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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by mart1n2750(m): 8:25am On Jul 17, 2020
Good day @OP This is an excellent reply, follow the links the responder provided.
With hope and discipline on your part, your addiction can be brought under control.

Good luck

flexyrule:
Why won't bet ruin you... When you want to use N100 to ruin the company.
I know very disciplined people who are "investing" in soccer and are cashing out on a daily basis big time..
Anyway.. Get help from these sites...

https://www.gamblingtherapy.org/en
https://www.begambleaware.org/
https://www.gamcare.org.uk/

If you are looking for help, advice or support in relation to your gambling, please go to: BeGambleAware.org or contact the National Gambling Helpline on 0808 8020 133.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by minicky: 8:50am On Jul 17, 2020
I was once an addict but that's when I was still in secondary School I will trek from home to school even though am given transport fare but will use to transport fare to play sport betting but i.never got addicted to virtual the first time I played it I knew it was devilish I lost 5k in a day ..even since then i.never have the urge to play virtual game but I keep on betting in live matches ..my advice for you is if u love betting on sports like I do then u have to budget #200 only for each week Saturday and Sunday doing that u will only lose #200 a week and it won't feel like nothing ..bro addiction to a bad thing is very dangerous and can lead to depression wvh can cause suicide ..it isn't too late .u need to cut the addiction off else it destroys you..

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Salem92: 8:56am On Jul 17, 2020
Redirect your focus!

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by freshkpomo(m): 9:01am On Jul 17, 2020
Benalfa:
baba about this blogging can u throw more light on how to go about it and also about the adsense, since school shut down been at home pls sir
I stopped blogging many years ago,from my experience, it consumes time and it's not easy at all, not a shortcut to success, but you can rise to fame quickly if got a proper network( connection to people) , Good contents, maybe a little cash for adverts in that early stage. You need all the social media platform you can lay your hands on to get people to see you blog posts, imagine posting a quality stuff and yet no one sees it.. I will advice you go for a unique ninche (I. E cars, politics, relationship and others), Just choose the one that suits you.

You can get a new blog in minutes from Google blogger and get a cheap domain of less than 2k from domainking.ng good luck bro.....


Together we can make Nigeria better


God bless Nigeria.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by DAVE5(m): 9:06am On Jul 17, 2020
Totoscatter212:
17 year old boy who won millions in bet9ja is now building house its indeed a game of luck


You are evil aswear

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by DAVE5(m): 9:14am On Jul 17, 2020
Kyrx:


You're wicked oo, someone is already this low as a result of gambling, and you still dey encourage am, nothing is assured in gambling, but assurance dey for better hustling.

@Poster

You're already addicted to this, and honestly, you're the only one that can get yourself outta the mess, as schools never resume now, go dey learn one work/skill, either informal or digital one.

Lastly ba, I get one solution wey dey work Wella, genuinely make an oath with whatever you serves, and place a DEEP curse on yourself should you returned to gambling. It will restrict you till your mind is totally free of it.

Your last paragraph no go work at all, I don play 250k on top supposed sure game, I tell myself say I no go play again after the thing cut, I con play another time, as I played I pray to God say if e enter I no go ever paly for my life again still swear on top join, oga e no work, honestly i play from time to time

I'm not an addict sha, maybe once in a blue moon when person chop better money, me sef go say maybe luck go shine and it's usually with money I won't really be affected by

NB; I no be addict and it doesn't affect my finances at all, although that 250k affect my finances Sha, omo e pain me gan cos nah my salary wey I dey save
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Ubonguko(m): 9:14am On Jul 17, 2020
donbachi:
Keep playing oo..no woman dey no pregnancy wey dey born king.
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by skinny419(m): 9:26am On Jul 17, 2020
OGA DONT WORRY..ENJOY UR ADDICT. AFTERAL SOMTHIN MUST KIL A MAN.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Chuksfela1(m): 9:27am On Jul 17, 2020
Ur correct guy this work 100 percent
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Chuksfela1(m): 9:28am On Jul 17, 2020
realestniggah:
Lol.. Go back to your village where there is no bet naija shop and stay there for one year, that the only solution I see for you
this solution is the best

