Ecter:
Hi good morning i must say this is a Very pleasant and well arranged write up. However, based on your relationship with the newly found crush i would say buy her if it's in your ability too. first of all because it is the right thing to do, you don't have to show hospitality all because you wanna have something in return. Secondly, buying her a phone would definitely make you feel good about yourself and you being a certified gentleman. Thirdly, she will not turn you into an ATM machine please that's not always the case i wonder why people find it so difficult to spend on a girl all because of a vivid mindset. Figuratively, let's be honest, if you don't spend on someone you wanna call yours, who else is worth it. You trying to win her over agreed, getting her a gift definitely counts. But mind you when you do that or if you eventually do that, don't expect anything in return remove your mind From it please, don't give her the impression of you like the rest guys, he got me a new phone so he can Bleep me please don't do that. If you get her the phone stay calm and totally take your mind and actions on what she might give you in return, trust me my friend, you'll be surprised. (You'll be shocked to realise that your crush just has the perfect connection you need or she might simply be the sweetest wife you'll ever have)

Melodriod:


Okay, maybe I'll ask her out first and see the outcome before any further decisions...

Thank you.

Kekereekun123:
Their phone is always spoilt why

Melodriod:
This is my first reasonable post on nairaland �... I don't really know what the comments would be like but man gotta do what he gotta do �

So here's the story, I'm a single guy and I've been putting an eye out there looking for someone to love and call my own, so i met this really beautiful nice young lady a month ago and its was more like love at first sight kinda of thing...but i just had to maintain so i don't appear being desperate and all... But truth is am madly in love with this girl, we've been talking ever since then and so far we are becoming more closer as each day passes.

I still haven't asked her out to be my girlfriend but I'm really hopeful that she will say yes to me considering how close we have become lately, we talk about everything and anything.

So to the main gist, currently her smartphone is bad so we can't do things like chatting, whatsapp calls, video calls and the likes... And i feel like getting her a smartphone would greatly be helpful to her as well as get us to communicate more often, so I'm thinking....Is it wise to get her a phone at such an early stage into our relationship (friendship) considering the fact that i haven't asked her and she hasn't said yes to me....

I just feel like she really needs a smartphone and I'm thinking if i should get her one... I've not really made up my mind yet, might sound crazy but I'll really like to get opinions on this..

Drsnives:
You are a mumu man for even conceving that idea

Melodriod:
This is my first reasonable post on nairaland �... I don't really know what the comments would be like but man gotta do what he gotta do �

So here's the story, I'm a single guy and I've been putting an eye out there looking for someone to love and call my own, so i met this really beautiful nice young lady a month ago and its was more like love at first sight kinda of thing...but i just had to maintain so i don't appear being desperate and all... But truth is am madly in love with this girl, we've been talking ever since then and so far we are becoming more closer as each day passes.

I still haven't asked her out to be my girlfriend but I'm really hopeful that she will say yes to me considering how close we have become lately, we talk about everything and anything.

So to the main gist, currently her smartphone is bad so we can't do things like chatting, whatsapp calls, video calls and the likes... And i feel like getting her a smartphone would greatly be helpful to her as well as get us to communicate more often, so I'm thinking....Is it wise to get her a phone at such an early stage into our relationship (friendship) considering the fact that i haven't asked her and she hasn't said yes to me....

I just feel like she really needs a smartphone and I'm thinking if i should get her one... I've not really made up my mind yet, might sound crazy but I'll really like to get opinions on this..

Bennysam:
Use that money to buy sense

Melodriod:
This is my first reasonable post on nairaland �... I don't really know what the comments would be like but man gotta do what he gotta do �

So here's the story, I'm a single guy and I've been putting an eye out there looking for someone to love and call my own, so i met this really beautiful nice young lady a month ago and its was more like love at first sight kinda of thing...but i just had to maintain so i don't appear being desperate and all... But truth is am madly in love with this girl, we've been talking ever since then and so far we are becoming more closer as each day passes.

I still haven't asked her out to be my girlfriend but I'm really hopeful that she will say yes to me considering how close we have become lately, we talk about everything and anything.

So to the main gist, currently her smartphone is bad so we can't do things like chatting, whatsapp calls, video calls and the likes... And i feel like getting her a smartphone would greatly be helpful to her as well as get us to communicate more often, so I'm thinking....Is it wise to get her a phone at such an early stage into our relationship (friendship) considering the fact that i haven't asked her and she hasn't said yes to me....

I just feel like she really needs a smartphone and I'm thinking if i should get her one... I've not really made up my mind yet, might sound crazy but I'll really like to get opinions on this..

Melodriod:
This is my first reasonable post on nairaland �... I don't really know what the comments would be like but man gotta do what he gotta do �

So here's the story, I'm a single guy and I've been putting an eye out there looking for someone to love and call my own, so i met this really beautiful nice young lady a month ago and its was more like love at first sight kinda of thing...but i just had to maintain so i don't appear being desperate and all... But truth is am madly in love with this girl, we've been talking ever since then and so far we are becoming more closer as each day passes.

I still haven't asked her out to be my girlfriend but I'm really hopeful that she will say yes to me considering how close we have become lately, we talk about everything and anything.

So to the main gist, currently her smartphone is bad so we can't do things like chatting, whatsapp calls, video calls and the likes... And i feel like getting her a smartphone would greatly be helpful to her as well as get us to communicate more often, so I'm thinking....Is it wise to get her a phone at such an early stage into our relationship (friendship) considering the fact that i haven't asked her and she hasn't said yes to me....

