naptu2:


https://m.facebook.com/notes/jadesola-tai-babatola/an-epidemic-nigerian-men-killing-their-nurse-wives-in-the-us-by-abiodun-ladepo/667141363328281

VULCAN:
It's interesting how you carefully avoided mentioning how the women got to "the abroad"

I blame the men for avoiding the few well brought up women already in the US and coming home to pick women who have been living in bondage to poverty.

Even if you don't like the behaviour of most of the US based Nigerian women why not pick an Hispanic as a wife? I have met quite a few of them, they are beautiful, curvy and they have family values unlike most of the lower class Americans. Most work hard and try to keep the homes intact.

Its the stupid mentality of 'I must marry from my tribe back home' that caused the downfall of most of these men.

onadana:


Bro its serious oo.My elder bros sent his wife to the US because she is a nurse.The idea was to bring him over with their two daughters. Fast forward 4years down the line.She abandoned them all.Gives the husband attitude.Sent money to her dad to buy land for her.....I can go on and on.He was warned,he did not listen. My wife, my wife..see it now.Since she got to America she has not told her husband I love you.

Wolgrace:


Most of white male precisely. The occult system is given to women because "the woman listened to the devil in the beginning." America system is programmed to alter God's marriage and family order, and enthrone women as the head AS EVE TOOK OVER ADAM'S HEADSHIP AFTER LISTENING TO THE DEVIL. Fear America system o! A sick system indeed!

Satan is all-eye and torch light bearer of the America. America's secrets can't be hidden (jer 23:23-24), so never believe any quack manipulated and brainwashing stories how their forefathers who planned and built America were Christians bla bla bla. A stolen land for that matter lol? Most shocking thing is that Rome through Roman Catholic and Vatican Jesuits) is behind it all (rev 17).

Some of us know and have their secrets in our palms... Almighty God is watching them all.

tot:

Why is a 2014 article being recycled in 2020?
Cc: lalasticlala

womenareapes:
this is what happens when you bring a Naija woman to abroad.

those useless piece of trash called Naija women, when bring to abroad will start claiming feminist because the law favour them.

Guys stop bringing your useless wife to abroad!

this is why I always say foreign women are the best instead of our local piece of shiit full with self entitlement mental disorder


I always see this set of black species irritating! I wonder how you guys are copping with them?

blinking001:
This is really bad. Women should learn to be submissive to their husbands and husbands should learn to love and care for their wives. Which kind wahala be this na

Cocobongo:
Did you notice something, all this have been happening in the so called developed country long ago and the media decided to release this information now.
Pls never you think other countries are better than us.. We suffer the same thing and the only difference between us and them is how we react to it

joseph1832:
I believe some Nigerian men abroad likes to keep their wives here in Nigeria, because they're afraid of what they might do, when they discover what it truly mean to be free.

Rest In Peace Lady.

bukatyne:


Interesting.

So why don't the Nigerian husbands flock there?

Why waiting for their wives?

Ishilove:

There's no winner in this.

krushdripper:
Cos it's been happening again & again gaddamit

sonnie10:


When you ask some of these women nurses, what does your husband do? They would say he is into shipping cars. Most times its true but the reality is that the man is just another confused nurse husband. It is self deceiving and convenient excuse not to have a real job.
Lets be real here,
If you ship 10 camrys (very unrealistic) and make a profit of #300k each in two months ( from purchase to final sells). That translates to #3M. Equivalent of $6400.
The truth is that $3200 income cannot sustain a family or four in the US. So, you will always remain poor. You need a steady day job instead.
This is when it gets complicated because most women (the nurse) don't do this type of calculation. All they know is that you are a car dealer and making money. It comes a time when they start feeling that you are not disclosing everything, so they also get tight fisted with their own money
That is when the whole rancor starts.
In conclusion, side hustle is a waste of time if you are going to survive in the abroad system.

