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Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by DaniDani(m): 4:49pm On Jul 14, 2020 |
Have you gone to the village? |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Godlovesyou28: 12:57am On Jul 19, 2020 |
DaniDani: I hope to take care of something first; I guess, get stronger physically before going. Am so afraid (I really don't know why). Never been so scared and insecure all my life. I am so hated in my family (I never thought it'll get to me this much). I can't sleep anymore and sometimes I don't even remember to eat until after a day or two at times and don't feel notice until I feel too weak to get out of bed. I hate to go out too except its extremely important. I get very angry for no reason at my self and destroy or set my belongings ablaze. Am loosing touch of my business and my sales girls are looting me dry and I don't seem to care. Why? Can't I fix anything anymore? 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by dep07(f): 7:50am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28: |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by investigator007: 10:27am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Omo na wa o |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by jasent(m): 10:28am On Jul 19, 2020 |
vikkimimi:Pastor what?elderly ones in the family will be OK. |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by textilemania(m): 10:29am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Ishilove:LMAO 1 Share
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Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by flyingdutchman(m): 10:29am On Jul 19, 2020 |
I do not support trouble but, I detest lies. If you would like to sue him, I will support you financially. I no kuku get much but, I can afford a lawyer. It is your right. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by SexytorresE(f): 10:31am On Jul 19, 2020 |
On this matter , I belong to the C.R.A thank u. Hit like if u are one |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Nobody: 10:34am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:You're probably a stolen child. |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by backnbeta(f): 10:34am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Ishilove:Most likely @Godlovesyou28, find out if your parents had a househelp around the time you were born, someone your stepmum and dad could intimidate into giving up her child easily. I know of a case like yours where the baby was taken away from the househelp. 15 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Chidonc(m): 10:35am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:Favour(gifts) open doors. Don't take it in a biblical way please. Find one of those your relatives that's really struggling, come to his/her aids a couple of times, support their children in any little way, sooner than later he/she will open up. Humans always prefer where there is something to gain. Additional tip, remember, the enemy if your enemy is your friend. Preferably find the relative that has fallen out in good terms with your father or stepmum. It works fastest. 22 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Kceeboss(m): 10:36am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Probably you are adapted child,That could be the only reason there is still no trace on your mummy's where about. |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by femoomo(m): 10:36am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Am suspecting your dad has an extra martial affairs which was how you are given birth to,and the baby was taken away from your real mother and your dad promise never to contact her again and your step mother takes over to raise you as her own. Reason why she treated you with so much hatred is because she can't seem to forgive your father and she kept on transferring the aggression on you. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by monimekaz(m): 10:37am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28: Have you considered pulling a gun on them. The fact is that most of these people will call elders in Africa are nonentities ,until you show how brutally stupid they are, they won't wake up from their dogmatic slumber. 8 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by xangerar: 10:37am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28: The same father you were thinking of suing? |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by tehilah92(f): 10:37am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Wow, I feel your pain dear, so sad, I didn't grow up wit my mom too, but the difference is my mom died when I was very tender, if u have to sue them go ahead, make it public, kill this fear in you or it will kill u, do what u can for u and ur mom Hugs and love from here |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by EazyMoh(m): 10:39am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:Sorry about this. Many of us went through the tribulations of growing up not with our biological parents. You are probably stolen from Kano. Your so called Dad might as well not be your biological father. |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Lessonbalogun: 10:39am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Do you ever think maybe you are adopt from the motherless baby home or you are giving birth to by a surrogate mum or someone your dad have a fling with. I believe there is more to it for your dad not wanting to discuss about it. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Lawsaite: 10:42am On Jul 19, 2020 |
OP you just narrated my story. Thing is I wouldn't really go deep into mine. My step mum drastically changed when she found out that I knew she wasn't my mum, few years back. Long story short, she played a major role in seeing that my own father kicked me out of his house just last December. He's a Nairalander so I wont talk much. Ever since then, believe me life hasn't been funny. I almost drank insecticide believe me you. He still threatens to disown me whenever I tell him that I need money. It was like I was brought out in the rain naked. I turned to a begger here on Nairaland, I chop insults wella ehh, fear Nairaland people. I was always insulted, I always changer monikers due to my profile being filled with begging. God where do I start in relating my story. I believe God isn't finished with me tho. He has brought me this far. Am in tears typing this like, I never knew someone could face something similar to mine. I almost became an atheist. People promised and broke my trust. People failed me woefully. I am traumatised even up till now. I haven't really seen someone to open up to. I am still leaning on God. Pray for me 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by nams77: 10:42am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:I like that. You are here now and thats all that matter. How you came is inconsequential. Meet elders from your family and plead with them. Meet that relative and assure her that you will keep her disclosure secret. Where is your Dad from? If you are someone that goes to village a lot, you can dig up info from some people there. |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by omobacyprus(m): 10:43am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Desperation won't get you anywhere, you'll can easily get scammed in this state you're in. Only wisdom can help here. Any gragra or pestering will only get everything worse. Don't ask your dad or relatives anything again for now. He'd probably have called and threatened them after knowing someone have snitched. Just calm down and pray to God for divine revelation and for him to guide you 4 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by zedegit: 10:43am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28: This is a criminal case. Sue the morafvkers if you are independent lady. |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Nitah1: 10:43am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:Why don't you go back to the woman that exposed the whole thing to you maybe she will help you... |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Tobi2001: 10:44am On Jul 19, 2020 |
I want you to be grateful to God that your life has been given meaning. Show appreciation to your parents including your step-mum for training you and bringing you up. Show more love towards them and they will be the one to reveal your mother to you at the appropriate time. Rejoice and don't be bitter. |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by potosky: 10:44am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Too bad u have to suffer for others mistake. Your aunt can't show your mom but can tell you about your step mum not being your mum. Fear that ur aunt, she wants to use u against your step mum and Dad. |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by YoungBlackRico(m): 10:45am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:lolx your papa na kolo man, no offence. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by MichaelSokoto(m): 10:45am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Nairaland mods dey gbana choko, Olohun! "how I found out my stepmum is not my real mum"! abeg which kyne headline be this wey d op post so? how u nor take know say ya stepmum nor be ya real mum? blame it on d mods wey shift am go for fp sha. fake unreal daaamnn niggerz, in Slawormir voice. |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Obey82: 10:45am On Jul 19, 2020 |
This is serious. I suspects your step mother. Your Dad has answer to your question but has no power to say it without taking permission from his second wife. My advice: Go to God in prayer, He will surely reveal the truth one day. |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by Burna440(m): 10:46am On Jul 19, 2020 |
This are my simple assumptions and thoughts: 1. Ur biological mum is from ur dad village or neighboring villages 2. No matter what, ur mum won’t abandon you like that if she is well and alive(am not wishing her dead) 3. There is something very serious that u don’t know for ur dad to cut u off from ur mum Nd maternal family 4. Go to ur father village and look for another family that is at loggerheads with ur family and beg them to tell you things about yourself and mum, that’s the best way to find out cos even ur dad relatives won’t help you cos they will not want to have issues with ur dad 8 Likes |
Re: Please Help: How Do You Find A Mother You Have Never Met by omobacyprus(m): 10:46am On Jul 19, 2020 |
Godlovesyou28:I'm not trying to sound harsh here but do you want to run mad or fall sick? Just take it easy on yourself. If you continue like this it won't end well for you. |
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