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Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by FinewineNg(f): 5:27pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Please ooo help. What is the tested and trusted solution to Premature ejaculation? My husband doesn't last 5 secs during sex. Immediately he penetrates me, he just cums just like that when I am preparing to enjoy the show. This have been going on for months and he isn't bothered. The other time his di#&k was inside me and it went flaccid. He says there is nothing wrong with him. He doesn't kiss, he is not the romantic type, even to play with my nipples is a big job for him. I am frustrated to the point I am always Hot 247. My v. Jay is always wet. I need to be made good love to. For 2 months now, no sex, he just masturbates in the middle of the night while watching p@rn on his phone (he is a porn addict and heavy hemp smoker). I told him we should see our family Doctor but he insisted there is nothing wrong with him. I have a healthy sexua l libido and I enjoy pre-intimacy nd se x alot but here I am, starved, frustrated, constantly dripping and hungry for it. We have 4 kids and my libido increased after child bearing. I'm in my middle thirties and he is is his mid forties. I am a 100% clean woman and I maintain very healthy oral and general body hygiene so its not a case of me being a dirty woman. [/b]Nairalanders please what healthy treatment options are available, where can we get it?[b] Help me. I can't sleep with another man. Thank you for your suggestions. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by Oluromantic: 5:36pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
You didn't tell us how long it's been going on. However it's common among couple. Perhaps you guys have been too familiar with each other recently or there's no emotional connection between you too or maybe he has issues on his mind. Counseling or agbo mixtures can help. I do not suggest Viagra |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by YellowDay: 5:39pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Topic for the mature minds. Lalasticlala |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by Righteousness89(m): 6:01pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Masturbation has been a Spirtual and Physical Destroyer of Man and Home.. It opens the door to a whole lot Physical, Spirtual and Mental Disorder... Your Hubby needs to understand that he has a Problem Befor there can be a Solution.. Respectfully Pressure him to seek Godly Counsel... 6 Likes |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by Acidosis(m): 6:04pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Your topic obviously did not address the main issues. As for PE and ED, I would suggest you try water melon, bananas, berries, and nut. These fruits can help increase blood flow to the penis, thus, giving a man stronger and lasting erection. These fruits work 80% of the time. Viagra should never be encouraged except in situations where other alternatives (with zero side effects) fail. BTW, there is no correlation whatsoever between PE or ED and masturbation. Masturbation as far as scientific and human behaviour are concerned has NOTHING to do with PE and ED. It can, however, become an addiction and make a mess of an individual's sexual life/interests. Have it in mind that a stronger erection wouldn't do much for a man that derives better pleasure in mid-night masturbation, hemp, and porn. His erection, using the recommended remedy, won't be to your advantage but his personal interests (to watch porn and masturbate in the middle of the night) unless you address the bigger issues (addictions, self-centredness, hemp, etc.) 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by Ningen(m): 7:02pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Your husband has not even acknowledge that he has a problem. I mean the fact that he's not even bothered at all signifies that he's not ready to accept necessary changes to his lifestyle. You need to make him see and accept he has a problem. Do whatever you can to make him visit a doctor together before anything. Only then. 3 Likes |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by FinewineNg(f): 7:12pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Oluromantic: For a very long time. As far back as January this year. It's not about issues in his mind. He is feeling he doesn't owe me sexual satisfaction. 1 Like |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by FinewineNg(f): 7:13pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Righteousness89: True 1 Like |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by spiralwedge(m): 7:15pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Na wa o. When i can go for an hour without releasing. Ive been told i have problem too. So which one nahh? 1 Like |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by FinewineNg(f): 7:18pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Acidosis: Thank you for your suggestions. How do I address the bigger issues you mentioned? |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by FinewineNg(f): 7:19pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Ningen: Thank you. It's just like Acidosis said. 1 Like |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by Acidosis(m): 8:02pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
FinewineNg: Have you tried to discuss the bigger issues with him? |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by mariahAngel(f): 9:51pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
FinewineNg: Do you have pending issues between you two that you both haven't addressed? He hasn't always been that way right? I think he's being cold towards you for a reason you didn't state. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by Prof0fficial: 9:57pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
you do deny him most times right....so he opted for d evil act. well...he is not wise but I think you weren't giving him on demand earlier. |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by FinewineNg(f): 11:36pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
mariahAngel: No, no pending issues. |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by FinewineNg(f): 11:37pm On Aug 06, 2020 |
Prof0fficial: You came to that conclusion because? 2 Likes |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by frozen70(f): 4:09am On Aug 07, 2020 |
