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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by bukatyne(f): 10:17pm On Jul 22, 2020
GboyegaD:


Many do, some wouldn't because of time and maybe other things. Both can't be studying at the same time. The most important as far as I'm concerned is everyone should keep developing themselves and be content with whatever they have.

True.

Maybe these men should do the nursing themselves/polish themselves so they don't need to ship mailorder brides to the US.

That way, they can pick their type of women over there.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by bukatyne(f): 10:18pm On Jul 22, 2020
GboyegaD:


Aunty, it is better to move on than had I know. Freedom is way better than wearing an orange uniform for live. More so, he can buy a small unit in a condo if he is so concerned about property.

I haven't advised otherwise, have I? cheesy
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Amanda4life: 10:25pm On Jul 22, 2020
MOST NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE STILL UNDER THEIR HUSBAND BECAUSE OF LACK OF MONEY.

IF U ARE TREATING A WOMAN BAD, BY EITHER CHEATING OR OR BULLING AND SHE STILL ENDURES.

IT IS BECAUSE OF LACK OF MONEY AND SOCIETAL PERCEPTION ABOUT DIVORCE.ESPECIALLY LACK OF MONEY.


INFACT THERES NOTHING LIKE " MY WIFE IS A GOOD WOMAN.
SEE, SHE HAS NO CHOICE THAN TO BE GOOD, BECAUSE SHE DOESN'T REALLY HAVE THE MONEY.

IF YOU ARE AMONG THOSE WHO FEELS YOUR WIFE HAS NO SAY WHERE YOU ARE,
IT CAN ONLY BE BECAUSE SHE LACKS THE MONEY.

IF YOU LOVE AND RESPECT YOUR WIFE, SHE CAN GIVE YOU ALL HER EARNINGS BUT IF YOU DO NOT, SHE CAN ONLY ENDURE UNTIL SHE SEES THE CHANCE TO SET HERSELF FREE FROM YOU.


MOST MEN HAVE PROBLEM S.

WHY MARRY WHEN YOU KNOW YOU ARE NOT MENTALLY MATURED TO MARRY?

MATURITY IS NOT MONEY

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Chykes4micheal: 10:25pm On Jul 22, 2020
Who else don't know what to say that to just.... Hmmmm.

This life ehn... Things dey happen o
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Asauto(m): 10:26pm On Jul 22, 2020
So you don't know men also become nurses.. Continue looking for who will slave for you.
raphy:
tht money is good as a RN I think my wife will be a nurse in America when we land there .


no body should mention me here money runs the world.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by afrika(f): 10:35pm On Jul 22, 2020
I can imagine the pains the man had been going through and humiliations by the late wife. West African women, immediately they travel and learn nursing, their husband's become the slave boys. If u do kpam, 911 and deport is ur case.

So sad he killed the wife but that is to say, he couldn't control his anger.

Even the girl u trained in d university from a poor background, grows to become ur enemy and know much more than u that is learner Ed and sent her to school.

Things happen.
Women, we are tough

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by raphy(m): 10:35pm On Jul 22, 2020
Asauto:
So you don't know men also become nurses.. Continue looking for who will slave for you.

i have hand work already maybe my daughters will do it.

so just.stay ya lane.abeg.

my team.Liverpool wan carry league so go watch and celebrate us.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 10:38pm On Jul 22, 2020
StubbornGENIUS:
Including YOURS? undecided

totally! a lot of religious folks do not understand that marriage existed centuries before religion - it is a survival imperative and a mutual-partnership not a slave-contract - a man has his duties and responsibilities and a woman has hers. In principle they are not defined strictly by divine edict or biological or physiological attributes but by mental capacity adaptation and appropriation. the female lion hunts as well and brings food for the pride while taking care of the cubs as the male lions protects the pride.. and they both understand responsibility even at that - but we humans spice it up with this illusion called love

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by kizyalex10(m): 10:42pm On Jul 22, 2020
naptu2:


https://m.facebook.com/notes/jadesola-tai-babatola/an-epidemic-nigerian-men-killing-their-nurse-wives-in-the-us-by-abiodun-ladepo/667141363328281
thats the curse of staying abroad,once u relocate eh,it will be like ur facebook has entered friend request default,girls will flood ur facebook especially nurses advertising themselves,u will mistake that for love, but they re only looking for escape route to poverty ,u will see a local nurse eliza that u will manage to bring out from obscurity use ur hard savings to train her to a qualified nurse amd when she is done then she will remember that she is earning more than u or u re a cab driver or security etc nd overnight d same quiet innocent girl turna a tiger trying to devour you,calling d shots here nd there all in an attempt to fustrate ur life for divorce,and once u divorce her,she moves on with another man and with ur little peanut u still pay child support nd she enjoy free dicks while u pay nd with ur meager money,u cant afford to have another relationship or marriage.if u leave them in Nigeria out of d fear i stated above,most will still use ur hard earned money,nd d fleet of cars nd house u left for them behind to flirt with fuckboys ,and if they re brainwashed very well, they might even kill u on arrival nd elope with their lover.such is d curse of people living abroad,it takes only a God fearing woman which is very scarce in our country to get such a woman dat will be humble nd reciprocate all d sacrifice u sacrificed for her