Hintona:



I know about Buchi Emecheta and I know how she got to the abroad and it's with her own money she even sent her husband there with her own money.

naptu2:


It's not a news item, is it? It's a topic for discussion. None of what is posted is a news item, so the date does not matter.

sonnie10:


1) The Nigerian mentally about male nurses.
2) Big man mentally to start college courses at 40years plus, when they actually have nothing
3) Pressure from other demanding responsibilities and bills. Nursing is a full time program
4) Qualification for the program (both educational and ethics)
5) Over attachment to previous worthless degree most times from Nigeria
6) Shame from peer pressure. How can a titled elderly man be carrying backpack
7) Lack of support. You need support while in nursing school if not, you might drop out
8] It is actually tough. Some of them tried and failed
9) Distraction from other rat race hustle that leads to nowhere
10) Emeka has completed his two decking and I am here reading biology 101. It is better I go and hustle.

bukatyne:

mrchineke:


The Nigerian wife should go there by themselves na! They can be as free as they want!

VULCAN:
It's unfortunate that you started off well but went off point.

You completely ignored the actual reasons for these murders and went off on a tangent that although perhaps somewhat valid has little to do with this actual topic.

The point is the women tried to destroy the men by taking away their home and children. The women found out that the Family Court in US is heavily biased against men. So they took advantage.

Most of what you wrote completely ignores that salient point.

How many Nigerian men kill their wives who divorce them and leave with what they themselves own? Probably none.

I don't know whether you support destroying a man that opened the door to a quality of life you may NEVER have been able to enjoy simply because he isn't perfect. Perhaps you do as most toxic feminists see nothing wrong in it.

The ironic thing about these women is that when loneliness comes they are left to sleep with small boys or married men. Most of whom are no better than the husband they divorced so cruelly.

sacajawea:

I don't like how the Article was written
It is not balanced and Objective. It is not comprehensive enough plus the tone Tone isn't right

emkz:
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Guys please, except you have dated her and you understand her value system in Nigeria, don't marry an unexposed and mentally-unprepared girl to take abroad. There are highly accomplished single black girls abroad who'd adore you. Date them and marry them. Leave Naija local champions for Naija.

One day, I shall share my story on this forum so tha many would learn.

solite3:

Yes brother, I believe America is the mystery babylon written down in revelation chapter 17 and 18, with they way they have corrupted the whole earth with their filthy ideologies and lifestyles God's judgment is not far from that nation.
America was founded on the Luciferian principle, that is why all values promoted by the media, CNN, fox etc and Holly wood are always antichristian and Blasphemous.

For example holly wood made violence, retaliation seem the right way to get justice.

lefulefu:
thats why indians are way ahead of us.Both the men and women still go back to school when needed to improve on their degree.Education has no age limit.apart from nursing are there no part time programmes he can apply to? Like technical schools for example.How will someone be driving UBER or working in burger king from his 20s to his 40s and maybe even 50s.dats no progress in life.with the money he has no saved he will use it to develop one village girl in nursing school and when the small girl starts giving him attitude he now resorts to violence.

Wolgrace:


You are too loaded with knowledge! They promote violence in other to promote bloodshed because its the food and drink to the devils, they feed on and live by blood. And legalising abortion is their mode of worshipping and sacrificing the infants to their MOLOCH god of their ancient fathers for national prosperity. Rome is the god head/father of America because they shared the whole world into ten parts.

GMBuhari:
May you not marry a witch

Someone who was so angry that he knows if he breaks the law there he cant bribe his way through , i know of a couple , husband does not beat his wife but will shout till the whole neigborhood will wake up , and what normally causes it ? whenever he gives his wife presents, maybe money or gifts and tell her to go have a nice time, she will always screw up , for instance this lockdown, he gave her about 80k , told her to buy bedspread and some baby stuffs, believe me this wife left since morning, came back in the evening, she didn't buy baby food, she bought curtain no bed spread, so where was she all morning till evening ? worst still she took their young baby along, and it was very very cold that day

the husband kept saying this is all she does all the time


stpry seems unrelated but my point is the husband is very frustrated and feels unappreciated , now imagine a disobedient wife taking husband's money building a house for her parents from husband's sweat( did i mention wife's unemployed?) giving command, going out and coming late, endangering their baby with cold and possible corona infection ??


needless to say he wants her out of his house now , then the whole neigborhood started begging the husband , assuring her she would change , what that man must have endured is beyond what he shared , you could see in his eyes he was in pain, frustrated and tired of having to fight over the same thing everytime

RIP to the dead but some women can be witches