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Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Karlifate: 10:09pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
WomaninherPrime: OK, just tell him. Communication is very important in situations like this. Use your feminine subtlety naw. ![]() I hope the mods can push this to FP, so that you can get wider opinions. Good luck! 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by RenaissanceGuy: 10:18pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
The tone of this write-up resembles that of the guy that wrote about how his wife acts like a doll during sex and is always shy of him, even 3 years after wedding. Unfortunately for him, many Nairalanders busted him as a fake story writer ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by frozen70(f): 10:31pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
A normal person will get confused after reading your story No wonder you are confused too Just follow your heart, that's if the heart is not also confuse This is the first time am getting confused about what to comment after reading 3 Likes |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by laoludavid(m): 10:34pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Yoighaman:God bless your wisdom Pls can we chat privately I need your advice on a dilemma I find myself I will send you a Dm 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Prince4rm92(m): 10:37pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Mini mini mani mo = Denver ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by WomaninherPrime: 10:41pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Karlifate: Thanks. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by LadySarah: 10:42pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
It's been a long time my head spinned. Lol. I can't can at all. Goodluck to you on your selection journey. I might say narrow them down to 2 or 3 and we can help out.Remove the family house one and the genotype one first. It's not strange, it's what most of us experienced pre marriage. I nfact after marriage a new set will come. The ones with very good spec. 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Karlifate: 10:42pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
WomaninherPrime:
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Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Nobody: 10:53pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
...and these four guys will be somewhere right now bragging about my girlfriend. ![]() Dubem sef, talking about IVF when he can't afford neither TV nor fridge. If only he knows the financial responsibilities involved. 8 Likes |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by VicM6: 10:57pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
if you read the story to the end, hit LIKE but if you don't, hit SHARE . All this story story don tire me jare... na everyday relationship dey burst.... nawa o..... MUSA is tired of being tired and is ready to pack and go 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by CsRockefeller(m): 10:59pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Someone should please hit me with a konga stick (e lagi mo) d day I carry woman matter on top my big head ![]() |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by WomaninherPrime: 10:59pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Ayemileto: Thanks so much for this. Denver's family house isn't occupied by other family members, though. He lives there alone, just that the relatives keep making claims to it. For Bright, in all honesty, I have no idea what his problem is. He really was planning an engagement dinner... His friend gave me the gist first. I'm even tired trying to rationalise what hus problem is. He just won't put effort into going for what he wants. He wants me to make it easy for him by being compliant and reciprocating his advances even though they are half-hearted. Nedu is working, actually, and has prospects. Perhaps I'm just too concerned about his present situation. He can't do half of what Dubem would typically do for me... the standard of living and courting that I've become used to. Yeah, I shouldn't compare. But the readaptation would be a real test! I thought I had left all those "the future will be bright kinda relationship" in uni. Perhaps my prayer should be the patience to build with Nedu... but I've built enough, haven't I? My first ex and Dubem, I started dating them in their days of little beginning until they became really comfortable... perhaps it's why Dubem is always going the extra mile for me and spoils me... But to go back to that building-from-scratch life again with Nedu... drains the energy in me. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by WomaninherPrime: 11:06pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
frozen70: Oh Chim! Dàálụ́. I guess these things just naturally fall in place with time. |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by WomaninherPrime: 11:07pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Prince4rm92: Lol. Na wa |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by WomaninherPrime: 11:10pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
LadySarah: Hian! After marriage, no problem. It won't throw me into a state of conundrum like this, because I already made a permanent choice. It's the choice and the scare to make the best one right now that's giving me headaches. |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by WomaninherPrime: 11:14pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
J111333: No. Dubem is my entangled two-year boyfriend. Dubem can afford a straightforward IVF. But there's a lot to plan and save for... marriage first, going abroad, IVF sessions and exigencies that may arise. That's why I feel he'd wake up one day and realise it's too much trouble. Nedu is the one without TV or fridge. This must be really confusing. I'm sorry. 4 Likes |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by timisquare82(m): 11:17pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
