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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by riches4me(m): 9:13pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Omo, virtual. come teach me the scope to win now. |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by majamajic(m): 9:14pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Eriggs: He was trying to save cost sir , my advice was based on saving cost , no vex 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by MrDojo(m): 9:15pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Evidence1000: I feel for you David. Believe me, I really do. This year November will make it 3yrs since I played by last bet. I was once a compulsive gambler, too. David, if you want to get out of that hell, you have to be determined. I know how many times I said I will stop gambling but continued to place bets. If you're religious, hold on to your God tight. Trust me, he's willing to help you, but you have to make an effort too. As a student, a debt of 300k is already beyond you. My brother, open up to your family. Yes, they'll be disappointed, but it has to be done. You're still their son. If you're too scared to tell them, tell your religious leader to intercede on your behalf (I wouldn't recommend this, but it's worth a shot). I won't lie to you, things will change after you tell them. Because it is a huge betrayal. However, it's something you have to do. They are the only ones that can bail you out of this mess. This is the first step to true recovery. Note: There's no work (legal) you want to do that will earn you that money before school resumes. Second. There is no magic on and off button to stop the habit. You have to kill with time and patience. Yes, you might relapse a couple of times, but don't be discouraged. After all, there was once a time you didn't gamble. It's very possible to get back to that time. Third. Please don't have thoughts of suicide. Please. I beg you. You can beat it. This phase in your life will surely come to an end. I'm very sure of that. Look at this addiction as a threat to your family (I'm talking about your parents, siblings and future wife and kids). You wouldn't want anything to happen to them, right? Then, fight it. I believe in you. Fourth. I will tell you the same thing my father told me back then, "David, you don't love yourself." It took me years to understand what he meant. It's such a simple statement, but has a very deep meaning. Believe me, when you learn to love yourself, you would have won half of the fight against the addiction. Now what does loving yourself mean? It will be very easy for me to give you the answer, but will you really learn anything from that? I'd advise you to take a retrospective look at your life. Ask yourself, "Do I really love myself?" Don't feel pressured. There is no right answer to it. Fourth. You need to change your cycle. Now, I'm not saying you have bad friends or anything like that. This is just a means to preserve your reputation among your friends. If you keep on hanging around them, you'll only see them as another person to borrow from. With time, they will despise the person you have become. If you really have great friends, they can help you through the battle. I had some good friends, but I couldn't open up to them (I was quite young back then, but that's not really an excuse). Fifth. Use something you love to substitute for gambling addiction. The greatest accomplishment in my life is ending my gambling addiction (With God's grace and mercy). Every since I was a teenager, I dreamed of writing books, animes and comics. I had always wanted to write but gambling had stolen my mind from me. To fight back, I started reading novels. No matter the genre, I'll read it. Soon, I started writing. People started complimenting my work. This gave me a sense of responsibility. I didn't want to disappoint by readers, so I wrote some more. One day... One week... One month... One year... Now I'm here. What I'm trying to say is that you should find something else to replace your passion for gambling. Forgive me for my choice of word. Sixth. If possible, go offline for a couple of weeks. Use a simple phone. If you need to read news, buy a newspaper. I know this is very difficult to do in 2020, but it will help your urges. Aviod anything that can act as a trigger. Don't watch football or think of any sport for that matter. It's hard, but it's doable. Seventh. David. Take it easy on yourself. You're only human. Don't allow your mistakes to define you. Yes, you have made mistakes, but don't allow them to weigh you down. However, keep it at the back of your mind that those mistakes will surely cost you. That's life. But it doesn't have to define your future. I lost some good friends and several opportunities because of the addiction. But I'm grateful for where I am today. Believe me, in a couple of years, you'll smile while thinking of this day. Then you'll be chilling in your own house staring at your massive swimming pool. You just be saying, Thunder fire gambling. Eight. Please ignore any news concerning massive winnings on bet9ja or another gambling site. Let me tell you a secret. There are some people in this life, if they don't work for something, they can never get it. Say person win 7m. Brother David, please ignore. It's tempting but no be everybody get that luck. I would have shared more with you, but I feel this should be okay. David. You can beat it. I believe in you. I'm no one special, yet I beat it. Definitely, you'll also beat it. Note: please aviod borrowing. It can be tempting. Please aviod it. Finally, David please learn to love yourself. I truly believe you will beat this addiction. I can already see you testifying. Have a great night brother. The Devil can never waste your destiny. P.s. I'm sorry for any grammatical errors. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Nobody: 9:17pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
and over 2.5. Away under.....bro keep trying you go soon blow with it.... lossers never quit, never. Try harder |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by teap7777: 9:19pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
I was a victim, very addicted too. I finally stop last month. Although am still paying my debt. You just have to made up ur mind there is nothing spiritual about it. I sent mail to bet9ja that you need to deactivate your account they will ask you for reason and valid ID card. Your account will be deactivated and you can be free. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Codiee: 9:22pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
