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| Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Eniolakiite(f): 11:51pm On Jul 09, 2020 |
Hello Nairalanders  Just want to know our views and opinions on this. I have observed that women especially from Africa easily compromise in relationships. For example, this lady wants Canada PR but because she doesn't want to leave her guy, she gives up on even trying. And many times, her guy will leave her and travel for jobs, like he won't even deliberate on not going cause of her, off he goes every time. Also I have heard of ladies who get scholarships to study abroad refusing to go cause they don't want to leave their boyfriend, but if it was the guy that got such offer, off he goes. Men most times always go for what they want even if it means leaving their girlfriend but a woman will always want to consider the relationship and prefer not to go for what she wants just to keep the relationship, and most times such relationships might not even work out. Why tho? |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by donbachi(m): 11:58pm On Jul 09, 2020 |
Men have second hand value..women dont. They have alot to loose if they dont compromise..like you rightly posited "relationship might not work out". 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by DaddyRochie1642: 12:04am On Jul 10, 2020 |
That's How It's Supposed To Be. 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by yanabasee1(m): 12:05am On Jul 10, 2020 |
Let me shock you..... Women are mothers in nature..... If a lady puts herself before anything else, then she will always live to regret it..... Most ladies give everything to make a relationship to hold..This behavior often help them to keep their homes together as a virtue woman..... Men will always look for greater opportunities then return back to make their homes a happy place for their wives...A man wants to achieve everything to please his wife...to make her happy, comfortable and secured... There are millions of women out there that will tell you that they made decisions to stay back with their men and it was worth it ...Forget the few stories you heard...The good testimonies are there too...women who make does sacrifice should speak up!! 6 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Eniolakiite(f): 12:05am On Jul 10, 2020 |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Eniolakiite(f): 12:06am On Jul 10, 2020 |
Interesting yanabasee1: |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Eniolakiite(f): 12:06am On Jul 10, 2020 |
second hand value means what ?? donbachi: |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Eniolakiite(f): 12:08am On Jul 10, 2020 |
And why is the man not also seeing the relationship not working out as a lot to loose? donbachi: |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Nobody: 12:29am On Jul 10, 2020 |
It's because men are like he-goats, we ain't loyal to anything except something stronger, superior to us like our bosses, even female bosses too and something very very smaller to us. This is why a man will obey his 5yr old daughter but argue with his wife all day.  Funny but that's the sad truth. Relationships and marriages stand tests of time because some women somewhere put their foots down and compromise on issues. Don't get me wrong here, there are many responsible and faithful men out there who compromise too. Do you know that a husband can be unfaithful but the marriage will still be very smooth until the woman decides not to compromise and hell will be let loose. A marriage that husband and wife are willing and prepared to compromise on issues will last longer than Methuselah. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Eniolakiite(f): 12:33am On Jul 10, 2020 |
Hahaha.... Men are like he-goats....I see J111333: |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by tobechi20(m): 2:26am On Jul 10, 2020 |
that is how society groomed them and that is how some men abuse them.knowing fully well that she will tolerate it |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Eniolakiite(f): 2:36am On Jul 10, 2020 |
 tobechi20: |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by dingbang(m): 5:45am On Jul 10, 2020 |
I will slap a girlfriend if she tells me she doesn't want to go to Canada because of me. What kind of foolish love is that? Maybe the slap will reset her senses and drive her out of this country. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Eniolakiite(f): 12:19pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
dingbang: |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by esmarcq(m): 12:20pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
Men also make compromises in relationships, but we are not here to argue. We live in a society that is evolving from over dependence on the man, our culture is structured in such a way that the woman has to be a dependant, many parents have groomed their daughters this way. I don't really know why some me will feel threatened by this kind of progress. The thing Don tire me abeg 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Fatboikoo: 12:34pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
Men don't loud the compromises they make, so women think they make more compromise 4 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by ednut1(m): 1:27pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
Eniolakiite:since I have been in Canada i have seen single 9ja babes some have bf in 9ja. The lady in question is at fault. Many ladies don't want to relocate as it is hard to find a husband abroad. Marriage is not a big deal here but to many 9ja ladies, it is do or die. So you cant blame men for that. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Eniolakiite(f): 2:59pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
Interesting ednut1: |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Adonko(m): 3:27pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
