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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Korllami007: 3:18pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Lucrativress: I understand you jare. You'll even give him the name of the guys you have slept with self. The guy will be like...
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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by trutht828: 3:22pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Oh, so you now have a new title as an ọ̀dẹ̀. Wawu! Impressive! 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Ladyvixen: 3:22pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
lograr: Lolzzzz, you've said it all 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by babtoundey(m): 3:24pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
lexy2014: Toor. Believe me. I don't have the strength to explain further. The little explanation I did should suffice. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by ume1000: 3:28pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
blinkz4real:and who gets to take care of the man Abi the man no women slave |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Nobody: 3:29pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
THUNDAR: Seriously,I wonder why people reason like goats inorder to score cheap neutrality point..... 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Queenslander(f): 3:29pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
igwegeorgiano:N7 million? Wow, isn't that excessive? |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by babtoundey(m): 3:30pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Lucrativress:You're right. The personality, manners and PROBABLY class of the lady in question suggest her intent. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Korllami007: 3:35pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Queenslander: The money was used to take care of her emotional, spiritual, and attentional needs, but not for her material needs like some people would say. 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lovelyn451(f): 3:37pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
holatin:na so...wen they finally meet peace of mind they'll say they need a little heart attack to spice it up...insatiable beings!! Peace out |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by encryptjay(m): 3:38pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Can you take care of me? Can you take care of my mother? They ask such questions and start beefing with with your mother and siblings at some point. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Queenslander(f): 3:39pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Korllami007:hmm, next time. Channel such monies to your family and close friends.. That w be better investment!! |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by ogahope(m): 3:42pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
authority2006:It seems he's not yet married or he married the wrong one, he forgot that his mother is a woman too |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Gentle0wavez: 3:49pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Tonymegabush1: Kai, so your change is developing her. See development. 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Joeade1988: 3:51pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
[quote author=XshegzzyeeiX post=91758362]Good morning. Romancelanders. Welcome to midweek. Hmmmmm.........from my own experience this same question led me to where i am today. She asked me can u take care of me? And I foolishly yes today am regretting it cos she has suck the hell out of me financially ☹️☹️☹️ |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Caleycash(m): 3:58pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
jawalis:are you me?, am I you?, are we we?, bros na d sure way be dat for useless girls wey no wan get sense! |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by holatin(m): 4:01pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Lovelyn451:as I said some of us....not all of us are teenager or children who still see relationship as a path to sex or sexual or social entanglement....and who are the insatiable being ?....as I said..."some of us ". 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Nobody: 4:01pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
blinkz4real: Brilliant post. I am not surprised it is unpopular here. Your words are gold nuggets. 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:04pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
plessis: such woman will therefore ask:"can you care about me" and certainly not " can you take care of me" thats the whole difference, and women know it... you dont "TAKE CARE" of someone emotionally, you CARE for them emotionally. she doesnt want you to care about her (aka love her), she wants you to take care "of" her (aka be responsible for her needs).... If you want a woman and you make her an offer, she has the right to negotiate and demand care as her own term. That's why I said it depends on what you want. Most women are obsessed with their newly gotten freedom. This freedom has caused a loss of certain core societal values in our women. Chastity, discipline, Honesty, tolerance etc are now scarce in our women. Now, if you meet a woman who possesses these values, these scarce traits, are you saying you'd walk away just because she asked that you take care of her? this is just me... i despise lazy people, just like i dislike rude/deceitful/disrespectful/untrustworthy/unfaithful people. IMHO, no matter how good a woman is, the minute she asks me to be responsible for her life needs, thats the minute she become USELESS to me. dont get me wrong, a good woman is an asset to any man, and when you meet her, then you share life with her...so my life is entangled with hers, my house is your house, we can make joint future plans together...but if you came in this union with a job and you were paying for your own needs, then dont suddenly expect me to be responsible for you. is she now a baby that i would now have to be responsible for this adult person's need?!? what respectable woman would even want you to do that?! remember : there is nothing wrong with a man offering a gift/helping once in a while his woman....but dont make this a requirement for dating. Also, like I said, love is an act of selflessness, an extension of the self for the purpose of the growth of oneself or another person. If you love someone, the only thing you should be concerned about is the growth of that person. And How can you help your partner grow without taking care of her? Charity is one major half of love. If you are not ready to give, to help, you shouldn't be talking about love. If you love your partner, you should try as much as possible to reduce your expectations to the barest minimum so that you can love her effectively. if you meet a gainfully employed woman, and you suddenly decide that because you guys are in a r/ship, you will pay for all her needs then you certainly aint helping that person, you only make that person depending on you...you are actually LOWERING that person. helping someone grow has absolutely nothing to do with taking care of her needs, and all to do with supporting whatever she is doing, being there for her emotionally and encouraging her in whatever she is doing...possibly advising her on what to do and how to do it....and even if it had anything to do with money, then it should SOLELY be a man's decision and certainly not a requirement for her to be with you. Next time you want to talk about what you people of today are practicing, don't call it love. Call it what it is. Cathexis. anyone who uses money as a tool to value love matters doesnt know what love is... 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by fortune1968: 4:08pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
jawalis:That is if your motive is all about sex . Remember, some men are out for companionship and a rewarding relationship not primarily for sex . 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Caleycash(m): 4:08pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:Generation of loyal, respectful and virtuous women has already eroded!!!... this world has been in deep shit when it comes to relationship since giving women power with their useless feminist crap, well I thank God it will never work here in Africa!!! 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by decub: 4:09pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
lograr:Add one bottle to your 17:59...You valid. 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by stalingraddd(m): 4:13pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
blinkz4real:thou shall not simp 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by solonubinho(m): 4:14pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
XshegzzyeeiX: If she can't take care of herself, what on earth are you doing with her in the first place? 4 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:16pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
igwegeorgiano: you can spend 100M and she will still not be happy... better yet, ask yourself this question: if another dude decides to spend 10M for her "care" today, do you think she will still value you and your 7M (already spent)?! |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
so agreeing to date would be in response if u agree to be paying her money monthly or weekly bah? anyway only low self esteemed men would still go along to date her if she puts down such a question 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
OvaSabi1: Guys I love the brains on this one. She's definitely a breathe of fresh air far removed from the malodorous proclivities of the quintessential crass, irritable NL female. But just one more thing; even if the most fulfilling heterosexual relationships can often times be transactual, it will be wrong to think attraction is negotiable. No high-value male worth his salt needs to convince some basic chick - with a litany of his best attributes - for her to find him worthy enough to get into a relationship with him. It's overkill. So it's simply a question of whether the juice is worth the squeeze, and any girl on that table is lame AF. 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
U Are Rice. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
igwegeorgiano:over 7 million bro do u know u can use such money to sponsor yourself to some european countries and begin a phd programme |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Ajsmart(m): 4:24pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
When someone show or tell you who they are, believe them. Any woman that asks if you can take care of her is showing you she only cares about material things and will always go with the highest bidder. Only a fool will carry on with her. XshegzzyeeiX: 2 Likes |
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