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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by inwahiwe: 8:42pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Gambling addiction is a very serious problem, not very easy to stop. One tip I will suggest is for you to convince yourself that bet9ja will only take from you and will never give you. Think of how much you will have in your account if you don't play bet9ja. And lastly convince yourself that you will never be able to recover your losses. The moment you realize this, you will stop. NB: your chance of losing a 3 game combination is almost 99 percent 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Gideon283: 8:42pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by kollinz1234(m): 8:43pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Evidence1000:If u follow the steps I will provide u with, u will seize gambling but I am sure u won't because u don't gamble due to the addiction, u gamble because u love it. And u love it because It gives u hope that one day it will make u a millionaire but till then u will continue to live as a debtor. To stop gambling do the following 1. Call your both parents, sit them down and tell them about it and everything it is making u go through. Forget their lashes, u deserve it but it will make u better and stronger .2. Break the love u have for it and transform the joy u derive from it fantasies to pain and regret 3. Call all the people you are owing and let them know what u did with their money. Then assure them that u have changed and u are working out legit means to pay them their money. They will turn a soft heart towards u 4. Set a target. Since u might be addicted to it, place yourself on a week and count how many days u did not play it. Check the specific days u usually do not play it in a month (that is; if Wednesday for example is the day u usually don't play it most. Put it as a day that u will never gamble 5. Pray 6. Mention me if u need a follow up. I was ones there and the above saved me 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Eriggs: 8:43pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Dshocker:all liars will go to hell fire |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by nasbiafra(m): 8:44pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
WORLD OF GAMBLING 1.be willing to win and be willing to lose 2.winners don quit cus quitters do not win yours just even started last year mine has been since 2014. have lost some good amount of money and have won in times i needed money badly.my brother just take am say you day gada money day keep for bet9ja.hustle must pay one day.all way na way |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by haryorbarmie83(m): 8:44pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
This are the quotes I get when I say I don't gamble. Pick your choice.
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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Totoscatter212: 8:44pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Goldenkrezi: But it's TRUE. |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by udomma1005(m): 8:45pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
I'm a testimony of Bet9ja, I dey chop small! I'm not an addict, I do small change, @times it clicks! |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Nobody: 8:45pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Evidence1000:What a reckless future you are trying to build. Something is bringing you to ruin and compromising your financial status yet you keep going back to that vomit at each and every turn? Is this how you intend to be a great man? Betting is not for everyone. Some are lucky, some aren't. The earlier you know this, come to terms with it, the better for you. Don't be the guy who dies all in the name of gambling. Your family loves you. QUIT while you still can. Seek deliverance 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Eriggs: 8:45pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
majamajic:will u shut up and stop saying rubbish. wetin ur toilet roll tickets don win u 4 life. beta shut up if u av noting to say. 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by ArisingStorm: 8:45pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Evidence1000:I used to be a Marijuana, Masturbation, Pornography, Gambling Addict. Core Addict. Debt is a way of life in gambling. My advice, Realize it is demons that have enslaved you and pushing you to a quick end. Get serious with your Maker. It is your Maker that will grant unto you strength to overcome. There are chains all over you, You need help from above to cut yourself off, I was once a victim, that's why I am telling you with confidence. I acquired 650k debts then, was planning on jumping off third mainland bridge or run away to Cotonou. step 1 : Know it is demons (spiritual controls the physical) Step 2 : Start hating this demons Step 3: Start getting serious with your spiritual wellbeing. Step 4 : You need to live a holy life, no way out... Step 5 : The struggle begins, if you think you can stop betting overnight, You are deceiving yourself, You will stop, they will come again, drag u, it is a struggle. Anyone that tells u that block site and so on, bro, it is sprirtual, just know you are in a war. Don't give up, You will overcome. I have been granted strength by my maker, I have no addictions. All Praises to The Most High. I am sincerely not deceiving you or being religious, I did not mention church, pastor or mosque. Go deep into your heart and seek your maker, Your maker will give you strength and authority over this stupid demons. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Nobody: 8:46pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
1. Create hourly alarm. Tag it with your name like "Segun you dey mad? If I see your foot for betnaija shop, na craze you dey!" 2. Make "Gambling is Evil" your screen saver 3. Tell a close friend. Someone who is always around and who is not a gambler about it so that they would warn you when the gambling spirit grips you. 4. Pray about it and ask God to help you with it. The reason why Prayer comes last here is because to stop such, God needs to see that you have made efforts too and you are willing. Lastly, put it at the back of your mind that it is the Gamblers that are at a loss not the company. If they were the ones at a loss, they would have closed office tey tey. People lose more than they win. That once in a while wining is just the trick of the spirit behind gambling to keep them at it and give them false hope of making it big from it. All na scam. Determine to stop. You can! 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Bosch10(m): 8:48pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Evidence1000:mine was also bad but I eventually stopped.thanks to checkers(game). now find a game to divert all ur energy there.it will take ur time.u won't even have time to play it (bet9ja) again |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Goldenkrezi: 8:48pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Totoscatter212:I'm not arguing here... just dat we're trying to help someone out here |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by armadeo(m): 8:49pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Julieba43: Honestly I thought the op would be childofdoom when I opened the thread. I was surprised to see another moniker. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Benwallt(m): 8:49pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Switch to Betking if bet9ja wan kee you. Other options dey. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Jayslyder: 8:50pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
