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I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by Nobody: 1:45pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
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Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by flyingpig: 1:47pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
You no go like go back where you from If you report her to her father now she may play the female blackmail on you and twist the story, na so you go collect shame before landing the village. Avoid that girl and any close moment with her and return to the village before 6pm today Thank you 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by missawele(f): 1:55pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Its better for you to goo back to where you came from. And avoid that girl like a plague o before we get another case of false rape accusation. I am a digital marketing strategist and business coach. I help small business owners find clarity in their business & make sales online. If you are trying to start a business and don't know how to go about it, stuck in your business, want to make sales or just generally finding things difficult in your business, reach out to me. I can help 3 Likes |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by Nobody: 1:55pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
flyingpig: Lol bro i dont stay in the village. I have been avoiding her. |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by Ningen(m): 2:01pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Opening up is a step in the right direction to not hating her. You can start up a conversation with her about how it's very improper and criminal to ‘touch’ people without permission. It should be easy to pass the message. You'll feel better. 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by youngsahito(m): 2:03pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
just warn about what she is trying to do and let her knows that you guyz are family and not lovers. you also need to stop all this sexual talk with her 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by madridguy(m): 2:04pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Sit her down for counseling. |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by donbachi(m): 2:04pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Hmm!..dis kind rough play.i know sure sey "NO" go dey such person mouth. |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by Unnerve: 2:20pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
How old is she? |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
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Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
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Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by mariahAngel(f): 3:08pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Confront her! Let her know you know the nasty thing she did to you and how ashamed and embarrassed you are of her. Warn her to never try that again. The shameless girl ought to be ashamed of her molesting self. What kind of nasty "play" have you both been playing that gave her that audacity? You, don't you know where to draw the line? |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by Unnerve: 3:10pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
levi5:She knows what she's doing then. You're the older one, and I believe you have given her the idea that you're okay with certain things hence she's getting bolder and making bolder moves. Stop enabling her, she's an adolescent and is at that stage where the tingling feeling between her legs will make her do/say things which will help to scratch the itch. Carrying her on your back is a no no. Talking to her about sexual stuff is a no no. Regarding what happened, tell her you know she touched you inappropriately and you don't like it. Tell her to never do it again because if you act like nothing happened, it will make her feel you had no problem with it. 4 Likes |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
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Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by Nobody: 3:17pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
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Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by TonyeBarcanista(m): 3:32pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Simp |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
TonyeBarcanista:on the contrary he is not. He is morally balanced A man that can control his dick has solved half of all his problems in life 3 Likes |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by TonyeBarcanista(m): 3:39pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
BLUELemon:A morally balanced man won't be discussing sex and other disgusting topic with his 18 year old cousin. [s]A man that can control his dick has solved half of all his problems in life[/s]A simp is not one that is promiscuous... It is one that can't act as a man and call bullshit to order. He isn't man enough to handle his issues (with an 18 year old kid for that matter), hence, his resort to NL to cry like a sissy. 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by mariahAngel(f): 3:41pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
TonyeBarcanista: Some men are their own problem. What do you mean by calling him a simp? The reason why most men hate to talk about their sexual abuse experience is because people like you shame them into silence. What would you have done in such a situation? ...and I thought you were sensible. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by Nobody: 3:42pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
TonyeBarcanista: Lol. On the contrary i aint a simp. The female in question is my sister dude. Its an abomination!! |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by Nobody: 3:45pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
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Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by CallMeAthena(f): 3:47pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
This is dicey.Either she wants to have sex with you or she has feelings for you.Just have a talk with her and tell her how you feel. |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by Nobody: 3:50pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
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Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by TonyeBarcanista(m): 3:50pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
mariahAngel:You are not a man so you can't understand. A man is meant to solve problems and handle his affairs, and not bitch over it. What would you have done in such a situation?No woman can attempt such stunt on me because they know that I don't tolerate nonsense! If accident or anything push a woman to try such nonsense with me, she will receive a brain resetting dirty slap. ..and I thought you were sensibleYou are entitled to what you think. Your thought, your business |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by bukatyne(f): 3:53pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
NerdyRudeGyal: One brain resetting slap would have done the job since she is not listening to him. 2 Likes |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by TonyeBarcanista(m): 3:53pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
levi5:Your job as elder brother is to give her "brotherly/fatherly" advice and guide her! Not discuss sex or deep relationship with her. Anyway, be forming woke 1 Like |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by TonyeBarcanista(m): 3:55pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
bukatyne:Exactly! A very hot slap sef! In fact, an additional slap if she attempts to ask why 2 Likes |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by Nobody: 4:01pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
levi5: Hope it is not angelEmade that touched your prick ? |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by Nobody: 4:12pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
TonyeBarcanista: I get your point bro. Trust me b4 this happened i have longed stopped talking to her abt those matured stuff. |
Re: I Feel Violated. Urgent Advice Needed by TonyeBarcanista(m): 4:16pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
levi5:Why you no tear her slap? Anyway, call her, give her stern warning not to try the nonsense she did again. After issuing her warning, send her away from your room or walk out of the room without hearing any explanation from her! That way, she go know say you no get joy! PS: Use pidgin English so dat e go enter well! If by mistake she made a second attempt, give her very HOT slap!!! Make she tell her papa wetin make you slap her |
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