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Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by joepepsy(m): 1:46am On Jul 17, 2020
Hammer
Alexgman1:
Wit stick or iron?
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Mightyjp(m): 2:00am On Jul 17, 2020
My spirit tells me dat ya wifey. . . Dnt let her go. I pray you receive sense in Jesus Name

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Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by profizu: 2:03am On Jul 17, 2020
If she meets another girl, nobody go tell am say make she no come again.
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by honeyB2018: 2:13am On Jul 17, 2020
Are you sure you are a true Christian and understand what it means to show brotherly love?
Hope she is not forcing you to do anything thing for her?
What ever you do to her, the same you do to the Lord, hope you know this. If you hear of her misbehavior in your hood tomorrow, as your church member, how will you feel?
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by friendl: 2:16am On Jul 17, 2020
Guy ,it can't get any worst ,GOD will provide
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Enemyofpeace: 2:37am On Jul 17, 2020
Awon team ifun loran,awon enia Vickyrotex
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by naturefellow(m): 2:38am On Jul 17, 2020
Alexgman1:
She even knw where i hide my key incase am not around and there is light.
now, I can see you aren't serious
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by joyandfaith: 2:43am On Jul 17, 2020
Sundrus:
so bcuz of the fear of wrong accusation na why u no wan chop the pkekus, no be say ur mind no dey to chop am.

Anyways sha, whether u chop or u no chop, just grow small balls & tell the church girl say u dey try to adjust to the poor economic state currently & as a godly friend wey she be to u, u go greatly appreciate if she assist u on that. If she she ask u how, u go explain to her properly.

everything na sex? where is moral? smh
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by joyandfaith: 2:45am On Jul 17, 2020
Alexgman1:
I mean am tired of sex not her. We av never tried such. Just a platonic relationship.

see devoted church member!!!!!!smh

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Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by madjune(m): 2:57am On Jul 17, 2020
Simply put a notice on your door that you've packed out.

Chikena.

This no be big deal at all.
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Nobody: 2:58am On Jul 17, 2020
chiommy123:
but there is love in sharing na
Share your things with me nah .
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by AdeniyiA(m): 3:00am On Jul 17, 2020
Alexgman1:
we are devoted church workers. i cant try any rubbish. i no wan hear, "he tried to rape me"
Your adjective shows you really like or you crush on her "very pretty fair lady", why not just "lady" wink smiley
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by fatymore(f): 3:05am On Jul 17, 2020
In case....

Sweet deals
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Arewa1408: 3:14am On Jul 17, 2020
Alexgman1:
NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comes to my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church.

But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely.

How do I politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food).

This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny.


This is very simple, from your estimation of her, is she poor and in need of the food? If she is, as long as you will eat, you can always share, the messenger of God, (SAW) said food for one is enough for two and food for two is enough for three or four. Share, share and share, no one ever goes poor from sharing food. Now, if she has money or she is spending money on clothes and coming to you for food, then straight up tell her to stop or start stocking your house with food that you both will continue eating.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Johnnypetiz: 3:42am On Jul 17, 2020
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Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Brightminds: 3:49am On Jul 17, 2020
Alexgman1:
we are devoted church workers. i cant try any rubbish. i no wan hear, "he tried to rape me"
she is just taking advantage of you because she noticed u cant talk,that's how some ladies do,what u will do is to first start walking with your tight pants boxers only without putting any other thing on..... Then the second day grab her breast, if she's playing smart before she will run away,or better still u Bleep her.....that was how I chase one away......try it and thank me later
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by 2buffagain(m): 3:51am On Jul 17, 2020
Tell her straight up that food in your house has finished that anytime she is coming she should bring food for you.

Mean it.
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Alexgman1(m): 3:58am On Jul 17, 2020
Brightminds:
she is just taking advantage of you because she noticed u cant talk,that's how some ladies do,what u will do is to first start walking with your tight pants boxers only without putting any other thing on..... Then the second day grab her breast, if she's playing smart before she will run away,or better still u Bleep her.....that was how I chase one away......try it and thank me later
You tink its dat easy & convicing to flex a matured & classic tady?
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Munzy14(m): 4:05am On Jul 17, 2020
Alexgman1:
She even knw where i hide my key incase am not around and there is light.
No be you tell her?.

oga stand up and talk to her now...Some men sef.