I just feel like she really needs a smartphone and I'm thinking if i should get her one... I've not really made up my mind yet, might sound crazy but I'll really like to get opinions on this..

womenareapes:
Mr simp! have you buy your family members any phone?

I'm very sure one of your family member is in need of smartphone!

the way you men are so foolish always Marvel me!

JONNYSPUTE:
..... Hahahahaha.

The guy is from a very wealthy home,so non of his family member's is in need of smart phone.Lol.

Bennysam:
Use that money to buy sense

Mamiephiona:
Yeah please buy her the phone I'll be waiting for your next thread of how she scammed you and you want to commit suicide

Sixfeetbelle:


No need for my comment.

Let the "logical" specie of the human race take their lovely time wailing on this post.

infogenerator:
What is really wrong with you guys on nairaland, I see ladies complain about how bitter nairaland guys can be, honestly they might be right after all.

Op, I want to believe this is a made up story or you just posted it only to get interactions.

Nonetheless,

If you met a girl today and decides to buy her a phone the next day for better communication, it does not in anyway make you a FOOL or SIMP........ If she decides to be stupid, that's her loss not yours, you were already bigger than the phone anyway....... You've a sister if she leaves the house with a terrible phone and come home with a brand new phone, that a guy she just met got her, what will be your impression of the guy? SIMP or someone really deserving of your sis?

Relationship is not a Battle ground for the cunniest or the smartest, play that game and you will ALWAYS loose.....

So much to say, but nah, I'll leave it here...


Bashing is allowed please

Solzate:



Blood of Zachariah

My man once you get her that phone the speed at which she will have nothing to do with you will really amaze you, let me give you this advice my man don't spend your hard earned money on any lady thats not family to you,that money use it to do something for ur self or use it to get something for ur mom or sis. You guys are just friends now and the thought of getting her a phone is already in ur head ,that means when you eventually start dating how ,she go dey use billing dey flog u 24/7.

Pls my man don't buy her any phone,cause stories like this always lead to premium tears.

womenareapes:
Mr simp! have you buy your family members any phone?

I'm very sure one of your family member is in need of smartphone!

the way you men are so foolish always Marvel me!

what has your girlfriend ever give you apart from opening and closing her yansh?

Melodriod:


I think so many persons here think the money is the issue here... I can decide to get her a phone today if i decide to and it won't cost me nothing... Since i finished my degree I've just been work oriented i really feel the need to find a partner at this point in my life...

And also....This is not a made up story.

Appreciate your contribution.

Melodriod:
This is my first reasonable post on nairaland �... I don't really know what the comments would be like but man gotta do what he gotta do �

So here's the story, I'm a single guy and I've been putting an eye out there looking for someone to love and call my own, so i met this really beautiful nice young lady a month ago and its was more like love at first sight kinda of thing...but i just had to maintain so i don't appear being desperate and all... But truth is am madly in love with this girl, we've been talking ever since then and so far we are becoming more closer as each day passes.

I still haven't asked her out to be my girlfriend but I'm really hopeful that she will say yes to me considering how close we have become lately, we talk about everything and anything.

So to the main gist, currently her smartphone is bad so we can't do things like chatting, whatsapp calls, video calls and the likes... And i feel like getting her a smartphone would greatly be helpful to her as well as get us to communicate more often, so I'm thinking....Is it wise to get her a phone at such an early stage into our relationship (friendship) considering the fact that i haven't asked her and she hasn't said yes to me....

I just feel like she really needs a smartphone and I'm thinking if i should get her one... I've not really made up my mind yet, might sound crazy but I'll really like to get opinions on this..

daddio:



AT THIS STAGE, I THINK IT'S TOO EARLY TO BUY HER ANY PHONE, ASK HER OUT, IF SHE AGREES, WAIT FOR LIKE A MONTH OR TWO TO BUY HER THE PHONE OR ANY EXPENSIVE GIFT YOU MAY WHISH TO BUY HER.

Just think twice

Melodriod:



Maybe the type of girls you've met are the type that See's this kind of scenario as an avenue to begin demanding up and down from a guy.... I'm not stupid to just see someone and start spending extravagantly on her... I know the kind of women i want and so far I've seen those qualities in her.

Melodriod:



Maybe the type of girls you've met are the type that See's this kind of scenario as an avenue to begin demanding up and down from a guy.... I'm not stupid to just see someone and start spending extravagantly on her... I know the kind of women i want and so far I've seen those qualities in her.

Melodriod:


Before I met her....

Melodriod:
This is my first reasonable post on nairaland �... I don't really know what the comments would be like but man gotta do what he gotta do �

So here's the story, I'm a single guy and I've been putting an eye out there looking for someone to love and call my own, so i met this really beautiful nice young lady a month ago and its was more like love at first sight kinda of thing...but i just had to maintain so i don't appear being desperate and all... But truth is am madly in love with this girl, we've been talking ever since then and so far we are becoming more closer as each day passes.

I still haven't asked her out to be my girlfriend but I'm really hopeful that she will say yes to me considering how close we have become lately, we talk about everything and anything.

So to the main gist, currently her smartphone is bad so we can't do things like chatting, whatsapp calls, video calls and the likes... And i feel like getting her a smartphone would greatly be helpful to her as well as get us to communicate more often, so I'm thinking....Is it wise to get her a phone at such an early stage into our relationship (friendship) considering the fact that i haven't asked her and she hasn't said yes to me....

I just feel like she really needs a smartphone and I'm thinking if i should get her one... I've not really made up my mind yet, might sound crazy but I'll really like to get opinions on this..