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Nobody: 9:34am On Jul 17, 2020
Totoscatter212:
17 year old boy who won millions in bet9ja is now building house its indeed a game of luck
so he won millions and invited all these goons? including that ugly man who appears to be praying for him? where was the man when the 17 years old boy was playing gambling? where were all dem goons when he was loosing? would the goon still be there praying for him if he had ended up a gambling addict?
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Diamondniyi(m): 9:36am On Jul 17, 2020
Yours is even better,, I have someone that trades forex during the week and play soccer bet during the weekend.

Those 2 na fire.



My advise for you is to find a job which will keep you busy and have the intension not to play it again..
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Nobody: 9:37am On Jul 17, 2020
Chuksfela1:
this solution is the best
errr.. i don't think so.. he would still find away to gambling as long as he has money, he would travel to where ever to find a betting shop.

addiction is an illness he needs treatment. he is no different from people who are addicted to alcohol, drugs and sugar.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Nobody: 9:41am On Jul 17, 2020
Dammm!! you are an addict atleast you have recognised that you are that's possitive.


You need serious counselling/treatment. Addiction is an illness.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by mahvellux(m): 9:51am On Jul 17, 2020
*Avoid going to any bet house for any reason..
*get a job a job or learn a skill or follow a passion anything to keep you busy..
*Be content most causes of gambling is greed..
*Forgive them but don't forget what they did to you..One of the reason you return and keep playing is because you try to get back the money taken from you and it thereby make you lose more,and getting you in to more debts
*You are already addicted..to over come this addiction you might need another addiction..choose ur addiction wisely
*And lastly
Put it in prayer daily..
Prayer has a pschological effect on your Idiosycransy..
*Don't put your self in positions to be tempted
*Remember
prayer changes you and you change things
shallom
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by NNAMDIII(m): 9:57am On Jul 17, 2020
osamz007:
BABA LIFE ITSELF NA RISK grin

COME COLLECT TWO SURE ODDS TOMORROW. BORROW 100K PLAY AM
something! You're coming up!
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by NNAMDIII(m): 9:59am On Jul 17, 2020
OP you're very dull, virtual and dog are casted, I'll advice your mother to stop it and start playing 2 odds, u go lose for 2 odds sha but u winning will definitely outweigh the losing

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Chuksfela1(m): 10:12am On Jul 17, 2020
gypsey:
errr.. i don't think so.. he would still find away to gambling as long as he has money, he would travel to where ever to find a betting shop.

addiction is an illness he needs treatment. he is no different from people who are addicted to alcohol, drugs and sugar.
the reason that I said the solution is the best bcuz it help me overcome my own, but I didn't travel to village but I travel far away and open one business that keeps me busy all the time.now vitual be like shit to me.is 2 yr and I have stop vitual.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by minicky: 10:21am On Jul 17, 2020
gypsey:
errr.. i don't think so.. he would still find away to gambling as long as he has money, he would travel to where ever to find a betting shop.

addiction is an illness he needs treatment. he is no different from people who are addicted to alcohol, drugs and sugar.
lol online betting still dey oh
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by remgyng: 10:21am On Jul 17, 2020
Hello David, please call the Lagos State Lotteries Board on the following nos: 08080525752. Ask to speak any of the legal personnel. You can also go to the link below lslbcms.com/new-complaint?client=lslb-website and post your story. They will help you out of this mess.

