I'm the first born and I'm 20 years my dad died when I was young. My mother is sha OK but anytime I ask money from her she will snub me and shout at me its so embarrassing. Pls I need advice nairalanders.

Hustle o, make you nor dey ask your mama for money and get shouted at

Some women are. Try to know her soft spot, maybe when she's watching her favourite TV programme, when she is happy or when she needs am advice from you. At that moment, you can ask her anything

I don't see really any iota of stinginess. All I see is a woman indirectly telling you you are man enough to work for those little sum you may need to get stuffs. Pity a single mom.

Its not easy to get money, its not easy for a single woman to take care of children.

Whenever you want to collect money from her, kiss her cheeks, play with her and demand the money.
Also make sure you are not demanding money for rubbish, make sure its for something good, not weed and nonsense stuffs, she would be happy to give you

At 20 ma man, ur old enof to start working and assist ur mum financially in running the house. It is not easy on her, without being told, on the burden and stress she is facing on u guys behalf. Get a job n and help out at home as little as u can for now. She n posterity demands that from u.

hope u're not planning to kidnap ur mother..dis wan u dey seek for advice.

eiya just endure till you can stand on your fit

StPete:
Hustle o, make you nor dey ask your mama for money and get shouted at

20 years is very young u know , this kinda thing is what pushes children to fraud and prostitution

Swtbabyvee:
20 years is very young u know , this kinda thing is what pushes children to fraud and prostitution

20 yrs isn't so young to start earning something. Adulthood starts at 18. By 15, I had already started making my own money

Oga, you are old enough to be on your own. That woman has enough to take care of you, but she is trying to make out a man out you. You will appreciate her later in your life. During our time, my dad use to give our sisters more than enough, but refused to give we the boys enough to take care of ourselves. His reason was that if he give us, we will have enough to womanze, drink, club, smoke etc. But for our sisters, if he is not giving them enough, they may start following men.

Since when I was 17 years I've been teaching from one primary school to another in a village and sometimes in the town. If she has enough, she will surely give. And their is no way she won't be giving you money sometimes it is just that you won't mention it in your post.
Those that started making money at 18, just know that we were not trained the same and we don't have the same mindset. And the lucky you have, many don't has. Bro, no scam and steal. You can try to sit your mom down though.

chatinent:
I don't really any iota of stinginess. All I see is a woman indirectly telling you you are man enough to work.

. I still dey school na 300l Eksu

articleme:
Some women are. Try to know her soft spot, maybe when she's watching her favourite TV programme, when she is happy or when she needs am advice from you. At that moment, you can ask her anything

we no dey reason matter

nizzy153:
. I still dey school na 300l Eksu

When I was in school, I was fending for myself. You are even far better.

ModestGal:
Its not easy to get money, its not easy for a single woman to take care of children.

Whenever you want to collect money from her, kiss her cheeks, play with her and demand the money.
Also make sure you are not demanding money for rubbish, make sure its for something good, not weed and nonsense stuffs, she would be happy to give you

. I'm the only child at the moment she's just 39. I'll try kissing her know the evening

StPete:
Hustle o, make you nor dey ask your mama for money and get shouted at

. Na so

OYENIYIJK:
Since when I was 17 years I've been teaching from one primary school to another in a village and sometimes in the town. If she has enough, she will surely give. And their is no way she won't be giving you money sometimes it is just that you won't mention it in your post.
Those that started making money at 18, just know that we were not trained the same and we don't have the same mindset. And the lucky you have, many don't has. Bro, no scam and steal. You can try to sit your mom down though.

she dey OK bro. She has enough and beside na school I dey. She no dey gimme money

nwakibe:
Oga, you are old enough to be on your own. That woman has enough to take care of you, but she is trying to make out a man out you. You will appreciate her later in your life. During our time, my dad use to give our sisters more than enough, but refused to give we the boys enough to take care of ourselves. His reason was that if he give us, we will have enough to womanze, drink, club, smoke etc. But for our sisters, if he is not giving them enough, they may start following men.

She stingy normal I'm her only child and she's rich now. Why won't she be giving me money. Where the job at?. No job everywhere dry
I'm planning on Running away

nizzy153:

She stingy normal I'm her only child and she's rich now. Why won't she be giving me money. Where the job at?. No job everywhere dry
I'm planning on Running away

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaa... See this one... Be careful bro! Shebi e dey pay your school fees? I was given admission in EKSU and money no gree me run am. I no get Mama? I get. Keep Calm.
Listen To BobMarley song, "Everything Gonna Be Alright". No run away please

OYENIYIJK:

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaa... See this one... Be careful bro! Shebi e dey pay your school fees? I was given admission in EKSU and money no gree me run am. I no get Mama? I get. Keep Calm.
Listen To BobMarley song, "Everything Gonna Be Alright". No run away please

. I'm so depressed why my mama no dey gimme money
When I no get option nkoorh?
Maybe if I should leave her house and go to maybe Lagos I'll see work and be a man on myself

Nigga start doing something that pays ..

@20 I was already funding ma self ..

Swtbabyvee:
20 years is very young u know , this kinda thing is what pushes children to fraud and prostitution

Please 20 thousands likes for this girl she made a whole lot of sense.babe do you drink origin or beer Just tell me your location

My mom once said that to me and believe me the outcome is very bad didn't turn out very well

RapistOnBail:
Do you fvck your mom?

Daft niggar

RapistOnBail:
Do you fvck your mom?

are you mad?

ZINIBANKS:

Daft niggar

I think his on weed

StPete:


20 yrs isn't so young to start earning something. Adulthood starts at 18. By 15, I had already started making my own money

to me , a 20 years hasn’t gotten to the age of such pressure to make money. If the person is earning a living , cool , if not , isn’t enough not to do what u hv to as a parent and than make them feel down .

Swtbabyvee:
to me , a 20 years hasn’t gotten to the age of such pressure to make money. If the person is earning a living , cool , if not , isn’t enough not to do what u hv to as a parent and than make them feel down .

No one has put him in any pressure to make money, rather he's the one putting his mother under undue pressure by asking for it. He wants money, rather than ask for it, he should learn to work for it. He even ought to be supporting his single mother

people de oo

Swtbabyvee:
to me , a 20 years hasn’t gotten to the age of such pressure to make money. If the person is earning a living , cool , if not , isn’t enough not to do what u hv to as a parent and than make them feel down .

You're reasonable.