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Liposure: 10:46pm On Jul 22, 2020
Farki:
Whoa I'm not marrying again, this one is too much, let me keep my life and my sanity intact.
you must marry
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Liposure: 10:58pm On Jul 22, 2020
tot:


Then state clearly that it is HISTORICAL stuff as well as the date, rather than presenting it as new information as clearly that is a misrepresentation otherwise.. I don't know what you've posted in the past, that's not my concern.

Topic: » This Is How Nigerian Men Are Killing Their Wives In US - By Abiodun Ladepo «.
No mention of it being historical, so clearly a misrepresentation.

cc: Lalasticlala
no offence. you are quite strict
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by mrchineke: 11:20pm On Jul 22, 2020
ModestGal:
Many comments here are disgracing, Nigerian men agreeing with MURDER.

There is nothing to justify murder you these shameless people. No matter what she did, the solution is not KILL. Its annoying that Nigerians still need to be lectured on how evil murdering is in this 21st century..

Now I see why I read so much bad news, many of our men are SICKOS

Go and collect somebody’s 25-30 years hardwork na. The things your very own mama and papa cannot provide you. If somebody do that to me I will kill the person and her whole family join if possible. Most of these men are not young and cannot start all over again. Once everything has been collected from them they have absolutely nothing to lose except their sanity. I repeat, I WILL kill her mercilessly!

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Liposure: 11:22pm On Jul 22, 2020
LaEvilIMiss:


totally! a lot of religious folks do not understand that marriage existed centuries before religion - it is a survival imperative and a mutual-partnership not a slave-contract - a man has his duties and responsibilities and a woman has hers. In principle they are not defined strictly by divine edict or biological or physiological attributes but by mental capacity adaptation and appropriation. the female lion hunts as well and brings food for the pride while taking care of the cubs as the male lions protects the pride.. and they both understand responsibility even at that - but we humans spice it up with this illusion called love
how is luv an illusion
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Liposure: 11:24pm On Jul 22, 2020
Why are women like this
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by legionISproteus: 11:26pm On Jul 22, 2020
ednut1:
Over here in canada too some women are dealing with their husbands. But he no reach to kill
You never reach there stay 2 months you don dey report. Look down bros
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by legionISproteus: 11:29pm On Jul 22, 2020
GalPissetzky:
yes and i loved it. that is what you gold digging whores deserve
Me too

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 11:29pm On Jul 22, 2020
That's the only way out of the evil Western marital system. If you are going to scam me of my property and money with the help of the government and a simp judge send me to jail for a Petty or made up offence, you go to the grave while I go to jail. You ain't fuccking some loser on my bed in my home

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by legionISproteus: 11:32pm On Jul 22, 2020
ModestGal:

I agree, and I don't blame the MEN at all. I blame the......

Read this thread and see how Nigerian men are agreeing with murder, is that not disgusting?

I can't type again, I'm so angry with these comments agreeing with killing.....

I also agree with the killing. Those gold digging bítches got what they deserve

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by legionISproteus: 11:33pm On Jul 22, 2020
Macphenson:


Did you read the part where it says those men brought them to sponsored their nursing education?

He does not understand what he is reading or he is a woman wrapper
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by tot(f): 11:37pm On Jul 22, 2020
Liposure:
no offence. you are quite strict

Lol.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by legionISproteus: 11:38pm On Jul 22, 2020
Parisian:
These comments show that most Nigerian men are useless, evil and idiotic.
It's simple. Don't marry a Nigerian man

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by blank(f): 11:39pm On Jul 22, 2020
naptu2:

Regarding the second post, you can clearly see that the author wrote this.

No hard feelings.

I am very concerned with the author's attempt to form public perception by including stories that could have been made up. His premise was of Nigerians killing their wives in the US but you can see that the stories he lifted and changed their names were stories of Kenyans in Germany. I have dug deep and still can't find the original news stories.

