Hi everyone, my mom is a celestial woman so she believes in all these things.
She asked 4 pastors, 1 said she’s okay, others said no.

But the thing is I am exhausted, I can’t start all over again and I love her and she loves me very much. She’s not your average Nigerian girl that loves money.

I have just been thinking a lot cos I don’t even know what could happen in future that will make the pastors say no.

And the main thing here now is now that my mom has asked these people she will never support this marriage, how do I convince her?

And I can’t break up with my gf she has been with me through a lot .. I just tire.
Been praying to God that if she’s not for me she should be the one to break up or f*ck up
I don’t want to hurt her.

Your life, ur decision

Dont be silly, you think 3 pastors will say no by coincidence, they saw something bad in her get a clue

Why can't you pray yourself, some people won't tell you anything because they don't want to be seen as spoilers.At the end it would end in premium regrets. Don't get it wrong,it is not that your gf doesn't love you but e get as God arrange this world, so you need to get the right partners that links your destiny .

Marry who u want
So u can blame yourself peacefully

I hope your pastors gave you permission to share your story and seek for advice on nairaland?

Marriage is not just as easy. If the girl in question is my sister, I will counsel her not to marry you since your Mom is not in support.

Ur life ur bizness

"My pastor said... Somebody said..." That's one of the marks of a baby Christian!
I can safely assume that you have even been defiling the bed with that lady already!

Many of those pastors out there (including some of the very popular ones) are operating with a lying spirit, so they can see and prophesy inaccurately.
Why can't you seek to hear directly from God Himself?!

Stay away from sin, forgive everyone who's ever offended you, fast, pray and God will say/show you some things.

If you are still living in sin and consulting any pastor, it's a waste of effort. With the froward, God will be froward. Approach God Himself on His own terms.

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Dont be silly, you think 3 pastors will say no by coincidence, they saw something bad in her get a clue

You are more direct than I bro. I salute you. He is preparing for a civil war, see my earlier post.

You still believe in Nigerian pastors?

Bro, God speaks to Every man, follow your heart; that's the voice of God

Please listen to the MEN OF GOD , you know they are very holy and hears directly from God. They are seeing something you are not SEEING. Also know that they will play a very important role in your marriage

That's just a mere prediction from the pastors.


Top footballer and analysts predicted that Chelsea will beat Arsenal to the FA cup.


Atlast, mere predictions doesn't define the game.
Na so i gave 3 female names give a pastor and an alfa.. Bola, Justina and Blessing.
U know what, the pastor picked Justina while the Alfa picked blessing.
Then, I don't even have a girlfriend then.


As God will now have it, my new girlfriend's name is Bola

na the pastor won sponsor the wedding??
na so pastor take advise brother stanley not to marry the beautiful and yellow sister Elizabeth for church that year after almosts 1 year or courting...
because him say thier spirit isnt spiritually bonded or connected..
las las na pastor second pikin wey come from abj naim marry sister Elizabeth after 3 months wey that yawa happen and them don even born 3 lai this...
and brother stanley still they pray to find him own spiritual wife material, we still they pray for brother stanley shaa

Why dont you and your girlfriend go meet those pastors without revealing who u are and see what they say? Those predictions could be may assumption. Trust me two of those 3 that said no may give u go ahead order. I think this is the best way u can relief yourself

Sense is very far from you OP. If you have to base your decision on what other people think or suggest then you're still a baby and not fit for marriage. I wish the poor girl will even abandon you cause with your kind of mentality, any ills that come your way (which will naturally happen) in the course of the marriage would be blamed on her

As he has come here emto nairaland to seek for advice,

He's next Caption will be,
"Nairaland Deceived me with Bad Advice, I should have listened to those other three Pastors"

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Dont be silly, you think 3 pastors will say no by coincidence, they saw something bad in her get a clue

Part of what scares me ,maybe she’s gonna show me pepper later

DaddyRochie1642:
As he has come here emto nairaland to seek for advice,

He's next Caption will be,
"Nairaland Deceived me with Bad Advice, I should have listened to those other three Pastors"

Lol

Funkyswagzz:
Why dont you and your ur girlfriend go meet those pastors without revealing who u are and see what they say? Those predictions could be may assumption. Trust me two of those 3 that said no may give u go ahead order. I think this is the best way u can relief yourself

Maybe I will try that

Fmlao:
That's just a mere prediction from the pastors.


