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Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Nobody: 5:57pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
blinkz4real:thats why i said if she likes u genuinly she wont make a statement like care u take care of me.she would be more concerened about weda u care for her not weda u can spend on her.They only make such a statement when they are not attracted to the guy and the main reason for the dating is the money they can flex from the guy .so guy if ur gf has already asked u if u can take care of her and u already doing the spending then search well..she is cheating on you for sure. 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Ohraybs(m): 5:57pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
XshegzzyeeiX:Don't get the question twisted my brother, u ask her what she meant by that statement before concluding. Moreover, it's our duty as a MAn to take care of them within our power and not by force you do things to make her happy at your own detriment. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by davien(m): 5:58pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
If her father who should love her more than you can't cater for her needs then who are you to do so? |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by vickydevoka(m): 5:59pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:Now I gat wat I are saying. U are right though. Love doesn't buy bread na money |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Nobody: 6:01pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:reminds me of one story i read where this dude trained a girl in school then also trained the younger sister in nursing school and at the end of the day the girl dumped him for one guy based in malaysia and the jilted dude got so pissed that he was laying down ancestral curses as if that would work .i bet when the girl asked him if he could take care of her he never knew what that statement really meant 5 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by themaestro08(m): 6:02pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
THUNDAR: The question in itself is condescending and quite belittling. I wouldn't take any lady that ask me such question seriously - its clue of her character and personality as a person. And like the op to me its an absolute deal breaker. Am not sure an intelligent lady will be this asinine. 5 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:13pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
lefulefu:i would understand a man trying to do everything to better the life of his WIFE, but all these women in r/ship (with the attention span of a 2yr old), thats all a waste effort. i guess to each their own misery. here is the most silly thing: if you tell that babe that you cant help her because you are already helping your OWN sibling and your OWN parents, this babe will now try to make you feel that her needs are more important than that of your own family (or she will tell oga mumu to go hustle harder), lol! 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by themaestro08(m): 6:16pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
This question is not only condescending but also totally disrespectful. Its like a man asking his wife/gf "can you satisfy me" The backbone of any healthy romantic relationship is respect - lack of it result to more BS questions and attitudes worse than this 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Nobody: 6:16pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
My friend had an encounter like this, this is how it goes Girl: can you take care of me Guy: what do you mean by that Girl: like buy me things, take me out on exotic dinners, go out shopping Guy: ok and after all this what do I get in return Girl: good sex and support Guy: he laughed... what sort of support Girl: emotional, spiritual support Me: laughed Guy: you know what you just said defines a sugar daddy Girl: it's not like that nau guys are supposed to spend money on their GF isn't that how they care for them Guy: (laughed) and left I know all this cause I was there, anyways the girl still texts him and I forgot what the point of this was 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by NosaHenry(m): 6:20pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Girls keep asking this question because of the favorable response they keep getting. When a girl asks the question, can you take care of me? 95 percent of guys will answer, why not. 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Nobody: 6:21pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:lol most men who are very generous to women tend to be very stingy to their immediate families.some u will their mom starving or hustling under the scorching sun to make ends meet yet child might be well off but just that a bulk of the son"s money is spent on women.when a woman sees that u spend money on her foolishly but ur mom and ur immediate siblings u very stingy to them why wont she dump such a guy when she has her fill 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:29pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
lefulefu: these mumus deserve everything they get from putting a girl (they just met)'s need above his direct family needs... sadly, the coochie is a powerful tool used to turn men into goat pepper soup, all over the world. kai....if their mother/siblings are going through hardship, while they spend thousands on a babe's need (in order to get unrestricted access to her toto), may the good lord of konji punish their whole destiny. 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Happyguy201: 6:29pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
MATURELION: baba your the best to ever do it. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by macho44(m): 6:31pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
XshegzzyeeiX:Take care of her, na me be her PAPA? 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by DorianD(m): 6:33pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Just Hukha,Walkha Nukha then walk away...If you know u know |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:thats why i always say when a man spends foolishly on a woman and he gets dumped if u search thoroughly u would see he probably deserves it.If a man gives a woman anything she wants and neglects his immediate siblings he"s not being nice but being wicked. 4 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Happyguy201: 6:45pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Lucrativress: Forget the mistake in his words and see what he meant. You fool |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Happyguy201: 6:51pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Twoclans: its create not crate , illiterate 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by kolade560: 6:58pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
ElasticStone: ElasticStone: |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by kolade560: 7:02pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
THUNDAR: no woman with self dignity will say that bro, its a trash that can't be patched by any sugar coated excuse. Matured and elitic women will never voice this, if u continue with such babe and she meets richer dude, she will jilt you. 2 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by kolade560: 7:06pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
And they don't realise that undermine them.
useless ppl |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by kolade560: 7:09pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: generation of women dependence is going into oblivion. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by TalkTalkTwins(m): 7:45pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: We don't know each other personally, and might never. But coming to an open forum to call guys cry-cry babies over a serious issue like this shows how unserious you are with life. NOTE: I have some serious stuff here, so I might not be replying to you again. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by jojothaiv(m): 8:19pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
XshegzzyeeiX:NADA, I CAN'T CAN'T.. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Denver88: 8:56pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Most plan to enter a relationship without plan to uplift the man or relationship.whyyyyyyy? |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by ujujurueju(f): 9:24pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Guys why Una dey fear like this? So sombiri can not ask question in peace � jojothaiv: |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by babtoundey(m): 9:25pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Ochuksbaba:I don give up already. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by Lucrativress(f): 10:17pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Happyguy201:Happyguy are you sure you're happy like this? You better calm down 1 Like |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by kalufelix(m): 10:24pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Love scam.. |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by oluspicy: 10:41pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Dating a Nigerian lady is likely to be taking care of an orphan. Even a pig that will eventually go back to the mud. Once had an encounter with one haunty...always in need of one thing or the other. You must provide everything for her. Always telling me she is my liability, even to the extent of wanting to know my monthly earnings. In fact, most of these ladies with such entitlement mentality are from poor homes. Rubbish! 3 Likes |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by igwegeorgiano(m): 4:26am On Jul 17, 2020 |
lefulefu:my brother you re right. By His grace, other professional cerficates that I have cost me more that amount and are worth more than 10 Ph.Ds both within and outside the country. Am a certified seaman and I know what it takes to to igrade when necessary |
Re: When Asking Her Out, Let Her Go If She Asks You This Question by oshorstan(m): 5:35am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Relationship is now a career, even after break up , our shameless girls go still ask of pension. Life nor balance � Girls oooooooo relationship is not a poverty alleviation scheme guys pls run away 2 Likes |
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