WR
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Legacy001: 10:22am On Jul 17, 2020
my brother if you have made up you mind to stop then follow this steps. no 1, think about loosing not winning because the possibility of loosing is higher than winning in bet9ja. no 2 try as much as possible to stop going to a bet shop even if is to escort a friend. 3 Avoid anywhere people are discussing about bet. Finally, 4 Find something doing so you won't be idle because the urge comes bigger when one is idle. May God help you.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Nobody: 10:26am On Jul 17, 2020
thanks for the info. i dey go open bet9ja shop make i catch people like you. thank you very much. if i get 30 addicts that play 200naira minimum per day on virtual betting alone would be 180k per month. hmmmmm i dan see business for coro period.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by kingrex99: 10:30am On Jul 17, 2020
I had a very similarly worse experience and I'm Over it now. Like i have not played or even looked at a match to predict Rubbish since February and i want it to remain that Way. If you check my former topic you will see my story
So how did I overcome it?
I directed my energy towards something different, Starting Teaching Home lessons, Got Involved in Coding classes, Pursued My Talents (Singing), and Interests....Found that i am a good writer in the process sef and I'm still exploring other things. One very important aspect of my healing process was that I fell for an angel, shared my problems with her and she was really supportive during my Call back process grin grin... Couldn't have wished for someone better......Please try to look for something that will Change your focus wink


Evidence1000:
My name is David. I'm a 24 year old young man. I'm in my final year in one of the universities in the south west.
I'm addicted to gambling. Like, I can't just help it.

The craze for this thing started sometime last year. It has eaten deep into me that it now dictates my mood. The only time I can be genuinely happy is when I win money from bet9ja virtual. If I should loose, it makes me very sad to the extent that I see myself as a useless person.

I've gone to the extent of using my school fees to play virtual and that of my course mate that trusted me so much. Though, I was able to pay my course mate's fees without her knowing the truth, I'm unable to pay mine till now. I always have this mentality that I will win.

Whenever money enters my hand like this, no matter how little, it is to head straight to Bet9ja shop or online. The urge is usually very strong. Sometimes, it seems like there's a force pushing me to do it.
Before this lock down, I accumulated a debt of over a hundred thousand naira in a Bet9ja shop in my school environment which I'm unable to pay till now.
I know the owner of the shop would be waiting to pick me up with police when I resume. I don't know what to do.

I need help badly. I've prayed to God severally but it's as if nothing is happening. I've even promised God not to play Bet9ja again but I keep on seeing myself still playing it.

Right now as I'm typing this, I just came from a Bet9ja shop where I lost money. Money that is not even my own. Sometimes, I feel like taking my life so that everything will just end but if I remember the pain it would cause my mother, I'll just hold back.

Please for the people that were once addicted to gambling, how did you stop it? Is there any remedy for it because I'm in need of it badly?

I can't sleep at night anymore because I'm always thinking of debts that I've accumulated which has run into over 300,000. All thanks to Bet9ja virtual.

Someone advised me to get a job that would keep me busy so that I won't have time to play virtual but there are no jobs. I don't mind doing any, even if it is a menial job till school resumes.

Please I need your advice. Feel free to bash me because I deserve more than that even.

Please I'd appreciate if you can move this to front page.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Sheriman(m): 10:32am On Jul 17, 2020
freshkpomo:

I stopped blogging many years ago,from my experience, it consumes time and it's not easy at all, not a shortcut to success, but you can rise to fame quickly if got a proper network( connection to people) , Good contents, maybe a little cash for adverts in that early stage. You need all the social media platform you can lay your hands on to get people to see you blog posts, imagine posting a quality stuff and yet no one sees it.. I will advice you go for a unique ninche (I. E cars, politics, relationship and others), Just choose the one that suits you.

You can get a new blog in minutes from Google blogger and get a cheap domain of less than 2k from domainking.ng good luck bro.....


Together we can make Nigeria better


God bless Nigeria.
From experience You said the truth bro!!
Many people goes into blogging thinking that it is easy to make money from it within a short period of time expecting strange miracle.
Blogging is hard but also easy when you get it right.
It involves investing your time and money to develop your blog.
Always creating great content for your audience.
It requires a lot of patience and hardwork because your first year you would not earn much because it still new to the internet..
Blogging is an online real business just like any other offline business and you have to treat it as one before you can earn something from it..
GRACIAS!!!

