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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Nobody: 10:30pm On Jul 31, 2020
I know that very well... That is why I don't even HV friends much... Cuz females of nowadays are nothing to write home about...... But the way NL guys tarnish females image, henn.. they generalize it has if.. it's all females they HV come in contacts with.
Rubbish
eni4real:
Image grin
You can only speak for yourself!!

There are worse females out there and vice versa!!
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Haywhymido(m): 10:30pm On Jul 31, 2020
donstan18:
If you are a Guy reading this, please pay attention.



You see this?



You see this?


And this?


And this too....

You see those 4 parts I highlighted? They should be the reason why you should never expect much from GIRLFRIENDS, they are just hoes parading as Girlfriends.

The earlier you understand this the better for you. Thanks!!
Oil dey your head
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by MartinsD12(m): 10:31pm On Jul 31, 2020
Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.

I always advice guys never you trust a biitch with your life, na die be that, girlfriends are like public toilets everybody dey use am, see what this one is saying here this is a cheat, it's possible she don chop the guy money

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Ugulo(m): 10:31pm On Jul 31, 2020
You wan follow keke forget about range rover ba? U be princess oh deserve to be love. But na decision to make sha. Mummy just calm down, find a place to rest. Relax your brain
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Dminister(m): 10:31pm On Jul 31, 2020
You see why girls don't know what they want? If you are a brother reading this have common sense.

Game player will come with all qualities you can ever think of. He would lay the bed of roses for you to eat your cookies. You have already made him known you have feelings for him too this is the reason he stopped calling you. Stick and carrot stuff. We have been there and we know how it works when we have your mumu botton.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by oluwasegun007(m): 10:31pm On Jul 31, 2020
Just tell us the new guy has money and a sweet talker...


I suspect he's a yoruba demon.


My advise leave the old guy, even if the new guy doesn't come back because its obvious you're just managing him

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by bizhop01: 10:31pm On Jul 31, 2020
After milking him dry,

if this story is not COOK, it's no go better for you.
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by holaralph(m): 10:32pm On Jul 31, 2020
The most dangerous thing in life is for any man or woman to do mistake when choosing partner. Please pm me I and my darling wife will like to give you our piece of advise. Or Whatsapp 0..8..1..4..1..1,,7,,4,,9,,4,,4,, us if you can. My beautiful wife and I met on nairaland and we are happily married with 1 king in our home. We never upload anything as regards our relationship. I quickly typed all these for you to know you are safe..........
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by doctore212(m): 10:32pm On Jul 31, 2020
Na so I leave my better girlfriend . I know no say na correct olosho I follow.


The only advantage na only free kpekus 24/7 , although the place dey like Lagos Ibadan express way.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by CsRockefeller(m): 10:32pm On Jul 31, 2020
Austeeenxx:
The grass is greener on the other side; that's what I thought before I took the ride...

.........I realized the mountain I've been climbing is nothing but sand o. I didn't know I already had d answer no I didn't know......... grin

Body go tell her soon smiley

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by zaixain: 10:32pm On Jul 31, 2020
It's all about vibes dear. The spark in your current relationship is off that's why you're feeling like running off with the other guy. Even if you follow this new guy, a time will come when the fire in the new relationship will go off too. It's a time phase. Give it time.

You'd feel like you love the new guy more because it's a path you haven't explored. You're supposed to try and spice things up a bit in your relationship so you don't feel bad.

Good luck though.
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Nobody: 10:32pm On Jul 31, 2020
I will reply when you I see you queueing in shiloh!!!

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by guru90: 10:33pm On Jul 31, 2020
Favour2323, registered today and she dropped article today and they approved her Story today by moderator.

Favour2323 article is just story by imagination.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by nwakibe: 10:34pm On Jul 31, 2020
You didn't tell us that the power of the pocket of the new boyfriend is stronger than that of the first boyfriend, which I know is the strongest force driving you. Nonsense... Olosho claiming girlfriend...

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Nobody: 10:35pm On Jul 31, 2020
Anuoluwa1234:
I know that very well... That is why I don't even HV friends much... Cuz females of nowadays are nothing to write home about...... But the way NL guys tarnish females image, henn.. they generalize it has if.. it's all females they HV come in contacts with.
Rubbish
It is wrong to generalize. That's true!
Bad experience is definitely responsible for guys/girls outbursts here!!

