I had this two girls i use to like the first one is always telling me to buy this for her and that, to take her on shopping and fancy restaurants, but the thing is that i just started looking down on her. I started feeling like she was like my pet Dog and i could do what ever i wanted with her, since she kept depending on me for every thing.
The second lady hardly asks for anything when we are together. Always wanting to pay the bills and doesn't even look like she needs me, and i kind of want to see her everyday because of her bossy attitude.
There was this time she told me that she likes being independent just like her mother, and will never want any Man to keep her at bay or meddle in her business.

My friends told me to follow the one that always depends on me because i will be able to control her while i kind of think there is some thing special to the independent lady
PS. I love them both
You guys should help me look into the matter

Forget this cruise...there are bigger issues at stake.

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Thegamingorca:
Forget this cruise...there are bigger issues at stack.

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Op you are economical with truth here, you can't possibly love both of them equally.
It is impossible to have equal feelings for both of them or else you want to deceive yourself or you don't know what you want.

Na wa! You know the right answer, stop asking kids questions here

engrMikemd:
Op you are economical with truth here, you can't possibly love both of them equally.

I do they both give me the same feelings

op if you dey cross road abeg look left, right, front and back

Being independent doesn't mean she's bossy, well that's how men will view it when a lady doesn't feel entitled and never ask for much, cuz it's weird. I think she's better sha, if this is the criteria you wanna base them on though.

Dependent babes (highly demanding)are somehow materialistic, and that's another palava on its own.

u can't love them both,
follow da one u love

Dem dey ask diz kind question??

Thank God i ddnt even read anything.

Good night for now until u make the mistake, then i will come back to read ur full gist of (b4 and after)

So u r double dating?
I wonder how u will love dem equally.. Fear some men
If is a girl now... They for don roast am finish

Phenomenal16:
So u r double dating?
I wonder how u will love dem equally.. Fear some men
If is a girl now... They for don roast am finish

Not like that just that am auditioning them both

Raydans:
If you don't want to run down on the longrun. Cut off the pest. When the money stops the love stops. #Simple

I will definitely try this

callmeRichie:
Being independent doesn't mean she's bossy, well that's how men will view it when a lady doesn't feel entitled and never ask for much, cuz it's weird. I think she's better sha, if this is the criteria you wanna base them on though.

Independent babes (highly demanding)are somehow materialistic, and that's another palava on its own.

She is not at all she buys all her stuff her self even if i offer to help her she gives me a capital No answer

mmars:

Not like that just that am auditioning them both

..u r not serious

Phenomenal16:
..u r not serious

I am seriously serious and if you want there is space for you too

mmars:

She is not at all she buys all her stuff her self even if i offer to help her she gives me a capital No answer

My brother, she's just a reserved gem. You know her the most now, check her in other areas too and if she's a goal, don't miss abeg.

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Answer: None

Simple solution: Remain single and find any available lady to cure your conji till you meet one who is worthy enough to carry your offspring, then preg her. Remain single forever.

Why?

Nigerian women are the most confused mammal on earth. You go for the independent one, she rubs feminism on your face and throws all decorum into the waste bin. You go for the dependent one, she suffocates you with unending financial needs.

Disclaimer: This is just an advice from me to you, I might not follow it myself.