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by minicky: 10:35am On Jul 17, 2020
Sheriman:

From experience You said the truth bro!!
Many people goes into blogging thinking that it is easy to make money from it within a short period of time expecting strange miracle.
Blogging is hard but also easy when you get it right.
It involves investing your time and money to develop your blog.
Always creating great content for your audience.
It requires a lot of patience and hardwork because your first year you would not earn much because it still new to the internet..
Blogging is an online real business just like any other offline business and you have to treat it as one before you can earn something from it..
GRACIAS!!!
so ur saying that one without money can't go into bogging?
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by ArisingStorm: 10:46am On Jul 17, 2020
kenzysmith:
bro ur quote re really inspiring my addiction is going to brothels
My brother, I received grace.

Pornography, masturbation, sex addiction or brothel are all in the same category. Different demons, different levels different bondage.

If I am to advice you, I will sincerely tell you say na war o. I have been masturbating since I was 8. I have had sex with several women, of course and olosho too. I was a slave to this demons. The strong urge will just come and push you to do it, then after, your eyes will now clear. The truth is, we have destinies and purpose in life and the evil ones don't want us achieve destiny, they want us to just live life ordinary and die without making any footprint on this earth. I had to struggle, serious one brother. Right now, am an adult now...... I already made up my mind no sex till marriage because I know once I have sex with a woman without been married, they will come, I am not deceiving you. Any lady a man have sex with and are not married, there is what we call spiritual exchange, it is not only the physical fun and pleasure, sex is crazily spiritual but we can't see it. I did not know before too. Many men and women are Spiritually dead already, having sex with them is just putting ones head inside wahala. Many have trademarks of Marine spirit, many have strong and high level demon living in them. This our Nigeria is worse, too much darkness all around.

If you want to be free and have authority, and live your life the way you are created to be....... You will be different from others.

I kuku did not say go to church or one pastor, all that no work for me, all I did was, I started asking myself question, my question was "wait o, there is God that created me, and made me na, why am I like this". Then I started searching for my maker with all my heart. I started struggling, I will fall today, I will continue to hold strong again, I will fall again, like that, like that. Help came from above. You will start gradually praying, You will fast, You will not die then you will start to shine. Try it. The Bible is the greatest weapon of every mankind, all this my church, my G.O, my religion, my pastor, my mosque...... I am sorry to say, all na scam.

Important things to do - U see all your friends that ginger you to do those stuffs, don't even think twice, throw them one side, demons will use them well well against you.

There are only two ways to the mind of man, what you see, what you hear. If you are seeing movies of erotic and sexual origins and porn, those are the portal of demons, they will be passing someone and playing someone like ball ni. Music videos of gals shaking yarnsh, bro, u go dey hide ur face ni, this videos are plenty because they don't want us to achieve purpose and destiny. Your social media account, You go block people well well, all those slay mama, guys that post erotic pic, block all of them, what you see will affect you.
What you hear : If u are constantly hearing people talking about sex, You will also want to do na. Music about sex, as in, its a war. When you are walking on the road, You know how the ladies of this era dress to entice men, You will have to be blind to all that. Just know you have a destiny and purpose, You are to be a blessing to your family and your generation, and that is why this demons that are inherited and also gotten from wrong way of life are attached to you. I am not deceiving you, sincerely.

Start thinking about your maker, start looking up, You will be assisted, no scam. Hate all addictions so u can be free.

In the beginning, we are slaves to demons, then after we connect to our maker, this demons are under our feet..... They don't born them well.
We are currently living in a generation with little or no knowledge about the spiritual, they have been deceived to think everything na religion and that's things are really gonna fall apart, sadly.
May His Will be Done.
All Praises To The Most High
Shalom

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Chimanwosu(m): 10:54am On Jul 17, 2020
My brother take heart.

