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One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by GistsBaze1: 10:07am On Aug 05, 2020
A woman has been left in total shock after she discovered what was on her son’s phone after his demise.

Taking to a popular Ghanaian forum-massiveupdates.com, the lady wrote:

“My husband and I have been married for a very long time but without child.
When I finally got Pregnant and had my own child a Son we were very happy.

Because he was our only child, we make sure he lacks nothing and we provided whatever he asked for.

I returned home from work one evening and I realized Jason was not yet home at time so I sat in the chair watching my favorite program on TV While i Waite for him.

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After 1 hour, I got a call that Jason has been shot by unknown men and was rush to the hospital. I got to the hospital and saw my son screaming mommy please I don’t want to die. The long and short of it is that Jason did not make it alive.He died at age 17.

After a whole year of mourning my only child, I decided to go back to my normal live. I went to my son room to clean it cuz it was dusty. I saw his phone at where i kept it when his belongings were given to me at hospital. I tried to on the phone but it was off so I charged it for sometime then on it. I tried different password to unlock the phone but to no avail so decided to tried his favorite football club and then finally I was able to open it.

To my surprise I saw a WhatsApp conversation between him and a young lady, telling her how rich his parents are and if she agrees to date him, he will buy her anything she wants. What really broke my heart most was the naked Photos and videos they always sends to each other. In one video which shows Jason masturbating and in another video the girl was seen fingering herself. They even planned to go somewhere to enjoy themselves and after that he will give her whatever she wants.

I couldn’t hold back my tears cuz i never knew Jason was like that. I tot my son was an innocent boy but I was wrong after what I just discovered.
Pls what can I do to forget about what I discovered on my son’s phone?”
https://gistsbaze.com/one-year-after-my-sons-death-what-i-discovered-on-his-phone-made-me-cry-the-last-tear-in-my-eyes/

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by 88Craze: 10:12am On Aug 05, 2020
Hmmmm, I'm left speechless. The same way you forgot your son and moved on with your normal life, that same way forget the phone and move on with life.
I know how it feels to lose someone very close and important to you, especially when you spent only little time before the person crossed beyond. Have been through it, you should do it as well.

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by chinchonglee(m): 10:15am On Aug 05, 2020
Mtchwww!! Nonsense...

Wetin dey dere

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by Ugaboy: 10:31am On Aug 05, 2020
This life style is now common among our young teens, many parent have this ignorance that their teenagers are innocent this immorality they see other children exhibit, yet they tag those child as "child of the world"
i can recall how back then at my early teen stage at church, our teen church pastor consistently preach the danger of pornography and cartoons and this woman have no idea that her son was the distributor and the enterprise of porn in among us. This same woman has disgraced and embarassed many of us then over keeping relationship, yet she doesnt know her son the Bleep handsome boy has deflowed closed to 5 girls in the church.

we should try and keep watch over our kids. Thanks to my mum, she never pretend that i dont know those shit then, her advice and follow up made me not to loose track.

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by GboyegaD(m): 10:38am On Aug 05, 2020
It's the result of poor parenting when we equate quality family time with money.

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by Nobody: 10:41am On Aug 05, 2020
GboyegaD:
It's the result of poor parenting when we equate quality family time with money.
not poor parenting who go bad go bad it's a choice

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by wildcatter23(m): 10:53am On Aug 05, 2020
So how does this information change the fact your son has become a man. It's sad he died untimely but this information you released has no bearing on his death.


You are shocked that's understandable but why should you make he sound bad. The girl had already consented to his premeditated action with her. She didn't cry foul. You should lay his ghost to rest because a striker of reputation has been sent to the great beyond

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by paulolee(m): 10:55am On Aug 05, 2020
too bad...but its normal for kids this days..

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by ATTITUDE2: 10:57am On Aug 05, 2020
Too bad!

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by GboyegaD(m): 10:59am On Aug 05, 2020
positivevibez:
not poor parenting who go bad go bad it's a choice

Not in all cases.

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by sofiscatedmoron: 12:17pm On Aug 05, 2020
Your son is innocent ?
You,,, don't you Bleep?

Hypocrite

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by Vyzz: 12:25pm On Aug 05, 2020
Remember the day mama saw condom inside my bag....


There is a thing with mothers and searching their kids stuff....

My mom is the kind of woman that u will think she doesn't know anything but she knows all...


Anyway she just told me that I should be careful of stds... What would u expect her to say?.

Shey she no go dey follow me go uni...

At least she was happy I had condoms

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by Wierdceo: 1:12pm On Aug 05, 2020
I just wish they had had sex and the lady had gotten pregnant your son's lineage would not have wasted like that. You would have had someone to replace your son with and console urself weda she gives birth to a boy or a girl. U r there worrying About his actions . Maybe he knew he was going to die that was why he wanted to have sex so eagerly. Who knows if he died a virgin. If u give birth again, be sure to learn from this ur dead child.

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by simplepee(f): 1:13pm On Aug 05, 2020
Wow. Kids these days ehn. It is only God that will save them.

