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| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by DedeNkem: 5:10am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: You should blame yourself for this. Who told her where the key is kept? YOU. There's one thing I think happened in this whole drama! You tried to f'ck her but she wasn't having it, you now want her to stop coming. Anyway that's not my business. Do these if you want her to stop coming; - Hide your keys! - Tell her to phone you wherever she wants to come around. - Whenever she calls, tell her, you're busy and doesn't want to be interrupted. - Whenever she knocks without earlier notification by phone, ignore her. Or - If you enjoy her company but doesn't want to share your food, eat before she comes around! And restrict her movements to your kitchen! She is neither your girlfriend nor your wife and shouldn't be allowed to do as she pleases in your own home! If she lives alone, pay her visits too! Don't let her see you as her steady food source! You're not under any obligation to feed her! Good luck. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by 2cribz: 5:13am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Lol.u dey do fine boy.u go broke. No send am away.i had one babe like dat na me run.she like food. Is lazy,proud arrogant,daft.i made sure i sexed her hardest .i will never marry under 22 to 27.they are still in prime n want 2 explore |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by emmanuelewumi(m): 5:14am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: If that is the case, stop complaining. I can't stand guys who are not real. Suffering and smiling. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by fwzolamide1(m): 5:15am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1:Berra Bleep her, when next she comes to your room. That's what I did to one girl in my hostel. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by oshorstan(m): 5:20am On Jul 17, 2020 |
I will give you 7 ways to drive her.... 1. Tell her to borrow u money 2. Stop subscribing DStv or remove the charger of the decoder. Tell her say e done spoil 3. off your power supply from the source 4. Invite your real babe to come 5. Start a rugged prayer session in your house 6. Do not brush, bathe anytime she comes. It will irritate her 7. Block her 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by henrico247(m): 5:26am On Jul 17, 2020 |
You don tire to fuckam na. If to say you never fuckam,you no go tire o o . |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by MrBigiman: 5:26am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Is she jobless? Protect your territory if you do not want any intruders |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by engrken2(m): 5:26am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Just make sexual advances towards her she go butleg commot from your side... No free lunch even in Freetown |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by emmanuelewumi(m): 5:27am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: Tell that person to advise you on how to treat this babe that comes to your house. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Sundrus: 5:29am On Jul 17, 2020 |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by emmanuelewumi(m): 5:33am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: He has enough food in his house and won't complain for helping a hungry sister and friend |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by drololaaof: 5:35am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Very important points to know she is your churcmate , " you are a devout christian" , she enter your kitchen, she know where you keep your key . Good but wetin fess me be say you are devout Christian Did you know her in the spirit, has the Holy spirit ministered to you about her. You did and not tell us the whole truth about your relationship with her. Is she single and you a bachelor, being a church member did not give her license to enter house any how, you gave permission now you don't want that again ,the charity aspect is a smokescreen |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Kyngfarabale1(m): 5:41am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1:everything u dey talk Na rubbish..... until hungry kill u wen ur food finish den u go com Nairaland com beg for food.... na dat time ur brain go correct...... ode . . . I hate rubbish.... frown |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by joyandfaith: 5:42am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Sundrus: “Do you not know that a little leaven ferments the whole lump? Clear away the old leaven, that you may be a new lump, according as you are free from ferment. For, indeed, Christ our passover has been sacrificed.Consequently let us keep the festival, not with old leaven, neither with leaven of badness and wickedness, but with unfermented cakes of sincerity and truth.” ( 1Co 5:6-8 ) |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Bigii(m): 5:43am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: Church worker. Make I hear! You de learn work 
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| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Kyngfarabale1(m): 5:45am On Jul 17, 2020 |
emmanuelewumi:I swear the guy dey vex me no b small.... foolish question and d guy no get say of his own..... suffering and smiling |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by bigfish3k: 5:46am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Nack her akpako |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by royaldonbliss(m): 5:50am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: That is so wrong on all levels. So without your permission she takes your key and go to your apartment when you are not around especially when there's light and you do nothing. Bro do you love her? And if you were having a fiance I'm sure your woman would have addressed that since |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by sigiyaya(m): 5:51am On Jul 17, 2020 |
DaddyRochie1642:Bro our people lack common sense especially when it comes to religion. In Nigeria we pray for everything even for electricity good road and hospital  |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by royaldonbliss(m): 5:53am On Jul 17, 2020 |
