it evident you have a bright Star. I hope God shock you with abundance v.soon.

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Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
My nigggar...you don't know what you have put your hand into
My nigggar.. you never tell us the full story if you want make we really help you

Na real niggarrrz full this forum and as a real niggarrrz way we be we dey reason say nor be the full gist you give us..

He get one particular thing way we want hear
Once you talk that thing way we want hear then i trust my real niggarrrz here on Nairaland them go profer solution shaperly.... some go even assist you on how to form say you get serious covid 19 in order to discharge her...but you must gist us the full story first...
If you are a niggarrr and you understand wetin this op don do to that girl then you must be a real niggarrr

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RUBBISH.

Asusual.

Dude , you have a pretty babe , who goes to your church that likes to share your meals and gist with you?

I don't believe you are complaining about her eating your when you have a ready-made wife in waiting.

Is she cooking the meals for you? If so you deserve a slap for complaining!

You need to step up your hustle, so can comfortably feed her without financial strain; if you can afford to feed her, you a ready for marriage.

Think expansively, start plotting to wife this babe already, the day she stops coming could be day you start regretting possibly the biggest missed opportunity of your life.

Always close your door with your shoes inside she will knock door tire

Alexgman1:
NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comes to my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church.

But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely.

How do I politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food).

This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny.

Let the pandemic hit u harder and harder

After eating your food finish...















She go use that energy go bang her boyfriend.

Alexgman1:
NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comes to my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church.

But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely.

How do I politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food).

This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny.

Use fvck disturb her, since she is pretty.

Mr man,there are so many ways to free yourself for such lady,accept you have a serious crush for the lady base on the way you described her.Please dont decieve yourself or those you are asking for advice from using devoted church things.If you know you like her and want to be seeing her daily, just tell her that you love her and that you really want a serious relationship with her,then see her reaction,but please dont force yourself on her by taking advantage of such situation,belive me,the girl really like you and want you to take a step.How I wish I have a lady that will be coming to me like that.

tell her make she borow u money say ur foodstuff don finish, dat u go give am bac as soon as money enter ur hand,,,,,, i swear ,,,,,,, she go tear race......




Or tell her say ur girlfrnd dey come dis week, dat u need ur privacy........ If u try these two steps nd e no work........ My brother go marry am ...... Na ur future wife be dat,,,,,,,...........

Economically, what you're doing is IRreproductive investment

Alexgman1:
NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comes to my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church.

But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely.

How do I politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food).

This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny.

There are so many people here that have food to give. drop her number she won't disturb you again

Be putting your foodstuff inside ur room

Alexgman1:
NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comes to my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church.

But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely.

How do I politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food).

This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny.

Congratulations, you just got a girlfriend!
Take good care of her o

Martinez39s:
She has cleverly infiltrated you. Next time, don't give girls such free hand with you. They will abuse it and it will lead to great sense of entitlement. Some guys fall prey to this, and it gets so bad that these bitçhes will be dragging these guys' tv remote with them in the guys' house.

If you respect your hard earned money and properties (food stuffs) it acquired, don't waste them on a leech. Keep your keys with you, and do as I have directed. Be ready to lose your "friendship" if it comes to that. Personally, I would have been direct in telling her to stop coming to my house. Just do what I told you.

how can you call someone a leech because of food ? Chai Nigerian women don suffer for una hand

visit her first before she visits you.

Alexgman1:
we are devoted church workers. i cant try any rubbish. i no wan hear, "he tried to rape me"

But she's raping your food already

Alexgman1:
we are devoted church workers. i cant try any rubbish. i no wan hear, "he tried to rape me"

But she's raping your food already

Deduks:
Bro, don't stress yourself on trying to make her to stop coming to your house. Believe it or not you are getting attached to her presence but you don't know it yet, it happens. Once you openly tell her to stop coming to your house, she will understand that you are tired of her presence around you and this will make her to start avoiding you.

