Elder0001:
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Really? Anybody can do those two things.

Just like anybody can cook and wash dishes.

LordKO:



Indulging such a person and their weakness is very good/necessary because perfection is of the creator of the world - conscientiousness doesn't equate to perfection, just as altruism doesn't to equate foolishness.

One clear difference between the weakness of a fair-minded person and intentional wrong of a wicked/heartless person is that, while the former doesn't take pride in his/her action, the latter always takes pride in his/her own action openly or secretly.

Yea, but what about people who 'unintentionally' cruel? Maybe out of bad habits or dysfunctional upbringing?

UjuJoan2:


Just like anybody can cook and wash dishes.

Sure.
I never said cooking and washing of dishes is meant for one gender.

UjuJoan2:


Yea, but what about people who 'unintentionally' cruel? Maybe out of bad habits or dysfunctional upbringing?

No one can be unintentionally cruel because of bad habits or dyfunctional upbringing - anyone in this category always acts intentionally or impulsively, so it's all about wickedness or heartlessness.

Meanwhile, people who are/can be unintentionally cruel are people who've mental disorder and people who've mental illness. People in the former category abound everywhere, including this forum, and the first step towards putting up with them, near or afar, is understanding their condition. Personally, I've affinity for people who've two particular mental disorders. Don't try putting up with one if you don't have the knack. People in the latter category however are best left for psychiatric homes to manage them.

LordKO:


No one can be unintentionally cruel because of bad habits or dyfunctional upbringing - anyone in this category always acts intentionally or impulsively, so it's all about wickedness or heartlessness.

Meanwhile, people who are/can be unintentionally cruel are people who've mental disorder and people who've mental illness. People in the former category abound everywhere, including this forum, and the first step towards putting up with them, near or afar, is understanding their condition. Personally, I've affinity for people who've two particular mental disorders. Don't try putting up with one if you don't have the knack. People in the latter category however are best left for psychiatric homes to manage them.

Munzy14:

We care in different ways....


So if oga travel out of state for business or official assignment, you won't cook again?.

You know that man that said he can't go out to fill gas for the family, might find washing plate and the wife's clothes as cool even ma payint na bra......

E fit be say he does other chores apart from that gas thing..

OK. Now I get...

That's how a guy was castigating another guy for giving his babe cunnilingus, little did he know that his babe attested to his expert skill in cunnilingus... to the other guy's babe.

You dis guy sef...

I gats go sharpaly go check wetin CunnyLinus mean...una no go kill person for here

Mariangeles:


OK. Now I get...




You dis guy sef...

I gats go sharpaly go check wetin CunnyLinus mean...una no go kill person for here

You will agree with me, we learn everyday...


Life is a teacher.