folake4u:
I'm not married but I've never filled gas in my life, na my Papa and brother dey do that one.
Any man that is waiting for me to do that one is just wasting time.

cococandy:
OP sorry for the loss of your wife. I hope you’re doing great now. Hugs

FortifiedCity:
I have noticed you have a good heart. Keep at it

Naxtrad:
I was on my way to fill gas today when my car broke down so I had to come down to fix it as a real guy... so I overhead a Man presume to be married saying he can not go and fill gas while the wife is at home. I was surprised because I do this for fun when my late wife was alive (RIP) without reasoning anything even when I'm busy and suddenly gas finish and food is on the cooker bro na my responsibility to go and fill the gas and come back to what I was doing... I no understand

Rebekah029:
Why would I go to fill gas when a man is in the house....??

NNAMDIII:
Haba! The last time i went to fill my gas was 4 years ago, anytime it finishes my mum will just call gas company and they'll come with their bus to fill it, i can't come and be carrying gas in this century

Joshater:


Oga sir, There's no standard as to how to live life!.! That a gas company comes to your house to fill the gas, doesn't mean an individual that takes his own gas to the company to fill, is backwards!.!

Plead:


You’re trying to say you lifted 12kg cylinder?

Take it easy with the lies oh.

NNAMDIII:
This cadet you love gns is that not? You know there's wisdom in grass, to nak dey hungry u bah?

pocohantas:


Is it that heavy?

Elder0001:


Try it first.

pocohantas:


I have (2) 12.5kg cylinders and I have lifted both on several occasions in the past.

Elder0001:


Filled or empty?

pocohantas:


Both

Mariangeles:


A man with that kind of attitude does not deserve the genuine love of a woman.

When you have good men in your life who shows you how a woman should be loved and cared for, you never settle for less.
I never thought filling gas could ever be an issue about whose responsibility it is until now...

LordKO:




- When a man treats a submissive (humble and selfless) wife with love, she knows that he does so from the place of strength, not weakness, because it takes strength, not weakness, to be submissive too - here a man has a friend.

- When a man treats a contentious (crass and expedient/perfidious) wife with love, she assumes that he fears her and takes him for granted because to her love is a sign of weakness, not strength. To her, she has subjugated him - here a man has an open oppressor and enemy as a wife.

- When a man treats a servile/disingenuous (pretentious and expedient/perfidious) wife with love, she takes him for a fool/assumes that it's a sign of potency of her slyness and continues to kowtow for him. I'm sorry for men who aren't masters of their ego - here a man has a frenemy as a wife, a time bomb waiting for explosion once he has a small setback. 

Of course, it's the same thing with small variation when you reverse the genders.

Munzy14:

Every mallam with his kettle.....different problems for different couples.

I really don't see it a big deal, anyone available can fill the gas cylinder at the station.


Even in my neighborhood, na married women and younger boys i do see most at the stations. Ones you can drive and have a car, you can do it easily.


Anybody can do it...Abii They have started using filling cylinders to measure love...

Mariangeles:


Nwanne, I gaghi a ghota...

As a woman, there are some things you just need to allow the man in your life do for you.
Let him love you in every little way he can, just as you do him.

Naxtrad:
I was on my way to fill gas today when my car broke down so I had to come down to fix it as a real guy... so I overhead a Man presume to be married saying he can not go and fill gas while the wife is at home. I was surprised because I do this for fun when my late wife was alive (RIP) without reasoning anything even when I'm busy and suddenly gas finish and food is on the cooker bro na my responsibility to go and fill the gas and come back to what I was doing... I no understand

LordKO:
No, for a contentious wife - a crass and expedient woman doesn't deserve such.

Yes, for a submissive wife - a fair-minded/aristocratic woman deserves the best.

UjuJoan2:


This is th5w origin of most martial squabbles. When you start assessing what you spouse do or do not deserve.

Why not just do what you can, and choose to live above all that other stuff?

In any case, buying gas is fundamentally a man's duty. Just like putting on the generator, car repairs, electrical e.t.c Anything that will require extra strength, because biologically men are stronger.

We have a serious problem with marriages in this era; by the time a family man will think he is doing his wife a favour by buying gas . . Too bad!

LordKO:


No, both or one of the spouses who's either a proponent but non-practitioner of the golden rule or non-proponent and non-practitioner of the golden rule is always the cause of every marital squabbles.

Say yes to the golden rule, in positive, and say no to false wokeness. One who comes into equity should always strive to come with clean hands.

A healthy marital union/relationship will always remain one where mutual altruism and conscientiousness reign supreme over egoism, imperiousness and perfidiousness - in order words, reciprocation of goodness, not necessarily is equal and proportional measure, is the soul of every healthy union.

UjuJoan2:


So what's your advice if one party is giving much more than the other? Not because he or she is being wicked, but probably because they don't know better.

Munzy14:

We care in different ways....


So if oga travel out of state for business or official assignment, you won't cook again?.

You know that man that said he can't go out to fill gas for the family, might find washing plate and the wife's clothes as cool even ma payint na bra......

E fit be say he does other chores apart from that gas thing..


That's how a guy was castigating another guy for giving his babe cunnilingus, little did he know that his babe attested to his expert skill in cunnilingus... to the other guy's babe.

UjuJoan2:


This is th5w origin of most martial squabbles. When you start assessing what you spouse do or do not deserve.

Why not just do what you can, and choose to live above all that other stuff?

In any case, buying gas is fundamentally a man's duty. Just like putting on the generator, car repairs, electrical e.t.c Anything that will require extra strength, because biologically men are stronger.

We have a serious problem with marriages in this era; by the time a family man will think he is doing his wife a favour by buying gas . . Too bad!

pocohantas:


Both

Kaycee7:
Dayuum!! Drinking the salty tears of alfa males must be more nutritious than I thought.

bukatyne:


Amen.
I have actually never filled a gas cylinder in my life.
And God willing, I never would.
Amen.