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Pls don't ignore by Charlesdmw: 10:08pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Pls i need your advise guys.. Theres this girl i met 2018 when i was in 300l. She was in 100l then. She wasn't the kind that was interested in a relationship but through naturalisation we started dating each other. We loved each other very well as we profess it and also act it. She's from Benue state , she always told me then that her parents don't want a Yoruba guy because of their experience with her Yoruba sister's husband but i told her not to worry . the love grew stronger and we had many challenges which we overcame. Now i am a graduate and she's in her 300l. She's a month older than me but was always very loyal and supportive. She even cried cos she didn't wanna leave me at school when the lockdown started but she had to go home.. Recently she started giving me attitudes . then later she told me she was bothered because her parents are forcing her and one igbo guy together. She said the guy is over 32 almost 10yrs older than her. She said the guys family have 7 industries in lag but I'm just a university graduate awaiting service..she said the guy usually come to her shop and give her mommy money. She said even the mommy call's him her husband. We spoke about it last week and she told me she would handle it better, the following day she told me she's moved on already. She really insulted me and wouldn't even entertain anything i tell her .. She blocked me . i really love her and wouldn't want her to have any problem.she said she started having issues with the guy but the mother keeps telling HER TO ENDURE. I don't know why she hates me so much now.. What could have happened ![]() ![]() SHE TOLD ME HOW HER OLDEST SISTER 35YRS IS STILL AT HOME UNMARRIED BECAUSE OF HER MOM'S INFLUENCE. I DONT WANT HER TO REGRET ANY OF HER ACTIONS She also told me that her younger sis of 18 years that hasn't even stepped into a uni has found her husband too. She said the guy took her to his pastor. The guy is 35yrs old.. Should i say her parents are being controlled by their Hausa minds? |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Olunmercy56(f): 10:17pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
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Re: Pls don't ignore by GerraMeh74(m): 10:22pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Olunmercy56:We don see you Silver Digger ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Charlesdmw: 10:26pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Olunmercy56: Her excuse was is always about the tribe which her mom hates |
Re: Pls don't ignore by MickzyDonald: 10:34pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
To all ladies that does that,WE GO MAKE AM ONE DAY 2 Likes |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Juliusmomoh: 10:35pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
I hope u can see that TRUE LOVE exist no more ..... Everything now is MONEY MONEY MONEY MONEY MONEY MONEY .. 1 Like |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Charlesdmw: 10:37pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Charlesdmw: 10:37pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh: Really painful |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Juliusmomoh: 10:39pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Charlesdmw:Keep mind sha |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Charlesdmw: 10:41pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh: I need tips on how to move on..never felt heartbreak before. She's my first girlfriend |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Juliusmomoh: 10:49pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Charlesdmw:Ok, give ur life to christ as soon as possible |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Charlesdmw: 10:51pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh: I have Christ |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Juliusmomoh: 10:58pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Charlesdmw:U don't bro ...... A correct christain don't "date " or have a GF |
Re: Pls don't ignore by MickzyDonald: 11:00pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Charlesdmw:Just thank God that happened sef if not she will just continue wasting ur time |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Charlesdmw: 11:01pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh: You mean a correct Christian would just take any girl from the streets and marry in a day? 1 Like |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Juliusmomoh: 11:10pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Charlesdmw:No, u misunderstood me. ... I mean a correct christain don't emback the trip into marriage without God approver.... |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Charlesdmw: 11:11pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh: Now i understand.. She also told me that her younger sis of 18 years that hasn't even stepped into a uni has found her husband too. She said the guy took her to his pastor. The guy is 35yrs old.. Should i say her parents are being controlled by their Hausa minds? Or is that one also God's approval.remember some people can be so desperate |
Re: Pls don't ignore by vickodedon(m): 11:12pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
MickzyDonald:Alaye one day one day e go set |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Juliusmomoh: 11:18pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Charlesdmw:Now u get me ... Ok. How many time have u taken her to ur pastor ? .... No matter how her parent is after her, if u whould have taken her to ur pastor, she whould not have gone just like dat ... THINK AM |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Charlesdmw: 11:20pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh: I don't think this is pastor's issue,there are many people out there that their pastors don't know anything yet they do not have any issues.. I just need to know how love can transform into hatred in a blink of an eye... Could her mommy's pressure be that much? |
Re: Pls don't ignore by MickzyDonald: 11:26pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
vickodedon:Na so bro na to get chicken wings go remain for that time 1 Like |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Charlesdmw: 11:28pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Juliusmomoh: 11:33pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Charlesdmw:No her mum is not the problem here... because no one can force u to do what u don' want... Understand me .. The reason why she move on is dat , ' U DON'T HAVE ANY IMPORTANT PERSON IN UR LIFE TO INTRODUCE HER TO ' maybe a pastor , uncle's , valued friend ... Atleast someone important..... And u know she's of age to marry.... Abi don't u know how women react when it come to marriage ? |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Charlesdmw: 11:36pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh: Oh i think im getting u..in her statements, she would always say "non of my family knows her except my friends" |
Re: Pls don't ignore by tunize(m): 11:39pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh:hehehehehehehehe which way nah |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Juliusmomoh: 11:41pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Charlesdmw:I hope u understand now ..... Now who is to be belame ? YOU OR HER |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Charlesdmw: 11:42pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh: I only feel the time is not yet ready to do that |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Juliusmomoh: 11:44pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
tunize:The way to heaven bro |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Charlesdmw: 11:45pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh: Or should i say she's only feeling insecure and in doubt i might not marry her in d end? I think that's where we always wish we could open our hearts wide for others to see |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Charlesdmw: 11:49pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh: But why the sudden hatred |
Re: Pls don't ignore by Juliusmomoh: 11:51pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
Charlesdmw:Ok eeeee , now i understand.. U want to CHOP AND RUN abi ? And u said u are a christain ... Don't do dat bro, no matter how u may try to paint it .... Is AGAINST our RELIGION = CHRISTAINITY..... May God help u sha |
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