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Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Dannyfan(m): 10:52pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
franchasng:So every lady should be attractive to a man |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 10:53pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Ok.. HV not read the story self , so I don't know what it entails sha Dannyfan: 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by kalufelix(m): 10:54pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:.. Op thunder fire you there.. So you haven't heard about condom before.. Which village are you from.. When you dey do am e dey sweet you.. You dey go raw dey cum inside her. God don catch you.. Better love your wife teach her and groom her.. You might be surprised what she will develop into tomorrow. As for you brownjay i never get word for you now... |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Halo22: 10:55pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
My own problem is that I find it hard to really love girls, na them dey love me pass as I love them. Therefore if u be girl and wants a relationship with me, u must prove it to me. That's how roll. As for Op, u have two options; to divorce ur wife if her character becomes unbearable or make amends with her and find out the real reason behind her negative character. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Carter4luv(m): 10:55pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
u cant sex a girl u don't love except a prostitute, guy so u av to build that marriage and make it work for good. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Iamsane: 10:56pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ngwababe: Ask your father about the bolded. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Fox12(m): 10:58pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
This is wot happens when you skip courtship.Obviously u got married ignorantly and unprepared. U did wot u thought was best for ur child by marrying the mother.Now do wot is best for yourself and ur wife.Know her,Polish her,School her,make her and remarry her 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by bizhop01: 10:58pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
You didn't complain when you were digging, until you dig the hole and it's become atlantic ocean, Everyone learn to love, remember no one born with love but if you can't learn how to love have in mind that marriage no be by force. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by 12345baba(m): 10:59pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Bleep with sense una no go hear |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by franchasng: 10:59pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Dannyfan:Now you are talking. That a lady is attractive to you does not mean u love her okay If you can be honest to yourself, you would agree with me that you have come across nothing less than 50 ladies you found attractive this year alone, does it mean you love all 50 of those ladies just because they were attractive to you Next time put it this way: I cannot fvck a lady I don't find attractive!! And that's how most men are wired. Men fvck based on sexual appeal not emotional connection which love dwells on 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by kiddkash(m): 11:02pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
bukatyne:I know you must have heard this b4. when 1 of the brain comes alive, the other goes to sleep. that is what happened to him |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by mcdokwe(m): 11:03pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
I'm always of the view that marriage or any relationship for that matter can work between any two people who want to be in it irrespective of their differences. There's no need to feel stuck, accept it as a conscious deed already done and a union in which you deserve to be happy. So assuming your spouse feels the need for a positive change of direction, you two need to have "The TALK" and steer the wheels of your union to the beautiful Eldorado. Good luck. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Kalashnikov102(m): 11:03pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
In one word.. Learn to love |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by baby124: 11:03pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
stanliwise:Look. Some baby mamas can make your life hell even after marriage. You don’t defraud a person sexually and go Scott free. All this stories are for the birds. He clearly knew this girls background and knew that he could not marry her but he had unprotected sex with her. Calling it a fling when he knows most girls like that are looking for husband, to escape poverty. The fact that he just noticed her loquacious behavior showed that she did everything to pretend and please him during their relationship. This type will not be a very good babymama let me tell you! Because she was lied to! He should try and make it work, he can do it. However they did it to impregnate themselves is how they should put in the effort. Try this with my child and try to escape, the guy will die in jail. What you won’t eat, don’t use your mouth to smell it. Who will the girl now come and put the burden of his child on? Her poor parents? You are joking. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Writercruze: 11:04pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins: @OP I will ask you three question... Does she cheat on you? Is she disrespecting you? Is she making you to spend too much? If the answer to the above questions is NO, bro try to make your marriage work. NO marriage is perfect. Try to correct her and over time things will work out. Get her to learn a useful skill so that she can bo supporting the family. Guy, package your woman and you will be happy... |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Tecord1(m): 11:05pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Ningen:Sorry to ask, but how old are you. What is your understanding about marriage. Marriage is not soup you taste and spit out when you not OK with it. People who don't have business getting married should stay away from it. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by MansoryMX(m): 11:05pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins: Look at this fool! Them nor tie your two leg abi she dey use Toto water cook give you. Will you get out of here!
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Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by seanwilliam(m): 11:08pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
gudvibz:I hate this kind of talk with passion 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Luvdmx(m): 11:09pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
bukatyne: He has a problem and looking for way out, you're talking about erection. Will you give the same advice if it's your brother or the other way round? Marriage is not life sentence that's why there's something call divorce. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by NNAMDIII(m): 11:09pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Truth is you've blown ofe, just divorce her to have a peace of mind |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by AnanseK(m): 11:10pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
faithfull18: Women will never understand men. They always confuse sex with love; the two are different. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by tomdon(m): 11:10pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
bukatyne: It might not be this way you're looking at it What if she was the one who engineered everything and as a man na to just insert sim card inside. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by MrNipplesLover(m): 11:12pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
bukatyne: I owe you one hot CIM....
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Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by eleko1: 11:12pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
u don't need to force itself in loveless marriage.U both can go Ur separate way now.Dnt wait for jealousy/Satan to pour gasoline dat will engulf u(may u not see evil), |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 11:12pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins:Divorce!! Divorce!!! Divorce!!!!! |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Dannyfan(m): 11:13pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
franchasng:Did u expect me to love someone without finding her attractive. You just quote me out of my context. I use 'attractive' because I don't expect you to think I would only have a romantic love with one girl. I can have as many as possible. I find my lecturer, boss' wife, sister, mother, colleague do not mean I can stand to sleep with them. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by mkoabiola: 11:13pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
I was in d mess also. But i call it bluff . I never mind what people will say Na their own whala b DAT. I WS d toughest decision i could ever make. But am very happy with myself now 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by intruder15(m): 11:14pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
ollins: Have u ever asked yourself what made our parents successful in their marriages when there was no courtship but ours fails even with the courtship? Have u ever wondered how a lady that was told that her in-laws came to ask for her hand in marriage and the lady agrees and go through with the marriage? Raising 3 big boys and calling the man that was once a stranger in her life "my world"? It's not about what life throws at you. It's about what you make of it. My advise. Reset your thinking in respect of your fantasies and likes in women. See your wife as someone u are getting to know and woo for the first time. Talk to her how u would if u just met her for the first time. Take her out. Discuss. Whether you feel like talking to her or not, talk to her. She is meant to be your companion. Participate in home chores once in a while. Help her out if she is in the kitchen. No matter how horrible ur Kitchen skills are, u suppose sabi cut onions or pick beans . When you two show affection to each other, the hunger for sex will come naturally. After u have given the relationship all these and there is no improvement after 7 months, you can file for divorce after discussing with the issues with your wife. You guys deserve to be happy in your home as Nigeria alone na enough reason to grumble. Don't forget to let God into your marriage. Always pray for your marriage. It's well with you. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by ImaIma1(f): 11:14pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
dvkot: What are you on about? |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Nobody: 11:14pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Make it work man. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by Brunicekid(m): 11:15pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
sylve11:The deed has been done... Condemnation cannot change #the matter on ground... Man, you and your wife needs to agree on a reasonable decision to take. |
Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by kaycee125: 11:15pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
But when you hang her leg for your shoulder you no know. |
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