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Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Op made a mistake and I think it's sth we all do. I'd rather be single than be in an unhappy marriage. I also think the lady is deserving of someone, who truly loves her. As long as you continue being a dad to your child... . |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by GRACEGLORY: 10:28pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins: That kind of woman you desire doesn’t exist anywhere in this world except in your head. If you must have such woman, you have to create her: “the woman of Proverbs 31” wasn’t a product of herself, but produced by the husband. Ephesians 5:25-28 The Message (MSG) 25-28 Husbands, go all out in your love for your wives, exactly as Christ did for the church—a love marked by giving, not getting. Christ’s love makes the church whole. His words evoke her beauty. Everything he does and says is designed to bring the best out of her, dressing her in dazzling white silk, radiant with holiness. And that is how husbands ought to love their wives. They’re really doing themselves a favor—since they’re already “one” in marriage. The moment your wife was escorted to the altar by her father/guardian to meet with you, there was a change in fatherhood (as she had been handed over to you), you’re to continue where her father/guardian stopped. I pray you see it, or understand it 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by SweetCunt97(f): 10:29pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
judedwriter:Forget that thing. If true can blossom in that affair, e for don dey grow by now. You people simply think getting married equals falling in love? Some ain't bothered with love but see marriage as a necessary duty to be fulfilled 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Dannyfan(m): 10:29pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
I can't imagine sleeping with someone I don't love. You nkoor Anuoluwa1234? |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Anyiamaka: 10:30pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins: Be kind to retrain your wife. How has the marriage improved her personality? Is she really a better person before you married her or after your married her? If she is uneducated, send her back to school and make her educated. There is nothing wrong in being loud and loquacious so long as she is communicating intelligently. You don't really have a burden, you just need to be more responsible. If your wife gets educated and starts working with good pay, respect go dey for each other. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Openbusiness3: 10:30pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
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Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Taniaa(f): 10:30pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
SexytorresE:Which one is away match, that's bad advice. Op try to make your marriage work by communicating with your wife cause it seems to me like you're not making much attempt to make the whole thing work cause your mind was never in it from the beginning. So either try to make it work or save you both from further emotional trauma by filing for a divorce 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by SweetCunt97(f): 10:30pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
fieryy:Thank you. They think this is romantic novels where d heroine falls in love with d handsome dude after initial hatred ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by galantjoe(m): 10:31pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
HembaqMbk: If possible close your eye to fvck her. 50% of marriage is by "mistake" that is she is pregnant or marriage by pity. Use that affection that attracted you to her in the first instance when you re wooing her. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by franchasng: 10:31pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins:Forget love, there is nothing like romantic love, the truth is, she is not your spec when it comes to physical beauty. But I want to advice you as a guy that married one of the most beautiful career lady with amazing character who happened to be my friend before we married. Brother, after few years of marriage or even few months, your wife's body will not be tempting and inviting to you like before when you first met her. So its not about love or anything, it is how most if not all men are wired, but men love to tell lies to women and to themselves to make them feel good, they will pretend like their wife is still appealing to them like when they first met, na lie!! Marriage is not about sex or romance, don't let people deceive you with their lies of how they still have sex or romance with their partners na lie!! After few years of marriage, most marriages no longer rely on sex, couple might go months without sex no matter how sexy the wife maybe, its normal for most exposed and balling men not to feel the urge again because if your game is tight as a man, you easily get bored of things - be it food, woman, etc....u get tired of one thing too easily, unless your game is not tight then u stick to one thing out of no choice. Haven't you wondered why almost all rich men have mistresses and concubines ![]() ![]() What am I saying ![]() Even if u married your dream woman like me, believe me, u wouldn't have been fvcking her every now and then like u feel right now, u will be bored of her, she would be naked and u won't feel anything. What will keep u guys going are your lovely kids, your life goals; financial goals being chased together and met, projects, career and business growth targets and discussions. Only poor people sustain their marriage with sex! Reason they make too many babies!! Only poor men fvck their wife everyday or every week because they have no other job or option....that their ekuke mgbeke wife they see everyday is their only diamond, they don't travel much to see sexy supermodels, so their wife remains their supermodel that once they see her they spread her legs like Aboki mat ![]() Focus on your life goals, help your wife develop a career path or a business or sellable handwork and start planning and executing together action plans to help her grow in her career or business or handwork and you will begin to cherish her. Remove your mind from sex. Even if u married Kim Kardashian, u will still get tired of fvcking her and will most likely cheat on her with one village chick or lower class girl, that's how men are. If you feel the urge to fvck, u are free to get a mistress that meets your sexual and physical spec but make sure u are buoyant financially. 6 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 10:31pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