As Bet9ja have finished your life, have you tried your luck in BetKing? To see if there is another life to finish... |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Laboni: 9:23pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Evidence1000:It’s a serious addiction and only serious prayer can set you free. What you will do is to go down on knees and pray your way out. Do a 3 days dry fasting with serious prayer, I assure you, you will be delivered. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by favour32(m): 9:23pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
majamajic:Virtual is the last bus stop to hell. 95% of virtual players have mental instability. "Chelsea score na!" "Ogun go kill Tottenham wey nor fit play . "Man.utd na useless team" "Wetin do useless Man.city wey nor fit score Ov 2.5" You will think those stressed humans are talking about real football. But simulation programmed football called, virtual. Most guys that won heavily through football bettings are not virtual players. Life is simple! What works for A, may not work for B. 99.2% of virtual players are losers and never do well. But not so in reality football. Do not be addicted to gambling. Play the amount you can afford to loose at a given time or depression awaits you. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by tomdon(m): 9:24pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Please can you give me the number of the guy that you're owing 100k, I wan tell am something so that he would unfailingly lock you up maybe by then sha the dirty wey block your brain go clear. Doe don't stop oo. Come take money to go play more because that's your lucky chance. While the owners of the businesses are raking in millions, you de enrich them. Ode lasan 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Adekunlebright(m): 9:25pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Bro, u can personally help out ursev. It's very simple, have a strong decision to quit, make a vow to God never to go back there. Be contempted with little u av. Lastly u can go on learning even while schooling, dis will keep you more busy at all time..... |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Evidence1000(m): 9:25pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
MrDojo: Thank you so much sir 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Giftexx: 9:26pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
chinchonglee: Simply pray that u should die mysterious if u should ever gamble...and watch ur body adjust 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by linuses: 9:26pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Totoscatter212:The guy will still sell the house to play gambling. Quote me anywhere . 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by ikrumalemonday(m): 9:27pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
I started playing virtual in 2014 but was able to overcome the addiction last year in May. Till now I don't know what they call virtual, try to get a job that will keep you very busy, mine was through fuel station, I go to work before 6am close to 10 so no time for virtual. 2 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by majamajic(m): 9:28pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
favour32: One guy mentioned me talking rubbish , but I know gambling don finish the guy , I allowed him go with his stupidity , visual can render someone useless , but Normal game u play u go back to face whatever u are doing ,but visual can take u all day , still nothing , go up u will see the guy that mentioned me earlier , see his comments , he is still a learner or high on something 5 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by morris477(m): 9:28pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Since you are in South West I will advise you to see the man of God prophet TB Joshua for prayer and counseling |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by yusman14(m): 9:31pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Evidence1000:I am in the best position to advice you sincerely...I was once addicted to bet9ja virtual too..I am a 300level student of a university in SW too...I started with nairabet(2015)...but you know what,I just quitted some weeks ago and my life has changed for good... You can do it brother...I have seen and meet a lot of compulsive gamblers that even steal to play so your case still have remedy...the last day I played was the day I lost #15k within 10minutes...I nearly died ,I was fraustrated, depressed,down,angry and mad at myself... Actually I was playing not because of I need an urgent money but due to boredom and loneliness (so I advice that you get a job).. and stop going to the shop...find something to keep yourself busy(I am now into front-end web development,if you are in sciences or engineering I can suggest lucrative IT skills for you)..I don't have a laptop so I am using my Android for HTML5,CSS3 and JavaScript,and i am good at python).... Close to a month now I haven't played and I didn't die...you need to talk to your Creator and confess your sin(1john1:9),make up your mind not to play again (be disciplined) and forget all your loss(when there is life, definitely there is hope).. because you will always be tempted to play... gambling is demonic... that is what I did and my life has been going well for now...my financial capacity is now improving... if you need more guidance sir,let me know so we can chat on WhatsApp.. 6 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by kenzysmith: 9:33pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
