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Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Faithful4real(m): 7:59am On Jun 29, 2020 |
spiralwedge: Ok in this generation marry 3 wives let me see how you will take care of them |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Lorenzop: 7:59am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Hypnotise: No issue....I won't wait up to a year, I will ball asap... 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by bolyviz(m): 8:00am On Jun 29, 2020 |
God bless u my brother.... That's d fact... Some people had this mindset, got married yet faced the same problem. Don't you know that most women do not deprive their guys of sex during courtship, yet the same women change after marriage.[/quote] |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by KevinDein: 8:01am On Jun 29, 2020 |
InvertedHammer:The curse of hypergamy. Always wanting more, never satisfied. 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Passionatebabe: 8:04am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Married men cheat 70% of the time because of sex deprivation. So they don't have a choice but to venture outside for satisfaction. This is why the sexual compatibility should not be undermine or taken for granted when dating. [/quote] I have seen a situation whereby a woman pretends to be sexually compatible with her husband to be, only to start the "sex is not food", "I am tired" mantra. Some women are ready to do anything to get married, but after the marriage they come out with their true colors 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Ygrette(f): 8:08am On Jun 29, 2020 |
ModestGal: Much love for this comment. I place good looks above money cos I can take care of myself. Nothing is more important to me than "independence". Then again, I come from a family of beautiful people so attractiveness in a potential spouse is important to me, it's what I'm used to. There are faithful men, but very few. My ex told me he's never cheated on his wife of 5 years, I believe him cos he was ever so faithful when we were an item. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Biodun1929(m): 8:11am On Jun 29, 2020 |
J111333: Best comment on the post. ... especially your second sentence. 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by 4ckz: 8:13am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Roon9: Happy married life bro. Don't worry, it doesn't happen to everyone. Just in this thread, some men admitted to facing the same problem. Still in this thread some men said they haven't encountered it. Once again, happy married life. 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Lamanii22(f): 8:14am On Jun 29, 2020 |
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Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Biodun1929(m): 8:15am On Jun 29, 2020 |
ibkonekt: I won't say all, but like 90%. I have a lot of married friends and 90% of them cheat cos their wives deprive them of sex for months on end. I don't even know why married women do this. Man and woman don't have the same type of wiring for sex, but women just judge things from their own point of view (how they feel), but understanding that man's sexual urge is 10 times that of woman. Anyway, there are some women out there who understand this...but just like 10% 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by YelloweWest: 8:19am On Jun 29, 2020 |
So any man that deprives his wufe from sex, the woman is free to cheat right? 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 8:20am On Jun 29, 2020 |
ModestGal: 1000000000 likes from here |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Hottdawgg: 8:22am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Biodun1929: I have not seen a well to do guy who complains of having inadequate sex at home. They are always broke ass dudes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by YelloweWest: 8:24am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Biodun1929:Your friends are lying cos they need an excuse to cheat! I can't believe what I'm reading here. I'm a married woman for over 15years. Women DON'T deprive their husbands!!! I have friends and associates. We discuss these things. I work as a marriage councillor too both in church and civil society. I've interviewed tons of women and couples together. Funny enough it is the men that deny their wives of sex because of cheating! 1 Like |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by madridsta007(m): 8:25am On Jun 29, 2020 |
4ckz: Women generally change immediately after marriage. Married women, who are honest, have told me this. This is what one should open up to and expect so you don’t get shocked. |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by delawal: 8:26am On Jun 29, 2020 |
a rich guy who,works in one,of d popular oil companies in naija once told us how he pays his own wife before sex, we couldnt believe him then |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by YelloweWest: 8:27am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Roon9: Nairaland is filled with crackheads naijabet addicts.... don't believe what you read here. I'm here for news not family talk. Marriage is good. I'm 15years and counting... happy married life. 2 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Biodun1929(m): 8:28am On Jun 29, 2020 |
YelloweWest: "Funny enough it is the men that deny their wives of sex because of cheating!" Lol! Very funny. I guess what happened was the men got tired of their wives denying them sex and after a couple of years, they had loyal side chics, which made the wives brains to reset, now she wants sex, but the man is no longer interested. By the way, you claim my friends are lying, but you believe your own friends? Lol! 6 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by bimtee2001(f): 8:30am On Jun 29, 2020 |