If you are sure she is not your girl friend or your sex partner, Start giving her cold treatment, don't subscribe your digital antena for 1-2 months.


Allow that kitchen empty small. Be scarce a bit, infact locate another branch of your church and attend sunday service for 1-2months there. She will understand things av changed..


You are feeling this way because you don't like her, So avoid all convenience u give her by proxy. To avoid getting Hot one day, boom! baby I am pregnant. Many people settled this way and lived to regret it everyday.


A woman likes comfort, deny her this even when she knows your capacity, she will get the message directly.
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Donbabaj: 4:09am On Jul 17, 2020
The options are numerous:

1. Hide your food. Just hide it.
2. Dont keep your keys at a notable place
3. Tell her straight-up as a man (my best option)
4. Dont answer your phone or the door whenever she calls. Like let her know you're avoiding her.
5. Give her two shot.. (but e be like say u be Church boy)

I have a lady like that. She just use style dey collect small change for my hand promising she would pay back and she wouldn't. There was a day she said I should see her off to the eatery to get food. Na so we reach o, after ordering for food, at the counter she now expects me to pay. Even the waiter was like expecting me to pay as the guy. Me as a sharp guy I jejeli waka comot for there. Not as if I dont have money to pay cos she noticed I just withdrew cash from the ATM. But I wanted to pass some sense that you not smarter.

After everything, she settled her bills in my absence. I then warned her never to try that again. Sometimes you just have to let these girls know that life is not just about coarsing you.

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Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Munzy14(m): 4:17am On Jul 17, 2020
Alexgman1:
Its not as easy as u tink. We av formed dis gud and
non-romantic bond.
Why are you complaining?

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Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by hardeyincah(m): 4:17am On Jul 17, 2020
Very simple

Let her know your Girl friend is around and she won't be leaving any! Time soon.
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by emerged01(m): 4:42am On Jul 17, 2020
Bro,na your cross be that you go carry am o,na just for awhile sha. As a believer you suppose to know say this kind thing go soon turn to old thing and it shall pass away grin

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Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Alwaysachick: 4:44am On Jul 17, 2020
Alexgman1:
She even knw where i hide my key incase am not around and there is light.


Lol, see finish cheesy
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by francis5051: 4:45am On Jul 17, 2020
Alexgman1:
we are devoted church workers. i cant try any rubbish. i no wan hear, "he tried to rape me"
no wonder ur name na sundrus
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Alwaysachick: 4:50am On Jul 17, 2020
kizzoh:

Ask her for sex

Simple. If she doesn't want, she will stop coming.

But bia Op, there should be love and happiness in sharing, she might even be your appetizer. The day she stops coming loneliness no go gree you prepare food talkless of eat food. Except you really need that space to focus.
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Aurelius1(m): 4:54am On Jul 17, 2020
Alexgman1:
Do u tink she has an agenda? BUT she has never slept ova or stayed late into d nite.
Tell her you want her to be your girl. If she refuses, she will stop coming to your place on her own. If she accepts, its a bonus for you.
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Agugbadin: 4:55am On Jul 17, 2020
Ask God to bless you so that you can share with others who don't have, if she has she will not come to visit you because of food as you stated in your post.
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by mayorland(m): 4:56am On Jul 17, 2020
Alexgman1:
NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comes to my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church.

But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely.

How do I politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food).

This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny.
LOL if the thing hold you wella, you go sabi how to tell her by the way no dull am she could be coming for something else like something LIGHT!
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by pahen1991: 5:08am On Jul 17, 2020
DaddyRochie1642:





Someone is Lamentating That Things Are Hard for him Because of This Pandemic,... Instead You're telling him to Pray For More grin grin

To Slap You Just dey hungry me
when do you people think is the right time to do good then?
Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Alwaysachick: 5:09am On Jul 17, 2020
horpeyemmi66:

Add a good dose of laxatives to whatever you offer her. When she notices the trend, she would stop eating in your house.


Plain evil, na your type fit spike girl drink.

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