guy at all. Talking about trust are u ready to put the effort required? Are ready to be totally submissive? Are u ready give him the attention he needs and care for him? U have to work hard to get him to trust u cos u f-up big time if u really want to be wiv that guy.

I honestly wouldn't advice the guy to trust that your friend again.

This is poorly written,sorry to say.

Alexaonfleek:
This is poorly written,sorry to say.

watin concern you!

Shebi you lots are always carrying on as if the whole world revolves around you people. Every action requires a corresponding reaction. I pray you reap the consequences of your actions. I hope in every sincerity that your guy never considers your pleas and accept you back into his life. Nonsense.

My sister boy and girl no they do friend..its either the guy want something or the girl want something period..some girls call it bestie...its always end in �

blinking001:
Shebi you lots are always carrying on as if the whole world revolves around you people. Every action requires a corresponding reaction. I pray you reap the consequences of your actions. I hope in every sincerity that your guy never considers your pleas and accept you back into his life. Nonsense.

She asked for advice and not to be condemed so dont wish her bad but advice her no one is perfect am sure she had no bad intension

luckyedgal1:
My sister boy and girl no they do friend..its either the guy want something or the girl want something period..some girls call it bestie...its always end in �

thats what you think not all boys and girls become friends just to get some thing there still some genuie friends like me so when next YOU COMMENT Speak for your self

And if the roles were reversed?

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Honestly your friend should take her education serious, her grammar is just too poor.