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Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by eRex(m): 9:10am On Jul 05, 2020 |
ledaman: A very childish comment that can never end without an insult meanwhile talking about spiritual connection with God. Well I will waste no time on u |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by usbcable(m): 9:10am On Jul 05, 2020 |
Mvici:Yes you are still a baby with the post |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Romanoff(f): 9:12am On Jul 05, 2020 |
obinoral1179: Amin o 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by ledaman: 9:13am On Jul 05, 2020 |
eRex:Truth is bitter! |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by makydebbie(f): 9:18am On Jul 05, 2020 |
doggedfighter: Oh the misogyny stinks! Sisssssssssssss let's drink the male tears in this thread. I love when women rebel. 3 Likes
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Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by bugativeron: 9:19am On Jul 05, 2020 |
Good morning poster, I will want to stay facts here rather than attacking you. 1. Your girlfriend has not done anything to warrant this sort of thoughts to the extent of thinking to cut off, such a deep thinking woman. 2. I appreciate your love for your Dad, it shows you are ready to protect his inheritance and memory. 3. Three, your mother is still very young at 52, if she lives till 82, that is 30 years of lonely life, more than he lived with your father. 4. Loneliness especially at old age kills more than illness. 5. Your girl is futuristic in thinking but you are focus on present. 6. Have you asked yourself who will stay with your mum in case you move away to some where far away, eg abroad. 7. Elderly people are susceptible to illness as they grow, and they need a partner to go through the journey with. Think about these few points and many more when you are alone. Pls, dont cut of your relationship because of this, may be for another reason, but not this. Mvici: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by mabea: 9:20am On Jul 05, 2020 |
Mvici:Young man you are too selfish. You also reason like a kid. Your gf is more mature than you. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Omeji: 9:21am On Jul 05, 2020 |
From my own understanding, what she meant to say is that she will like to be your mother's companion since she is lonely. Thats why she told you to marry a man for your mother. That man is SHE. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by makydebbie(f): 9:21am On Jul 05, 2020 |
Foodqueen: You're on this table, look at the rubbish you just spew. You must be the one who birth girls that spill rubbish because you're on some queenly shiit in this. Radarada oshi. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by bugativeron: 9:23am On Jul 05, 2020 |
With this your neco age, it shows you are a baby, with your reasoning, it shows you are even more a baby, 52yrs old NECO1998: 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by franugo(m): 9:26am On Jul 05, 2020 |
Mvici: This is the second time you're using ground children....and here I was thinking it was a mistake the first time... There's absolutely nothing wrong with the suggestion your gf gave, honestly you are the one dts supposed to be championing ur mum having company, what exactly does she do on her own when you're in school?? Its grandchildren by the way.. |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by eRex(m): 9:26am On Jul 05, 2020 |
ledaman:r Kindly highlight your supposed "Truth". I shared a firsthand experience and you call me a slowpoke. I reserve my comment. |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by franugo(m): 9:28am On Jul 05, 2020 |
Omeji: SMH...seriously SMH |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Prymestrr(m): 9:29am On Jul 05, 2020 |
gunners160:It will appear more dull people are now the students in Universities this days. JAMB in their irresponsible wisdom, keeps reducing the benchmark for academic excellence 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by franugo(m): 9:30am On Jul 05, 2020 |
makydebbie: Lol...we aren't all misogynists babe..I doubt the op knows what misogyny is so I truly don't think dts d op's angle..his reasoning is just narrow minded and limited is all |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by franugo(m): 9:33am On Jul 05, 2020 |
mabea: He reasons like someone in junior secondary school...it's like people don't understand dt loneliness can actually kill. |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by ledaman: 9:33am On Jul 05, 2020 |
eRex:Am sorry for my comment* slow poke* |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by mabea: 9:37am On Jul 05, 2020 |
franugo:Yeah he just wants his mum all to himself not minding her own happiness too even when he is not always going to be around at all times. Imagine what will happen when she's up to seventy with no one around. |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by doggedfighter(f): 9:41am On Jul 05, 2020 |
makydebbie:Enough of their stinking rubbish. The cheek of it !!!!!! |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by nuelyoyo(m): 9:44am On Jul 05, 2020 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by franugo(m): 9:45am On Jul 05, 2020 |