You need cleansing absolutely. You see ehn your husband is not amongst the ones listed above, the right man will come definitely and when he comes you will recognize him. 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Yoighaman(m): 11:27pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
laoludavid: Thank you very much for the compliment. I like to keep my privacy intact inasmuch as I would like to give my advice. Like others usually do, I suggest you create a new moniker and state what the issue is. We can all then respond to you as done for the OP. Thanks. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by padi94(m): 11:37pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
I don't hv any advice. Nice right, you seem smart, I know you will figure things out yourself 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by cchikkyy: 11:46pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
Just settle for the one without TV and refrigerator... shikena 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Nobody: 11:50pm On Aug 02, 2020 |
WomaninherPrime:If Dubem has all the qualities you need in a husband, has the means and is willing to go that route with you, then accept his marriage proposal. If I love a girl very much and have the means to go for IVF, genotype wahala won't stop me from going the route with her as long as I'll have a peaceful marriage but check Dubem's level of willingness first. He needs to be a man that can stand by his words at all times. Never settle for second best when you have options available to have the best, you're gonna live with the regret your entire lifetime. Phew! thanks goodness I'm AA 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Dayoebe(m): 12:16am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Nice story! Change the title to a more attractive one, call Lalasticlala to help you move it to FP thereby you can get large audience Narrow it down to three or less. Remove the one with IVF patapata, delete ''family house'', avoid the ''arrogant''. Also, Buy TV and Fridge for other guy and modify him to your taste Then lets talk about the rest Thank me later Guys between Quantum Physics and this issue, which one is harder?? 8 Likes |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by DavidEsq(m): 1:13am On Aug 03, 2020 |
UDUJ:She is still in her hoeing stage 7 Likes |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Olarewaju89: 1:24am On Aug 03, 2020 |
UDUJ: I think oop need deliverance right now. Oop, you need to visit TB Joshua right away because devil had taken your joy away. |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by arthorjnr(m): 2:07am On Aug 03, 2020 |
First thing's first, if you're sure Dubem can't handle the whole IVF thing, break up with him. If he's adamant, you both have to sit down and plan it NOW. Evaluate the costs and options. If its feasible and you have that feeling that Dubem is the love of your life, go for it. Personally, I feel you're putting a lot of pressure on yourself. Pick the guy with the qualities that suites you, if he's hardworking enough, the money and comfort will come. The goal is to live happily ever after and not to cry in a Lamborghini. From your write up, you're not the type to compromise much. If this is truly whom you are and Dubem don't cut it, then nobody on that list will, for now that is. Don't rush it hun... Life is full of surprises. 4 Likes |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by WomaninherPrime: 6:18am On Aug 03, 2020 |
J111333: Thanks a lot! 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by WomaninherPrime: 6:31am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Dayoebe: Interestingly, I have a spare TV because I recently bought a smart TV. When I asked the young man why he didn't have a TV since he apparently loves watching TV, he said he was saving up to get a super wide-screen smart TV. My spare TV is not a smart TV, just a regular LED plasma, so he wouldn't appreciate it. But beyond that, it's very tricky for a woman to be spending her money on a man. If he's not a freeloader, he'll feel emasculated... if he's a freeloader, I'd have started something I can't finish. So I'd rather give other kinds of support . Most others have advised that I give Nedu a chance, though. I'll begin to think of him in better perspectives. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by WomaninherPrime: 6:43am On Aug 03, 2020 |
arthorjnr: Perhaps I'm putting a lot of pressure on myself, truly. These guys all up in my business all the time, and I feel I must make a choice, and declutter, so I can focus on one person. Lately, too, I've been overly concerned as to how eligible ladies get into their 30s and still single. I feel they, too, at some point, went through this phase that I'm at, and they chose wrongly, or didn't choose at all. I should pray more, and see how I can work things out with awesome Nedu who's financially upcoming. I appreciate your input! Thanks! 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by JOACHINpedro: 9:48am On Aug 03, 2020 |
WomaninherPrime: I have done that dear. All I can say is Goodluck. I honestly hope you find a good companion
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Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by PureGoldh(m): 9:53am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Local man is just speechless |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Nobody: 9:54am On Aug 03, 2020 |
One person don finish talk. Marrying because of money isn't a guarantee. Businesses fail, Retrenchment happens. Use this theory on ursef. Nobody b superman here. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by AfroKnight: 9:56am On Aug 03, 2020 |
One woman dating 5 men ![]() Choose the richest. That’s who you really want anyway 1 Like |
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