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Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Jermaineayo: 8:26pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
So the thing is...a lady moved in recently and I would like to know the best way to approach her. Mind you, I'm not going to date her or have her in the other room... Additionally, I hate the idea of being a simp. I just want to get a friend dasol. We greeted today and she gave a smile, I'm guessing that's not bad after all. Gurus in the house please advise |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Nobody: 8:28pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Jermaineayo:walk up to her and slap her.Dont go and read your books mtchewe 2 Likes |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Jermaineayo: 8:32pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Haha, it's quite sad that you're quick to judge people. This tells me that you're a student...Not to worry, the lockdown placed on schools will be lifted soon. And for the record, just incase anyone wants to say similar nonsense...I've been privileged to Graduate from the varsity Zzor: 3 Likes |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Adrian9(m): 8:36pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Mumu! You dey ask me? Stay there dey find best way,na so anoda man go first you go. Mtchewwwwwww #local boy in pain |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Nobody: 8:37pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Jermaineayo:If you are all that you typed and still create this topic, then you definitely didn't allow school to pass through you,you only pass through school 1 Like |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by AfroKnight: 8:41pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
If you're not interested in anything romantic, just respect yourself and don't push for a friendship. If you guys would be friends, it would happen naturally. Trying to orchestrate a friendship will look like "toasting" no matter how you present it, unless you go and say something stupeed like"Can I be your friend?". Then she would think you are a simp and walk all over you. Let things happen naturally. Beware though. Some ladies take advantage of friendships and turn guys into handymen and ATM's. Respect yourself and respect her privacy, and you will be fine. 7 Likes |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Jermaineayo: 8:43pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
How does what you've said now make any sense? What does it mean for school to pass thru an individual...In your own words, explain it to me. Cos, in my honest opinion it's good to ask questions especially when one needs help or is that not part of learning? Zzor: |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Jermaineayo: 8:46pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
It's you that is the MUMU! I didn't ask you specifically so don't insult people. If you're in pains, don't try to spread it around...that's even worse than COVID-19 Adrian9: |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Jermaineayo: 8:48pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Thank you so much, I'll definitely keep this in mind. One thing that struck me is to 'let things happen naturally' I really appreciate your response. AfroKnight: 2 Likes |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Adrian9(m): 8:52pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Jermaineayo:Just keep smiling, and wait for destiny! |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by AfroKnight: 8:57pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Jermaineayo: You are welcome. Just curious. Why don’t you want anything romantic with her? She no fine? |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Jermaineayo: 9:01pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Well, I'm trying to develop my people skills and establish vital connections. AfroKnight: 2 Likes |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by AfroKnight: 9:02pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Jermaineayo: Okay. That’s good. You’d never know who could be a vital contact in future. |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Jermaineayo: 9:03pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by stanliwise(m): 9:03pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Jermaineayo:If you want to be friend with her then simply keep showing friendly gestures at all times. She will gladly throw you into a friendzone quickly. Being in friendzone is the easiest thing in the world. Even learners are legendary at this. Seek more advice from them. |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Freestainworld(m): 9:03pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
lend her your ATM card and valuables to keep for you |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Jermaineayo: 9:08pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Thanks for your good mood and response. stanliwise: |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by stanliwise(m): 9:10pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Jermaineayo:But you and I know that you don’t just wanna be friends |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Jermaineayo: 9:13pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Lool...you're on your own in this one. stanliwise: |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by baralatie(m): 9:15pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
buy her 3 bedroom flat in lekki |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by stanliwise(m): 9:23pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Jermaineayo:And you came to Nairaland to ask how to be a friend with a girl when girl are everywhere looking for who to add to friend list. . Tidy your side my man and use the big tricks although I don’t like compound paro. E dey cast many times. |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by stanliwise(m): 9:25pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
AfroKnight:you na sabi guy o. From their comment we sha know them. Two bottle for you o 2 Likes |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by paulolee(m): 9:39pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
just ask her codedly if she's on watsap and if she says yes you ask for her digit to add her up, if she says no, u switch to f.b..once u chatting, u go de close and las las na banging go end am.. |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Jermaineayo: 9:42pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Wow, great idea! paulolee: 1 Like |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by AfroKnight: 11:08pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
stanliwise: I appreciate 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Davoneskay(m): 11:14pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
So many Nairalanders are ill-mannered. If u go on Quora or Reddit or other foreign forums, you'll notice the level of maturity displayed by members. Here, on Nairaland, everyone wants to be a savage just because of cheap attention or likes and shares. To the OP, allow things to happen naturally as someone stated earlier. But to me, whenever I move to a new hood or I have a new co tenant, I watch before I leap. I don't just start being friendly. I try to c if it's worth it by their character/attitude. Also, I'm good with words... Crack lotta jokes easily and before u know it we are friends. 1 Like |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Jermaineayo: 11:39pm On Jul 22, 2020 |
Thank you so much...I appreciate. Davoneskay: |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by czarr(m): 2:11am On Jul 23, 2020 |
So you don't want to toast her or bang her? you want dey change light bulb?....or help move fridge, you want dey start generator for am? guy be useful to yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Jermaineayo: 2:48am On Jul 23, 2020 |
Hey, I never said I wasn't useful to myself...I just wanna make a friend. I see you need to be useful as people like you are too quick to arrive at useless conclusions like this. czarr: |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by swagguElite(m): 4:11am On Jul 23, 2020 |
Really, just friends. Look neat n don't always compliment her. Ask her for a favour like to keep your 4k with her, that you don't trust yourself yu woud spend it in the night on pepper soup. That you will buy her airtime of #500 just for her help. Collect her number like that. See the gurl the next day collect yur money, send her card. Thank you. The End. Waht d'yu want to use the money for sef?? - she asked. Its classified - you replied. Not stingy with money n being mysterious in a simple way - works all the time. Careful tho, there is no point goin' broke trying to look rich baby. |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by swagguElite(m): 4:20am On Jul 23, 2020 |
Davoneskay: And you me friend is right; I'm on Quora n damnn that platform is nothin' like this. Buh we trying now - it was hella worse before the Rona. |
Re: Guys What's The Best Way To Approach A Lady by Jermaineayo: 11:15am On Jul 23, 2020 |
Thank you so much for this. I sincerely appreciate. swagguElite: 1 Like |
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