ogwoliun:i swear na so me take stop i stop on the 18 of sept 2019 after i lost 80k my dad sent to me i told d cashier this was my last day they were laughing even me my self wasn' t sure but i stop to me is like a miracle to me i never taught i could but i did. Since then i wear good cloths, palm. I now ve money in my account though i still stake normal booking my broda am free from virtual bondage. |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by seanwilliam(m): 9:33pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Solution to your problem is simple.... Tomorrow go to bet9ja shop, dont take money with you , now when virtual is about to start book normally as you do, just write it down and repeat it for 10 different games... So at the end, calculate how much u would have lost if you had put money.. that way u go learn . Also find a new husle bro, as I dey now, the only thing wey dey collect money from my hand is subscription.... When I wanted to quite daily mastubation , I login to xvideo that day, I played better Victoria cakes video and I held my dick in my hand.. then I started to pictures Victoria cakes as a pig and then I thought to myself , how would I feel after masturbating to this pig video at 5 to 10 min.. naso my dick begin shrink.. I said to my self , Sean, you are doing nonsense... it doesn't make sense . Naso I stop it.. this is my second week now... Whenever the urge comes to mastubate, I will intentionally login to xvideo and repeat the bolded above. I stopped mastubating not because of any spiritual nonsense, but because it makes me feel like shitt and look inferior . These days , I go just look at yansh and compare it with pigs.. with that. I never see wetin go make me mastubate again. Except I am in a very tight situation where mastubation would be my only saving grace e.g a girl refuses my sexual advance, and I no one commit rape, I would stand up and go soap, come back to bed and ignore the bastartd.. and play reverse psychology.. lol I stopped betting early 2019, i see bettors as people who don't have lives and people who dont believe in what they can do.. I also believe they are people who are lazy... so disconnect from addiction , u just need to rewire and reprogram yourself, replace the addiction with new addiction ( replace betting with new husle )) ... And if after all these u no change, no worry, by the time you sell everything u get and you start sleeping outside or cell and seeing your mate doing good.. u go naturally get sense.. so na personal determination u need. 3 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Inhousepst(m): 9:33pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Listen, you have been infested with the spirits of gambling. Now do this. First, repent from all your known sins including gambling. Tell the Lord Jesus that you are truly sorry and then tell Him you will never do them again. If you do this with all your heart the Bible says in Luke 10:19 God has given you power to thread on Serpents and Scorpions and over all the power of the enemy ( the devils) and nothing shall by any means hurt you. Secondly, place your right hand on your head and now issue a command this way: you unclean spirits in the name of Jesus Christ I charge you come out of me and enter no more. They may try to resist the command but persist as long as the urge last. You must turn away from all your sins fear God and stop sinning otherwise you will not have the victory. See 1John 3:8-9. Thirdly, go to a Bible believing church and grow in Christ. You can contact me if you wish. I want to hear your testimony. Shalom. |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by masterflowx(m): 9:35pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Scetrocom: 9:35pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
It is good that you've realized the error of your way. What you lack is power to set yourself free. Addiction is not just easy or ordinary thing you can overcome on your own without the help of God. Please follow this steps: First you need to reconsider your relationship with God, you need actually ask God for forgiveness of your involvement in gambling and rededicate your life to him through Jesus Christ. Tell him you are sorry for the past and that you are ready to turn your way to his will. Tell him that you are helpless and need his help to bail you out of this gambling trap. Pray the prayer, fervently and possibly, with fasting. Change your circle of friends . Look for a known christian brother who can pray along with you and be your companion in this trying period. Read bible with open mind and be ready to hear from God through his word. Stop going to places you used to hang out before but rather join the fellowship of Gods people in prayer meeting and bible study. Any time you feel the urge to go into gambling, turn it to prayer and praises unto God and inform your Christian friend. You will soon share powerful testimony of victory. |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by DimIsaac10(m): 9:36pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
First and for most, are you a Chelsea fan?. |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by laiza(m): 9:38pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
foxxydude:It's a gambling addiction and the only way to help him is for him to remain broke. People like him once they have little money they always think of ways to double it faster. He's the only one who can turn his own life around otherwise he is doomed. 4 Likes |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by foxxydude: 9:40pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
laiza: Broke gambling addicts can turn to petty thieves Shey you know, from petty thief to armed robber |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Globalistic(f): 9:41pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Globalistic(f): 9:44pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by iammolise(m): 9:45pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Oboy God will not help u oh if u've not started helping urself, u even just finished playing before asking for help... Virtual has ruined so many pundits lives no lie, it's GREED that's making people play virtual, u just cannot wait for 90mins NO, u want sharp sharp money without stress or patience of forecasting.. My advice is advice urself and start from this minute to decide whether u'll drop the addiction or let virtual kill ur destiny.. No one or no advice can change ur WILL/WILL DO (mind mentality) it is only u. |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by messenger4891: 9:47pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by AyDripper1(m): 9:47pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
Evidence1000:little by little.... Stop playimg virtual and focus on real game mmmgraduallly you will forget everything |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by laiza(m): 9:51pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
foxxydude:Guy you wicked oh. Person just go from one million boys to anini in 30 seconds. Lol 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by kingvick09(m): 9:51pm On Jul 16, 2020 |
prezeus:ah ah,,,,,,,thats unfair,,,,,,delete it 1 Like |
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