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Haywhymido(m): 10:35pm On Jul 31, 2020
J111333:
The second always appear to be better than the first because of see finish but most times, it's not.
Choose wisely.
The grass is always greener on the other side...

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Lipscomb(m): 10:35pm On Jul 31, 2020
Your point led me out from captivity.
donstan18:
If you are a Guy reading this, please pay attention.



You see this?



You see this?


And this?


And this too....

You see those 4 parts I highlighted? They should be the reason why you should never expect much from GIRLFRIENDS, they are just hoes parading as Girlfriends.

The earlier you understand this the better for you. Thanks!!

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by mordred44: 10:36pm On Jul 31, 2020
Dis is jst lyk a case of obaseki decamping 4rm apc to pdp bkos of d money involve in politics..,.my ribs ooh
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by flyingpig: 10:36pm On Jul 31, 2020
Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.

you be ashawo, it's just a matter of time before you meet another one better than the guy who is threatening to leave and you'll jump ship again, before you know it ten years don pass, 15 ex boyfriends. Better discipline yourself.

Everyday we meet people who may seem better than our significant other, but it is discipline that makes us stay put. If the person you meet has any qualities better than your partner, try as much as possible to develop your partner to that taste too. And please once you find yourself tripping for someone, remove his number and distant him. Don't be allowing fire come close to you, you should be mature, disciplined enough to run from temptations. Obviously the guy running is wiser than you.

Your bf doesn't deserve you.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by angelfallz(m): 10:36pm On Jul 31, 2020
Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.



Maybe it's a fake story maybe it's not. But I'll still say this.
Ladies, No matter how rich, powerful, connected, handsome your boyfriend/husband is, there would always be another man that is richer, more powerful, more connected, more handsome than your boyfriend/girlfriend.
With this in mind, Favour2323 what would now happen after you've left your current bf for this new guy, you find another man that has more qualities than the new guy? You would leave the new guy too?

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by iamclime(m): 10:36pm On Jul 31, 2020
linked:
Don't be a door without a lock. It is clear that you are not committed to your present relationship. Now that's a big problem. It speaks more to your character than anything else. The problem is not whether you like the new guy more than your guy, but that you don't understand that commitment is essential in a healthy relationship.

Maybe you are not matured enough to know that in life you will always meet someone more interesting, more handsome, more wealthy, more nice than whoever you chose to date or marry. Las las I suspect you will end up a wretch if you do not discipline yourself with self control.

You should date or marry a person not because you have not found someone better than them. Rather it should be because you CHOSE to be with them. Even when you find someone better (which will definitely happen), it wouldn't matter to you.
Best comment so far, in my most humble opinion. We CHOOSE to be with people, not because of want of better choices, but because we want to.
Eerm, barman! Barman!! Where you na? Abeg, arrange two bottles of Antarctica grade chilled Origin and one bottle of Arctic grade Budweiser for this my guy, with effervescent alacrity!

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jul 31, 2020
bizhop01:
After milking him dry,

if this story is not COOK, it's no go better for you.
grin grin grin
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by kolade560: 10:38pm On Jul 31, 2020
After leaving ur bf, u will meet another man tomorrow and he will be better Dan him and it will tro u into ludo situation.
listen woman, as far as u still live on earth u must see better cute guys Dan ur present boyfriend, that's how it goes and u will keep jumping from pillar to post.
settle down with ur bf and decide before u will be used and dumped

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Adewale1603(m): 10:38pm On Jul 31, 2020
Don't be deceived, Girls will always choose a man with six cars over six packs. If money grows on trees, girls will date monkey

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by ZAMANI123(m): 10:38pm On Jul 31, 2020
I wish u have a spiritual eyes u will see the game the second guy want to play with u...oh I don’t want to cast my guy..at least for the sake of brother code... angry grin seriously ur second guy have PHD in fishing..,,,

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Karlifate: 10:39pm On Jul 31, 2020
dukeprince50:
dont go and make up ur mind, be here doing DELAYtionship and decamping from one man to the other every three months till u turn 35,
dicey dice u there, Rubbish

Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by csamii: 10:40pm On Jul 31, 2020
Along came a spider!