2cribz: Under 27 would hand been straight forward aboki |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Chucks1989(m): 5:56am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Enskynelson:Amen |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Tapout(m): 5:56am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: How did the visits start in the first place?? And on what bases?? Figure that out and u will most likely find out u slipped somewhere at the beginning. Come to my house, come to my house, now na u done tire. No be everytime person go say em wan come your house, u go shout yes! Abi na her beauty overwhelm u ni?? Shey make nieghbours see say fine girl dey come my house?? This cross of urs u must carry am alone, nobody like Simon of Cyrene for this arena. 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by SmartPolician: 5:57am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Chibukings111: Ogbeni, times are hard The guy said he cannot cope anymore Be realistic and leave Christianity out of this |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Olaa: 5:58am On Jul 17, 2020 |
You don’t need to try anything with her. Just tell her how you are already developing feelings for her and would want to marry her. Then tell her you want to inform your pastor about it next Sunday. Lobatan  She will run if all she wanted from you is free supplies! Alexgman1: |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by castins(m): 5:58am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Its very easy, gradually and consistently make those things she consumes unavailable, if she asks tell her that things are hard bow oo, your managing. Change ur food time or even eat outside for sometimes, do not make TV or those things that attracts her available, tells her you do not even have money to buy fuel. She will pull off soonest. But if God has given you the capacity to help/feed others, bros do it with happiness, times are hards and people are looking for succour. Alexgman1: 1 Like |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by lordknows123: 6:10am On Jul 17, 2020 |
I have experienced that too before she has been coming and whenever I call her she will be like what are you going to cook like we are having a party after some time I told her I am not at home I made an agreement with another girl told her to come frequently so she stopped been free that was how it ended .....this people too watch movies and them dey act like am .you don watch american food before here say food finish during visiting ? |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Jakama90(m): 6:10am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Please allow her, never ask her to stop coming. Whatever you have to eat, if she cares: share with her. But one thing you will do is to ask her to balance the equation: that is, you guys will also be eating after eating or before eating . |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by peacemara54(m): 6:13am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: This is serious. What kind of Christains are in churches these days? You're not married( I believe if you are, you would have stated in your message)and from tones in your message, you have been having immoral affairs with someone else even though not this particular lady and you still claim; a Christian and church worker? Dont go from Church to hell. You need Jesus. Let the Lord save you from sin first. That's the step you need to take Pastor didnt know your secret life but make you a worker. Lots of churches are wordly and that's why workers also are sinful. God who knows the dark secret of men, and in that day that God will judge the secrets of men, you clothed ness will be uncover. Give your life to Jesus , that's what you need. Stop deceiving yourself of being a worker. A sinner cannot work for God. God is holy and heaven is holy. As to your topic, you will get more confused getting advise on this forum. Many are defiled and corrupted. All they have to offer you here is ; immoral advise. And dont be surprised if you fell into sin with the so-call sister as a result of advise you've read on this forum. Satan will bring it to you someday. In conclusion, if you ever wanted to be great in life and reach the mountain top. To all those who want to fulfill their destiny and never wanted to be buried prematurely; run from fornication. Lots of men have been emptied and already a walking corpse. They have nothing to offer. They are dried and drained. Immorality will buried your glory and condemn your soul to destruction. Run from fornication and adultery |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by RealMillennial(m): 6:14am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: Well, you're the one offering those things and times are hard, don't blame the sister if her answer is always yes. The free kitchen access part isn't cool though. I wouldn't accept that. If things are really biting in the pocket then you should be honest about it. You don't have to pursue your visitor just be open about how things are with you. A good lady should understand. And if you're bent on being the good guy, then maybe you should be dropping your wallet address here for us to crowd-fund your kindness project without friction. My advice na make d collabo no deteriorate into a knacking FWB kind of arrangement. Thank God you mentioned Church. Cuz I've seen thingz on these streets. |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by Emmanuel602(m): 6:16am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1:That's one of the ways you can make her to stop coming |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by crafteck(m): 6:17am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Alexgman1: Get a temporary girlfriend... She go stop |
| Re: I Am Tired Of Her Coming To My House To Eat Food, How Do I Tell Her? by ylaa(f): 6:19am On Jul 17, 2020 |
1. Lock your door. 2. Don't open when she knocks. 3. If you open don't offer her anything 4. If she comes when the door is opened, don't smile. Don't gist with her she will use the door by herself. 5. If she is going, don't see her off. A piece of advice: never start what you can't finish. Shuogbo? quote author=Alexgman1 post=91724037]NAIRALANDERS, There is this very pretty fair lady who lives nearby and always comes to my house to jist, watch DSTV, sometimes play scrabble & chess. As we attend thesame church. But she doesnt reject drink or food each time i ask or offer to entertain her. Infact she now enters my kitchen freely. How do I politely stop or reduce her almost everyday visitation? (because of food). This pandemic is hitting me hard & its not getting funny. [/quote] |
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