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Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Sixfeetbelle: 6:06pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
sparko1: But the type of men I talked about in my posts don't even have that kind of money. They are good at sweet talking and making false promises. It's only those in "love" that are their victims |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by CapitalBank: 6:09pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
ubunja:I am not good at playing the women game but that money... I am good. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Sixfeetbelle: 6:10pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Stephenomozzy: Helping him build up a dream that isn't realistic? Oh come on. I thought you were more practical than this. Selflessness with a man who only builds castles in the air is foolishness and a waste on the woman's part. She'll regret sticking with him in years to come. Besides the idea of a man finally making it big in the future is as possible as an undefined fraction. Not every man will make it big and hence every lady must discern who to stay with and when to port. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by COOL10(m): 6:11pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
ubunja:. Doing great bro. Miss your miseducations. Any plans to drop more? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Sixfeetbelle: 6:12pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
iceybux: If he wanted to do that, I'm sure he knows how to send dms. And since I haven't seen a dm, that means he isn't interested. Not every man wants to straff every lady they talk to. But men like you wouldn't know that, would you? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by bigpicture001: 6:12pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
@ OP excellent write up. Keep it up 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Sixfeetbelle: 6:16pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
ubunja: Take your asslickers with you when you leave my thread. This post has no content in it for red-pillers 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by sparko1(m): 6:19pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Actually, they don’t need that kind of money! Let me share something, when I was in school some years ago, I was on the hostel, when a guy buys something new, shoe, clothes, wristwatch, anything fancy, you will see this set of guys come and be like, bro! I will use this your shoe tomorrow, and they will collate this materials and when you see them in the street, you will be like wow! Everyday always that way! Do you know the interesting thing, girls are that stupid, they just fall like that and by the evening they are already sexing the lady and to the next. So yeah ladies don’t care, as far as you can give them 5k right now, you are the king! Just like the Nigeria Police! Give them money now and they will sing your praise! 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Zabiboy: 6:20pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
ubunja: Alright.... That's you tho....and maybe for some others.... There are people doing good for themselves and still not simp about....they know how to handle women bcz they remember how they were constantly rejected when they had nothing.... I'm not a millionaire but I'm doing very good for myself...and with the amount of redpill info i have, i can handle both money and women's antics.....no amount of money can make me go back to simping bcz i grew SLOWLY to the top. Everybody and his own way tho 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Sixfeetbelle: 6:26pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
sparko1: That kind of girl won't stay with him till the end. They are what English terms "fairweather friends". Unless the man continues the fake lifestyle with her, then she may be lured into even marrying him. That is the exception sha. But for this type of guys, the kind of girls that will stay and even hope for marriage are those that are romantic at heart, who believes the poor will always be rich as if life is a fairytale. Waiting patiently for a man who has no concrete plans to even get his own wealth. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by ubunja(m): 6:31pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Zabiboy:that's why I said I don't understand your point. My point is if a man does not know about women then waking up rich tomorrow won't make him understand women. It will get him women but still he won't understand them. And I didn't realise you had asked me that question on a personal level. I just answered from an average man's point of reference. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Stephenomozzy(m): 6:34pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: I'm not sure you understand my stance in any the submissions I've made. I'm saying, so many of us (Men and Women alike) put have too much expectations from the opposite sex, with no intention of shared responsibility. There's always thread and counter-threads on issues of gender, but no one attempts to advice for compromise. Life is not black and white. Yes, if you're with someone who's banking on an unrealistic ambition, then sure.. Discern quick and move on or help set him/her straight on the right path and grow together. But for a person who has not even found their own bearing to be picky about who she can't date. Is rather hypocritical. There are some ladies whose only vision is to date a guy who already has a defined vision. They've set the course of their lives to leech on the progress of their man. What is your opinion about such ladies? Should they also be dumped as fast as they should dump guys who are just as visionless like them? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by ubunja(m): 6:34pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:what are you being hateful for? Were we not having a mature conversation? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by ubunja(m): 6:36pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
CapitalBank:Nice one. My point exactly brotherman. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Sixfeetbelle: 6:38pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
ubunja: I hate asslickers. Simple. Of course we were, but when your family members appeared, it became more a community cacophony. |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Sixfeetbelle: 6:40pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Stephenomozzy: This is what my post is about, dear. Discern and discard. Even if she wants to grow with her man, is he worth growing with? |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by ubunja(m): 6:40pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:you hate asslickers so why are you not attacking the asslickers? Do you hate me or the asslickers? Pick a struggle. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by ubunja(m): 6:43pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
COOL10:there's always more. But they'll drop maybe on the whatsapp group first. But I'm so undecided |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Sixfeetbelle: 6:45pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
ubunja: I already attacked one but I sensed immediately that this problem will be better eradicated if the root is removed, hence my attack on you. Now, will you be a darling and take them with you as you exit my thread? |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Stephenomozzy(m): 6:45pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Discern and Discard?? That's a sad way. And before you do this discern and discard game, your body count becomes like population of the Vatican. Why are you selective of which parts of my comment to address? Scared to shoot your own self in your leg? |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by ubunja(m): 6:52pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Sierusvirus(m): 6:56pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
iyke926:Nice post. Men should also avoid women without prospect in life. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Rilwayne001: 6:59pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Nice thread, even though I was expecting more. |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Sixfeetbelle: 7:03pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Stephenomozzy: 1. Who said every relationship must be sexual? Typical line of attack for every male in any argument. 2. The other parts were pointless and inconsequential. You conjured with my post and that is all I need. |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Sixfeetbelle: 7:04pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Rilwayne001: More? As in how? |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Stephenomozzy(m): 7:06pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: 1. Kk 2. k Cheers 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Sixfeetbelle: 7:06pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Stephenomozzy: Cheers. |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by bigpicture001: 7:12pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Babe standing and building with a man that is focused is worth it.... Av seen plenty examples that ended very well 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Rilwayne001: 7:24pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Sometimes you can't vividly tell a man with an obvious prospects unless you understand what he's working on. You may translate a struggling student, who's doing bad academically as a man without prospect. For example, if you as a lady, you are academically sound. While battling and doing well in university hurdles you're still passing your professional exams, but your boyfriend on the other hand is compiling carryovers upon carry overs till you eventually graduates and he had to come again next year. To you he might seem like a man without prospects, while actually he's only good at doing other things he's yet to identify aside academics. You might have to dump him because obviously he's not seeming prospective, while actually he only needs insights and support to understand and channel his efforts to what he does best. Your thread is nice no doubt because it somehow hinted on what the red pill is all about. I believe a man who's prospective enough knows and understand what he's doing. He understands he needs to set himself up first before setting up a family. But sometimes we can't do this alone, we need hands, and that's where a prospective wife materials comes in with her own expertise, advice and support. But these days of internet, 95% of women can't adopt what you laid in the OP and you know that (I'm not even sure you can't too). Most ladies only wants this when they've reached a point where their market value diminishes. But for now when they are hot, they believe men owes them money because they are beautiful. It's a pitiful situation. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by COOL10(m): 7:35pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
ubunja:. Take your time. We'll be here ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by ubunja(m): 7:39pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
COOL10:Red Pill forever. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies: Don't Date Men Without Prospects. by Skepticus: 7:48pm On Jul 20, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Ladies dating men with prospects is an oxymoron for most ladies as they themselves lack prospects or the mental capacity to spot one. Irrespective of who ladies marry, why do you think the average woman is naturally attracted to bums, jerks and assholes. 3 Likes |
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