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Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Adex2442: 10:28am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Cooked up stories |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by HolyTitus(m): 10:28am On Aug 03, 2020 |
The number of entanglements alone can make Solomon confused. |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by brainhgeek(m): 10:28am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Nne, your confuse dey confusing my confuse. Make I read comments fess, I dey come |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Nobody: 10:30am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Some ladies have no guy at all and someone is dribbling 5 guys and making choices even selecting based on HND and BSC. Chai, this life no just balance, you are really a woman in her prime. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by delkuf(m): 10:30am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Juliusmomoh:This may not make sense |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by nkiliuzo(m): 10:31am On Aug 03, 2020 |
women are looking for man to marry, you are here doing mini mini Mani mu.... continue o 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by LandMann: 10:31am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Womaninherprime First look at yourself and ask yourself what you want and what sacrifices you are ready to make in a relationship... Settle that fundamental question first and in the meantime stop flirting with any of the guys because you will get more confused and it may come back to hunt any relationship you enter... Once you have decided what you want and what sacrifices you can make, look at all the guys and see the one that checks yes to MOST of your desired qualities and go with him....FULLY... knowing the sacrifices you are going to make to make everything work out. Commit to him and make it clear to the others that you are now in a relationship and set boundaries or Break contact with them totally to avoid falling into the pit of comparison and cheating once you encounter any storm in the relationship you are now in. If you are not ready yet, just stop flirting around and giving half green light to guys flirting with you... They are baggages that will hunt you and destroy any relationship you enter... Your list showing you juggling between 5 guys is already a dangerous signal showing a woman who flirts and doesn't set boundaries... Nedu seems to be the best pick but I don't know if he meets MOST of the qualities you desire. Only you know... If he does, go with him and be ready to make those sacrifices to make the relationship work... If he doesn't, be patient, your man will come. Forget that IVF guy... When love fades and the burden of marriage sets in, both of you will start regretting your decision to marry. Yes, love will fade at some point in marriage, and it's loyalty, commitment and support that will see you through the rest of the marriage journey. Best of luck. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by mariahAngel(f): 10:31am On Aug 03, 2020 |
NoApology: You said it man! |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Nobody: 10:31am On Aug 03, 2020 |
This should be between Dubem and Nedu. Others are no option. Hmmmmm please just go and pray about it, no one can help you but God because he sees the future and all of Man. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by enemmo(f): 10:31am On Aug 03, 2020 |
How can I unread this ![]() |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Bigsteveg(m): 10:32am On Aug 03, 2020 |
NoApology: Am telling you< at a point i was mixing the guys up |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Queenoffucks(f): 10:32am On Aug 03, 2020 |
WomaninherPrime: Go for me then. I am Queenoffucks. The first and the last of her name. ![]() Queenoffucks |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by bbode1(m): 10:32am On Aug 03, 2020 |
See.. relationship is a long journey. I hope u can read this. I myself have been in 11 relationship as a guy before I finally met the mrs right. And even at that. I had to let go of all plenty of those qualities I have listed in a woman. I want contented with the 1 or 2 quality she had. I believe I have a problem of choice, contentment and u are too ambitious. The real problem among the 3 I mentioned in ur ambitious. U are not ready to settle for a lesser guy. But a lesser guy who is very okay with his income and can take care if u and his family. There is no problem marrying that guy. U need a counsellor. To counsel u properly on marriage affairs. Off course u also need to start reading marital books. U will find an answer to your questions here. No body can tell you what u want. Except urself. If u go with people, u still end up regretting. If u can give urself the opportunity to study from experience of great scholars books. U will find an answer to ur questions. I recommend spiritual books. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by SeriouslySense(m): 10:32am On Aug 03, 2020 |
You have spoken as an intelligent, Lady. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by bbode1(m): 10:34am On Aug 03, 2020 |