Top footballer and analysts predicted that Chelsea will beat Arsenal to the FA cup.


Atlast, mere predictions doesn't define the game.
Na so i gave 3 female names give a pastor and an alfa.. Bola, Justina and Blessing.
U know what, the pastor picked Justina while the Alfa picked blessing.
Then, I don't even have a girlfriend then.


As God will now have it, my new girlfriend's name is Bola

Wow that’s what I’m worried about,some people are not seeing anything, but my mom won’t hear

wisper2jah:
You still believe in Nigerian pastors?

Bro, God speaks to Every man, follow your heart; that's the voice of God

Will fast and pray about it

Mr go to God yourself, there are very few genine pastors, and majority are bookmarkers.

Premium advice: Forget the pastors, never mary a lady/man when one or both your parents are against it.

Hehe a confused young man you truly are. As me de now there's no pastor that has my phone number or that has ever talked to me on personal issues. They never born the pastor that will oppose my choice of marriage sha. Where will he even see me? That's how a man keeps his shits together. Unless you're not a man just a sissy with a penis.

Marks112:

Wow that’s what I’m worried about,some people are not seeing anything, but my mom won’t hear

Brainwash your mum. She be female now. 'Toast' her into accepting your stand.
Just make sure that the said Lady is worth it. If she end up messing up, your mother will just be telling you 'you see'
Above all, 'Toast' your mum into accepting. It takes time

your mom is right, the three pastors are right, the one pastor is right and you are right too.

you see this life as long as someone is still breathing you must have issue that will confuse you and also teach you a lesson.

are you sure she really loves you?
this is marriage we are talking about and don't forget this saying "don't marry out of pity"

then ask yourself what makes you fall in love with her, make sure she is beautiful from the soul because beautiful soul will last for a lifetime but pretty face will fade.

everyone knows that nobody is 100% perfect but that won't stop you not to go for what you want

if you think she is the best for you then for the three pastors to tell you not to marry her that means maybe she is battling with a spiritual problem that may destroy you in the feature.

not all that glitters is gold.

if you know you love her and she loves you too then both of you can visit all those pastors for prayers, let them pray for you guys. then if she is not your wife let God prove to you with a sign.

don't chase the girl away just like that because of what the pastors told you, what if she is the right woman for you.

with God all things are possible, first of all commit God to be responsible, he can never fail you.

if the pastors say she is not your wife ask them to tell you why she is not your wife, how can someone prophecy to you without solution or reason, they should give you reasons and tell you what to do.

for them to see that she is not your wife they should tell you what they see about her that makes them say so.

everyone is right in this issue, you just have to make a decision as a man. what we are talking about is marriage.

pastor are humans like you. you should seek d face of on ur own

Let them give you a detailed report in support of their decision as to the rationale behind their stance, pros, cons, risks and the effect of extenuating circumstances. Yes or no is not good enough.

Marriage is not by sentiments. You have to carry out indepth research into your potential spouse. Go to her village, look for that her aunt/uncle that is hated and ask questions. Look for neighbours and ask questions. Ask follow up questions. Investigate her married spouses and find out how they treat their spouses. If her mum is divorced, find out what caused the divorce. If her dad is dead, find out what killed him.

So while you are loving with your heart, listen to dissenting voices as they may be your saving grace in future. Marrying the wrong woman can ruin you. Pray.

You better go and marry your woman

No let anyone or anybody tell you NOTHING


At the end of the day , future went well ( good for you)
Future went bad ( you still hot your gal )

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Dont be silly, you think 3 pastors will say no by coincidence, they saw something bad in her get a clue

Just look at this one, the one that said yes is a fake pastor right? You will just be typing anything with your hands!

If it’s 3 pastors that said yes and one said no now, you’ll say “don’t be silly blah blah blah”.

Abeg rest

We are not in the Stone Age anymore op, where you’ll be told thou shall not do this and that again, ask for their reasons and what they saw, weigh, and do your own assessment through Christ.