The one of Azubuike is particularly annoying. I have searched criminal databases for Texas with the name and came up empty. Would like to see the actual story to know that it's true and also free of embellishments. The writer is pushing an agenda that doesn't sit well with me.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by mofedamijo(m): 11:42pm On Jul 22, 2020
nokatakata:
The women will continue to get killed gruesomely if they don't change their evil ways. How can someone work hard , bring you all the way from Nigeria to the USA or UK with him, assists you in going to school and when you get a job, the next thing is to start treating him like trash and wanting a divorce so you could own everything he laboured to get for years. Most me especially Africans will hardly accept that bullsh.it. they'll rather kill the woman and get killed as well. No winner. If you leave them back in Naija while sending money to them, they will say you have abandoned them and married someone else. You struggle to bring them to join you, then they betray you. Ogun kill any woman wey attempt that nonsense with me. Na juju I go use finish her and return he back to Naija. If juju no work, we die there.
But if the nursing was giving the women so much money, why can't the men also go to nursing school so they can also make the plenty money.


But if the nursing was giving the women so much money, why can't the men also go to nursing school so they can also make the plenty money.

Quite sad about these stories. However, to help you answer the above. These men left Nigeria to the U.S, on getting there, there was no time for school because no money. So, they went straight to hustle.com. They started working and hustling. when the money started rolling in, they went straight for a house. Now, when you start paying the mortgage, you don't wanna stop working to go to school, so, they hustle for 10-18 (depending) years of their lives to pay fully for a house, get their citizenship or PR. By then, they are in their 40s, no time for school again. Also, not everyone likes nursing. When you have spent years of your life to hustle, help your spouse to the U.S, the best thing is to equip her so that she doesn't hustle hard like you did. You sponsor her to school and all other expenses, then upon graduation and finding a good job, i believe that such women should help the family and ease the man's financial burden, alas..............the rest is history.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 11:47pm On Jul 22, 2020
Hintona:
It reminds me of that Buchi Emecheta's book "second class citizen".

When the women go abroad and become liberated it becomes a crime to the Nigerian men.
lol that was some wailing of a faded feminist. I was supposed to read that rubbish as part of my feminists theory in one 400 level course that year, after the lecturer read the plot I knew there was no way I was going to read that crap without vomiting.

Liberated by looting the properties of the human who hustled to train you? Lmao you better not go get yourself killed

By the way, you don't put titles of novels in quote. You italicise and capitalise the first letters all the lexical items

Second Class Citizens

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by ednut1(m): 11:49pm On Jul 22, 2020
legionISproteus:
You never reach there stay 2 months you don dey report. Look down bros
well the airbnb i stay na 9ja woman get am and she gist me. She dey work for family court. So na wetin she dey see daily.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by legionISproteus: 11:51pm On Jul 22, 2020
richie240:



Tnx.
Firstly, I don't support what these men did as cutting d head is never d panacea to headache.
Nevertheless, AFRICAN women must realise that their male counterparts don't joke with that 'authority'. It bruises their ego more than anything else.

We shdn't allow all ds oyibo - defined 'equality' continue to cause mayhem in our marriages. The more ladies realise ds, d less morbid events like these occurs.

He/She who has ears, let him/her hear!

African women don't have sense and they are as dumb as rocks. None of them reading this understands the bolded part of your message.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by legionISproteus: 11:52pm On Jul 22, 2020
richie240:



Tnx.
Firstly, I don't support what these men did as cutting d head is never d panacea to headache.
Nevertheless, AFRICAN women must realise that their male counterparts don't joke with that 'authority'. It bruises their ego more than anything else.

We shdn't allow all ds oyibo - defined 'equality' continue to cause mayhem in our marriages. The more ladies realise ds, d less morbid events like these occurs.

He/She who has ears, let him/her hear!

African women don't have sense and they are as dumb as rocks. None of them reading this understands the bolded part of your message.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by legionISproteus: 11:57pm On Jul 22, 2020
bull67:
it happen to me 14 years ago. shes now 47 i am 52. kids are now graduates, i have remarried, boyfriend left her now the ex- bitch wants me back. i told her to Bleep her self. most nigerian women are like that. i have 3 girls as children and 2 boys. my advise is alway to respect your marrige and pray for your family
I feel your pain. Do your kids still reach out?

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by akigbemaru: 12:05am On Jul 23, 2020
tevinsolt:
Power intoxicates.

Siblings abuser their power on their younger siblings
Parents abuse their power over kids
Husbands abuse their power over wives
Teachers abuse power over students
Pastors/Imams/priests abuse their power over followers
Policemen/soldiers abuse their power over citizens
Government officials abuse their power over citizens

They all have 1 thing in common,
A sense of an arbitrary bestowed right of superiority over another by a diety, nature or some written document.

Any attempt by the oppress to speak or fight back is rebellion against the aforementioned.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Cocobongo(m): 12:18am On Jul 23, 2020
SonOfAfonja:


Yes, we are at the forefront of development! Keep typing rubbish...
Thanks for reading rubbish. I guess it got your attention.

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