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Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Unnerve: 8:23pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
bukatyne:True, & takes us back to that thread about men learning to say NO to sex even if offered on a platter. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Unnerve: 8:27pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
bukatyne:Lol Corgito ergo sum VERSUS Sentio ergo sum 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by bukatyne(f): 8:29pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Unnerve: 100% Is this when I upload an applauding meme. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by kkins25(m): 8:31pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Ishilove:but his tribalism is a greater evil than his Brain 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Mariangeles(f): 8:35pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
bukatyne: How so please? That I put it to him straightforward based on his initial narrative? I am not the type to beat around the bush you know that. It was good of him to clarify too. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by cococandy(f): 8:36pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Unnerve:It’s the internet. Anyone can say what they like but in real life we know many women have sex just for the sake of it. No love involved. No money involved. but yes, it just is and I never did imply it was something to be proud of as a man as I'm sure you did not either despite your caveat. Maybe you didn’t mean to imply it but it’s all too common for men to use their “biology“ as excuse to be layabouts. And smugly tell you as a woman that you don’t understand. But when you do understand as a woman and can accurately express the same tendencies as they do, then it’s not your biology that to blame. You’re just a slut Like how all Nigerian girls are sluts but the boys they are having sex with aren’t. For the boys it’s their biology at fault. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Unnerve: 8:43pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
cococandy:Do you, or rather, did you? Maybe you didn’t mean to imply it but it’s all too common for men to use their “biology“ as excuse to be layabouts. And smugly tell you as a woman that you don’t understand. But when you do understand as a woman and can accurately express the same tendencies as they do, then it’s not your biology that to blame. You’re just a slutOh well |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by bukatyne(f): 8:43pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Mariangeles: Put what straightforward to him? Was he dealing with a baby who had no control over her emotions or time? So what if they slept together out of 'not knowing better?' Just how you were able to make allowances for the babe, make allowances for him too. If you can't make same allowance for the dude because he 'naturally' has to know better, then you are 'infantalizing' the lady. 7 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Mariangeles(f): 8:53pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
bukatyne: First of all, who approached who? Secondly, immediately he found out she was Yoruba and could not date her, why did he not move on instead of leading her on and letting her grow feelings for him? She wasn't good enough to date but good enough to be friend zoned? Hanty Bukky e wo, emi o l'agbara lati lo siwaju ati eyin bayi o e joo 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by cococandy(f): 8:53pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Unnerve: Doesn’t matter what I say on here. It won’t change what’s true for all the world’s female population. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by kkins25(m): 8:57pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins:very ridiculous amd i have no smpathy for you. Uou deserve it. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by armyofone(m): 8:58pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
How did you have a fling with someone you don't love ? How do you have sex with someone you don't love ? You managed to do both with your eyes wide opened, I'm sure. After you done chop finish, you come see clearly? Forget "loquaciousness" and focus on building your family. ollins: 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by bukatyne(f): 8:59pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Mariangeles: The guy controls her feelings too? He must be a 'strong' man. You know how many guys are been friend-zoned and we blame them for making themselves easily accessible to a woman not emotionally available to him. Keep 'infantalizing her' biko: she has no control of her choices, feelings, reactions, relationships etc. 7 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Unnerve: 9:27pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
cococandy:But it does matter, no? I mean considering that I'm simply trying to understand if you formed that opinion because it's something you did personally. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by cococandy(f): 9:37pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Unnerve: What matters is whether it’s true or not. Not whether I did it too or not. Maybe I’m not interested in sharing that much information. Who knows? Me and a few chics I know are not enough of a population sample to determine if the truth for all women depends on our personal experiences. You’re just curious for your own self . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by ImaIma1(f): 9:37pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
bukatyne: You don't know "sex happened" too, from drolufunmilayo on Twitter |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Unnerve: 9:45pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
cococandy:Obviously. Well whatever you say. I just wish I had met more women like those whom you say can have sex without developing love and forming attachments to me. My single days would have been so much less complicated, lol. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by millionboi(m): 10:05pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins:u are sufferin from inferiority Just send her to school 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
That is your cross to carry, my dear friend. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Lexusgs430: 10:05pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins: Ever heard this word 'Divorce'?..... |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by sharon37o8(f): 10:07pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins: Since no one wants to say it I'd say it Quit...... You are hurting her by sticking around loveless |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by vasco01(m): 10:07pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Mumu Wetin you see for her body before we you go enter her London? You don already buy market 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by oyewale0001(m): 10:07pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
It is well. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Seniorwriter(m): 10:07pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
bukatyne: MAD O |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by dvkot(m): 10:07pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ImaIma1:i wonder too.. Y'all can just stick your cane into any hole but you can't spend your life with her. Im probably sure you told her you love her before getting her pregnant 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by UjuJoan2: 10:07pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Ybaby: That's if she was truly even waiting for him. He has probably been her plan B, C or even D all these while. So a woman will just stay and be waiting patiently for a man she has never met for four good years. Odiegwu. Let him be there deceiving himself. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Brightgem(f): 10:08pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
I stopped reading. Na God catch you. It's just sad you'll bring in a child to your mess. Sleeping with who you don't want to live your real life with and now forming stuck in a loveless marriage. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 10:08pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Divorce her. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by ayenale1(m): 10:09pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
That your cross bro, carry am heavy or not carry am. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by lisa286: 10:09pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
The caption of this topic on the front page sha... So "gossipy" that I couldn't help but click... Morale of the story: Try as much as possible to only have sex with those who fit your ideal mate in terms of character, looks and personality... It might make the pill easier to swallow if garri decide to pass water... Cos do will everly be done. Some people can't abstain |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Kobicove(m): 10:09pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins: Just damn the consequences and get a divorce 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by frozen70(f): 10:11pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins: Love builds over time in a relationship, but it seems there is no hope for love to build in this case It's time you let your family know that it's not working and it never worked but because of the pregnancy, you thought it will work due to pressure Your family will arrange and meet her family and settle how she and the baby will be cared of by you If you think you can't go for the above for reasons best known to you Rearrange your mind to accept her the way she is It's all about the mind set |
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