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by simplepee(f): 1:18pm On Aug 05, 2020
Wierdceo:
I just wish they had had sex and the lady had gotten pregnant your son's lineage would not have wasted like that. You would have had someone to replace your son with and console urself weda she gives birth to a boy or a girl. U r there worrying About his actions . [s]Maybe he knew he was going to die that was why he wanted to have sex so eagerly. Who knows if he died a virgin. If u give birth again, be sure to learn from this ur dead child[/s].

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by Wierdceo: 1:24pm On Aug 05, 2020
[quote author=simplepee post=92483359][/quote]

No wori u seff go born then u go know how e dey pain for body to loose pikin.

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by tempest01(m): 1:30pm On Aug 05, 2020
Nonsense

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by joviegghead: 1:39pm On Aug 05, 2020
Hmmm! Okay!

What she saw was just a reflection of what happens when you have no knowledge of what is going on in your child's life.

Back then, before the influx of tech advancements, parenting was quite easy since children had limited means to exhibit their youthful exuberance and desires. It was just school, church, and house.

Now, social media is like a get-away from the prying eyes of parents. And kids are smarter now. And most parents too are just too light handed to remain strict and firm on their kids. I think it's a story of value erosion caused by globalisation(a result of tech advancement again)

BTW, I think the woman spoilt the boy too. Because o don't understand how a well disciplined child would indulge in such.

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by Kaveco(m): 2:09pm On Aug 05, 2020
Wetin be this


Wierdceo:
I just wish they had had sex and the lady had gotten pregnant your son's lineage would not have wasted like that. You would have had someone to replace your son with and console urself weda she gives birth to a boy or a girl. U r there worrying About his actions . Maybe he knew he was going to die that was why he wanted to have sex so eagerly. Who knows if he died a virgin. If u give birth again, be sure to learn from this ur dead child.

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by parzdor(m): 2:17pm On Aug 05, 2020
Wta

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by simplepee(f): 2:20pm On Aug 05, 2020
Wierdceo:


No wori u seff go born then u go know how e dey pain for body to loose pikin.
God forbid I lose my child. You are the one who is being insensitive about the situation. Didn't you read your comment? Learn how to connect your brain when typing.

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by Wierdceo: 2:20pm On Aug 05, 2020
Kaveco:
Wetin be this


Quadratic equation.

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by Wierdceo: 2:23pm On Aug 05, 2020
simplepee:
God forbid I lose my child. You are the one who is being insensitive about the situation. Didn't you read your comment? Learn how to connect your brain when typing.
Is like something is worrying ur brain. The boy is dead and u're still blaming him for being spoilt. Can't u see u are the one being insensitive? U people are condemning a dead person. Can't u see u are senseless?

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by Adunaanuoluwa(f): 2:24pm On Aug 05, 2020
cry

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by Airoflaw(m): 2:33pm On Aug 05, 2020
Forgive d dead n move out

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by Onyenna(m): 2:42pm On Aug 05, 2020
Daaayyuuummmmm!!

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by falcon01: 3:31pm On Aug 05, 2020
mcheeew?? and so You bleeped up as a parent so why are you surprised? its even not that bad I though it was something like murder related or some necrophiliac or paedophilia stuff.

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by REDBUNNY(f): 5:04pm On Aug 05, 2020
chinchonglee:
Mtchwww!! Nonsense...

Wetin dey dere
my exact reaction

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by merieam16(f): 5:47pm On Aug 05, 2020
Ugaboy:
This life style is now common among our young teens, many parent have this ignorance that their teenagers are innocent this immorality they see other children exhibit, yet they tag those child as "child of the world"
i can recall how back then at my early teen stage at church, our teen church pastor consistently preach the danger of pornography and cartoons and this woman have no idea that her son was the distributor and the enterprise of porn in among us. This same woman has disgraced and embarassed many of us then over keeping relationship, yet she doesnt know her son the Bleep handsome boy has deflowed closed to 5 girls in the church.

we should try and keep watch over our kids. Thanks to my mum, she never pretend that i dont know those shit then, her advice and follow up made me not to loose track.
shocked thank God 4 God lolz

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by UDUJ(m): 5:54pm On Aug 05, 2020
Vyzz:
Remember the day mama saw condom inside my bag....


There is a thing with mothers and searching their kids stuff....

My mom is the kind of woman that u will think she doesn't know anything but she knows all...


Anyway she just told me that I should be careful of stds... What would u expect her to say?.

Shey she no go dey follow me go uni...

At least she was happy I had condoms

Your mum is just like my mum. First time a girl visited me in the house during hols while still in the university, mum was so matured about it. She just called me aside and said son I know you're an adult now and no longer a virgin but I hope you always use a condom to which I answered in the affirmative. Cool mums are the best cool

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Re: One Year After My Son’s Death, What I Discovered On His Phone Made Me Cry by Bloghomies(m): 5:58pm On Aug 05, 2020
The son is dead and deserves to rest in peace. What's she trying to achieve by broadcasting to the world that her son wasn't who she thought he is?

This story is fake!

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