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Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Nobody: 10:55am On Jul 17, 2020
MrBrownJay1:
p0rn/masturbation, drugs, gambling and junk food are addiction that are not easy to get rid of, unless you have a strong will and desire to do so. sadly, it looks like only when that dude you owe money will catch you (and severly deal with you) that you will hopefully understand that betting is rubbish. until then, no matter what we tell you, you will continue gambling
Good morning sir, i need a job sir, maybe you have any you can link me to, i am a ssce holder, but smart and quick to learn, and i do not mind any kind of job as long as its legitimate. Thank you sir.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by Halo22: 10:58am On Jul 17, 2020
The pure truth is that virtual is a very dangerous thing cos there is no how u can predict it. It is between you and the computer. However, I advise you just play only normal bet and go. Do it for one month and you will start having some relief.
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by clive2u(m): 11:04am On Jul 17, 2020
Start playing sports, highest you'll lose is 200 a day, gradually you'll learn to control it. You might be lucky in sport but don't play more than 200 a day
Re: I Need Help! Bet9ja Has Finished My Life. by kenzysmith: 11:14am On Jul 17, 2020
ArisingStorm:

My brother, I received grace.

Pornography, masturbation, sex addiction or brothel are all in the same category. Different demons, different levels different bondage.

If I am to advice you, I will sincerely tell you say na war o. I have been masturbating since I was 8. I have had sex with several women, of course and olosho too. I was a slave to this demons. The strong urge will just come and push you to do it, then after, your eyes will now clear. The truth is, we have destinies and purpose in life and the evil ones don't want us achieve destiny, they want us to just live life ordinary and die without making any footprint on this earth. I had to struggle, serious one brother. Right now, am an adult now...... I already made up my mind no sex till marriage because I know once I have sex with a woman without been married, they will come, I am not deceiving you. Any lady a man have sex with and are not married, there is what we call spiritual exchange, it is not only the physical fun and pleasure, sex is crazily spiritual but we can't see it. I did not know before too. Many men and women are Spiritually dead already, having sex with them is just putting ones head inside wahala. Many have trademarks of Marine spirit, many have strong and high level demon living in them. This our Nigeria is worse, too much darkness all around.

If you want to be free and have authority, and live your life the way you are created to be....... You will be different from others.

I kuku did not say go to church or one pastor, all that no work for me, all I did was, I started asking myself question, my question was "wait o, there is God that created me, and made me na, why am I like this". Then I started searching for my maker with all my heart. I started struggling, I will fall today, I will continue to hold strong again, I will fall again, like that, like that. Help came from above. You will start gradually praying, You will fast, You will not die then you will start to shine. Try it. The Bible is the greatest weapon of every mankind, all this my church, my G.O, my religion, my pastor, my mosque...... I am sorry to say, all na scam.

Important things to do - U see all your friends that ginger you to do those stuffs, don't even think twice, throw them one side, demons will use them well well against you.

There are only two ways to the mind of man, what you see, what you hear. If you are seeing movies of erotic and sexual origins and porn, those are the portal of demons, they will be passing someone and playing someone like ball ni. Music videos of gals shaking yarnsh, bro, u go dey hide ur face ni, this videos are plenty because they don't want us to achieve purpose and destiny. Your social media account, You go block people well well, all those slay mama, guys that post erotic pic, block all of them, what you see will affect you.
What you hear : If u are constantly hearing people talking about sex, You will also want to do na. Music about sex, as in, its a war. When you are walking on the road, You know how the ladies of this era dress to entice men, You will have to be blind to all that. Just know you have a destiny and purpose, You are to be a blessing to your family and your generation, and that is why this demons that are inherited and also gotten from wrong way of life are attached to you. I am not deceiving you, sincerely.

Start thinking about your maker, start looking up, You will be assisted, no scam. Hate all addictions so u can be free.

In the beginning, we are slaves to demons, then after we connect to our maker, this demons are under our feet..... They don't born them well.
We are currently living in a generation with little or no knowledge about the spiritual, they have been deceived to think everything na religion and that's things are really gonna fall apart, sadly.
May His Will be Done.
All Praises To The Most High
Shalom
big thanks bro is going 3wks since i last visit a brothel am ready for this fight it has been 10yrs of brothels slave i wish i can turn back d hands of time.

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