bbode1:Sorry for the errors in English... 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by IYIMAN: 10:34am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Op , focus on being productive while working things with God in prayer. Your desire for a good life is bringing you confusion. Whoever you choose, avoid genotype mismatch, it comes with a lifetime of regrets. Keep yourself busy with work and academics, maybe the right man is not even among those you mentioned. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by salt1: 10:35am On Aug 03, 2020 |
WomaninherPrime: I prefer the first guy. You're in love with him too. Your reason for thinking of Nedu is patronizing. Leave him for someone who deserves him. Firm up the ivf options with the first man. To those who may think it's a fake story, many girls receive plenty marriage proposals between ages 18 and 28. A girl that I know counted 40 suitors. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by enshi(m): 10:35am On Aug 03, 2020 |
WomaninherPrime: |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Deltoid(m): 10:36am On Aug 03, 2020 |
The only person you shouldn't settle with is Genotype issue and maybe arrogant one u said (if at all that is his behaviour). But the financial issue guy that u said is determined and all. Don't be surprised u will regret not sticking with him when everything settles for him, as far as u are determined, then definitely poverty will never last forever, i mean he is still young and has a future ahead of him. HND? Seriously? Didn't u see super rich people that didn't even go to primary school (go to the north and see them plenty). Plus are schools closed forever? Don't u think he can pursue more certificate with time? See i don tire sef, i personally believe u are only stuck with this Dubem and finding excuses not to liv him, but mind u, genotype issue is not small issue 3 Likes |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by chlowi(f): 10:36am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by delkuf(m): 10:37am On Aug 03, 2020 |
WomaninherPrime:You have Christ with all this huge level of fornication. I doubt it 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by SeriouslySense(m): 10:37am On Aug 03, 2020 |
I myself have Genotype Isue, and i love the Lady, but the implications of having Children with SS, scares me IYIMAN: 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by SmartyPants(m): 10:38am On Aug 03, 2020 |
WomaninherPrime: Now that you have narrowed down to two, I think its fairly easy. There is a simple way to clear your thoughts and find out what your heart really wants: the coin toss. Take a coin and flip it, heads--Nedu, tails--Denver. However don't check the result...instead, wait and see which one you were hoping would come up. That is the one that you really want. Also i would advise you not to open your heart to just about every man that comes knocking. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Dalby(m): 10:38am On Aug 03, 2020 |
NoApology: There in lies the difference between a man and a woman. Even if the boyfriends reach 15, she can keep tabs on all of them without anyone suspecting that another exist. For man it isn't possible, without a slip... |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by kaywhy09(m): 10:39am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Yoighaman: OP got me confused. Commentators got me more confused. You dimistifies the whole thoughts and got me balanced. 3 Likes |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by dallyemmy: 10:39am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Ask God for guidance 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Openbusiness4: 10:40am On Aug 03, 2020 |
Only u 5 guys, fear 9ja girls mehnnnn ![]() |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by peruxie: 10:40am On Aug 03, 2020 |
I don’t usually comment here, but my advise is You should leave dubem ( no need to put yourself through the stress of IVF), but Nedu seems to be the ideal guy( he could actually have his money in series of investments, hence the reason he doesn’t throw so much money around�) 3 Likes |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by jubrilELsudan: 10:40am On Aug 03, 2020 |
TYPICAL MENTALITY OF A NIGERIAN GIRL. ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A READY MADE MAN. CAN NEVER INVEST IN A MAN EVEN IF THE SAID MAN MAKES THEM HAPPY AND IS EVERYTHING THEY EVER WISHED FOR IN A MAN. SO WHAT STOPS YOU FROM BUYING NEDU A TV AND FRIDGE? OH SORRY, YOUR NIGERIAN DEMONS WON'T ALLOW YOU DO THAT. I REPHRASE, SO WHAT STOPS YOU FROM TAKING YOUR TV AND FRIDGE TO HIS PLACE SINCE ITS YOU ALWAYS COMPLAINING AND WANTING TO WATCH THE TV AND PUT THINGS IN THE FRIDGE? CORONA FALL INSIDE YOUR KUKUNASE. 2 Likes
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Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Deltoid(m): 10:40am On Aug 03, 2020 |
salt1:They may not be able to do it every time, plus the stress they will go tru. If all they put tru first is family first (not their self-interest), then they should avoid each other |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by Deltoid(m): 10:41am On Aug 03, 2020 |
jubrilELsudan:Well said man. I like this Nedu guy Better. She said it herself, he is kind, hardworking, respectful, determined, all this are xtics that build a successful man! 1 Like |
Re: 5 Guys: Which Should I Choose? Help A Confused Girl by delkuf(m): 10:44am On Aug 03, 2020 |
if a guy have HND and is not up to what you want, I think you will end up with the wrong guy. Just my thought 2 Likes |
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