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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by justified007: 8:51pm On Jul 07, 2020

Let your senses guide you

Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by simplepee(f): 8:51pm On Jul 07, 2020

Pastors kill you there mumu.

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by missawele(f): 8:52pm On Jul 07, 2020

merieam16:
U re nt intrested in wat d pastors says, nd u dont wat 2 follow d dream. Oga, which 1 u dey sef. God has said enough, is either u follow wat he says or follow ur heart. las las na u go live with d woman nt us

You just said my mind.

You prayed with 5 pastors, and 4 of them confirmed. You are also having dreams. How else do you want God to talk to you?

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jul 07, 2020

Biglittlelois:
The dream can mean anything, e.g she might be pretending right now to be in your good book in order to get married, and later on, when the going is good and things becomes bad all of a sudden, the mask will fall off, and after so many evils, she will up and leave,

And for your first gf, you both may not see eye to eye because you are currently not on same page, that doesnt mean she still doesnt love you and want to be with you, she just can't hide who she is, and this may be heavens way of telling you to be patient and not get married in a hurry to the 2nd, just wait patiently and pray, who knows, fate may bring you and your first together.

P.S this is solely my candid opinion, nothing more.

Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by Cutiekatty: 8:52pm On Jul 07, 2020

That dream means you will be happy but it will be short lived ,since you can't find her before waking up it means death . she may be taken from you through death. Please pray hard

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by sniperr007(m): 8:53pm On Jul 07, 2020

novakk:
I earlier posted this story:
https://www.nairaland.com/5694171/4-out-5-pastors-said

In the initial writeup, I said how someone I wasn't getting along with someone I was dating, prayed about it with different people since we were very serious, and how majority said we were meant to be together. I however wasn't fully convinced as we seemed to be different, constantly having little issues, different views and values in life.

Moving to today...
I decided to move on from the supposed "wife". I went with someone that gives me peace of mind. I also thought its better not to live my life based on "pastor said this or that"
However, I've had recurring dreams about the 2nd lady (that gives me peace of mind). The dreams always center around us been together and she suddenly leaving, I won't be able to find her later in the dream. 2 days ago, was the 3rd dream of the same nature.

I am now slightly worried, I don't want to give in to dreams, and want to believe I can pray things are successful and go well between us. Conversely, based on our traditions, maybe I am the one not listening to advice. Between the 1st lady and I are no longer on talking terms.

What do you think? What advice do you have on how best to move forward? I want to learn from other's experience, those who have traveled this road before me.

Pray pray and pray.

Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by monimekaz(m): 8:53pm On Jul 07, 2020

novakk:
I earlier posted this story:
https://www.nairaland.com/5694171/4-out-5-pastors-said

In the initial writeup, I said how someone I wasn't getting along with someone I was dating, prayed about it with different people since we were very serious, and how majority said we were meant to be together. I however wasn't fully convinced as we seemed to be different, constantly having little issues, different views and values in life.

Moving to today...
I decided to move on from the supposed "wife". I went with someone that gives me peace of mind. I also thought its better not to live my life based on "pastor said this or that"
However, I've had recurring dreams about the 2nd lady (that gives me peace of mind). The dreams always center around us been together and she suddenly leaving, I won't be able to find her later in the dream. 2 days ago, was the 3rd dream of the same nature.

I am now slightly worried, I don't want to give in to dreams, and want to believe I can pray things are successful and go well between us. Conversely, based on our traditions, maybe I am the one not listening to advice. Between the 1st lady and I are no longer on talking terms.

What do you think? What advice do you have on how best to move forward? I want to learn from other's experience, those who have traveled this road before me.

First thing first :what is worth in Naira or USD? Bros see the kind dream u dey dream, na woman matter you carry for head upadan when people of your age grade are looking for money.. I mean good money.. Better money!!

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by PrincessJr(f): 8:53pm On Jul 07, 2020

Follow your heart

Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by Nobody: 8:53pm On Jul 07, 2020

kendrick9:
Nigerians,
Always waiting on a man with suit on an alter to tell them what or not to do.
Can't you make your decision based on your heard and heart without seeking an opinion from a so called 'man of God'?
Is the pastor a seer?
Do you think he sees the future?

Why are you particular about the 'suit'? undecided

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by Iseoluwani: 8:53pm On Jul 07, 2020

novakk:
I earlier posted this story:
https://www.nairaland.com/5694171/4-out-5-pastors-said

In the initial writeup, I said how someone I wasn't getting along with someone I was dating, prayed about it with different people since we were very serious, and how majority said we were meant to be together. I however wasn't fully convinced as we seemed to be different, constantly having little issues, different views and values in life.