![]() ![]() ![]() Btw why will u marry someone u don't love, oh ok some do it cuz of money sha. ![]() Dannyfan: |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Incandescent(m): 10:31pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
My brother. You die there oo ![]() ![]() No escape for you. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Philadelphia: 10:31pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins: To your question; the answer is yes. ![]() Now you have her all to yourself. Oya now is the time to "chop" her in confidence instead of the "rush rush" weh you dey do before. ![]() Let me sing you a song by TuBaba; in his voice: "Just like rain drops falling from my eyes Just like tear drops falling from the sky It is like a blessing, a blessing in disguise That we fail to realize Now I have to pay the price, pay the price See, young man, be careful and think it twice Before you choose to use, before you choose to use, to use your device So you don't have rain drops falling from your eyes When you see your blessing in disguise Oh what a sacrifice, a sacrifice" Just download the song and listen to it � 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Blavas(m): 10:32pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Look for d beautiful things about her and don't focus on d ugly and negative part she exibit.blive me u you di*k will come around |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by stanliwise(m): 10:32pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
baby124:I get you. But I must point out that in as much as we have the word “responsible”, we also have a word “over-responsible”. A man who impregnates a girl is responsible for the pregnancy(During the stage), and the child when he/she is born. He has the responsibility of playing a fatherly role on the child. Getting married because one impregnate a girl is too much of a log to carry. And I feel it is nothing than BlackMail. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Enemyofpeace: 10:32pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
I don't know why you are wasting your time coming here to disturb us. Marriage is not by force and it is meant to be enjoyed. If you know you do not love the girl and you are no longer enjoying the relationship, call it quits and take a walk. Forget about the child that is tying you down, your child will survive and your happiness matters too. You can't continue to live in bondage for the rest of your life. Get out now before the devil will push you to do what you will forever regret for the rest of your life. Vickyrotex iya wa abi kini mo wi? |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by babtoundey(m): 10:32pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
I think you dwell more on her bad habits; things that she does to hurt you, things you dislike about her and all you consider to be her imperfections. It's really tough being cought up in the web you are entangled in right now. I will suggest you don't see divorce as the only and the best available way out. As long as she's not abusive to the extent of engaging you in physical combat, you can still help the situation. Just try and know her. Relate with her as a husband that you are to her and respect her. While it is possible and easy for one to fall out of love with someone one dearly loves.it is also possible for one to fall in love with someone one never loved or ever dreamt of loving. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Tolzy11(m): 10:33pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
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Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by uthlaw: 10:33pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
gudvibz:why can't him just divorce her! |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Taywon: 10:33pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
U slept with a lady u didnt love without protection, what were u expecting? An Iphone... U need slap 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Evercurious(f): 10:34pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
donbachi: You are quite funny but I love your sincerity , bluntness (if there is any word such as this) and for being too realistic |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Enemyofpeace: 10:34pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
stanliwise:I concur. No one can use pregnancy to tie me down, not even mynd44, Vickyrotex, seunmohmoh,Bola146 or notoriousbabe 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by cursedAbiola(f): 10:34pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
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Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Have you tried to bring her to your level. Like upgrade her, bring her to your class, give her the necessary exposure, etc? |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by mrsegun11: 10:35pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
How did your prick manage to raise n do the do with a woman or lady, you got no chemistry with hmmmm? Whatever happens then, let it come bk then u guys r cool |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by jesmond3945: 10:36pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins:put her to school and learn to love her. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by tunize(m): 10:37pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Bros kpele. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Evercurious(f): 10:37pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
gudvibz: This case is very different my dear.. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 10:37pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
sylve11: What's the name of the song |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by drlateef: 10:37pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins: You have to carry your cross. Your case will teach others lesson not to engage in premarital sex. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by GIdiata(m): 10:37pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
genq: don't mind their(WOMEN) HYPOCRISY. they(WOMEN) know. she's just trying to form SAVAGE and the "YOU GOT WHAT U DESERVED CREW" 99.99% of Women are wicked and MEAN only after REVENGE AND PAYBACK. they don't know, how come they have 2-3 boyfriends ( LOVE, SEX AND ATM)? How come they date SUGAR DADDIES when they have a real boyfriend? 3 Likes 1 Share |
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