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Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by stanliwise(m): 10:37pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Enemyofpeace: |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by emmaitive(m): 10:37pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Oga you must carry your cross oo |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by franchasng: 10:37pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Dannyfan:keep lying to yourself to gain like u hear As if u know what love is, mstwwwww |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Dannyfan(m): 10:38pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Anuoluwa1234:is not me now. It is so disgusting shaa. Anyways he's already in the marriage let him deal with it. Spiritually and emotionally. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Evercurious(f): 10:38pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
HembaqMbk: But you know this isnt being fair at all. The guy is barely struggling to love her and you dropped this? Lol |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by iammolise(m): 10:39pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Charley Don shit 4 church... That's why I don't do hit n run or chop clean mouth(as they call it)... If I know ure not a girl I can accept pregnancy from or wife u in case ticket burst, forget it waka pass I won't even play with u let alone toast 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by ngwababe(f): 10:39pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
My father will always tell us, "meta onye di mma enyi, maka ọlụlụ". How you men get erected to stick into a girl you don't love marvels me. I'm yet to know the difference between that silly attitude and rape. Isn't it obvious yet to you that you're married? My brother, work out your salvation. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by IpobOsuIgbo: 10:40pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
[s] bukatyne:[/s] Very senseless and stupîd question. 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Dannyfan(m): 10:41pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
franchasng:Like bi ti bawo, e go give me money? I'm talking of myself and not you. There's should be a chemistry between me and the person I will lay with. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by samsard(m): 10:41pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
baby124:Fat lie 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by NwaIgboBoy(m): 10:41pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
for better for worst
till Covid tear us apart. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by chaloskyx: 10:41pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
oga divorce and take charge of your life both of you can find happiness with other people abeg life is too short to be sulking take charge and go for what makes you happy and your heart desires |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:42pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
SMH the only thing I picked from your story is the part you made mention of pressure from family. so, what has the family done so far to check on your marriage? where are they now? what are they contributing now? this would teach some guys a lesson that no matter the pressure from your family, you should marry at your own convince. no family should force you to go marry. none! never! who the family pressure epp? as I dey, I don old reach who suppose do born like 2/3 kids, despite family talk, I tell em I go marry when at my own convenience ni ooh, I can't bring a wife because of your pressure.... naaaah, e no fit work. we all own our lives and no one can live it for us ooh. my point here is, I know some guys go learn from ur ordeal that no family pressure should be allowed to push u in the rush. own your life. lastly, oga OP, I no dey encourage divorce. me, personally, I see marriage as a one-time course. once u marry, u marry be that, e no suppose be from one marriage to another. as for me oooh. everybody should/must bear their cross. that's why e better make u take ur time before jumping on marrying someone's daughter or son. I pray make God bring love and peace to your home. wetin concern me sef. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by GIdiata(m): 10:42pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Bola146: and why it's also risky for women who think they have a perfect shape to seduce guys for Money. may be she agreed to spread her legs because of SHAWARMA |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by PaulH07: 10:42pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins: Na issues like these no dey even give me erections that often. Nowadays b4 going out, I self-service first, incase I see one sexy babe wey go wan gimme brainwave. If I don self-service the nonsense comot my body, I go know how to see clearly when I reach outside. Very few babes have something to offer nowadays apart from sex, sex & sex. They'll use their puna to trap any man that falls... 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by IpobOsuIgbo: 10:43pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
[s] ichidodo:[/s] |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by zakkxx: 10:43pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
MY BROTHER YOU DON ENTER; JUST BE PRAYERFUL AND SHOW HER LOVE WOMEN ARE LIKE COMPUTER. GARBAGE IN GARBAGE OUT. IF YOU DIVORCE HER MAKE SURE U DONT SLEEP WITH ANY GAL BECAUSE IF YOU DO NA ADULTERY. SO IS BETTER U STAY AND GIVE HER WHAT U EXPECT FROM HER. THE ONLY CONDITION FOR ANOTHER MARRIAGE IS IF SHE dies BEFORE U. IF U RUN AWAY ANY U DIE U DON BUY TICKET TO HELL FIRE BE DAT OO. MY BROTHER YOUR CASE NA EXAMPLE TO ANY YOUTH OOO; AWOF DE RUN BELLE OOO. I BELIEVE GOD WIL C U TRUE. GOD BLESS YOUR MARRIAGE WITH PEACE AND LOVE. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by jpworld(m): 10:44pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
gudvibz: Lol, sound so easy, the guy should just quit. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by franchasng: 10:44pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Dannyfan:chemistry is not love. You can have your chemistry with a lady you don't have a romantic love for. All you need to fvck any lady is for her body to appeal to your eyes and tickle your nerves and get your adrenaline rushing, you don't need love to fvck a lady, quit lying boi |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by palsenator(m): 10:45pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins: As long as she is not an agrresive person, a vengeful person, and "idc" attitude, then u can school her , mould her to your taste. It comes with a willingness from you and an assurance for her that you are ready to make it work. With a whole lot of input, you can make an Angel out of her. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by mordred44: 10:46pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Papilo i knw sey 1day u go make us proud 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by incogni2o: 10:47pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins: If you fail to Love this Woman, hmm I doubt you will truly love any other. My Brother, First impressions fade, Every responsible Man knows that. You have to look past those exasperating attitudes oh, my brother. Imagine a Woman you love saying this same things about you. Love is to the soul, it's beyond the Flesh, what you see. Romance is one side, True Love is another side. You can't tell me she doesn't have any good thing in Her right. even if it's what attracted her to you in the first Place. The obvious issue is you Bro . 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Kingrefreshed: 10:47pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins: Bro take heart. We are in the same boat and shoes. What I'm doing is focus on my own life. My business and our kids. I've already settled my mind on how it's gonna go down. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Babaken(m): 10:49pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Unnerve:let me ask this question can you marry someone that's not attracted to you sexually. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by franchasng: 10:49pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ngwababe:men are not women. Men are visual beings while women are emotional beings. Take money out of it, most ladies will only fvck a man they are emotionally attached to. But a man will fvck a lady he doesn't even know her first name so long as the lady have a body that arouses him. Men don't need to love a lady to fvck her, all they need is for her to have the physical attractiveness they desire, that's all. Any man that tells u otherwise is lying to get u to spread your legs for him to fvck, run from such guys 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Wronggee(m): 10:49pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Abeg tell am !!!! sylve11: |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Codes151(m): 10:50pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins:the change the situation |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Dannyfan(m): 10:50pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
franchasng:Lemme put it like this for you, I can't lay with someone I don't find attractive. And naturally for me I begin to fall for you when I find you attractive and might diminish when she's gone out of sight. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Iamsane: 10:51pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
She is barely educated is the only problem I am seeing here. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by phemmyfour: 10:51pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins:There is a room called DIVORCE....use it |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Philipxxxx0: 10:52pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
bukatyne:A man can have sex with you, without having any atom of love for you, just only sex.is only women that get emotional with sex. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by ngwababe(f): 10:52pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
franchasng: Well, that's true. |
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