Moving to today...
I decided to move on from the supposed "wife". I went with someone that gives me peace of mind. I also thought its better not to live my life based on "pastor said this or that"
However, I've had recurring dreams about the 2nd lady (that gives me peace of mind). The dreams always center around us been together and she suddenly leaving, I won't be able to find her later in the dream. 2 days ago, was the 3rd dream of the same nature.

I am now slightly worried, I don't want to give in to dreams, and want to believe I can pray things are successful and go well between us. Conversely, based on our traditions, maybe I am the one not listening to advice. Between the 1st lady and I are no longer on talking terms.

What do you think? What advice do you have on how best to move forward? I want to learn from other's experience, those who have traveled this road before me.

when i was in sch, i was interested in our sister cord, but was told she wasnt the one, that i should wait, the lady God gave me at first not my wish, so i prayed the hell out of my life, from class room to fellowship to mountain until God spoke directly to me that she was the one.

those pastors might be right, but u need To pray and be convinced. Dreams are the smallest means by which God speaks to man. Let God give u His word

His word is Yea and Amen. u will be able to say *God you told me this.......

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by Nobody: 8:54pm On Jul 07, 2020

Eulalia:
Mi

Darling

Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by Maobichek: 8:55pm On Jul 07, 2020

novakk:
I earlier posted this story:
https://www.nairaland.com/5694171/4-out-5-pastors-said

In the initial writeup, I said how someone I wasn't getting along with someone I was dating, prayed about it with different people since we were very serious, and how majority said we were meant to be together. I however wasn't fully convinced as we seemed to be different, constantly having little issues, different views and values in life.

Moving to today...
I decided to move on from the supposed "wife". I went with someone that gives me peace of mind. I also thought its better not to live my life based on "pastor said this or that"
However, I've had recurring dreams about the 2nd lady (that gives me peace of mind). The dreams always center around us been together and she suddenly leaving, I won't be able to find her later in the dream. 2 days ago, was the 3rd dream of the same nature.

I am now slightly worried, I don't want to give in to dreams, and want to believe I can pray things are successful and go well between us. Conversely, based on our traditions, maybe I am the one not listening to advice. Between the 1st lady and I are no longer on talking terms.

What do you think? What advice do you have on how best to move forward? I want to learn from other's experience, those who have traveled this road before me.

. Is it in Nairaland that you are asking for advice on issue like this? It could have been better if you follow your instinct since what PSTs told you at first wasn't ok by you, but I must advise you to stay away from Nairaland with issue such as this cos majority that are here are immature set of ppl, try and go ppl who have experience and have come of age, thank you.

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by dave4rella(m): 8:55pm On Jul 07, 2020

Go with the person with the biggest boobs
It doesn't fail

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by medic555(m): 8:56pm On Jul 07, 2020

bro my pastor said will not build your family, but baba pray and pray again and trust God for they that their trust in God shall not be put to sham

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by Jabioro: 8:57pm On Jul 07, 2020

The meaning of your dream.The lady you are seeing or having your mind with,there would be by tomorrow,I meant future which is not too far from the present a circumstances beyond you and her that would definitely separate you ..I prayed not by death.. because In that dream it indicated the point of you can't find her.."death"..To avoid it, avoid the present courtship..

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by Holamiwepo: 8:57pm On Jul 07, 2020

[quote author=novakk post=914791 it depends, have you mastered the art of hearing God before? How does he speak to you. Has he ever spoken to you through dreams before? These questions must be answered
I agree, which is why I decided to pray about it and move with my decision.
So am I to take the dreams to mean anything?[/quote]

Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by ednut1(m): 8:58pm On Jul 07, 2020

The Bible says he who finds a wife.... Not he who pastor helps find wife

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by StillWiz: 8:58pm On Jul 07, 2020

kollinskollins:
Unlearn all this evil habits of pastorship nonsense and seek within yourself. Compare and contrast btw Una 2 and you will arrive at the answer.

I second the motion

Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by Nobody: 8:58pm On Jul 07, 2020

eni4real:

Darling

Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by colestephan86: 8:59pm On Jul 07, 2020

novakk:
I earlier posted this story:
https://www.nairaland.com/5694171/4-out-5-pastors-said

In the initial writeup, I said how someone I wasn't getting along with someone I was dating, prayed about it with different people since we were very serious, and how majority said we were meant to be together. I however wasn't fully convinced as we seemed to be different, constantly having little issues, different views and values in life.

Moving to today...
I decided to move on from the supposed "wife". I went with someone that gives me peace of mind. I also thought its better not to live my life based on "pastor said this or that"
However, I've had recurring dreams about the 2nd lady (that gives me peace of mind). The dreams always center around us been together and she suddenly leaving, I won't be able to find her later in the dream. 2 days ago, was the 3rd dream of the same nature.