Farm tools everywhere.
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Nobody: 10:40pm On Jul 31, 2020
angelfallz:



Maybe it's a fake story maybe it's not. But I'll still say this.
Ladies, No matter how rich, powerful, connected, handsome your boyfriend/husband is, there would always be another man that is richer, more powerful, more connected, more handsome than your boyfriend/girlfriend.
With this in mind, Favour2323 what would now happen after you've left your current bf for this new guy, you find another man that has more qualities than the new guy? You would leave the new guy too?
She is not different from politicians decamping from one party to another.
Not loyal!!

Don't preach...she has made up her mind!!

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by BREYZ: 10:40pm On Jul 31, 2020
Favour2323:
Nairalanders, I'm about to do something my conscience doesn't agree with but it feels like the right decision to make. I have a boyfriend. We've been dating for the past 6 months. I love him. We were good friends before we started dating. I'm someone who doesn't trust easily and I like to assess a guy for a while before dating him. I assessed his intentions and I realised he didn't just want to have sex with me and leave. He loved me just as I loved him.

Three months ago I met this guy. At first I just saw him as a friend, but as I got to know him I started noticing the good qualities he possessed. He's very attractive, very intelligent and wellspoken. My conversations with him were so immersive. The little time I spent with him always left a profound impression on me. Soon I noticed I had started developing feelings for him. I was still in love with my boyfriend nevertheless.

One day the new guy asked me if I had a boyfriend. I told him I did. The next day he called me and said that he didn't want to interfere with my relationship. He said he had feelings for me and he couldn't remain friends with me when he knows I have a boyfriend. I told him that I had feelings for him as well and that we could still remain friends but he refused and suggested that we stopped talking. He hasn't called or texted me since that day.

This situation has left me in an emotional turmoil. This new guy represents everything I want in a guy and as much as I don't want to admit it, he possesses better qualities than my boyfriend. I can't imagine a life where I can't talk to him anymore. I really like him. His decision has left me in a dicey position. It's unfair to leave my boyfriend who has always been nice to me for someone else, but the new guy doesn't want to have anything to do with me again as long as I'm in a relationship.

Please I need advice. I don't want to make the wrong decision.


Hoe, i pray you lost both of them. Something is wrong with you, i get pissed seeing Girls doing these to their boyfriends, you just want to betray someone God gave you on a platter of gold simply because you met another guy. This is why i don't pity some of you sometimes angry
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by humilitypays(m): 10:40pm On Jul 31, 2020
Ladies are their own problem.


relationship is not marriage. Until a guy pays your full dowry, you don't owe him any explanation to walk away or fvck another sweeter dick.



Why must u seek for permission from others to date a guy u find attractive for your taste.



We guys are hypocrites, we make too much noise, we want ladies to be what we can never be.


Can that your boyfriend swear that he hasn't fvcked other chicks since u guys started dating And if he says yes he has not, then he is broke, ugly, not classy undecided



You better your eyes and explore, guys do same. Don't listen to guys opinion on this cos we are hypocrites, we want ladies not to double date while dating us but we fourtiple abi fiftiple date and heavens haven't fell.




Don't break up with your boyfriend, just flow along with both of them and stop brandishing one yeye boy that have not paid your bride price in the name of girlfriend boyfriend that most times don't lead to anywhere good at the end!!



You mustn't tell every guy you meet that you have a boyfriend, you ladies are demarketing yourselves by doing that. You are single until you are legally married!!!

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by joshboo(m): 10:40pm On Jul 31, 2020
What advice do you want when you have concluded on what you wanna do already?? But trust you me when you leave your first guy the relationship with the new guy wouldn't last. No guy is a fool OK, he would have so much insecurities with you regardless of how open you are or gonna be to him. I'm his mind, you broke his heart, It's only a matter of time before you break his.
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by pusapou(m): 10:41pm On Jul 31, 2020
You have the instincts of a "better" ashawo! You are just using grammar to cover/paint it

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