dingbang:incase u r wondering who gave you your first like ..wonder know more cos it's me. I like your comment alot, to me that's true love..I forced my ex to go back to the state were she studied, after she refused to leave naija, today she is there we talk alot she is happy, and things are moving well,am even benefiting more than when she was here ...Also I warned my babe in Europe that if she returned to naija I will break up with her, and there will be no marriage, this is a lady who is 2 months away from getting her permanent resident papers ..all cos she has flare for naija tins & she loves me doesn't want to loose me, I told her not to worry she should remain there I will do the coming.. nonsense. Who naija help . 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Gentle0wavez: 3:40pm On Jul 10, 2020 |
Fatboikoo: Nine figures dollars fall on you there joor, you too get inner sense. As if to travel up and down dey sweet. Look left to most men they won't even stress them selves traveling and doing exploits but they have to do it for their wives and children. My dad traveled to Germany and lied that he was a refugee so that they would accept him, the little money that Government agreed to pay him there he was sending it for us here in Nigeria to eat and pay some bills and still need to do small hustle for our school fees and house rent. Please if not for us would he have travelled?? If not for some men's wives they will not be looking for far opportunities. Is that one too not compromise?? 3 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Choicexx(m): 9:17am On Mar 06, 2021 |
Eniolakiite: Intelligent question Eniola , I think it so because of how “easily” a man can propose to “any” woman ,but a woman generally will have a hard time proposing to a man (Even if it sails through, ‘this man’ will most likely view her differently and probably treat her differently (negatively or positively). I think is no different even in the USA right? (Men do the proposing to women) Now to your question “why do women compromise more in relationships?” “compromise more” depends on how you view it. It is also possible the other way round. Why do men compromise more in relationships ? Relationship is between two different people aiming for a common goal. So I don’t think one does it more —though society makes it seem so —than the other. The other too might compensate for that compromises in another way. Look at this 1+2 = 3 also -1+4 =3 , 0+3 =3 , 2.5+ 0.5= 3, I can go on and on so we all compromise but it depends on us to define which is more than the other even though I think we all compromise equally. |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Nobody: 12:39pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
They both compromise equally, but in different ways. A woman will almost never compromise in matters concerning the future family's financial status; like if the man loses his job for example. That is what is important to them. A man will also almost never compromise if it comes to a cheater or a disrespectful woman because those things are important to him. As for leaving a bf or gf to travel abroad, both sexes will do it. But a woman will only do it if she believes that her current bf has no future potential and that she can do better where she is going. Women dump men far more than the converse. 2 Likes |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Nobody: 1:25pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
Eniolakiite:So Men Don't Compromise, It's Only U Ladies Dat Do. U Try Ehn!! |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by FreeSpirited: 3:03pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
Eniolakiite:Your use of 'compromise' in the heading is ambiguous in this context...I thought u meant why do ladies easily "Bleep up" in relationship, until I read the paot |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by bluefilm: 7:11pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
donbachi: Straightforward and simple answer. I like that. Keep it up. |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by specialmati(m): 7:24pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
Eniolakiite:a man is crown for a woman thats the reason a woman has to think of her crown before making any move.dont lose your crown ooh its hard this time around I even heard about some slay lady using one kamata medicine on men this days.am joking ooh |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by ABANGWABOI(m): 8:12pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
#ILMOVON #Attitude #Bliv The one that invest the least, easily walk away from the relationship on like the one that invested the more and we all know amongst both sex who invests more in relationships in Nigeria.. Women compromise more than men?? In Nigeria ?? Op abegg lie small small nah.. Na this same Nigeria wey I dey wey women dey dump men and relationship for the most flimsy of excuses na em you say Dem dey compromise for ?? Fear god small for this your lie nah.. Abegg.. |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by bigpicture001: 9:54pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
OP..I guess ur just seeking opinions.... We all know men love more,sacrifice more and given more to a relationship |
| Re: Why Do Women Compromise More In Relationships? by Nazgul: 10:30pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
They don't do it for love, they compromise when age isn't on their side anymore, because separating from a promising relationship they've spent years to groom and nurture for a job or business they feel they can always get something much better isn't worth the risk to them. Because trying to find a new guy who will commit to them is a Herculean task considering their age and other factors hence their decision to compromise. |
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