FinewineNg: Am glad you already have children It Seems he is not bothered about his poor sexual prowess He does alot of masturbation that's why he can't really have a good erection You too, you can't kill yourself, since you don't want to mess up outside your marriage, get on with your own porn and sort yourself out You can't remain the way you are, just watch and get satisfied Even if you report him to his family, they will say you have gotten kids naw, what else do you want They won't understand that your sexual life needs to be attended to especially now that you are done with kids Just porn it |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by frozen70(f): 4:10am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Righteousness89: His ego will not allow him to accept that 1 Like |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by frozen70(f): 4:11am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Ningen: Such men are so stubborn and proud of themselves He won't even accept he has a fault talk more of going to a doctor |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by frozen70(f): 4:12am On Aug 07, 2020 |
FinewineNg: That's just his thoughts |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by Nobody: 4:16am On Aug 07, 2020 |
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Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by tunderoc(m): 5:50am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Has he always been a porn addict or masturbator? Do you think maybe at some point he was depressed or something bothered him so much that he spent a lot of time alone? Finally what has always been your mood to his midnight request for your attention before things got to this stage. Since you still share a bed and you do notice him masturbating I will suggest the next time before he could say Jack get your mouth on the D and tell him it's yours you've been missing it and so need him, suck the living day outta him, get dirty with him why making him realise how much you miss his hard thrusting and strokes. Then don't forget the fruits mention above in the thread. You can add tiger nuts and coconut to it and blend into smoothie for him at night. Come back to thank us o |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by usj(m): 8:14am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Masturbation and porn go hand in hand! One of the side effects of it is premature ejaculation and bonding with virtual naked women instead of the wife. Please: 1. Get him to see a doctor to run some medical test, you just have to be more persuasive since he had previously Said no, let him know it's for his own good as it could be related to cardiovascular disease. 2. Let him do more physical exercise that he loves, and kegel excercis for men too. 3. Is he hypertensive? That too can be a factor. 4. Pressure from you can also affect him sexually. If he is constantly thinking about how to satisfy you or you constantly reminding him about the sex lasting for only 5 seconds, that too can affect him. 5. Is he under stress? If he is then do something about the stressor if you can. 6. Tell him to relax during sex, no need rushing it. Use doggy style or ride him gently yourself, that will reduce sensitive of his penis and make him last a little longer. 7. Communicate with him during sex and let him learn how to use his fingers to excite the clitoris during pre sex, sex is not all about thrusting, let him learn how to suck the breast, the clitories and bite the ears gently. That itself can even make you sing a new song. 1 Like |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by Nobody: 8:17am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Righteousness89:True. He needs to admit that its a problem, he doesn't see it as an issue yet. 2 Likes |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by Amopeekun(f): 9:05am On Aug 07, 2020 |
With all you wrote up there, pls get your own stuff and do the do in his presence now. Buy your s£x stuff and get into your birthday suit or some damn sexy looking lingerie and get down to business right there while he is on his own thing. He is your husband, so no shame. Anytime you feel like getting down and he is not interested, get into the wash room, pamper your body with some nice body oils and get down to business. Let him hear and know. Abeg no let the kids hear or know o. All the best |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by RTSC: 12:33pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
I honestly don't know what to say. Your husband has to admit there is a problem. The ball is in his court. That is what is going on everywhere in Abuja. Sex starved wives on rampage. I would have recommended intimacy gadgets but I know it won't be as satisfying when you have already tasted the real thing. Too bad. May God help you sha. |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by RTSC: 12:43pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Amopeekun:He ejaculates quickly. He does not lack interest in her. He cannot be hard long enough to satisfy her. This is a health/mental issue, not a lack of interest. |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by Amopeekun(f): 12:51pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
He is interested in porn And she is getting frustrated He doesn't see anything wrong in depriving her She can always start from somewhere to relieve herself and pass a message across. He might understand. After all, she said it all started this January RTSC: |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by Nobody: 2:04pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
It depends on your location. Get Aya also called tiger nut( I think the Yoruba people call it imu mu), dry ginger, and Labidun... I don't know the English name of labidun Blend the tiger nut, dry ginger and the labidun to form a juice... Make sure there is a higher quantity of tiger nut in the ingredients compared to the others. Oh yes, make sure the paste is thick. Be giving him to drink and you will see changes Also feed him Groundnut 1hr or 30minutes before the show. Stop feeding him indomie and all these funny food. Feed him solid food like eba or well prepared semo. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by VirginFinder: 2:20pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
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Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by FinewineNg(f): 2:43pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
frozen70: Thank you. Reporting to his family or anyone is completely out of the picture as it will be seen as "shaming my husband". At least with nairaland, I am completely anonymous and I know I can get some help here. Regarding the porn thing, sadly for me, I am not into Masturbation thingy. I don't enjoy it. I like to be worked on by a man. Oyo is my case for now 2 Likes |
Re: Starved Wife! I Am Tired! Please Help With Solution To PE. by FinewineNg(f): 2:50pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
tunderoc: Yes, he has always been a lover of porn. We used to have a healthy sexual life and when such happened in the past, he got drugs himself which he used and they worked. But this time, he just doesn't want to make efforts to find solution. Thanks for the suggestion on the fruits. I will be getting them. No, I don't deny him sex at night or anytime. Another thing is the lack of pre-intimacy. That is what I enjoy most and that is what he says its too much work. 2 Likes |
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