iwinnie: Not all men remarry...I know of a friend's dad dt has refused to remarry after his wife died several years ago. The difference here tho is dt there are children in the house so he isn't really lonely, just lacking companionship. Op's mom might actually want some level of companionship but may be afraid of what society will think/say, cause as I'm sure you know, we're very backward and insensitive in this country. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by franugo(m): 9:47am On Jul 05, 2020 |
franchasng: Please obtain some sense...I beg of you |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Orlaoluwayimika(m): 9:56am On Jul 05, 2020 |
Mvici: OP u will soon realise what she said was a good advice and not out of staying celibate and not being able to mourn ur dad My dad passed away about 15 yrs ago when we were still young. Now we re all grown up I ve two younger sis and the last born is in 200L. Anytime she goes to school it is just mum and my grandma that is always at home. I ve been thinking lately if grandma dies then what is going to happen. Is mum going to be d only one at home and we re all far from home. What would happen to her afterwards is really getting me scared. If it is possible for me to advise her to remarry, sincerely I will cos loneliness kills. |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by pri4life(f): 10:20am On Jul 05, 2020 |
[quote author=Mvici post=91273850]I am a man and it is written that men are polygamous in nature and can marry as many as they like even in the old testament we see great men that marry more than one....but I tell u with the way I love that girl before, eventually had it been we later marry...and we had a son, we even spent 30yrs which I know by then i would be probably 60somthing.... seriously I won't really think much GOING THROUGH YOUR WRITE UPS AND REPLIES, I HAVE THIS CONCLUSION FOR YOU. YOU ARE STILL A CHILD. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by felizo145(m): 10:21am On Jul 05, 2020 |
She's a good girl,. ..cherish her. You can never know the value of what you have until you lose it |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by victorian(f): 10:28am On Jul 05, 2020 |
Op, let your mom live in peace. You think to get married again to a man is child's play? It's lots of work. And at 56? Trust me, she's not ready to go down that lane again. My dad died before my mum at age 90 years, my mum was 55years back then. She was always alone, either cooking my meals and gisting with me as my chat buddy whenever I got back from work. Sometimes I get to see her reading her Bible. One day I asked her mummy, are u not lonely? Don't u want a man to keep you company? She smiled. She shook her head and said no. She is not ready for man wahala and she happy and peaceful seeing me working and getting myself together. That I'm the one who's suppose to marry, she has lived her life and no man can replace my dad. She's not just ready for any man issues. That I should marry and give her grandchildren. I sighed, I said OK mom. She looks peaceful living alone without a man and she died peacefully,5years later. Op just leave your mom Abeg. Let her live her remaining life in peace. Then your gf? Let her know mom is not getting married, end of discussion. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by Samsonklin(m): 10:34am On Jul 05, 2020 |
chinchonglee: You are right chief. The guy is assuming big rubbish. The girl was only suggesting because she cares about the moms mentality and health. I don't know what the guy is thinking sef. |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by kcij(f): 10:34am On Jul 05, 2020 |
Mvici: Story story story... Love ke |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by NNAMDIII(m): 10:36am On Jul 05, 2020 |
My mum married my dad 26 years ago, my old man went overboard 17years ago and I can never be angry if my mum decides to re marry or have an affair, op u still be small pikin oo 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by omoharry(f): 10:40am On Jul 05, 2020 |
Mvici:Would you do same if it were the other way round?Would you be able to remain married to your dead wife till you get old and leave this world . You sound like a selfish human being .. a typical man that is a product of our hostile society and their expectation of widows . You do not know what your mum goes through with loneliness . You are only concern about your feelings and not your what your mother want in her inner mind . I believe if you had ask Mumsy what does she think about remarrying or having a companion then you would have known what she really want . You are selfish and your girl friend is a nice person with a loving heart .She shouldn’t marry someone like you and you don’t deserve her. |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by kiddkash(m): 10:43am On Jul 05, 2020 |
you are a child. you haven't experienced life especially on the streets |
Re: My Girlfriend Asked Me To Tell My Mum To Remarry & I Have Lost Confidence In Her by kiddkash(m): 10:48am On Jul 05, 2020 |
Ningen:what is dead may never die |
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