I read a lot of the replies here with amusement and surprise. Most of the married men don't understand the psychological make up of a woman while most of the women either do not understand themselves or have made up their minds to endure marriage rather than enjoy it. My understanding of a man from my study is that he gets turned on easily sometimes against his will; it's natural but for the woman to be turned on she has to be completely involved emotionally, physically, I mean it's not just a spontaneous reaction for her. That's why she'll not cooperate when she's worried,sad, angry,etc. Most of our mothers did us no good by preparing us wrongly or not preparing us at all for the sexual aspect of marriage. That's some women view sex as a man thing. If your wife belongs to this group you are in trouble because she'll only be there while you do the work. I tell it'll be laborious to say the least. Some or most women had been taught consciously or otherwise that men cannot be relied on thus your children are your husbands. Husbands to these women will definitely be abandoned as soon as children start coming into the union: the children have all the love their fathers should get then the man becomes miserable. There are more reasons but it's of utmost importance to discuss sex in your courtship, learn as much as possible about sex. Learn more about women and marriage particularly if you are a Christian or you don't want to cheat your partner as a responsible man or woman. I read the comment of someone who is considering leaving his virgin fiancee to that I want to say authorizatively that virginity has little or nothing to do with a woman's response to sex after marriage. Her mindset about sex and the way you introduce her to sex and sex to her is what will determine what happens to your sexual lives after marriage. I am a christian and an advocate of no sex before marriage, married as a virgin having learnt a lot about sex in marriage and sexuality of both men and women, I'm enjoying my sex life giving and receiving as the need arises. I'm not just married; my kids are all grown up. It's wrong I must say for women to use sex as a means of getting what you want as a woman,if you do, it's like you are reducing your own value. 2 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Biodun1929(m): 8:31am On Jun 29, 2020 |
techmo: GBAM! |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Roon9(m): 8:35am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Ogbuu101: God help us o |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by AreaFada2: 8:40am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Gerrard59:Is there any study that shows that polygamy does not reduce infidelity? Read the specific case of poster. If the man had 2 or 3 wives, chances are that one of them will have a higher libido. The man in the post makes it clear that his playing away is because of his wife denying him sex. This is rather common. Sometimes even as a punishment. You can argue the many other potential disadvantages of polygamy and I'd understand. 2 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by tightpussy156: 8:51am On Jun 29, 2020 |
@op is not a new thing so many women do this they deprive men from sex.some use it as tool to punish you they never no say na stupid thing to use sex as a tool to punish a man when there are many women,girls out there that are ready to give u sex every minute without s Kobo from you so far u can satisfy their urge.any woman that use sex as a tool to punish his husband is having sex outside but not all of them.my wife is guilty of this but if she do this I laughed her because na childish tin.if I need sex just a second girls will dance around me like honey bee so no be new tin sometime once she do that I give her space an enjoy myself real good with other babes very clean pretty babes that look like Mami once she don tire she go come beg an naked by herself make I lash.so o boy relax go take beer or if na kai,Kai u dey take sleep like a baby.no kill urself for woman matter they don't worth it.even girlfriend an boyfriend babes they give their boyfriend Toto anytime any day some they even use their babe act bluefilm na ur wife go dey take sex punish you.who quotes me hug transformer. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Suky01(m): 8:52am On Jun 29, 2020 |
mine is 6 month going no sex nothing been married for 14 years |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Saltzman00: 8:56am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Eulalia:which Nigerian woman would agree to the fact that she loves sex ...just asking tho |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by TheRedpillguy: 8:59am On Jun 29, 2020 |
4ckz:Not good. Manipulative! |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by OmoManU: 9:02am On Jun 29, 2020 |
Tadeknkeepcalm: If person talk now dem go say one kain one kain, polygamy is indeed a solution to many of the marital ills in as far as it's done rightly |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by TheRedpillguy: 9:03am On Jun 29, 2020 |
bimtee2001:interesting! |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by konkonbilo(m): 9:06am On Jun 29, 2020 |
I don't really know what's wrong with some Nigerian women. If you know you don't want marital problem like this where the man just keep complaining every time of this issue just stay out of if and become a baby mama since you just want only children. Not that you're married and you weaponize sex. If you want it for just reproduction just look for a man that want same thing with you and become a single mother.. It's just very easy, no stress. It's a win win for the parties involved. That's why i like white people lifestyle. I was chatting with a female friend last week and she said she doesn't want to get married that she just wants to be a single mother and I ask her why, she said she wants to be free, and be responsible for any decisions she takes, she don't want to be under any obligations. I respect her decision. That's how life should be and not pretending who you are not,the after wedding you become something else. Life's too short abeg. 4 Likes |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Nobody: 9:09am On Jun 29, 2020 |
OmoManU:Exactly. It sad that we should feel ashamed saying the truth |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Ygrette(f): 9:14am On Jun 29, 2020 |
awumen: |
Re: My Encounter With A Married Man Yesterday by Ogbuu101: 9:16am On Jun 29, 2020 |
sleemoon:That's good for you. If your wife is around and needs the diick,will you deny her of it? If you deny her of it,doesn't she have a cause to complain or be unhappy? |
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