Now, the thing is that since you are attached to her but you don't know it yet, thats when you will start missing her presence around you. You will be the one calling her to come visit you again but thats when the female shakara will start which might even drive you into depression sef. Believe you me its frustrating for somebody you just found out you are attached to, to start avoiding or snubbing you, its frustrating.

My advice, just allow things to play out naturally, something will come up on its own that will distract her from coming to your house but let it not be you that will tell her to stop coming cos believe me, you will regret it if you tell her yourself.

I know this cos I've been there before. You are getting attached to her but you don't know it until you chase her away, thats when it will dawn on you what you just did.

1,000 likes!!!

Too bad..you should be entertaining her and her friends and fv.cking them all too while at it,but cos you dnt have the financial capacity to do this you are lamenting and watching your resources get depleted..better find a way to make money online o..at this point it really baffles me when young smart guys complain of money..join the train and check my sig if you dare..#youngrichandhandsome

Are you saying you don't have big net that can catch crocodiles?
Ok, oga go and pay her bride price Biko. Abi na our mouth you wan hear say rain water get colour.

Guy the best advice I will give you is to know her mind first. Once you do then it will be easier for you to know the best decision to take.

One way of knowing her mind is that you should tell her a story of a friend of yours who asked you for some advice. Tell her that the friend has a very pretty lady who usually comes to his house and they are very close...bla bla bla just fill up the story with you and her behavior.

The most important part is that you should tell her that your friend has started to developed feelings for the girl and anytime he sees her in his house he just feels like making love to the lady and he cannot control himself again. He just wants to hold her and have her.

Then ask her for her opinion if the guy should go ahead and make love to her. Then while you are saying it look into her eyes seductively so that she would indirectly get the message if possible hold one of her hands while you are telling her.

Look if she is not interested in doing it with you from that day she will start reducing her visit to your place. But if she continues coming then you might just have your answer let me know how it goes then I will then suggest STEP 2.

Don't do something you will regret later. What if your younger bro/sis is living with you? Will you send the person back to the village. There are many ways to stop her from coming but what happened after corona and believe me you will not be Happy with yourself.
Tell her the truth make her understand that you are managing you never can tell she may be of help.
She likes you that is why she's coming to you, abi na you be the only church member with food for house? Or wey sabi cook? CAPITAL NO.
Think twice bro.

In erigga voice feel at home no mean say you go enter kitchen open pot.. ��

Alexgman1:
Do u tink she has an agenda? BUT she has never slept ova or stayed late into d nite.

you haven't told us the real deal but if feeding one person is your problem then kindly introduce me to her ,I won't stay here and let broke and frustrated nairaland boys who call themselves men to call my fellow woman a leech just because of food

I suggest you answer the door nakedd the next time (after all, it is your place) and see what happens.

Op, am sure you're a good cook.

Ebina member.

Why do I have a feeling that @OP IS lying to us just for fun and the likes and comments?
You dey do friends with a grown-up church girl wey fine and una no dey feel anything for each other, just to eat foods, drink and watch movies? Na waoh, oga fear God na...

Alexgman1:
NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comes to my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church.

But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely.

How do I politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food).

This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny.

Dont cook when she is around nah

Alexgman1:
NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comes to my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church.

But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely.

How do I politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food).

This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny.

I'm disappointed in you. So ordinary food you can't share with your fellow church member and ursef a Christian.

Yes we know the pandemic is biting real hard but it's time like this we are expected to show the real love (agape love). No matter how little you have bro, there is love in sharing.

Picture of the pretty fair lady or I don't believe it.

LordOfTheGame:
Why do I have a feeling that @OP IS lying to us just for fun and the likes and comments?
You dey do friends with a grown-up church girl wey fine and una no dey feel anything for each other, just to eat foods, drink and watch movies? Na waoh, oga fear God na...

there is very little reality on NL. Mods sef eve like all these sweet stories so that they can push it to FP for views ...