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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Vickho6(m): 2:29pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
This statement is so common among Nigerian gals,, they will wanna make theirself a liability to u,, billing u,, taking them out, and so on Some of dem don't wanna work at all.... I can't tolerate such,,, i no be your papa Na date we Dey talk about not marriage... After working in d sun, rain sometimes for ma hard earn money... Make I con gv u all d money... God forbib 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Crownstar01: 2:29pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Minemrys:I don't watch that program because it sucks. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Crownstar01: 2:31pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Vickho6:Men are the ones causing this problem because they wanna score in every girl they meet. Have you ever met a girl, talk to her without asking for her number? If you can do this, women would surely respect you. 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by DammyGbade(m): 2:32pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Guys no need to run or give her negative response. Just ask her same question back...[b][/b]can you take care of me also? And see her reaction. Her Reaction will show the kind of lady she is. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Chinny024(f): 2:32pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
ElasticStone:She deserve to be taken care of....or would you have likty it better if she pretends to be with you out of sympathy? |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by youngoldman(m): 2:33pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
jawalis:masculinist in de house |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Korllami007: 2:33pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Lucrativress: Yeah, I understand you. You can even answer him if he asked, "If you are not a virgin, then how many guys have you fvcked?"
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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by friendl: 2:35pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Na only mbaise girls dey ask |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lucrativress(f): 2:36pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Korllami007:If I wish to answer him,I'll answer him,if I wish to ignore,I'll simply ignore,ko faja Edit: If I wish to lie,I'll lie Ko letoyen 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by SweetCunt97(f): 2:36pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
trutht828:Baba kiss my ass. Enough attention given. Ode |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by gift2xl: 2:38pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
[b] XshegzzyeeiX: Good morning. Romancelanders. Welcome to midweek. So I'm of the opinion that in a relationship, a man and a woman ought to care for one another. But some women feel so entitled that they only expect a man to take care of them without reciprocating the gestures. It's very wrong for a woman to bring that statement of [b]"can you take care of me?" when I ask her out. I brandish her a red card immediately she makes such statement. I detest selfish women, and I believe so many others do. Only simps welcome such waywardness. PS: I've braced up for your criticisms, insults and cuss words. Feminists, waddaya have to say. Alpha males, what's your take on this matter. White Knights, let's hear you out. Is it right or totally wrong for a woman to pop that question "can you take care of me" when you ask her out?[/b] That's y most of them will remain unmarried. 6 o'clock go soon nack for there head's. There prayer point is lord give me a God fearing man, you are u God fearing. And when God gives them the man they drive him mad. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by alexsoftwork(m): 2:39pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
jawalis: Me, I will be very straight, if u ask me that kind of question, I will tell u that, "u know u have to give me something in return. No time to check time. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by DaddyRochie1642: 2:40pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Korllami007: 2:41pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Lucrativress: Hmmm. And the question does not sound stupid to you and won't annoy you for someone you barely know to ask that. Again; social media>>> reality. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by mentored: 2:41pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
XshegzzyeeiX: Am I your Father? |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by jawalis(m): 2:42pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:If this will make you feel better. So be it 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Psoul(m): 2:47pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Lucrativress: Successful is a relative term. I believe what you mean by successful here is in terms of finance. If you are a "successful" woman and a man below your class is wooing you and if you love the man and really wish to settle with her, I don't think that question will be necessary cos you are only seeing the relationship based on what you have acquired materially. If the "successful" woman does not love the man that is below her class, no need of wasting time asking irrelevant question. Tell the man that you are not interested and keep going. No need of exhibiting class. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Minemrys: 2:53pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:exactly what the OP said b4 u all bashed the fella. And came up with defenses. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Ralphjoe(m): 2:55pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
blinkz4real: blinkz4real:white knight |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Jakama90(m): 2:56pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Women are scam!!! My friend approached a lady and the lady throw this question: Can you take care of me and my family? The girls uncle ask if he it's this buying and selling that he will use to take care of her ? I advise my guy to distance the lady and he did. Now she is after my guy begging him to come and see her family. 3 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by kevinblaq(m): 2:57pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: As generation of lazy, self entitled, selfish ladies with nothing to offer is just on the increase abi. 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Ruggedniggaone: 2:58pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
tribalwarlord:who is this one that looks like a packing plate 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lucrativress(f): 2:58pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Psoul:Money and standards at times are two different things in the word successful Something's are unacceptable, if they've probably had dealings that have might bred feelings in the woman then no wahala, but if not and they're of unequal standards then it's not a crime for her to say such |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by galaxy2020(m): 2:59pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
calebonuja:..she should reserve such question for her father not a guy, even marriage now na collabo, nothing like oriaku(wealth eater)... |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lucrativress(f): 3:00pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Korllami007:See what you just said "barely know" I think the answer is right in these word's This would surely make me know how to answer Never forget even wise men have their stupid time's, it doesn't still stop them from being wise |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Minemrys: 3:01pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Lucrativress:lol, u are a very funny pers0n u kn0w that? I dnt think a resp0nsible guy goes asking every gal he meets out. There is usually an attracti0n, s0mething he likes in her b4 he approaches. And trust me, u can't say u kn0w people just by sneaking into doing studies. Cos every0ne has their own percepti0n. U have to get to meet the pers0n, and that's the 1st date. Background findings are often very wr0ng cos eyes and minds vary. Plus, u dnt judge people by what otherz say abt them. That's why people court or date. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lucrativress(f): 3:05pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Minemrys:With what you've just said,I believe you're thoughtful enough to give a very good response Cause you're saying the same thing I'm saying |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Poseidon000: 3:06pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
TOPCRUISE:They're usually brainless bimbos with over bloated sense of entitlement, and i avoid them like a plague. I've helped women I know are actually in distress, countless of times. But I can't bring myself to spend on a woman in the Nigerian sense of it, because I'm in a relationship with her or because of some useless feminine charm. It makes me sick to the gut, and make me want to barf with every disgust in me. I remember when i was in anambra heading to abuja after a project. There was a young lady getting harassed at the park because she lost her purse and wanted to board my bus, so I offered to pay her fare, and it was a grueling uphill preoccupation avoiding her feminine antics throughout our journey because she wanted to secure me in her bag of relationship. When I finally alighted at my bus stop, she entreated the driver to wait for her and ran up to me to remind me that I didn't collect her number, or at least, give her mine, with a demeanor suggestive of romantic interest. I was like; "girl i helped you out just as I would for my fellow man or any other person. So, disabuse yourself that there's romantic undercurrent to my gesture. Neither am I interested in any relationship in anyway whatsoever." I inquired if she has a means to get home directly, and she answered in the negative. I drew out 4k and gave to her to take 'drop' to wherever she's headed, then left. This and many other instance highlight the mentality of an a average Nigerian lady. To them, relationship and love is transactional in a pecuniary sense, and must be serviced with money et al, or there's no love to begin with. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by igwegeorgiano(m): 3:06pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Op, you re very well on point. My recent encounter with a delta lady whom I have spent over 7m just to make her feel my care and love for her is a case on point. She told me am very stingy and can't take care of her. Can you beat that? I have since shown her the red card and she is beging to come back but my stand remain capital NO 5 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by dtrend(m): 3:11pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Lucrativress: The Greys, hmmm |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by lexy2014: 3:16pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Lucrativress: GUY | meaning in the Cambridge English Dictionary guy definition: 1. a man: 2. used to address a group of people of either sex So were did u get ur own definition & how did u arrive at ur own criteria? |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by holatin(m): 3:16pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Lovelyn451:not all guy want the bad gurl, social media slayers...some of us want peace of mind over loml. peace out ! |
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