I am now slightly worried, I don't want to give in to dreams, and want to believe I can pray things are successful and go well between us. Conversely, based on our traditions, maybe I am the one not listening to advice. Between the 1st lady and I are no longer on talking terms.

What do you think? What advice do you have on how best to move forward? I want to learn from other's experience, those who have traveled this road before me.

An uncle if mine went to a pastor for guidance about a business he wanted to start , the pastor told him that he shouldn't do the business, today his logistics business is so big that he buys brand new FAW trucks.
My conclusion is analysis paralysis is our problem.
If you feel the girl is good for you then go for her rather than asking everyone to tell you their diverse opinions

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by OgbeniOptional(m): 9:00pm On Jul 07, 2020

Lol, don't believe that shit. Pastor, Alfa dem said one stingy, lazy, temperamental, 0% in bedmatics is my wife. I reject it danu danu. U see my thought about this is, those pastors will always see the ones that are more prayerful on husband matter.

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by Ohamzee: 9:00pm On Jul 07, 2020

masterP042:

Men, nigga I've been observing your post for a very long time.. Do u ever reason outside the bible or religion? Do u sometimes engage in reasonable discussions about life, business, sports or politics without involving or referencing the bible? For me it's very tormenting, I just pity those around you or those u engage daily on discussions. Dem dey try.

thats why we are christians. we torment the devil.

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by valentineuwakwe(m): 9:01pm On Jul 07, 2020

pls pray on your own n pray real hard. .some of this men of God can be confusing attimes. .that's how almost 8 of them couldn't see I was married n started referring another lady for me as my wife to be....

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by Afolashade00(f): 9:02pm On Jul 07, 2020

According to your write up, I can relate. You want the second lady because you think you are compatible and she's better in so many ways compared to the first one.
I would urge you to take your dream seriously since this is the third time already.
God speaks in different ways, since you don't want to go with what the pastors said. Now he has come to you in dreams then you are still doubting.
What exactly do you want? Or will you prefer God to come down from heaven?
I advice, pray fervently and ask God to open your eyes of understanding or probably ask for confirmation from God through someone else entirely .
What if the second lady is only pretending, hmmm! I pray you don't marry the wrong person.

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by Holamiwepo: 9:02pm On Jul 07, 2020

[color=#006600][/color]for us the bible is not an accessory, it is our life. We can't live or think outside it. The word of God defines our world view. Mind you, we are not nonentities

masterP042:

Men, nigga I've been observing your post for a very long time.. Do u ever reason outside the bible or religion? Do u sometimes engage in reasonable discussions about life, business, sports or politics without involving or referencing the bible? For me it's very tormenting, I just pity those around you or those u engage daily on discussions. Dem dey try.

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by mistijude: 9:05pm On Jul 07, 2020

There is a way which seemeth right to people, but the end thereof is the way of death and perdition

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by sanpipita(m): 9:05pm On Jul 07, 2020

In this age, its pastors who are mostly fake that will tell you who is meant for you or not? are you sure you are ready for marriage

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by Psylas2: 9:05pm On Jul 07, 2020

Why should pastors tell you who your wife is?

You be mumu

Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by Dasgoro: 9:07pm On Jul 07, 2020

Never put the destiny of your marriage in the outcome of a dream, Revelation or prophecy if you do not see the alignment with God's word.

The question I will ask is this : Do you know God's counsel about marriage...?

Have you studied His word in this light?

Have you then found a wife like the Bible prescribed...?

If you have God's word, you can never Marry wrong

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by bandol(m): 9:07pm On Jul 07, 2020

masterP042:

Men, nigga I've been observing your post for a very long time.. Do u ever reason outside the bible or religion? Do u sometimes engage in reasonable discussions about life, business, sports or politics without involving or referencing the bible? For me it's very tormenting, I just pity those around you or those u engage daily on discussions. Dem dey try.

There should be a dislike button

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Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by SweetCunt97(f): 9:08pm On Jul 07, 2020

I personally pray to my God. I don't wait for any pastor to tell me b.s

Re: RE: 4 Out Of 5 Pastors Said She Is My Wife, But We Dont See Eye To Eye by Ohamzee: 9:09pm On Jul 07, 2020

Wasky101:
Even though I only read the topic before commenting,I can tell you for free that the pastor dey yansh the babe.
He wants you to marry her so she will be close by for constant yanshing
Or He has finished using the girl and he is trying to find her a husband to hand over to so he can move to other babes

i almost thought this guy would make great sense at first.

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