We seriously need a voice note feature here.. But I was once like u.. Not as stupid (didn't use anyone's money to play and I'm not in debt )but I was like u... The first step is to avoid bet9ja shops..the more u stay in there the more the urge comes ..and only play what u can afford to lose..the second step is to battle the online urge..fotr the time being disconnect your number from your account that way u can't access the money even if u want to.. Then thirdly like u said get a job... It will keep u busy..... It ain't gonna be easy but here's the logic I used to stop virtual.... "I'd rather stake 5k on normal sport bet than lose 10k to virtual "..hear this stick to sport betting it won't hurt u like this... Imagine staking 5k on 4odds that's 20k... 5k that virtual would make u lose in an instant.. Las Las na patience they do all of us 4 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by chizpim(m): 8:50pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
if your determined to quit gambling you will. Stop going to bet9ja shop, stop viewing livescores in your phone, if possible stop watching football for now. Bet me the urge will go away, it worked for me and it can work for you. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by gentleg87(m): 8:50pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
It's only federal government that can help your problem bro. By banning virtual games out of bet9ja,betking,9jabet etc... Asides banning it, no advice will help unless you marry, though you will still be playing but not with all you have. I pray federal government will do this, many youth will be set free |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by alpharoyalty: 8:51pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
The easiest way to help yourself is to acknowledge that you have a problem, which you have just done, once you are in that state of mind then make up your mind to deal with it (which is not always easy) but with great determination prayers and perseverance you can achieve it. Keep telling yourself the consequences of your addiction, one is when the people you owe gets hold of you with Police (trust me) you will not like what the Nigerian Police will do to you my brother. They will make you pay the money amd also give them their own share which will increase your debt. Your achool fees, if you loose your Education, you wont forgive yourself o, also you claim to love your mum, think of how she will feel when she will eventually get to know, it might affect her health, and you dont know how that will end. And you still have to pay your debts which is increasing by the day. Take a walk close to Police Station once in a while and see young guys being taken in there each day. Seat down and take a walk away from this bondage you have put yourself. You can do it if only you want to. May God help you. 5 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by jaeyking(m): 8:51pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Dshocker: I believe why u are regretting. u probably can't remember or know what u used the money for |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by matrix199(m): 8:51pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
90% of gamblers suffer 'compulsive gambling disorder'. They don't technically gamble for money gain, but for the ecstatic feeling they derive when they gamble and win from a burst of adrenaline after winning. Gambling is a scourge. Its addition is so powerful that if bros J accidentally appears in a bet shop, he might forget what he came down from heaven to do and get hooked to it. The best therapy is to never go into a bet shop nor use any internet enabled phone, til the part of the brain marred with gambling addition heals. 5 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by TOPCRUISE(m): 8:52pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Chain your leg to the door of your house and throw the key away |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Obakovicho: 8:52pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
EngrMarve:True. It worked for me. Imagine GBR is MAN U and USD is houston warriors na so oooo u go forget but u see virtual? I hate it |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Corbin: 8:52pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
chaiiiiiiii |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by sheyitokz(m): 8:53pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Broda u gats ur life to live oo me sef i'm addicted 2 betting and risks i starve myself to play virtuals and bookings but e no fit push me to carry sch fees play bet 4 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by abbey621(m): 8:54pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Right now as I'm typing this, I just came from a Bet9ja shop where I lost money. Money that is not even my own. The only way to save a person like this is to remove them completely from the enabling elements. No phones, no socializing, no freedom! I suggest your parents register you at a military bootcamp.....I swear you'll never gamble again but most parents are too non chalant. So let's get down to the koko. Your addiction is not gambling, your addiction is that you are still living off of people's money. Once you know say na hunger go kill you if you no work, once you realize you haven't eaten for 3 days and you are living from one bridge to another then your eyes go clear. Until you reached rock bottom, you will never know the true value of money. There's only one thing more dangerous than a gambler and that is a gambler with access to other people's money 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by johnykgoal: 8:54pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Totoscatter212:Please, dont encourage this nerd into playing it again. |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by jaeyking(m): 8:55pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Evidence1000: first of all the circle of bet9ja friends u have to keep away from them. secondly the same way u develop an urge for bet9ja. develop an urge to hate it. now all this talk would be meaningless. if you don't accept Christ as your saviour and look for a means of finance 3 Likes |
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